Truly, sometimes the simplest explanation is the truest.
That explains it.
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chemical_cutthroat@lemmy.world 8 months ago
spacecadet@lemm.ee 8 months ago
I’m not an old dude, but I mean these women need that crowd to make money. It’s weird calling them creeps but at the same time they are posting nearly nude photos of themselves publicly on social media. Who do they think is following that content? Physicists at CERN calculating the new gravitation force off of your oversized diaper butt BBL? medical doctors determining the tolerance a 115lb woman with 1000cc of silicone can tolerate? Get real, you’re posting your tits because you know exactly those types of dudes will follow and you can either trick them into giving you money for feet pics or buying you a weekend in Dubai.
These 22 year old “model influencers” will be begging for these old dudes to pay them attention when they hit the wall in 5 years.
WhiteOakBayou@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Yea, those busted 27 year olds. Wtf
roscoe@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 months ago
Yeah, they kind of had a point until they busted out the incel-speak at the end.
captainlezbian@lemmy.world 8 months ago
I will say that by 27 creepy old men did stop yelling their attraction at me as I walked down the street, which was nice
DempstersBox@lemmy.world 8 months ago
You may not be an old dude, but it sure seems like you already hit the wall.
Friend of mine’s father, who was seventy at the time, got hit on by an older lady at the grocery store.
Lamenting that he didn’t follow it up with her, “she was eighty, but a young eighty, if you know what I mean”
Wall? Gtfo, dumbass
fine_sandy_bottom@lemmy.federate.cc 8 months ago
I think you may have misunderstood.
If you’re a 22yo “influencer” and your target market is people who follow 22yo influencers then it will be difficult to generate engagement when you’re 27.
That doesn’t seem that controversial to me, and I don’t see how octogenarians getting laid at the supermarket is relevant?
Sirence@feddit.org 8 months ago
I can’t find where she called them creeps but I think her issue is that they are married.
Blackmist@feddit.uk 8 months ago
Are married men not supposed to look at other people’s tits now?
Soup@lemmy.world 8 months ago
C’mon, bro, be better than that.
tomi000@lemmy.world 8 months ago
I dont think they generally deny what you are saying
Katrisia@lemm.ee 8 months ago
If I were to do that, I’d probably do it for the money. I would get unfaithful followers (hard to pinpoint who because open relationships and other types of relationships exist, but statically, there will be), and that wouldn’t make it any less uncomfortable. I personally hate unfaithful/dishonest partners.
Crashumbc@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Men looking at boobs doesn’t make them unfaithful.
interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 8 months ago
I think the concept of sexual cheating is obsolete and malignant psychological evolutionary flotsam that should be stamped out. That those who wish to reinforce its social presence should be bullied and ostracized for it.
funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
[deleted]Olhonestjim@lemmy.world 8 months ago
The post wasn’t about ordinary women going through their lives in healthy ways. It was about young women influencers and the old men who follow them. The reason why is obvious.
Technoguyfication@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
Judge him all you want but he tells it like it is
EleventhHour@lemmy.world 8 months ago
ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world 8 months ago
I mean fear of the unknown is stronger than fear of the known in most cases.
WillFord27@lemmy.world 8 months ago
The real post is always in the comments
interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 8 months ago
Yes, that’s point. If you’re not into being eaten then you’re thé weird one.
nailingjello@lemmy.zip 8 months ago
Guess I’m the only one who read her post and thought the wives were the ones following the young Women.
Kiwi_fella@lemmy.world 8 months ago
That’s a perfectly legitimate way to interpret the text, and might even be true.
casmael@lemm.ee 8 months ago
Yeah it’s a poorly constructed sentence isn’t it
modus@lemmy.world 8 months ago
You’re not. But the author of the sentence is not necessarily a contender for Grammarian of the Year.
feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world 8 months ago
They mostly are.
random_character_a@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Fellow dyslexic ٩( ☉ o⚆)
caboose2006@lemmy.ca 8 months ago
Fart monster two k telling it like it is
Amir@lemmy.ml 8 months ago
To Dr. Iver Mectin
Agent641@lemmy.world 8 months ago
‼️ Older men following young women
✅👌 On instagram
interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 8 months ago
Yeah, that’s not a red flag
Allonzee@lemmy.world 8 months ago
I always find it peculiar and somewhat self-hating that humans are so averse and judgemental about reveling in our sexuality.
It’s a major part of who we all are, whether we choose to deny that or not. Cultures and world religions always run by monied interests would prefer we spend our time miserable collecting more for them as they live in decadent debauchery, and most of us have been too fucked in the head with sexual shame to be fixable, but humanity would have been so much happier if we spent less time growing gdp and more time fucking, especially in an age of birth control.
