captainlezbian
@captainlezbian@lemmy.world
- Comment on "But she's actually 1000 years old, only looks 9" 2 hours ago:
I think it’s actually more complicated. Things like sexual orientation, absolutely, some parts of desire are clearly hardwired in. But also there’s plenty that’s able to be induced or changed for any number of reasons.
My primary example is that when I was younger I found tattoos to be a hard turn off, piercings too. Anti tattoo sentiments were part of my family’s form of classism, but over the years I got more positive experiences with people who have them and wound up sleeping with people despite them and eventually through exposure and changing of biases got to the point that I now rarely find one to take away from someone’s beauty and often find them to add to it.
In general it’s rude as hell to assume some aspect of someone else’s tastes can (or should) change, we can’t know them particularly well. But we can challenge our own biases and be open to changes in our tastes coming from those challenges.
Now, as for pedophilia, it’s worth trying to change it if possible, and regardless building safety systems to ensure that it’s difficult for these people to offend. But also, I do suspect that the rise of the rich and powerful engaging in pedophilia is something that at least some of them are inducing. They begin by fetishizing youth as a display of power and creep towards the hard line our culture places at 18, and eventually they cross it. I simply cannot believe, until given evidence to the contrary, that such a large portion of the rich and powerful engaging in sexual abuse of minors is unrelated to the fetishization of youth, the trend of the rich and powerful chasing young adults, and the fact that they can get away with anything they want.
- Comment on Warning for students 21 hours ago:
I’ve met the sort of people who’d try with a vulva. But they probably wouldn’t be the first to do this
- Comment on When lemmy is down and you can't shitpost 23 hours ago:
I really need to find a similar enough server to put an alt on
- Comment on Over half of workers regularly skip lunch on the job due to high food costs, increasing job pressure 1 day ago:
I have a more varied diet, but I do a 500ish kcal lunch so a sandwich and piece of fruit is a generally pretty healthy option. It’s carb, fat, and some protein with a reasonable amount of fiber. Then there are vitamins from the fruit.
For dinner I do varied options, typically higher protein, and generally target about 1000 kcal. Considering I’m in good shape and my annual bloodwork shows no issues I’m going to assume I’m handling my nutrition fine.
- Comment on the chance to do it all over again 1 day ago:
Get really confused because I’ve never been then before
- Comment on Over half of workers regularly skip lunch on the job due to high food costs, increasing job pressure 1 day ago:
I make a peanut butter sandwich with a piece of fruit. It takes under 10 minutes and is pretty healthy since I use unsweetened peanut butter and whole wheat bread. The fruit is the most expensive part.
- Comment on Over half of workers regularly skip lunch on the job due to high food costs, increasing job pressure 1 day ago:
Fair, but at the same time I can have a peanut butter sandwich and an apple for about a dollar (most of which is the apple). It takes less than 10 minutes to prep the night before, and serves to keep me energized and full until dinner.
- Comment on Anon joins girl's night 1 day ago:
Yeah female is just the adjective form of woman. It’s normal to use as an adjective, cringe as a noun
- Comment on Anon joins girl's night 1 day ago:
That’s true, my all girl friend group has a tendency to do that. And of course by lezzing out I mean snuggle up with our wives.
- Comment on Anon joins girl's night 1 day ago:
Someone who hasn’t realized they’re trans yet
- Comment on Vapes Are So Bad For You 2 days ago:
Nope, gas
- Comment on Why? 2 days ago:
Can’t burn or recycle it without releasing chlorine
- Comment on 🤔🤔🤔 2 days ago:
Yeah, but it’s a gender segregated league
- Comment on Why is Nadal Hassan's execution being livestreamed? What makes him so special? Why not other people's execution's live streamed? What Jared Loughner? Or Bryan Kohbeger? 5 days ago:
Fascists want public executions to make the population more comfortable with state initiated violence. Iirc it’s part of project 2025
- Comment on Fr*nce 5 days ago:
Bare minimum facts we know: 1) Bill Clinton definitely had sexual relations with a white house intern while he was president 2) Bill Clinton had some relationship with notorious pedophile and sex trafficker Jeffrey Epstien resulting in multiple pictures taken of them together
What we assume from these facts is up to us. I’m not certain he’s a pedo, but I am certain I don’t trust his judgment, especially in sexual matters.
- Comment on Fr*nce 5 days ago:
“My bully fucked my mom, married her, then became president, fml”
- Comment on What is your interesting fact or knowledge that is completely useless that you wish to share? 1 week ago:
Brb drugging my family with anti nausea medicine
- Comment on Destroying the myth that parents and their kids can't agree on anything. 1 week ago:
The society everyone told us about continues collapsing and the hope we had for it to stop continues getting more elusive
- Comment on love to see it 1 week ago:
Yeah stuff like that, stocking stuffers, and trying something new are the main legitimate uses. Also if you’re craving a cocktail you know you probably won’t want much of it can be a good way to have a small amount of the ingredient.
I use the mini wine bottles for cooking on days I don’t want more than a glass of wine with dinner (particularly for red wine which my wife doesn’t drink)
- Comment on This makes so much more sense 1 week ago:
“That’s where the sun rises, that’s where it sets, and this sea is the middle of the earth”
- Comment on This makes so much more sense 1 week ago:
Thus reaulting in Eurasia being the setting and rising land, which is fitting because the sun certainly does do both things there from what I hear (I’ve only been to North America according to the tectonicists in this thread)
- Comment on This makes so much more sense 1 week ago:
Not really, and even if it did it wouldn’t separate europe from asia, but it would put Japan and part of Siberia in North America, cut Africa in two, cut India and Arabia out of Asia, and trim off bits of both Americas in California, Central America, Chile, and Venezuela.
- Comment on This makes so much more sense 1 week ago:
I’m happy to include Japan in North America. Sad to lose parts of California, but it feels fair, especially since we get to keep cuba.
Also this is leaving me wondering about arctic earthquakes…
- Comment on [deleted] 1 week ago:
Also like, not my business, not my problem
- Comment on Nailed it 1 week ago:
Many of us do, many don’t
- Comment on Those rare times when another person just thrills you 1 week ago:
Always Robertson. Seriously, I started using them because my job bought something from Canada and I had to mess with it and it was love at first screw. Flathead sucks in every way. Philips cams out too easily and isn’t held on by the bit. And vodka and orange juice are both C tier cocktail ingredients at best.
Give me Robertson and a bourbon or scotch
- Comment on Tiddies are nice but the metric system is better 1 week ago:
Frau Schmidt sprechen sie metrisch mit mir. Ich bin eine schmutzig Amerikanerin
- Comment on Tiddies are nice but the metric system is better 1 week ago:
Wait, no, please convince my countryfolk to metricate. I’m an engineer and desperately want to be able to design things in metric. It’s so much better but the average American doesn’t know a meter from a hole in their ass
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- Comment on Posting Pictures of Soapy, Just Like You Asked For Boss 1 week ago:
Show us his tits!
