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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The planet still belongs to the dinosaurs.⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Those lashes + whatever the fuck Disney and Looney Tunes were up to

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨i 💚 animals.⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  I don’t think your misunderstanding and/or crusty attitude qualifies as a failure on their part.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨2hot2handle⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Mansplaining is a type of dickishness. It is not a wholesale replacement, just a version thereof. You are outright refusing to allow for the refinement of an idea and I do not know why aside from somehow this specific level of detail is the line which you have decided is “dangerous”. Hell, you don’t even seem to be against the idea that there is a specifically male-on-female sexist dickishness but rather just hate that there is a term for it that people can use to more effectively communicate the idea.

  You don’t have a stance I could even make a strawman up for, you just hate that something has a name.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨2hot2handle⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  If you’ve already agreed that the person is sexist then people will just say that anyone doing it is sexist and you’ll complain that people are primed to say it and “false positives…” and all that.

  It sounds like you’ve felt personally hurt by this in the past less than there’s a good argument here.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Clueless sports fans⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  “Businesses exist to money people” after you tell them how a business exploited people or put their employees and/or customers in danger.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Who is the enemy?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  There is no worse designer than a German engineer.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨2hot2handle⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  The cure is not worse than the poison. And if you admit that it happens, and you also say we should call them misogynist if they’re doing it, then calling someone out for “mansplaining” is exactly that except for some reason you don’t like it.

  It’s giving “I’m fine with the protests I just don’t think they should block traffic or otherwise get in my way.”

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨2hot2handle⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  That’s a lot of words to say you don’t understand the difference. Not knowing something is fine, but fighting it like this is weird. You’re not helping anything with this comment and instead are basically trying to say that it’s not a problem enough to even talk about or understand. If you cannot handle this information that’s something to look inwardly at, not lash out at me for simply explaining what it is.

  Women feel talked down because they are women and they can see the exact same men treating other men differently. I regularly see this happen to them, too. Sometimes it’s a small accident and sometimes it’s very much on purpose and all of it is important to understand. I don’t know why you want to pretend like it doesn’t happen but it does either way.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨All while the skeletal, crumbling, dusty bones of an econ major pulls business backwards into hell.⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Had a friend who was, for whatever reason, in an ethics class where everyone else there was in business. Apparently the professor at one point told them outloud something to the effect of “oh my god, I have never seen a more unethical group of people”(heavily paraphrased, this was a decade ago).

  Good and bad exist everywhere, but certain programs do certainly attract greater numbers of good or bad people than others. “How to generate shareholder wealth and make yourself rich” is going to attact a certain type of person more than other types.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨All while the skeletal, crumbling, dusty bones of an econ major pulls business backwards into hell.⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  I wonder if their general incompetence at most things makes them desperate to be good at something that actually matters to the point that they feel the need to act smart about shit they don’t really understand. Especially when you think about the nature of their field and how horrible their peers are/also are it really starts to be a bad feedback loop. And then there’s the extra fun part about the kind of people that MBA programs attract in the first place.

  It must be awful, them constantly having to justify their existence as parasites. I’d feel bad for them if they didn’t cause huge amounts of damage at all levels while avoiding therapy.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨2hot2handle⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  I think you’re missing the point. It’s not that men need to treat women “equally”, it’s that the reason mansplaining happens is different to the reason that generic pedantry happens. They can happen at the same time, but the general idea is that mansplaining is pedantry with a boost of sexism, intentional or otherwise, not simply being pedantic to a woman. The difference is subtle, and luckily the solution of just not not being an ass to people solves both issues quite well but it’s still good to try identify how much of one or the other is present when you slip up so you can address the correct problem.

  Put it another way, you also shouldn’t be treating an old person like a baby when helping them with their phone, or a child like they’re stupid and couldn’t possibly know things a grown-up doesn’t. All of these are genderless examples of how disrespect can come from several angles at once and there is also the gendered scenario we call “mansplaining”.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨here there be lions⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  “Also, I will talk about how great I am but the women will do most of the work.”

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨2hot2handle⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  (New person here)

  The big issue is that we don’t see men being pedantic towards other men at nearly the same rate. Absolutely it happens, but there is definitely a problem with men not respecting women specifically.