Rooskie91@discuss.online 8 months ago
Sex is free, fun, and everyone can do it. We can’t have that in capitalism, why would people work for money?
interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 8 months ago
Ouch that stings
AsherahTheEnd@lemmy.world 8 months ago
I think the issue is, when reveling in your sexuality, everyone involved must consent. It’s hard to say whether posting pics of you in revealing clothes is consent for old men to ogle or not. I’d say if you post it publicly, then it should be fine for said old men to respectfully ogle. But if said old men decide to comment something like, “would love to squirtle on those jigglypuffs” on the revealing image, we’re suddenly entering nonconsensual territory. So there’s a fine line and it’s easy to cross. Simply loving looking at boobs on the internet is fine; many women enjoy being admired. But if you take it any further, that’s when problems arise. Enjoy your sexuality responsibility, my friends. 💕
A_Random_Idiot@lemmy.world 8 months ago
If you don’t want people spreading your images, wanking to your images, making crude comment about your images, oogling your images, etc etc. And I don’t mean just nudes, I mean any picture you post…
Then don’t post them online.
because once they hit the internet, in any capacity, you’ve lost all control of them, forever. They will still be there to be discovered when you are lying in a nursing home at 104 years old, Your descendants so far removed that they dont even know your name will still be at risk of stumbling upon them. People on the other side of the planet might use it in advertising or virtual sex dolls without you ever knowing.
You might not like it, you might not want it, you might not consent to it, but its still going to happen.
And if you want it to not happen, don’t post things online.
redisdead@lemmy.world 8 months ago
If you show your tits to the internet on an open platform anyone can leave comments on, you automatically consent to people looking at your tits and commenting on them.
interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 8 months ago
Maybe that extremist view of consent is a disease.
Jeanschyso@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Put something on a public platform = accept that people will look at it. Allow for people to comment on it and you invite these comments. If someone wants to post pictures and not get comments on them, they can post them to a platform that doesn’t allow comments.
Affidavit@lemm.ee 8 months ago
Edit: it’s both extremely telling and extremely concerning how much my rational take on consent is triggering all these pathetic men.
You initial comment was rational, it was well-thought out and you made a fair point while ending the comment on a positive note. Left alone, I would have upvoted your well-considered opinion and moved on.
However, your follow up responses and your edit were unprovoked ad hominem sexist attacks where you assume everyone who disagrees is a mansplaining penis-wielder whose words have less value than your own. While having your views challenged can be difficult, responding in the manner you are only detracts from your argument.
interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 8 months ago
This isn’t coming from the self, our culture is extremely anti human, anti sexuality (the major cause of human)
Discussion of sexuality is grounds for erasure in most spheres of society. When sexuality is permitted to be depicted, it is almost always in a negative condemning light similar to how’s drugs are discussed.
The only valid and acceptable use of sexuality is when its vague reminder is used to sell us garbage like beer and trucks or whatever.
Even the majority of art and artist pretend sexuality is not part of art, unless it’s rape.
silasmariner@programming.dev 8 months ago
economic metastasis Love it
dullbananas@lemmy.ca 8 months ago
After I quit porn, I became more sensitive to the minds and souls of women, and now my sexual attraction can flow to a desire for the women being happy.
This may seem counterintuitive if you have an addiction involving lust, but I am now more completely reveling in my sexuality.
linearchaos@lemmy.world 8 months ago
There are a non-insignificant number of people in society who can’t seem to handle the concept of consent. Then we have an ever growing number of incels awkward enough in relationships and socially that they can’t talk about sexual topics without becoming angry and violent.
A lot of our societal taboos about sexuality are trying to keep those people at bay.
It’s a mental health problem to be sure and it needs to be handled in society but it is rarely actually worked that way. It’s easier in some countries to make women hide away than it is too deal with the men that are out of control.
We really as a race can’t revel in our sexuality until we manage to get our morality under control.
GiveMemes@jlai.lu 8 months ago
You’re treating the symptoms as the causes dude. If we had more open discussion about these things I don’t think such issues would be as commonplace.
If people understood more of what victims of rape go through, they’re much less likely to view consent as a hazy line.
I go to many places where sexuality is celebrated rather than shamed and because of that it’s much less of a big deal. At one music festival I went to there were coed communal showers. I was kind of nervous but I headed down. Got in there and everybody was laughing and singing, sudsing each other up with soap, etc. This wasn’t because it was some kind of huge orgy, but rather that everybody was comfortable with the nudity and we were having fun together in a totally non sexual way, in my opinion only made possible by the openness everybody had about sexuality there.
We are sexual creatures (except ace people), ain’t no two ways about it. Keeping sex taboo does nothing to prevent the problems you’re describing. It’s like the Islamic extremists who think the only way to protect women is by taking away their rights, making their beauty a taboo, etc. And still, these places have their own problems with rape anyway, so clearly that doesn’t work.
sznowicki@lemmy.world 8 months ago
I don’t follow any of them yet they still flood my instagram „search“ tab.
