TubularTittyFrog
@TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
- Comment on Anon is married 16 hours ago:
right, everyone is a liar, because you lie. and if they don’t lie, they suck.
this is exactly how all my exes told me too. everyone cheats! if you aren’t doing it, you’re a chump! and anyone who is better than me, is shitty.
notice how in this, you’re always right, and everyone else is wrong? funny how convenient that works out for you.
- Comment on Anon plays World of Warcraft 16 hours ago:
lol what world are you living in? chores never stop.
- Comment on Anon plays World of Warcraft 1 day ago:
For a lot of people. they don’t. Chores are just painful and annoying and unrewarding and they hate them objectively.
- Comment on Anon is a paramedic 3 days ago:
because at that point you are nothing but a memory and you can’t ever upset or burden or annoy them
- Comment on Anon is a paramedic 3 days ago:
true, some folks relationships, parental or otherwise, are just… boring and staid and uneventful and they are fine with that.
- Comment on Anon is a paramedic 3 days ago:
that isn’t suicide. suicide is the active act of killing yourself.
dying from neglect, or self-neglect isn’t suicide.
- Comment on Anon is a paramedic 3 days ago:
They are afraid of how it would ‘reflect’ on them.
- Comment on Anon is a paramedic 3 days ago:
there is a difference between someone caring for me as a feeling, and doing it as an activity.
like yes, my parents cared about me, emotionally. but their actions, were hardly ever caring.
and people don’t seem to understand the difference. i have had the same thing in romantic relationships. someone saying they care about you is very different than them actually doing this that show that they care.
- Comment on Anon is a paramedic 3 days ago:
my folks my entire life thought I was gay. even though I had girlfriends my entire adult life… they just had such a stupidly narrow definition of straightness that things like reading books and liking school made them ‘suspicious’.
and i still meet so called progressive, adult women, who think this way to this day… esp because i cook and clean.
- Comment on Anon is a paramedic 3 days ago:
it’s easy to talk about such things in therapy, but a good therapist isn’t going to bias-confirm you, or engage you in escalation/exaggeration. online communities do that, inevitably.
your therapist also isn’t going to flip out at you and call you a ungrateful piece of shit when you complain about your parents. people online and irl will definitely do that.
there is a cultural default where you are not supposed to be critical or resentful towards your parents for sure, which I think forces almost all of us to internalize this stuff. personally i’ve never had a partner who i could talk to about my parental issues without serious blowback and judgement for what a shitty person i was for daring to say such things about my folks…
- Comment on Anon is a paramedic 3 days ago:
so if it’s their problem why are you resenting them for not sharing in your views?
- Comment on Anon is a paramedic 3 days ago:
nah, twitter not the only place.
try hating out with a insecure person. they will do this about literally everything you say.
- Comment on Anon is a paramedic 3 days ago:
some people here think anyone who ever works for the military is a person who is awful and deserves death or worse.
they are idiots and awful people themselves, but they feel they are good people for being so hateful and horrible to ‘worse people than them’.
- Comment on Anon is a paramedic 3 days ago:
it’s not your job to help him. it’s your job to help yourself.
- Comment on Anon is a paramedic 3 days ago:
nobody is punishing you. other than yourself.
- Comment on Bee 3 days ago:
bee bee bee
- Comment on Anon is a paramedic 3 days ago:
nobody cares about you that much. nobody hates you.
you hate yourself.
- Comment on Anon is a paramedic 3 days ago:
TBH my dad dying was one of the best things that ever happened to me.
- Comment on Anon is a paramedic 3 days ago:
you don’t get to decide that for other people. they do.
- Comment on Anon is a paramedic 3 days ago:
i dont know, i know plenty of ‘normal’ people who are all over the internet. True though, they don’t really use reddit/lemmy sites, they use instragram, facebook, twitter.
- Comment on Anon is married 3 days ago:
I’d rather be happy telling the truth than miserable being a lying bullshitting asshole.
Some people can’t be happy unless they are lying and bullshitting, I am very aware how many folks go around in a perpetual cloud of delusional bullshit. Sound like you are one of them? cool.
- Comment on Another redundant app 4 days ago:
depends on what your goals are. i think it’s weird af, but i’m not a vain person who goes around judging other’s looks and worrying about my own. for some people, that’s all there is in life, is their beauty.
- Comment on Anon is married 4 days ago:
cool. i’d want nothing to do with you or your wife if that’s how you interact with other people. you sound like your both happy being shitty to other people together.
- Comment on Anon is an introvert 4 days ago:
you go to events and interact with them.
you don’t go out in public and leer at them as they sit nearby.
- Comment on Why is America so surprised when they elected Trump? They bitched and moans how all politicians are liars, cheats, money hungry and so on. So now they got exactly that and they are surprised? 4 days ago:
Nixon resigned over Watergate.
- Comment on Why is America so surprised when they elected Trump? They bitched and moans how all politicians are liars, cheats, money hungry and so on. So now they got exactly that and they are surprised? 4 days ago:
every politician lies.
Trump just does it BIGGER AND BETTER.
- Comment on Why is America so surprised when they elected Trump? They bitched and moans how all politicians are liars, cheats, money hungry and so on. So now they got exactly that and they are surprised? 4 days ago:
they don’t matter.
- Comment on Why is America so surprised when they elected Trump? They bitched and moans how all politicians are liars, cheats, money hungry and so on. So now they got exactly that and they are surprised? 4 days ago:
because most people are stupid.
like, literally so stupid they do shit like drive drunk and are shocked that they crash the car.
they do not think they should be responsible for the consequences of their own actions.
- Comment on Sex Education 5 days ago:
neither of us were that cultured at that time.
- Comment on Sex Education 5 days ago:
which part is a bad thing?
none of it was bad. it just was.