That’s a huge word salat just to say “I’m an incel”
These dames wanting inclusivity
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mustbe3to20signs@feddit.org 2 days ago
voodooattack@lemmy.world 2 days ago
salat
Found the Ger(wo)man.
spacecadet@lemm.ee 2 days ago
Is female derogatory? I thought it was just a more scientific classification.
booly@sh.itjust.works 2 days ago
Using scientific terminology in colloquial speech is weird and creepy in most contexts. Calling kids “juveniles” and women “females” carries certain connotations, most of them bad.
FeatherConstrictor@sh.itjust.works 2 days ago
It’s not inherently derogatory, but it does hold a connotation if you refer to women as females particularly in contexts where you wouldn’t/don’t refer to men as males.
Revan343@lemmy.ca 2 days ago
Using female as a noun (rather than as an adjective, such as in the phrase “female firefighter”, or any phrase of the format “female $noun”) is generally overly clinical and dehumanizing. Some people do it out of habit due to their profession-- usually researchers or soldiers-- but they usually say “males and females”, which while still weird isn’t the worst.
The guys who say “men and females” are the ones you need to watch out for.
lunarul@lemmy.world 1 day ago
I thought it was just a more scientific classification.
Scientifc classification by sex. Referring to others by their biological sex in a social context is weird and creepy. Even if you believe sex and gender are the same thing, it’s still weird to call people by their sex. “Hello, male human. Want to ingest some fried pieces of cow flesh tonight?”
Kalysta@lemm.ee 1 day ago
If you are calling a woman “a female”, and aren’t a cop discussing a victim or a doctor writing a chart, then yes, it’s fucking derogatory.
We’re not Ferengi.
mustbe3to20signs@feddit.org 2 days ago
Acting like the opposite gender is a species on its own and calling all women hoes gave it away for me.
ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 1 day ago
I thought it was just a more scientific classification.
It’s a classification of sex like biological characteristics, like chromosomes, hormones, and reproductive organs. Are you asking about that?
Gender is a social construct. Just like race. Where you can be a Black person who is British. Or a Filipino American.
ShellMonkey@lemmy.socdojo.com 2 days ago
felixwhynot@lemmy.world 2 days ago
Ladies
NutWrench@lemmy.ml 2 days ago
Roopappy@lemmy.world 18 hours ago
I’ve never noticed that a ferengi head kinda looks like he’s wearing a fedora already.
Belgdore@lemm.ee 3 hours ago
They wore them so long they fused into their heads.
glitchdx@lemmy.world 2 days ago
As a man who likes fedoras, this stereotype offends me. Sadly, it’s an accurate description most of th etime.
kadup@lemmy.world 2 days ago
Usually the Redditors wear the fedora without knowing how to pair it correctly with the rest of their outfits, so don’t worry, if you wear a nice attire and a fedora people won’t get you confused with the guy wearing an ahegao t-shirt two sizes too small and jeans shorts.
eestileib@sh.itjust.works 1 day ago
Usually it’s a cheap Trilby anyway.
DillyDaily@lemmy.world 1 day ago
You need to get big into two tone ska, then the fedora is socially acceptable again.
Rooty@lemmy.world 2 days ago
And I can hear it spoken with a lisp that you get when talking with a mouth full of prosthetics. Pfemales
Redredme@lemmy.world 2 days ago
No, they want to be called LA class nuclear powered attack submarine.
We’re in shit posting after all.
Happy Xmas, ya filthy animal!
jewbacca117@lemmy.world 2 days ago
Always liked the strong silent type
Slovene@feddit.nl 2 days ago
You talking about females or farts?
gnutrino@programming.dev 2 days ago
Is that a US specific term? Do British women get called Astute class nuclear attack subs?
anomnom@sh.itjust.works 2 days ago
son_named_bort@lemmy.world 2 days ago
And a happy new year!
somtwo@lemmy.world 1 day ago
“of the feminine species”
Uh, do you want to explain to this guy what a species is, or do I have to?
GhiLA@sh.itjust.works 1 day ago
Well, he didn’t say persuasion, at least…
Liz@midwest.social 2 days ago
roguetrick@lemmy.world 1 day ago
I identify with this unironically as a low conscientiousness male feminist.
UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 1 day ago
LowtierComputer@lemmy.world 20 hours ago
What
UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 17 hours ago
Ladies wasn’t used in the Original Post.
When playing a RPG of some sort, sometimes they give you the ability to reallocate all your talent points in a different way. This is called a Respec, short for Re-specialization.
