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- Comment on I guessed 1 week ago:
Your face is silly. 🤪
- Comment on I guessed 2 weeks ago:
What if they want to censor themselves? Don’t they have the right to do that without this stupid f’ing comment being commented all the time.
This is the internet you don’t have to comment on things you don’t like, you can move along.
- Comment on Take a little trip 5 weeks ago:
I imagine that is extremely chill to be around and just a happy guy.
- Comment on America 1 month ago:
Post meridian and anti meridian.
- Comment on Free resources 1 month ago:
Stoner? Or very heavy coke user 😂
- Comment on Free resources 1 month ago:
We ain’t out here buying drugs by the pound. It’s grams and ounces unless you’re a shotter but even then you buying in ounces and kilos.
- Comment on didnt do it 1 month ago:
Exactly. If you’re doing physical activities for my health reasons, as I am, then it’s the activity itself that gives the value and not chasing PBs.
That said all my life and hobbies have been for the intrinsic value of them rather than to show off to friends or with some end goal in mind. Like it tried to learn Spanish for over a year for no reason other than it was a cool thing to try, then when I drop it it didn’t matter as the goal wasn’t to learn Spanish it was to exercise my curiosity.
- Comment on didnt do it 1 month ago:
Thanks.
I guess everybody is different. I’m a natural introvert that excels at extroversion due to my past. So for me it wasn’t the social thing and in fact I had a hard time getting my friends to climb so had to find a climbing group.
What hooked me about climbing is that it’s a rare sport where I lose myself and my mind goes quite. Like nothing other than guitar practice makes my mind shut up so once I found that I was hooked.
- Comment on didnt do it 1 month ago:
I believe it’s a combination of factors really.
Use it or lose it, the body doesn’t waste energy so if you don’t do physical activities then the body doesn’t see the point in making you more energetic but when you do exercise the body is like we need to prep in case this happens again.
Then you have the brain chemicals like endorphins which boost mood and can give you a boost of energy.
There is a line though, which I noticed with my running, that if I kept pushing for faster and faster times I was tired so much due to fatigue. I now run for the intrinsic value of running, I don’t care to get faster and just run for the fun of it and I’m just full of beans now lol
- Comment on didnt do it 1 month ago:
I’m the opposite of this.
I’m 43 in a few weeks and have more energy and are fitter than ever really.
Climb 2-3 times a week, run 3 times a week and walk a hell of a lot.
- Comment on didnt do it 1 month ago:
Hey a fellow climber. At first I thought how odd but most climbers are nerds and most of Lemmy is nerds so probably loads of climbers on here.
Do you know of any climbing subs on here?
- Comment on This is your brain on drugs 1 month ago:
Yeah it’s crazy isn’t it.
- Comment on This is your brain on drugs 1 month ago:
Salvia is a trip man. I remember doing it once and it felt like the room I was in flipped 90 degrees and I was holding the arm out the couch like my life depended on it.
Taken a lot of drugs but only take ADHD meds now and the occasional spliff. Been hooked on coke and it’s just meh now. Been hooked on Xanax and nearly died but still miss them.
Ketamine is mid. Would love to try heroin if it wouldn’t ruin my life.
Mollie was amazing back in the day but couldn’t hardly that now.
- Comment on 1 month ago:
Or a furry suit
- Comment on A lot less blue too... Hmmmm.... 1 month ago:
I am joking.
- Comment on A lot less blue too... Hmmmm.... 1 month ago:
Yet but still if you superimpose the second image over the first you’ll see the whole planet had gotten smaller.
- Comment on Classic mistake 1 month ago:
Translation: Ketamine be cocaine.
- Comment on Asked LA Fitness to cancel my membership, they offered to freeze it for $10/month instead 2 months ago:
No i used disposable cards. Like the ones you can top up.
- Comment on Asked LA Fitness to cancel my membership, they offered to freeze it for $10/month instead 2 months ago:
This is why I used to use a fake name at gyms. When I quit you can chase that ghost.
My climbing gym lets me pause membership for free. Done it’s few times when I’ve had pulley injuries.
- Comment on Anon makes some changes 2 months ago:
Guess I don’t know much about 4chan other than seeing green texts and thinking it’s a bunch of oddballs trying to solve the odd murder.
Didn’t know it was manosphere and don’t know it’s political leaning.
- Comment on Anon makes some changes 2 months ago:
I had no idea that nofap was what you just described. I saw the green text as the person taking all those positives steps to get back to living life and not some Andrew Tate thing.
I apologise for my misunderstanding and wading into this discussion, as my concern is for the people who are doing things compulsively not manosphere stuff.
- Comment on Anon makes some changes 2 months ago:
I do understand that, perhaps more acutely than most as I’ve had countless destructive “hobbies” (my god hobby is the softest word I could find here) that I used to mask the underlying issue. Heck I’m still not sure I know the underlying cause but I have translated those destructive things with positive ones but the goal is the same. This is all to say I’m well versed in addiction, compulsions, and poor mental health.
With that in mind I would say that sometimes you have to stop the thing you’re doing, let’s say masturbating here, so you can get your body back to baseline before you can even begin to work with a therapist or do some introspection.
I’m not saying we should demonise masturbation, just accept that for some people they may need to stop doing that for a period whilst they then fix the other shit they got going on.
I’m in my forties and really never been happy and had a shit childhood that is still the cause of the way my mind bullies me to this very day. I’ve tried therapy before but when you’re in the midst of masking all your shit with other shit you really can’t make any progress in my experience. What I’ve done now is spend several years working on myself and replacing negative addictions with positive ones. That afforded me the will power to begin to remove the substances and other coping strategies. Now I actually feel I’m in a place where I might benefit from some EMDR or trauma therapy.
- Comment on Anon makes some changes 2 months ago:
Everything is a problem if you’re doing it compulsively or mask something else.
Masturbating can surprisingly help with restless leg syndrome but doing it in work might be a problem.
- Comment on Spicy spicy 2 months ago:
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- Comment on Human experimentation, one way or the other. 2 months ago:
Cool username.
Erm… What is flat earth about then? Genuinely curious. Is that to be anti-establishment? As that’s me but I’m bit anti-science. Or is something else.
- Comment on Dumb glasses 2 months ago:
Fair point on the glasses but my understanding if they show when recording and ultimately if someone wants to perv on me then they’ll do with or without glasses.
Do you have the same anger towards spy cameras like a lapel camera?
TIL I leaned asking why is toddler behaviour, rather than trying to understand your reservations.
- Comment on Dumb glasses 2 months ago:
And did you have the same outrage when phone cameras became a thing.
I don’t know about you dude but if I’m a urinal and someone is looking at me I’m having words regardless of any device they’re holding.
For what it’s worth fuck meta but right now you’re old man shouting a clouds.
You sound like the right wingers saying what’s to stop a trans person raping me in the toilet.
- Comment on Dumb glasses 2 months ago:
This is an example of where you do have the expectation of privacy. Although a bathroom may be in public it’s not legally a public area.
I do street photography so I have checked the rules in my country.
- Comment on Dumb glasses 2 months ago:
People could do that before meta glasses. I’m not talking about governments here. I’m talking about regular people and you have no illusion of privacy in public. Pretty common sense that.
- Comment on Human experimentation, one way or the other. 2 months ago:
Had me in the first 95% I can’t lie.