Damn I remember this post from when I was on 4chan still. OP did provide links and his story was 100% true. The girl wasn’t ugly, just kinda plain but almost every pic of her somehow exuded despair, and that was honestly offputting (except for the kind of creeps who get off on that I reckon).
Anon investigates a random goth girl
Submitted 4 days ago by Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works to greentext@sh.itjust.works
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Kyrgizion@lemmy.world 3 days ago
TheBat@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Where are those pics? Where?
asqapro@reddthat.com 3 days ago
Apparently the woman from the greentext was known as “plastixfangs” online. She deleted a significant amount of her content, but random porn sites still have some of her posts. For example, pornpics.click/@plastixfangs (NSFW)
DudeDudenson@lemmings.world 4 days ago
Sounds like anon could had made her day by just talking to her
Gullible@sh.itjust.works 4 days ago
Frankly, I’m glad she was spared the trouble. I can’t imagine they’d be able to offer words of encouragement without seeming intensely parasocial. A generic “you’re hot” wouldn’t have amounted to much. It doesn’t seem like there’s a correct answer, besides finding her irl, flashing her unlocked onlyfans, and begging for her socks
Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 4 days ago
Your post ended in a way I was not expecting.
taiyang@lemmy.world 4 days ago
I think this is the Hallmark original romcom I need in my life.
Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works 4 days ago
Great advice right here
ShaggySnacks@lemmy.myserv.one 2 days ago
A generic “you’re hot” wouldn’t have amounted to much.
I was reading the debate at Lemmy NSFW about downvotes. There was a comment made by one of the content creators about lack of meaningful comments were kind of demoralizing. I try to give genuine compliments cause it’s not easy putting nude photos of yourself to the internet. The internet can be brutal place out there.
Meaning upvotes and bland comments are nice however they don’t replace genuine human interactions that we all seek.
AdolfSchmitler@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Maybe it’s for the best he didnt…
AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 4 days ago
There are a lot of people whod appreciate her features so its surprising she didnt get any attention. Maybe anon made up the story and is actually into men?
cyrano@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 days ago
arin@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Nope anon is the girl trying to get your attention
stebo02@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 days ago
Someone else in the comments said they were there and it’s actually real. Likely still into men though
FauxLiving@lemmy.world 3 days ago
fake and into men
Mac@mander.xyz 4 days ago
Anon experiences empathy for once in their miserable life.
One of the few legit greentexts. lol1SimpleTailor@startrek.website 3 days ago
Lil tiddy supermarket goth girl sounds cute tbh, or maybe I just have a type.
Anyway, girls like this can be a real gem to find if you’re a gooner. Their small fan base means if you’re not a creep there’s a chance of genuine interactionm She’ll probably take request and if she likes you might even send you free content.
exasperation@lemm.ee 3 days ago
if you’re a gooner
if you’re not a creep
Good luck with that Venn diagram.
1SimpleTailor@startrek.website 3 days ago
Hence all the ifs. But hey, the competition isn’t fierce! Put the slightest effort into being self-aware, respectful, and charming and you can easily get her attention.
jabathekek@sopuli.xyz 1 day ago
Would two circles on top of each other, but offset by 2 micrometers still count as a Venn diagram?
MachineFab812@discuss.tchncs.de 3 days ago
There’s a whole … sliver of us!
Kolanaki@pawb.social 3 days ago
I know that girl’s pain. I, too, want to be a massive whore but nobody wants me. 😔
death_to_carrots@feddit.org 3 days ago
Don’t be the whore the world wants, but the world deserves.
sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 3 days ago
You can be my whore.
2ugly2live@lemmy.world 3 days ago
I know it’s probably fake, but I low key think this is the experience of most women, online or not. Men like to think women can just ring a bell and get dick and companionship, judging off of, like, the cream of the crop of women and their (apparent) track record. It’s not always that easy, especially if you aren’t attractive. A lot of men don’t fuck for personality.
~~Obligatory not all men, yes there are shallow women, and yes it is also hard for men to find partners, and yes they have their own struggles and pressures that make their struggle unique to them. ~~
Ilovethebomb@lemm.ee 3 days ago
I mean, they probably could, but what’s available to them isn’t exactly the cream of the crop either.
Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 days ago
I imagine it’s similar to the gay male experience - I could get a hookup any time of day easily, but the guys aren’t relationship material.
