TubularTittyFrog

@TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Scary indeed.⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  or people just like good games that capture their imaginations and are fun and rewarding to play.

  and what makes a game good doesn’t really change with time.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon is given an ultimatum⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Yep. I know plenty of pope who work menial jobs and whine all day and drink a lot… they are all from wealthy families and are just waiting for their folks to die and/or their trust to mature. they know they don’t have to do jack shit in life and they tend to look down on people who work hard… as losers.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Intellectual Freedom⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  precisely why I left with my Master’s.

  Zero freedom to pursue the truth, infinite demands to support other people’s ideological agendas.

  I didn’t get it that bad personally, but I watched a few friends have dissertations derailed by some random commitee member’s bullshit.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon is married⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  right, everyone is a liar, because you lie. and if they don’t lie, they suck.

  this is exactly how all my exes told me too. everyone cheats! if you aren’t doing it, you’re a chump! and anyone who is better than me, is shitty.

  notice how in this, you’re always right, and everyone else is wrong? funny how convenient that works out for you.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon plays World of Warcraft⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  lol what world are you living in? chores never stop.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon plays World of Warcraft⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  For a lot of people. they don’t. Chores are just painful and annoying and unrewarding and they hate them objectively.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon is a paramedic⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  because at that point you are nothing but a memory and you can’t ever upset or burden or annoy them

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon is a paramedic⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  true, some folks relationships, parental or otherwise, are just… boring and staid and uneventful and they are fine with that.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon is a paramedic⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  that isn’t suicide. suicide is the active act of killing yourself.

  dying from neglect, or self-neglect isn’t suicide.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon is a paramedic⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  They are afraid of how it would ‘reflect’ on them.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon is a paramedic⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  there is a difference between someone caring for me as a feeling, and doing it as an activity.

  like yes, my parents cared about me, emotionally. but their actions, were hardly ever caring.

  and people don’t seem to understand the difference. i have had the same thing in romantic relationships. someone saying they care about you is very different than them actually doing this that show that they care.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon is a paramedic⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  my folks my entire life thought I was gay. even though I had girlfriends my entire adult life… they just had such a stupidly narrow definition of straightness that things like reading books and liking school made them ‘suspicious’.

  and i still meet so called progressive, adult women, who think this way to this day… esp because i cook and clean.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon is a paramedic⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  it’s easy to talk about such things in therapy, but a good therapist isn’t going to bias-confirm you, or engage you in escalation/exaggeration. online communities do that, inevitably.

  your therapist also isn’t going to flip out at you and call you a ungrateful piece of shit when you complain about your parents. people online and irl will definitely do that.

  there is a cultural default where you are not supposed to be critical or resentful towards your parents for sure, which I think forces almost all of us to internalize this stuff. personally i’ve never had a partner who i could talk to about my parental issues without serious blowback and judgement for what a shitty person i was for daring to say such things about my folks…

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon is a paramedic⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  so if it’s their problem why are you resenting them for not sharing in your views?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon is a paramedic⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  nah, twitter not the only place.

  try hating out with a insecure person. they will do this about literally everything you say.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon is a paramedic⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  some people here think anyone who ever works for the military is a person who is awful and deserves death or worse.

  they are idiots and awful people themselves, but they feel they are good people for being so hateful and horrible to ‘worse people than them’.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon is a paramedic⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  it’s not your job to help him. it’s your job to help yourself.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon is a paramedic⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  nobody is punishing you. other than yourself.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Bee⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  bee bee bee

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon is a paramedic⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  nobody cares about you that much. nobody hates you.

  you hate yourself.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon is a paramedic⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  TBH my dad dying was one of the best things that ever happened to me.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon is a paramedic⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  you don’t get to decide that for other people. they do.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon is a paramedic⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  i dont know, i know plenty of ‘normal’ people who are all over the internet. True though, they don’t really use reddit/lemmy sites, they use instragram, facebook, twitter.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon is married⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I’d rather be happy telling the truth than miserable being a lying bullshitting asshole.

  Some people can’t be happy unless they are lying and bullshitting, I am very aware how many folks go around in a perpetual cloud of delusional bullshit. Sound like you are one of them? cool.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Another redundant app⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  depends on what your goals are. i think it’s weird af, but i’m not a vain person who goes around judging other’s looks and worrying about my own. for some people, that’s all there is in life, is their beauty.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon is married⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  cool. i’d want nothing to do with you or your wife if that’s how you interact with other people. you sound like your both happy being shitty to other people together.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon is an introvert⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  you go to events and interact with them.

  you don’t go out in public and leer at them as they sit nearby.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Why is America so surprised when they elected Trump? They bitched and moans how all politicians are liars, cheats, money hungry and so on. So now they got exactly that and they are surprised?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Nixon resigned over Watergate.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Why is America so surprised when they elected Trump? They bitched and moans how all politicians are liars, cheats, money hungry and so on. So now they got exactly that and they are surprised?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  every politician lies.

  Trump just does it BIGGER AND BETTER.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Why is America so surprised when they elected Trump? They bitched and moans how all politicians are liars, cheats, money hungry and so on. So now they got exactly that and they are surprised?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  they don’t matter.