Demdaru
@Demdaru@lemmy.world
- Comment on why do people say annoying/rude stuff and then tell you “it was a joke!” 4 days ago:
“It’s just a joke” is perfectly valid, dammit. Once. After that, do not repeat it - you already know the person you aim it at doesn’t enjoy it.
- Comment on brain blowing orgasms 1 week ago:
To my understanding:
nope, then you’d see some of same species showing the behaviour, others not.
Nope, then you’d see some animals of the same species showing the new behaviour while other animals, still of the same species, would not.
Also my comment: We absoluteky see this, just on small scale tho. :|
- Comment on We're in the endgame now 1 week ago:
Wait. Isn’t there military side of court that does literary this? And what’s more, it has access to heavier penalties because military can be more heinous?
- Comment on Lost in translation 1 week ago:
Me, not a deaf person Receives voixmce message never bothers playing it
- Comment on [deleted] 2 weeks ago:
…ya all talk about this from boy side, now think about girl side. Feeling it floppin all over inside.
- Comment on Select a tip 2 weeks ago:
Most people won’t quit, especially in the US from what I know. If they are already underpaid, how can they quit? And if pretty much every place treats waiters the same, what choice do they have?
- Comment on How did a simple phone call become so problematic? 3 weeks ago:
What nuance. Thanks to the time I can spend writing a message, I can commit to adding the details in readable format, and this data stays for reference. Whether it’s instruction, some info or a question.
During call, I am scrambling to answer ASAP - like a lot of folk I know, and seemingly a lot of commenters here - so you get partial, jumbled up answer.
Calls are okay when asking about preference - something you can answer from the get go - if you want some information, use message.
- Comment on How did a simple phone call become so problematic? 3 weeks ago:
In what way are they difficult to write?
And saying that is going to piss off a lot of folk. Nope. Best I can do is ignore the call and then send a message “can’t now, will recall”.
- Comment on Would you like to finance your hot chocolate with a loan set at 69% apr? 3 weeks ago:
Ah ah ah! It’s another credit card. People with no self controle love that.
- Comment on Looks like Dragon Age: The Veilguard just received its final major update 3 weeks ago:
I love how you all are so flabbergasted by how simply okay the game was that each and every time someone asks how it is, everyone fumbles for words and cannot express it in any other way than solid, stable mediocre experience. Like lol. So I guess it’s good game, just not a good Dragon Age xD
- Comment on Guess I'll starve 4 weeks ago:
I am in for similiar stuff everywhere I can…but if restaurant tries to make itself “QR-only”, I’m leaving. I don’t care. I go to eat out for experience. So by removing this experience, you remove me.
I’d appreciate QR and online orders being an option, but do not force it.
- Comment on When you think you've got it bad 4 weeks ago:
First of all, hear me out. Second of all…this meme is kindish truish. I am not speaking about trans/gay folk now tho, because gues what, back then constantly bullied people ended similiarily to today. But we do have a problem of acting like a victim being somewhat default today. People have neither security nor confidence and thus we end with…this. We glorify weakness and this sucks.
- Comment on *Removed by Moderator* 5 weeks ago:
Seen old forums.
They are fine, did you notice the activity spike? Sure, some of it is in wrong categories…most of it is…and maybe they don’t even post things related to forums…well, mostly naked titties…but so much activity!
- Comment on What's making it into the good parts, my fellow philosoraptors? 5 weeks ago:
…random thought chain:
What if Jesus simply was on spectrum and he hyoerfixated on the scriptures but then got pressured by family who saw as a “gifted” child into the whole belief he’s a god?
- Comment on Skyrim teaches a Lemmy user about fascist propaganda 1 month ago:
Skyrim civil war in nutshell:
One side - ambitious and zealous racist who got fedup when species that have ages old beef with his people fucked Imperium, and then spat in the face of nords.
Other side - A scorned mother that got pissed old traditions resulted in the death of her child and became petty incarnate deciding that these traditions are yucky only after they fired against her.
Still on Ulfric’s side ideals wise, but the racism pisses me off x_x
- Comment on 2025, still no flying cars! 1 month ago:
What’s depth weeeeeeeee
- Comment on May be atomic habit forming 1 month ago:
I am gonna be honest. Atomic Habits and the like helped me immensely recover my life outside the work. I don’t have lotsa energy, and I have no motivation whatsoever. It was always like that. But these shitass books, well, more excerpts from them actually helped me to get back some of my life. After that, I managed to start working on my mental health.
What I am going for is - don’t bash something only because it’s being sold. :( These are just tools.
- Comment on Video Games Can’t Afford to Look This Good 1 month ago:
I may be outsider but lower graphic level horror games actually work more for me, because imagination fills the gaps better than engine rendering plastic looking tentacles can
- Comment on Don't forget Big 3 1 month ago:
There are electronic keys. NFC and the like. Better yet, if you have a smart watch it can act like a key.
- Comment on Anon eats lunch alone 2 months ago:
I do not know whether that guy sits alone because he likes it that way…or maybe we won’t have anything to talk about and it’ll be awkward…? No use in risking it…
I am working on my mental health but this and much more was absolutely normal thought process I had before. I still have some leftovers. Yuck.
- Comment on Is it possible to have a "free speech" platform that simultaneously stops "hate speech"? 2 months ago:
I mean, yeah. But also not everyone.
It worked well for so long because it is a good solution. Allow users to block and let everything fly as long as it’s not a personal attack. The community will relatively quickly sort itself out.
Sadly, today there are exception to block button working >:(
- Comment on Is it possible to have a "free speech" platform that simultaneously stops "hate speech"? 2 months ago:
Yes you effing can. It’s called block button.
- Comment on Pro tip: it's much easier to lose 100k than it is to earn it 2 months ago:
Or, ya kno, to another AI center.
Most prolly another AI center.
I orefer the goofy ball.
- Comment on Oh no 3 months ago:
Jump forward like you would like to do the jump to roll thingie. Now, he didn’t outreach his hands, so that means that just after photo was taken, dude perfectly bodyslammed the camera xD
- Comment on There are Minimum Wages, Why Not a Maximum Wage? 3 months ago:
Welcome to yet another world war I guess?
- Comment on Anon reads a book for school 3 months ago:
I remember my teacher being upset about “official” interpretation. She called it out as over the top IIRC and then still taught it to us, because it was required on exams.
- Comment on Fruit Flies 4 months ago:
Better yet, they aren’t actually penguins - they were just called that because they resembled real penguins.
Which are literally dead today, because they dared live close to humans.
- Comment on Bandai Namco reportedly tries to bore staff into quitting, skirting Japan’s labor laws 4 months ago:
And company has cameras. Where I live, most monitor workers 24/7. So they would that especially while trying to get rid of you.
Of course, they say it’s for security and that’s what you sign for, so they can’t simply grab screen of you on phone and throw you out…however, suddenly management gets super instinct.
- Comment on Seattle is like "come to downtown please" 4 months ago:
Isn’t 60% of USA riding SUVs? Physics point kinda moot.
- Comment on Anon watches a movie with a girl 4 months ago:
…yeaaaah… that’s worse than original. “Nah, sorry, got brainlocked cuz damn you’re beautiful”.
Make it informal, silly and goof off of your own reaction to remove the awkward and embrace the “you’ll make fun of me for this later”.