Respec sounds very similar to Respect.
I appreciate your interest in my comment, hope you have a nice day. Take care.
Katana314@lemmy.world 2 days ago
In most contexts, you’d just say…”people”.
Or, if you’re actually trying to make a demographic-wide statement, like how women aren’t good at video games, you’d just say:
“IGNORE ME, I AN A SEXIST MORON.”
Basically, the meme isn’t much meant for the word choice, it’s how often incels have statements to make on half the population.
seliaste@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 days ago
Im a hoe and I dont have a vagina so it clearly doesn’t even work 😋
ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 1 day ago
I hate that society attached hoe to women like equal rights men can be slutty
seliaste@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 day ago
Don’t get me wrong I’m still a woman, just not one with a vagina :D
And tru men can be slutty too
Akasazh@feddit.nl 1 day ago
Could you see to my garden plx
LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 days ago
You remember how everyone just used to say women 10-20 years ago? I guess that’s woke now. So much for conserving.
fender_symphonic584@lemmy.world 1 day ago
Woman is transphobic.
LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 day ago
Lmao nice try rightoid.
Why yes, famously trans women hate the word women so much they use it on themselves /s
Neon@lemmy.world 23 hours ago
So much cultural imperialism in here.
Once US-Americans decide how they want a word used, they will harrass and cyber-bully everyone into using it the same way / using the same word
Boys, you need to realize that english isn’t “your” language. You don’t get to decide how others speak it.
frayedpickles@lemmy.cafe 1 hour ago
It’s everyone’s language, everyone can bully each other over it. The Brits added u to a bunch of words just to fuck with us…and then misspelled tire. Just last week heard an upper class indian with more British roots give a more Americanized indian man shit for spelling it tire rather than tyre, with zero knowledge of the history.
Neon@lemmy.world 1 hour ago
My brother in christ, you do realize the british spelling is the original, right?
The reason you spell it differently was a conscious decision of your revolutionaries to differentiate themselves from the brits
You used the same spelling before your independence, you know that, right?
And how about “noone can bully” instead of “everyone can bully”?
Just throwing tht in the room here.
I won’t bully you for writing “recognise” just to assert your independence, you let us be us and everyone is happy, is tht a Deal?
joyjoy@lemm.ee 1 day ago
Is this why they always ask how to define “woman”?
ShaggySnacks@lemmy.myserv.one 1 day ago
If someone asks you to a define a women, chances are they never met one in real life.
rivvvver@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 days ago
“people with vaginas” is one option ig. or if they also identify as women, cis women is another option
ivanafterall@lemmy.world 2 days ago
I think “vag havers” is the preferred nomenclature.
hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 day ago
I prefer “pussy owners”, sounds funnier.
thebestaquaman@lemmy.world 2 days ago
When did “people with vaginas” unironically become a way to refer to anyone, especially as an alternative to “female”?
3dogsinatrenchcoat@slrpnk.net 2 days ago
People with vaginas is the right terminology if discussing something that pertains to vaginas. Eg. “People with vaginas should make sure to see a gynecologist regularly.” in this case, saying “women” would exclude/misgender many trans and intersex people who have vaginas but are not women, while also including some women who do not have vaginas and would not need to see a gynecologist
rivvvver@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 days ago
well sometimes u need to refer to ppl who have a vagina, because having a vagina is somehow relevant to the topic of conversation. which in my experience comes up very rarely, so i dont have to use it very often.
some people who have vaginas arent women, and so if the topic includes those ppl, then “people with vaginas” is the perfect phrase to use. and if talking about ppl with vaginas who all identify as women, cis women is more fitting.
“female” is a very vague way of referring to something. some ppl use it to describe gender identity, others use it to talk about ppl with vaginas, others again use it to refer to ppl with estrogen-dominant hormonal systems, etc. etc.
Doomsider@lemmy.world 2 days ago
When the genital sexuals came on the scene. You know the ones who want to check everyone’s genitals to make sure they are what they say they are. The ones who are only attracted to the genitals, they could care less what is attached to them.
For them genitals is life and they have infiltrated our government to pass laws like bathroom bills. This will allow them to examine everyone’s genitals. So far they appear to be winning and everyone’s genitals will soon be seen them.
The Genital Safety Administration (GSA) will need to have a booth in front of our bathrooms there to perform their checks. Another genital sexual licking their lips in anticipation next time you have to drop a deuce.
