Comment on I've heard it clears up again after the first wave of divorces
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 4 months agothat isn’t change, that’s failure to take responsibility for yourself.
Comment on I've heard it clears up again after the first wave of divorces
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 4 months agothat isn’t change, that’s failure to take responsibility for yourself.
RBWells@lemmy.world 4 months ago
Well it was a change, but I don’t disagree. Instead of trying, he just looked for someone to blame. It’s not like there aren’t external forces but our own actions and thoughts are what we can control, and can make a big difference. He’s doing better now, too late for us but he’s working, paid child support, stopped drinking, still a racist fuck but realized he was his biggest problem and did work on himself.