  Part of it, I think, comes from social conditioning and it’s more of a reaction than anything on purpose when it comes to a large subset of the people doing it. Even still, it’s important to gender it at least sometimes to highlight why we might be doing it and to give us the correct thing to reflect on. I’ve done it before where I could say it to a man but I realized that I what I was saying or doing was fueled, at least in part, by some internalized misogyny. Knowing that has helped me get to it before I do something stupid.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨🦈🦈🦈⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Wow Twitter’s really does suck, huh?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Bring out the trumpets and pour out the beer⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Except why do private companies handle taxes at all. That’s not their business and the government should be able to handle it all themselves. Rake your smugness and shove it.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Yea it’s wild. Frickin’ love this stuff, especially when it’s all easy enough to learn and explain accurately enough for fun fact time.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Well, yea that. I know Hank Green likes to bring it up and he’s popular, and it’s come up with a bunch of other content creators, too. It’s fun, technically true, and enough people don’t know it yet so it’s great to bring up in the real world.

  Plus it’s super cool to explain how our eyes are built for the ocean and they had to get a special lens on top to fix it. Or how we carry the sea with us in the form of all this salty water. Or the whole swimbladder/lungs/guts thing relationship I mean they’re all quite fun, really.

  I also like explaining that octopuses are molluscs and, because we say that molluscs have one “foot”, it’d be more appropriate to say that octopuses are really just going around the world with eight funky toes and not eight arms.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Flight attendant union leaders ‘ready to go to jail’ as Canada declares strike illegal⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  The excuse is usually that whatever thing is too important for our economy, as with freight train conductors. But all that says is that the most important people also have the least labour protections and that’s fucked up.

  I really don’t know why the government is so involved with Air Canada, and they can go fuck themselves here ‘cause it ain’t their business. You can still fly domestically in Canada, it just costs a lot more because suddenly demand is the same and supply is massively down.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Misty Mountains⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Bro goes to the Misty Mountains ONE TIME and suddenly he’s from BC telling everyone “that’s not a real mountain” like get off your shit, Bilbo.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Help.⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  It’s not loneliness, it’s rugged individualism! It’s not anti-union/anti-community propaganda to keep the masses weak; I mean have you seen union dues?! /s

  But don’t worry, those same people who say shit like that are so desperate for community that they’ll never leave their hometown except for when their local far-right militia chapter goes out to harrass a protest or attack their country’s government for having a fair election.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Honda Zonda⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  The older one or the weird newer one that looked like the affordable sedan of supercars?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Charging to tour rental properties...⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  This is 100% worse, though. Both should come with being shot in the street as punishment but at least application fees is paying for something you want and not paying to see if you even want it at all.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Slurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrp⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  But what about yet another bright light in someone’s face? Do you not want another bright light in someone’s face? Everyone loves bright lights in someone’s face!

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Don't we all?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  You could flip the image but the thing about a spiral is that it’s the same no matter you turn it around in space.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨They're completely serious⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  They don’t have eight arms. If anything, they have eight crazy toes and one foot.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨🐎 = 🪲⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  Exactly.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨🐎 = 🪲⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  “Almost all” means that if you pull six-legged animals names outnof a hat you’re nearly guaranteed to find an insect. Doesn’t mean you can’t pull the non-insect first try, and doesn’t mean that centaurs must be insects.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨hubris go brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  Yup. They’re basically just wallets that burn slightly less money than they make and it’s all randomized because they have no real skill to direct any of it.

  And then they take home millions while the people they paid make rapidly less and less money the further down the chain you go. AI is just their way to make sure they don’t even need to really pay anyone else at all and to be able to convince people that they had an idea for the first time ever.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨hubris go brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  Executives and venture capitalists are among the dumbest among us. They have the kind of money that even failure can’t seem to erase fast enough and they’re basically just lottery winners that think they did all the hardwork themselves. Not really surprising that they think they have any useful skills or the ability to understand stuff way outside of their incredibly limited “skillset”.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨I asked for no sauce and got these instead⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  We really do need a “don’t hand shit out that people don’t ask for” law in the world in general. It’s such a waste for everyone involved.