why is it never the 'close friend' who gets shit on?

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• yermaw@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

  Ive been on the wrong end of this a few times. A woman comes chatting to me in the pub, and then the boyfriend turns up and starts trying to fight me.

  Mate, I dont even know her name let alone her relationship status. Your problem is not with me.

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• FreddiesLantern@leminal.space ⁨10⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

  Omg, that dog is gonna get overweight from all the chimkem nuggers. Goodest boi.

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• Starik@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  That’s a cool story, and a well done tattoo, but… We all know that dog really has no clue what that lady did wrong. He’s just a bitey boy.

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  • Demdaru@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

    Waitwaitwait…

    Doggo has a sensitive nose. We know he had to notice a strong smell of another male and scent of sex on the ex.

    Now, there is a really, really small, almost nonexistant chance that the doggo connected the dots and assumed she betrayed the pack.

    And sure, chance is really low…but I also don’t see a lot of claims to similiar story and if something has extremely chance of happening, it still may happen. xD

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• GhostFace@lemmy.today ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Why not just get a tattoo off the dog then?

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• DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I expect the “close friend” is no longer close, but the person who broke the promise, to whatever degree the promise was there, is the one who should get the most shit.

  I say this as someone whose wife cheated on me. She broke her vows, she chose to cheat instead of just leaving me, he was incidental and could have been anyone. I can hardly blame him, my wife was hot af, and she lied to him, of course.

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  • manuremy@sopuli.xyz ⁨8⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

    Yeah, if someone is willing to cheat, they will cheat with just anyone. And all the best to you!

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  • wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    I have two friends who first met because one was this girl’s “platonic cuddle buddy” and the other was her fuckbuddy. Neither knew she was effectively getting half the relationship from the other and they both wanted a “full” relationship with her until they both showed up at an event she was at and it came out. When they found out they both “dumped” her and became friends.

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  • Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    hug

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• kayzeekayzee@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Hi, dog speaker here, that dog is actually pretty upset. Dog’s won’t show their teeth or really the whites of their eyes like this unless they’re uncomfortable.

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  • JoeBigelow@lemmy.ca ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Idk man, it’s a dobie. They are strange creatures when they are happy and content. I love them but a mal mix is enough for me

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  • kamenlady@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Hi, dog speaker here

    What’s up dog?

    No, but seriously - this pic is very strange. Why does the dog look like it just escaped a zombi apocalypse?

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• TheJesusaurus@piefed.ca ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  This reads to me as shitting equally on both of them.

  For what’s it’s worth, the close friend would be dead to me whereas the ex is just an ex?

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  • saltesc@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    They’re a tattoo now.

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• Rooskie91@discuss.online ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I mean. Why would you want to have people ask you about this and remember it for the rest of your life?

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  • Demdaru@lemmy.world ⁨18⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

    If they spent a lot of life together, it may not be an option to just forget. Move on, yes, but not forget. Having a tatoo imprinting 24/7 the one funny part of the story may force your brain to let go faster.

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• RedMari@reddthat.com ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Because it’s always the woman who is blamed either way

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  • FrostyTheDoo@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    What?

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    • RedMari@reddthat.com ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Weather the woman is the one cheating or the one someone is cheating with, many people blame her.

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• man_wtfhappenedtoyou@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I see your question and raise you one bros before hoes

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  • arctanthrope@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    I suppose that makes sense if your interpretation of “bros before hoes” is simply “men are to be preferred above women in any circumstance.” but if you consider that “bros before hoes” is actually supposed to mean “loyalty to your friends is more important than the arbitrary pursuit of fleeting sexual pleasure,” that’s actually a condemnation of the friend for doing the exact opposite as efficiently as possible

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    • man_wtfhappenedtoyou@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Yeah I was just making a really low effort joke on a shit post. I don’t support taking your bros hoes.

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• Asidonhopo@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  That close friend did him a favor exposing she was going to cheat anyway. Close friend should be there grinning with the dog

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• PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  What do you mean, never? This is like the most common thing ever, both as a movie trope and in real life. Guy A sleeps with girlfriend of Guy B, and instead of getting mad at his girlfriend who broke her agreement with him, Guy B goes and beats up Guy A. Now I understand also being angry at the friend, but it should be secondary to being angry at the girlfriend. Anything else is sexist and views the woman as an object IMO

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• FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  If you want to see what happened to close friend, you’ll have to check the tattoo on that guys balls.

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