Comment on I've heard it clears up again after the first wave of divorces
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 4 months agoyou can’t build a successful relationship without dating and getting to know if you’re a good fit.
Comment on I've heard it clears up again after the first wave of divorces
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 4 months agoyou can’t build a successful relationship without dating and getting to know if you’re a good fit.
HexesofVexes@lemmy.world 4 months ago
Yes and no; I’ve met some people who were great to date but hell to live with.
A good relationship starts with both people knowing what they want - and continual contact helps determine if the other person is being honest about what they want. Post 35/30, this process is often a lot faster, and dating skill matters less than ability not to annoy the person you’re suddenly around 24/7.
If it matches from the start, or a compromise grows, you’re in for a winner. Otherwise, back to the sea of the undead you go, no matter how good your dating skill!