I would also be confused

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• tomi000@lemmy.world ⁨7⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

  So let me get this straight. People complain when their gf gets mad over little things like chocolate in bed. They also complain when she doesnt. Wtf?

  Wish my wife would tell me if something bothered her this calmly instead of bottling it up until she bursts and throws a tantrum. Im no better just to be clear.

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• bluegreenpurplepink@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨hour⁩ ago

  She’s a keeper. You’re lucky. She’s letting you know what irritates her, and how to avoid aggravating her again and also providing a way to make it up to her. This is the way to a harmonious life.

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• obinice@lemmy.world ⁨48⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

  People are capable of being annoyed by something but still make peace with their feelings and get on with their day.

  Can some people not do this?

  Not to mention that their partner is annoyed, but that doesn’t mean they suddenly don’t love them any more.

  People weirdly paint each other as black and white, completely this or completely that, and don’t consider maturity and complexity. It’s odd.

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• Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨hour⁩ ago

  People who eat in bed are just animals.

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• gustofwind@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I dunno she pretty clearly said she’s annoyed which sounds like a description of how angry she is

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  • Dave@lemmy.nz ⁨1⁩ ⁨hour⁩ ago

    But how do I read these subtle hints, can’t she just tell me how she’s feeling?

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• Skullgrid@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Husband here.

  Sometimes relationships end up with one “tidy one” and one “messy one”.

  I busted my ass over the years to turn from a gremlin into a “tidy one”.

  I got married to my “messy one”. She’s in charge of keeping the house clean.

  I have to remind her not to eat in bed 🥲

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  • Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Ok. I’m going to help you out. I’ll take your messy wife, and I’ll also be messy with her. We’ll eat chocolate in bed. We’ll leave trash in the shower. And burp in the car.

    And you can take my wife.

    Also, I’m not married.

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    • Jankatarch@lemmy.world ⁨50⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

      Oh god, I just understood what an electric current is.

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• AntiBullyRanger@ani.social ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I read that as she’s annoyed at something both tried out that shouldn’t be done ever again, and as forgiveness of the annoyance, the boyfriend can rent the van for the group winery as an apology.

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  • Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    I mean…that sounds like a win/win/win honestly. Your wife gets drunk, she’s happy, AND she forgives you instead of fighting?

    Deal.

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    • AntiBullyRanger@ani.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨hour⁩ ago

      She typed “annoyed,” not “mad, angry, frustrated, pissed” etc…

      I am not sure Jared’s gf diction is. I am particular on how I word things. If it was my bed sheets, yeah, it’s something I could see myself forgiving a partner for. It’s just bed sheets, we can pick others, or repaint.

      But if I loved you more than a stupid stain, sure let’s get drunk, you pay.

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• s@piefed.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  My brain mixed up duvet with bidet at first

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  • Kolanaki@pawb.social ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    “Chocolate on the bidet? That ain’t chocolate. That’s doodoo, baby!”

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• FireRetardant@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  There is wine all over the van, lets not do a group winery day again.

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  • Tikiporch@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Also - it would be fun to ride one of those Pedal Pubs.

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