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A waxer does not care what size your dick is and has no reason to tell anyone about it.
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Submitted 3 weeks ago by JBrady64@lemmy.world to [deleted]
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november@lemmy.vg 3 weeks ago
Lupus@feddit.org 3 weeks ago
For real. My father was a gynecologist and always said - “I need their file to remember their names, why would I remember their genitals?”
And from a business standpoint it would be very bad practice to talk about that stuff, if it comes out people are less likely to trust you.
db2@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
When did this turn in to 4chan greentext territory. 🙄
6nk06@sh.itjust.works 3 weeks ago
Can there be a female protagonist if a post is fake and gay?
Soup@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
If ya’ll were gunna date she’d find out pretty quick anyway, and if that’s a deal-breaker for her then you’re probably better off staying friends. And maybe her friend is a bro, or at least a professional, and didn’t say anything.
If you didn’t even want to date her at some point, then it really ain’t anything, ya know?
JBrady64@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
[deleted]Nomad@infosec.pub 3 weeks ago
Size doesn’t matter. I’m close friends with a dude dating in his 50s and his dick just doesn’t work like it used to after he had a heart attack. The women are usually very understanding and often like the challenge. Someone loving you for who you are wouldn’t even be bothered by something like that as long as it’s about love. And if she physically needs more sometimes, just buy a dildo to help her out. Nothing more or less as if she needs dirty talk. Just oblige and make her happy as she makes you happy.
Soup@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
I think just go about your business assuming her friend kept it on the down-low, and it doesn’t seem like it’s led to her treating you worse so all good. Nothing to be embarrassed about if you trust her to be a good person, which you seem to.
I get it, of course, it’s certainly a little awkward and not a position I would want to be in. I’ll bet the not knowing if she knows is probably worse than if you could know for sure she does, eh?
TwistyLex@discuss.tchncs.de 3 weeks ago
The size you describe isn’t small enough to merit being called small. It’s barely below the statistical mean.
What’s more is that waxers are well aware that growers exist, and (at least in my area) that’s mostly what they see. It wouldn’t even be cause for comment. The kinds of things they even bother telling each other about are like people who want fancy patterns waxed, or who have awful smelling active infections and have to be told to go get treated and come back. Occasionally they might talk about big tough guys who end up weeping like a baby (not just tears in the eyes, but bawling), or when they personally make mistakes.
At most your aesthetician told her that you got waxed and how she found out there was a connection. If your coworker bothered asking about your size she’d have gotten the usual response of, “who knows? You can never really tell during waxing because pain and fear of pain shrink things.”
Source: was married to an aesthetician for 10 years.
pepperprepper@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
As I get older, I learn that not giving a fuck a out what others think is a solid strategy. Not sure my OCD and ADD can ever fully let me do that, but I am trying.
Always a chance this was a perfect ice breaker to bring your relationship together. Even if it isn’t a love interest, just getting a chance to solidify a stronger human relationship is great for everyone.
And hey, if love interest does come out of it, you dont have to worry about downstairs anymore, she knows the inventory and still wanted to greet you with a smile.
BombOmOm@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Your cute coworker is greeting you with a huge smile. Almost no matter the cause, she is brightened by your presence which is something you should default to being a good thing.
Go have lunch with her and enjoy your day. Don’t stress over stuff you can’t change.
JBrady64@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
warbond@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
That’s a self-defeating attitude. Be careful with what you’re looking for, because you’re likely to find it. If you’re looking for reasons that she doesn’t like you, you’re going to find them!
TwistyLex@discuss.tchncs.de 3 weeks ago
More likely that she was smiling because now she knows you know her friend which means you have a shared outside connection.
Notyou@sopuli.xyz 3 weeks ago
Maybe she got excited thinking about how smooth you were. Either way, I would take it as a positive sign.