Not that I complain.
Peppycito@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
Do you get constant targeted ads for devices to keep leaves out of your gutters? All I seem to get are those, belts and fat men t-shirt ads.
GreyEyedGhost@lemmy.ca 8 months ago
The algorithm is working as intended!
sznowicki@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Yes belly old man T-shirts are the worst as I’m working hard on NOT having a belly and this like like saying „fuck you you gonna get it regardless, that’s what algorithm already knows“
Kiwi_fella@lemmy.world 8 months ago
I’m 50 and get posts from OnlyFans accounts and advertising for kegels exercises, mixed in with woodworking videos. I blame all the other men out there. No wonder I don’t use social media much anymore. I just want to see my friend’s and family’s pics/vids.
Toneswirly@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Men liking pictures of beautiful women is not weird. I think it’s weirder that our economic system incentives selling empty sexuality and even emptier engagement from consumers of it.
AgentGrimstone@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Men following attractive women. So weird.
interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 8 months ago
Concerning new trend, are these men becoming a new form of boob predators ?
EnderMB@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Let people like what they like, whether it’s looking at girls online, cosplay, sports, or being an insufferable cunt on social media.
FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 8 months ago
I wish more women in their late 40s showed pictures of their boobs so I can follow them. Because even MILF porn is like women who are maybe 40 most of the time and I’m attracted most to women my age. I just am.
superkret@feddit.org 8 months ago
“mature” is the search term you’re looking for.
FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 8 months ago
There’s precious little of that too. Unless maybe if I want to pay for it. And paying for porn on the internet?
Iheartcheese@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Boobs.
dullbananas@lemmy.ca 8 months ago
Dopamine receptors that aren’t severely down-regulated.
DrSteveBrule@mander.xyz 8 months ago
I thinks it’s weird when people choose to make their online profiles open to the public then get upset when people view their content.
paddirn@lemmy.world 8 months ago
That’s literally the only reason I signed up for Instagram, but over half of my feed has become wholesome videos of people doing arts & crafts, woodworking, cooking, animals, inspiring vignettes, graphic design hacks, and bunch of other things. As cool as those other things are, I just wanted to see boobies.
And one of the weirdest things about Instagram, is that nudity is banned UNLESS the woman is breastfeeding (and a few other scenarios). So this seems to have spawned a weird sort of genre of what appears to be breastfeeding porn, women who are posting nude videos of themselves while breastfeeding, specifically to get around the nudity ban. It’s kind of weird and exploitative, I don’t really understand why it’s allowed (except for educational purposes, but these videos don’t seem to meet that bar). It’s like, showing breasts is offensive because kids might be able to see nudity and we don’t want kids seeing nude women… unless we film the nudity with kids in it, then that magically makes it ok.
UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Dr Iver Mectin
This is a good bit.
don@lemm.ee 8 months ago
I don’t really see how wives following a bunch of young women is weird, they often socialize quite a bit with each other.
jordanlund@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Same answer for why dudes constantly channel flip… looking for boobs.
baggins@lemmy.ca 8 months ago
This is what peak mansplaining looks like. She didn’t ask a question and I’m almost sure she already knows the why.
carotte@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 months ago
these dudes aren’t weird, they’re sadly very common
poplargrove@lemmy.world 8 months ago
It seems people missed the “with wives” part. Generally speaking, your wife is not going to be terribly pleased with you ogling or getting off to other women. And violating that is what makes these men count as weird.
RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Lol, thumbnail pic of “FartMonster”… that’s a real hard 40 years. Dude looks near 70.
justme@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 months ago
I’m practically 40 and that guy looks older than my dad
Stanley_Pain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 months ago
The maddest of lads
norimee@lemmy.world 8 months ago
“…because I objectify young women and I like it.”
Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
Seems less weird when you put it that way
Allonzee@lemmy.world 6 months ago
Men lust after women and women lust after men. Hating one another for that is ridiculous and denies that reality.
Women are simply more selective, but their jaws tend to drop to the floor and their gazes tend to linger into creepy lengths of time over a Hugh Jackman bod or a broad shouldered designer suit that screams high income.
Its quite sad that people can’t except one another as imperfect animals with biological baggage.
rain_worl@lemmy.world 7 months ago
SWEET GOD BY DEMON DEMON HOW IS THE TEXT COLORED LIKE THAT
sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world 8 months ago
That is a rough looking 40.
eager_eagle@lemmy.world 8 months ago
40 on each leg
TheDarksteel94@sopuli.xyz 8 months ago
Damn, 120 years in total
Stalinwolf@lemmy.ca 8 months ago
That’s the Fart Monster 2k.
undergroundoverground@lemmy.world 8 months ago
He’s been telling that story for years
hesusingthespiritbomb@lemmy.world 8 months ago
That’s because the teenager who actually runs that account has no idea what 40 looks like.