2ugly2live@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Two sides of the fence reaching for the same cream. 😔
shortrounddev@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Some girls aren’t in it for the money or fame, they just like posting nudes
ChexMax@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Right, but aren’t those girls in it for the attention? The thrill? Sounds like she’s not getting any attention, either.
Comment105@lemm.ee 3 days ago
There’s a difference between none and some.
She gets some attention, not much, but some.
We call it nothing at all, even if it’s not nothing. It’s obvious why we do it, it’s the absence of respect. But we are technically wrong.
rumba@lemmy.zip 3 days ago
And it wasn’t the grinches heart that grew three sizes that day…
zaphod@sopuli.xyz 3 days ago
Those girls don’t have onlyfans.
shortrounddev@lemmy.world 3 days ago
You’re saying that the only girls who have onlyfans are those who don’t truly have the stomach for it? In reality, there’s a lot of overlap between fetish communities and OF
RBWells@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Yeah my husband seems to think onlyfans is easy money, like I could just post a nude and money would come rolling in magically, talks about how much big earners are making on YouTube too, but hustling like that is so much harder than having a job, you have to be organized and ambitious and then for every one person making thousands, there are many thousands of people making pennies.
It’s so much easier to just have a job.
captainlezbian@lemmy.world 2 days ago
I’ve dated pic sellers, and yeah you’ve summed it up. Sex work is work, and it’s mostly a sales job
sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 3 days ago
And more lucrative on average.
cryptiod137@lemmy.world 2 days ago
IIRC the average creator on OF makes less than a dollar a month
Evil_Shrubbery@lemm.ee 3 days ago
Imagine feeling the selling of ones dignity is selling ones pics.
Ilovethebomb@lemm.ee 3 days ago
Someone linked what they think was the person in a comment, at best they went to a lot of effort for very little in return.
GaMEChld@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Know your worth and know where you are valued.
This can sound really deep, but it works for shallow too. I’m sorry girl, but the whore market is saturated and very competitive.
rickyrigatoni@lemm.ee 3 days ago
Yeah, she really should wait until OP’s mom retires.
sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 3 days ago
That might be a while.
PyroNeurosis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 days ago
Where do I get my hands on the “aimless schlub” bluebook?
shalafi@lemmy.world 4 days ago
plain, no curves, small tits, goth
Can a brother get a link?w
Gullible@sh.itjust.works 4 days ago
Clearwater@lemmy.world 4 days ago
I don’t know you but I fucking love you.
0ops@lemm.ee 4 days ago
I don’t know you but I fucking hate you
GeneralDingus@lemmy.cafe 4 days ago
I don’t know you…
starchylemming@lemmy.world 3 days ago
that one has quite the substantial fanbase of this sort so this is far from applicable
sigmaklimgrindset@sopuli.xyz 3 days ago
Twink, my beloved 🥰🥰
cyrano@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 days ago
lord_ryvan@ttrpg.network 3 days ago
You really needed a URL shortener, didn’t you, you devil?
RogueBanana@lemmy.zip 2 days ago
sit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 days ago
Sure!
Honytawk@lemmy.zip 3 days ago
The funny thing is that if this greentext linked this girl OnlyFans, she would gain tons of views just out of pity.
Some of these would even stick around afterwards.
jabathekek@sopuli.xyz 1 day ago
Nah, the post would be removed and OP would get a temp ban (or whoever posted the link).
selokichtli@lemmy.ml 3 days ago
This is a topic for a community like laststagecapitalism or similar.
MachineFab812@discuss.tchncs.de 3 days ago
Not without a sob-story from the girl. Doubt she did it for the money. Someone with the time and commitment to doing this(if not energy or enthusiam) she demonstrated would make better money doing just about anything else.
selokichtli@lemmy.ml 2 days ago
Or she was doing drugs, therefore the enthusiasm. Energy fades. Now she is homeless. Or dead.
morrowind@lemmy.ml 4 days ago
I see this quite often on the other side of reddit. It’s quite sad. On that side of reddit, where no one shows their face, except occasionals who either leave generic *sexy 😍 * comments or entitled requests, no one acknowledges you for trying.
