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- Comment on God speed brother 1 day ago:
I set myself to invisible at all times. My friends can message me if they want to do shit but they don’t need to know my status at all times. Too many motherfuckers messaging me the instant I appear online.
- Comment on When Windows users find the Threadiverse 1 day ago:
Yeah it’s always shit like that. Or “just do this thing you already said didn’t work, but I didn’t read”
- Comment on When Windows users find the Threadiverse 1 day ago:
When I complain about Linux it’s in the hopes that some nerd will come along and provide actual solutions to the problems I’m having with it in an effort to prove me wrong. Unfortunately mostly I just get the “That’s normal you just have to deal with it” kind of answers.
- Comment on Rough date 1 day ago:
Thanks for the visual aid.
- Comment on most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman 3 days ago:
Is that how you became the wizard pope?
- Comment on most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman 3 days ago:
Eh, I’ve made it clear to everyone I’ve been with that I don’t expect them to match me or hold it against them when they don’t. If they still can’t handle it at that point it’s kind of on them.
- Comment on most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman 3 days ago:
Yes? Shit is infinity grosser than piss. I want nothing to do with it near my face.
- Comment on most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman 3 days ago:
I can’t really speak to how I’d feel about it because I’ve only been with someone who matched me once but that was pretty awesome while it lasted. She had a lot of mental issues that made the relationship unsustainable though.
The rest have seemed to mostly feel like sex was all I was concerned with because I wanted it all the time, even though that wasn’t true, I was willing and helped plan to do other things, it was just sex that I wanted to do most and I tried to explain that I knew I wasn’t entitled to anything and I was fine with them saying no when they weren’t in the mood but it always seemed to be a source of friction where we’d get in a loop where they were shooting me down all the time and getting pissed at me for even trying, so I’d hold back from trying to initiate things so often, still get rejected when I did, so back off more, and so on until it was weeks/months between doing anything, and at that point it does become frustrating because it’s impossible for me to get into a headspace where I can understand not wanting to have sex or why you would want to be romantically involved with someone you’re not physically attracted to. Trying to get answers from them as to if there was anything to be done to improve the situation never went anywhere because they didn’t see it as a problem.
I’m happy for you that you found someone that matches you well.
- Comment on most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman 3 days ago:
You sound like an ex of mine.
- Comment on most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman 3 days ago:
I do probably have ADHD but I don’t really mind the hypersexuality. At least it’s a want I can somewhat satisfy myself vs. something like wanting to own a house or have a rewarding career that actually pays me enough to live comfortably.
- Comment on most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman 4 days ago:
I’ve been called perverted just for having a high sex drive and thinking about fucking all the time. I don’t think I’m particularly perverted. I just want to do the basic stuff A LOT. All the people I think of as perverted are into the freaky/gross stuff.
- Comment on most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman 4 days ago:
I’m going to want to kiss the person I’m fucking and if their mouth has been on an asshole I’m not going to do that. Sorry, it grosses me out and it isn’t as good as using it on my dick anyway.
- Comment on How tf do people who work 8-5 M-F get any life done? 1 week ago:
I run errands on the way home from work. Dr. Appts on weekends though I don’t go much. That’s just me though, having kids shit added in to my life sounds awful.
- Comment on What happened to us Pirates? We used to sail the web and never even thought about reprecussions just sharing. Now it seems like it costs to be a pirate like a VPN and such. WTH happened? 1 week ago:
People started getting consequences from their ISPs so they have to take measures to avoid that and those are not free. You’re welcome to still torrent without a VPN or seek out direct download sources but good luck with that.
- Comment on Hmm.. 1 week ago:
I had to do this in kindergarten. I chose to combine a frog and a duck and then loudly proclaimed what I would be calling my creation to the rest of the class. And that’s the story of how I learned that fuck was a bad word.
- Comment on Pride month 1 week ago:
The vast majority of people do not want to have sex with the vast majority of other people and most places prohibit fucking in them.
- Comment on Pride month 1 week ago:
Sex you can have with everyone and get it everywhere.
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- Comment on Feather coat! 2 weeks ago:
Hypothetically, how many penguins would one have to sneak out of the zoo in order to fashion themselves a penguin coat?
- Comment on why is it never the 'close friend' who gets shit on? 2 weeks ago:
Yeah, this is just my own opinion I don’t expect everyone to agree. Everyone approaches relationships in their own way. Also want to say that just because I feel this way about it doesn’t mean I would ever be the friend being cheated with. Cheaters disgust me so I’d be on the phone immediately telling them about how they propositioned me. So maybe that makes me some kind of hypocrite.
- Comment on Guerrilla plantfare 2 weeks ago:
There’s probably some grossly underfunded and under staffed auditing organization that has no teeth but makes everyone who’s not really paying attention feel better.
- Comment on Guerrilla plantfare 2 weeks ago:
Beer is my social anxiety medicine.
- Comment on why is it never the 'close friend' who gets shit on? 2 weeks ago:
None of my friends would try and initiate something like that. However if my friend tries to fuck my SO and my SO rejects them then I’m going to have a problem with my friend harassing my SO. If my SO goes along with it and cheats on me then my friend has revealed their my SO’s colors and that relationship wasn’t worth shit in the first place, they’ve done me a favor. No sense in also tanking a friendship over it.
- Comment on why is it never the 'close friend' who gets shit on? 2 weeks ago:
I guess it’s just an each to their own thing. Once someone cheats on me I’m done with them. I don’t care what they do. None of my friends are stupid enough to get into an actual relationship with a known cheater but even if they did it’s not like it’d be the first time I had to ignore a SO someone was bringing around that I didn’t like.
- Comment on why is it never the 'close friend' who gets shit on? 2 weeks ago:
As far as I’m concerned the relationship is over the instant my partner decides to cheat on me. Whether they get rejected or not. My friend telling me about it has the same end result either way. So I don’t really consider it a betrayal assuming they do tell me. The cheater was going to cheat sooner or later anyway might as well get it over with.
- Comment on why is it never the 'close friend' who gets shit on? 2 weeks ago:
If it’s not your friend it’ll be someone else eventually. Might as well get it over with sooner.
- Comment on why is it never the 'close friend' who gets shit on? 2 weeks ago:
If my partner is willing to cheat they are the one hurting me. If it’s not with my friend it’d be with someone else eventually but i guess it depends on how they handle it. If my friend tells me immediately then I’m not going to care because that allows me to not waste any more time with the cheater. They’re doing me a favor by exposing them as the trash they are sooner rather than later. Might as well get laid for their trouble. If they go behind my back for weeks thus causing me to waste time and energy on a cheater then I’d be pissed.
- Comment on why is it never the 'close friend' who gets shit on? 2 weeks ago:
The person in the relationship is the one with the responsibility not to cheat, they are objectively the worse person. If my partner is willing to cheat on me my friends might as well hit it because I’m not interested in continuing that relationship after that point anyway.
- Comment on Im pretty sure Charlie Kirk would have called for your execution 2 weeks ago:
It’s not just this picture.
- Comment on The local supermarket takes protein bar protection. Anyway does anyone know how to open these cases ? 2 weeks ago:
I was gonna buy more stuff but all the space in my basket was taken up by these stupid fucking boxes.
- Comment on Well done, all of you! 2 weeks ago:
Pester politicians? To do what? Tell people to shower and lose weight?