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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Asked LA Fitness to cancel my membership, they offered to freeze it for $10/month instead⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  No i used disposable cards. Like the ones you can top up.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Asked LA Fitness to cancel my membership, they offered to freeze it for $10/month instead⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  This is why I used to use a fake name at gyms. When I quit you can chase that ghost.

  My climbing gym lets me pause membership for free. Done it’s few times when I’ve had pulley injuries.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon makes some changes⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Guess I don’t know much about 4chan other than seeing green texts and thinking it’s a bunch of oddballs trying to solve the odd murder.

  Didn’t know it was manosphere and don’t know it’s political leaning.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon makes some changes⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  I had no idea that nofap was what you just described. I saw the green text as the person taking all those positives steps to get back to living life and not some Andrew Tate thing.

  I apologise for my misunderstanding and wading into this discussion, as my concern is for the people who are doing things compulsively not manosphere stuff.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon makes some changes⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  I do understand that, perhaps more acutely than most as I’ve had countless destructive “hobbies” (my god hobby is the softest word I could find here) that I used to mask the underlying issue. Heck I’m still not sure I know the underlying cause but I have translated those destructive things with positive ones but the goal is the same. This is all to say I’m well versed in addiction, compulsions, and poor mental health.

  With that in mind I would say that sometimes you have to stop the thing you’re doing, let’s say masturbating here, so you can get your body back to baseline before you can even begin to work with a therapist or do some introspection.

  I’m not saying we should demonise masturbation, just accept that for some people they may need to stop doing that for a period whilst they then fix the other shit they got going on.

  I’m in my forties and really never been happy and had a shit childhood that is still the cause of the way my mind bullies me to this very day. I’ve tried therapy before but when you’re in the midst of masking all your shit with other shit you really can’t make any progress in my experience. What I’ve done now is spend several years working on myself and replacing negative addictions with positive ones. That afforded me the will power to begin to remove the substances and other coping strategies. Now I actually feel I’m in a place where I might benefit from some EMDR or trauma therapy.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon makes some changes⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Everything is a problem if you’re doing it compulsively or mask something else.

  Masturbating can surprisingly help with restless leg syndrome but doing it in work might be a problem.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Spicy spicy⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Human experimentation, one way or the other.⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Cool username.

  Erm… What is flat earth about then? Genuinely curious. Is that to be anti-establishment? As that’s me but I’m bit anti-science. Or is something else.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Dumb glasses⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Fair point on the glasses but my understanding if they show when recording and ultimately if someone wants to perv on me then they’ll do with or without glasses.

  Do you have the same anger towards spy cameras like a lapel camera?

  TIL I leaned asking why is toddler behaviour, rather than trying to understand your reservations.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Dumb glasses⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  And did you have the same outrage when phone cameras became a thing.

  I don’t know about you dude but if I’m a urinal and someone is looking at me I’m having words regardless of any device they’re holding.

  For what it’s worth fuck meta but right now you’re old man shouting a clouds.

  You sound like the right wingers saying what’s to stop a trans person raping me in the toilet.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Dumb glasses⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  This is an example of where you do have the expectation of privacy. Although a bathroom may be in public it’s not legally a public area.

  I do street photography so I have checked the rules in my country.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Dumb glasses⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  People could do that before meta glasses. I’m not talking about governments here. I’m talking about regular people and you have no illusion of privacy in public. Pretty common sense that.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Human experimentation, one way or the other.⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Had me in the first 95% I can’t lie.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Dumb glasses⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  People could do that before bro. Phone, DSLR, etc.

  You have no assumption of privacy in public. If this hypothetical stalker is following you then they’ll do that with or without meta glasses.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Human experimentation, one way or the other.⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  I used to party hard and I’ve got fucked up with people going on about Covid vaccine as we are actively doing lines off a fucking table. When id point it out they’d say that’s different.

  Idiots.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Human experimentation, one way or the other.⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Wait you know more than one anti-vaxxer and they all/both order dick pills, what are the odds.

  Also, they don’t just sell them in the pharmacy like in the UK?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Dumb glasses⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  I don’t care about being filmed in public. After all I’m in public, if I want privacy I’ll go somewhere else.

  Obligatory fuck meta though.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨A sudden epiphany.⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  That’s me. Then I got a job as a software developer but most my colleagues when to university so they always going on about bougie words like polymorphism, dependency injection, etc.

  We coined the term that I am a working man’s software developer. I can do all those bougie words but I just can’t articulate what they are. Nor do I care to to be honest.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Genius.⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  As a Brit I’ve never heard of such a thing. Sounds awful like putting a pie on a muffin (bread roll, barm cake) 🤮

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Every!⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Now sorted by capitalism.

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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨German man says american are savages⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Nah just actually found people more cynical about the world than me for once.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨German man says american are savages⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Yeah I’ve got bigger hills to die on than language bro.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨German man says american are savages⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  It’s to be advertiser friendly. All kids use new words. We did the same

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨A product of his environment⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Even the dumbest person is going to check the feed bro, come on.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨A product of his environment⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Are you saying sabotage the rich kids swings? Thats awful. Like something done shit to your park so you’ll pay it forward to other innocent kids. Terrible behaviour. You should be mad at the people doing it and take it out on them or the rule makers.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[deleted]⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I’ve cream has no bones made me laugh too much.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Nevermind the drink I'm holding⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Animal? that’s a fax machine.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Spray n Pray⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Bet you love public transport on a wet day when all the windows steam up. 😂

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Beyond fucked up⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  All groups have bad people: men, women, white, black, old, young, far, think, etc.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Beyond fucked up⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  Le Pen too and that Italian fascist.