Walk_blesseD@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 day ago
Casual erasure of post-op trans people is really fascinating to me. Like, how did our culture shift from the first thing people think about trans people being “have you had tHe sURgErY yet???” to “if you have a vagina and are a woman you are cis”?
FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 2 days ago
As a magical talking lion, I always go with, “Daughter of Eve.”
ArtVandelay@lemmy.world 2 days ago
A talking lion and a flying squid? That’s some Lovecraftian horror combo
FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 2 days ago
Flying Squid is just my mom de plume. I’m really a Jesus metaphor in big cat form.
captainlezbian@lemmy.world 2 days ago
It’s Lilith actually
FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 2 days ago
I know someone who ain’t gettin’ into Narnia. Not on Aslan’s watch, lady!
eugenevdebs@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 day ago
Sexism is a helluva drug.
Irelephant@lemm.ee 2 days ago
feminine species
Michal@programming.dev 1 day ago
Dudettes
socsa@piefed.social 2 days ago
Women implies the existence of nimen and tamen
WhatYouNeed@lemmy.world 1 day ago
Mmmmm… ramen
boydster@sh.itjust.works 1 day ago
Ooo help me learn today if you don’t mind… Where does this prefix grouping come from?
feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world 1 day ago
Yeah it doesn’t make much sense logically though. Men here is 们, the plural marker for people. Wo (我) is I or me, women (我们) we or is, ni (你) is you, nimen (你们) is you (plural), ta (他/她/它) is he/she/it, and taken (+们) is they. Some other variants exists, and there’s specifics on the usage.
thatKamGuy@sh.itjust.works 1 day ago
Correct; wo, ni, ta are the singular forms I, you, he/she/it. Adding the -men suffix turns it into the plural we/you/they.
So literally, ‘we’ are ‘women’.
OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 1 day ago
Hmm. Wōmen… Men of Wō… I don’t mean to be racist but their triads freak me out.
M1nds3nd@lemmy.ca 22 hours ago
Whatever happened to “femoid”? I know I read that one somewhere.
Donkter@lemmy.world 17 hours ago
The future is femoid
ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 day ago
Meanwhile: dudes, guys, homies, fellas, bois, bros, lads, laddie, mates, geezers, chaps, gents, boss, hoss, cheif, buddy, pal, son, sonny, sonny boy, muchacho, hombre, old timer, Mac, Joe…
“Yeah what’s up?”
I don’t think we need to cancel Guys and Dolls just yet.
DillyDaily@lemmy.world 1 day ago
I love that half of these are fully gender neutral terms of endearment in Australia 😂
ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 day ago
Honestly a lot of them start out as or still contextually imply “males” in the US, but can be used gender neutrally as well now too. Like “how you guys doing” vs “hanging out with the guys.”
ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 1 day ago
teije9@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 days ago
‘feminine species’ 😭😭😭
hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 day ago
TIL that apparently we’re an entirely different species. Homo sapiens and lesbo sapiens?
theacharnian@lemmy.ca 2 days ago
Yes but he’s not looking for a woke word for “females”, so “women” doesn’t help.
Anivia@feddit.org 2 days ago
Come on, that’s just obvious bait
quixotic120@lemmy.world 2 days ago
clearly ingenue is the correct choice
or for a potential fun comment thread: is dude gendered? I grew up in a place where a lot of people called everyone dude regardless of gender. That said, when I’ve brought this up, some people get real heated about it.
OceanSoap@lemmy.ml 1 day ago
Trans women want to be referred to as just women, and biological women don’t want to be referred to as Cis women, so other than female, what is there?
I agree that I get the ick from female when referred to by certain men, but at this point, I don’t see another option.
Allero@lemmy.today 2 days ago
If you call people with vaginas women, you now cross the line for trans folks.
No matter how you phrase it, there will always be someone you will offend. In the case of the word “female” this is driven purely by some folks finding ways to use it offensively, despite it being just as neutral as “women”
Don’t assume malicious intent every time someone uses the word “female” - most likely, they have never put any negative connotations to it and possibly never even heard of this word being used in a negative context.
buffalobuffalo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 days ago
Here I go once again with the email
Every week I hope that it’s from a femaleOh :( Not from a female
ryedaft@sh.itjust.works 2 days ago
Female humans
Zagorath@aussie.zone 2 days ago
MisterFrog@lemmy.world 1 day ago
Does this mean two females are able to produce sexually viable offspring?
hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 day ago
Idk what they’re called, but IIRC that there are some all-female lizards that can reproduce either by parthenogenesis or lesbianism.
Zagorath@aussie.zone 1 day ago
Well…