Every time I see some woman praising sex work and/or calling it feminist, I am reminded of the 10 other girls who removedd away their dignity for absolutely nothing
Genius@lemmy.zip 3 days ago
Sex work isn’t often feminist, but sex workers still deserve respect. They deserve to be included in the feminist movement.
frezik@midwest.social 3 days ago
And we can start by no longer implying that the work is somehow undignified. This applies to OP as well as GP.
Sex workers shouldn’t have to wait for the revolution to find respect. Maybe there wouldn’t be sex workers after the revolution, but I certainly hope it results in a society where people are freer to express their sexuality in safe and consensual ways.
MataVatnik@lemmy.world 3 days ago
who_red away their dignity
🚩🚩🚩🚩
Surprised that comment has this many upvotes
Takios@discuss.tchncs.de 3 days ago
it’s a common criticism on reddit that the nsfw subs are just becomijg advertsfor OF so I’m not surprised they dont get much interaction
Ilovethebomb@lemm.ee 3 days ago
Becoming? It’s been that way for a very long time.
dick_fineman@discuss.online 3 days ago
…this kind of hurt my heart.
technocrit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 days ago
Misogyny is ok on Lemmy. Racism usually too as long as it’s coded.
match@pawb.social 3 days ago
the incel mind cannot fathom a woman doing a thing for her own enjoyment
TheCitCatPhone@lemmynsfw.com 4 days ago
That sounds like my type, have you got a link you can dm me?
Hiyo@sh.itjust.works 3 days ago
Ah, another classic case of the wild goonette lost in cyberspace which has yet to be found. In due time.
TankovayaDiviziya@lemmy.world 3 days ago
It is a rule of thumb in businesses that 80% fail within 5 years. It is the same with anything who are looking for fame and success; only 20% succeed. And even within those 20%, only like 10% are considered in the A-list.
Anyhow, I am curious why this girl felt the need to expose herself. Is it for money? Does she feel insecure and needs validation? Or both?
turkalino@lemmy.yachts 4 days ago
This happened to a girl I knew that tried to make some money on onlyfans during Covid lockdown. Only lasted 4 months, even though she was pretty attractive. I think guys just assume that as a girl, you can simply post nudes online and make money, while it actually does require consistent effort, marketing skills, and a bit of luck.
morrowind@lemmy.ml 4 days ago
on onlyfans, like most platforms, the vast majority of people make little to nothing
MataVatnik@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Managed my friends only fans for a bit, we got her account to top 4.5%. She brought in ~$1.5K on a good month. One time we got up to $2K. This is with her having done porn with a few big studios and having a decent amount of followers on Twitter. Had to keep a consistent production schedule, deal with inquires from patrons. Successfully running and only fans is like running a business, people don’t simply give you money.
Lemmynated@lemmy.zip 4 days ago
I imagine it’s as easy to make money off of as YouTube or Twtich, almost impossible.
frezik@midwest.social 3 days ago
There’s a bit on the Netflix Pornhub documentary from a camgirl. She notes that she does her own marketing, lighting, camera work, etc., and every once in a while, she masturbates on camera. It’s a real job with real effort.
ShaggySnacks@lemmy.myserv.one 3 days ago
It’s like sex work is work.
Blackmist@feddit.uk 3 days ago
Yeah, you can see this for yourself if you have a VR headset and a couple of sites have VR cams set up.
Mostly they forget they exist (although I’m grateful for the ones that don’t), so you get a kind of behind the scenes look at it all.
The one thing that strikes me is their demeanour the instant they’re off the main cam. These girls are so fucking done with everything and everyone, and it’s not surprising most of them quit after a month or two. Most of them are probably getting a fraction of the money tipped, with a good chunk going to the handlers (a lot of pretend typing going on, and they get directed by the person at the keyboard) and room rent (much of it seems to be in the same handful of buildings somewhere in St Petersburg). Many of them are on multiple sites at once, with phone apps on the go as well.
It’s a real business.
RowRowRowYourBot@sh.itjust.works 3 days ago
I know so many people trying to make it as streamers who cannot seem to understand that you have to do a lot of work to make anything catch on unless you are crazy lucky/extremely attractive. A regular person playing a game isn’t interesting for others and it takes energy for most to cultivate a following.
Blackmist@feddit.uk 3 days ago
My cousin dropped out of university after a few months, and wanted to be a pro gaming streamer instead.
Oddly enough he never did achieve that, and now mostly sits around his parent’s house doing quite a lot of being depressed.