Come into my house with shoes on and you’ll be lucky to leave alive
France is a shoes off country. However during winter we have indoor slippers
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Come into my house with shoes on and you’ll be lucky to leave alive
France is a shoes off country. However during winter we have indoor slippers
As all the sane people do.
Living in Ohio (midwest U.S) its not entirely a yes or no and more of a “it depends”. Ive noticed older people assume shoes on but anyone under 40 will either ask or assume shoes off at the door. Theres also a layer of midwest nice to the whole exchange of not wanting to inconvenience the other person, so you get situations where a party will start with everyone wearing shoes, but end with everyone shoeless.
Hello shoes off gang, do you enjoy spreading your filthy mold spore colonies from other people’s feet to your floor where it can spread to everyone else? Because that’s how you spread athlete’s foot. Indoor slippers gang rise up
Oh, look at you. You have shoes AND slippers. Show off.
I will never let you in my home.
This is so incorrect it’s funny. Shoes off in UK? When everyone has fucking carpets?
I live in America.
If you don’t take your shoes off I bmu house my wife will scatter your dismembered body across the hillside for the animals to feed on.
The US one should be stripped, it varies state to state
Striped, yeah
I prefer the other spelling
Buncha weirdoes ITT. As soon as I get in the door, my house or yours, you can bet I’m stripping down to *just *my shoes and nothing else.
Fuck society and their oppressive insistence on wearing “pants”.
Pants are OP
I gotta say it’s one of the benefits of kids being at college - everything constricting comes off as I walk in the door. You might not want to make a surprise visit unless you’re ok with seeing me in my underwear
Walks into living room naked, members of the ladies bridge club look up in dismay.
Only barbarians wear shoes in their own homes.
Shit, even wearing shoes in an office job can be kinda sus.
I work in a cubical, and I take my shoes off before putting my feet under the desk. If it was more accepted I’d take them off outside my cube, but, I live in a country that likes shoes on.
See, you get it
SAME HERE
I often take my shoes off as soon as I can be where nobody will notice them. Under my desk is a no shoes zone.
The IT guys putting you pc equipment together hate you.
I once had dedicated office slippers under my desk
I’m also team office slippers. They’re so snuggly!
shoes off in the office??
Oh yeah, I’ve worked in a bunch of offices where the policy was to leave shoes at the door, or to change into office slippers etc. It’s not all that uncommon in Helsinki; keeps the place clean in the months when the streets are full of slush and grime
Back when I went to an office every day, I usually wore loafers. Easy to slip off and on under your desk without drawing lots of attention.
Ain’t no way I’m taking my shoes off in the office unless I know for a fact that the floor is clean AF.
That’d be the point, yeah
I would never make such a demand of a guest in my home. They are my guest and I will feed them and clean up after.
Don’t need a doormat when you are one I guess
Shoes off is both nicer and keeps the house cleaner. My family has always been on this side of things, except the folk in the Midwest, so I don’t care if this gets me on a lair somewhere. What? Are gonna send ice to deport me?
Can you prove your citizenship?
Not if we get him when he’s returning from a grocery run.
It seems the whole world got together to say “Fuck the Colorblind”
What a shit graph
How is it ok lie on a white coach with your muddy shoes is completely beyond me.
the rules are different when you’re rick james, bitch
Fuck yo couch!
Got dogs , humans take shoes off but irrelevant compared to dirt dogs track in
You remember that one time you walked your dog into that real nice gas station bathroom?
It’s not just about dirt
Gas station bathroom? how about the bushes behind the gas station? Also, are the dogs allowed in bed or lick peoples faces?
Map is just bullshit. Wrong for france
In what backwards and uncultured shithole do you have shoes on in the house? That’s filthy.
See map
The map is wildly simplistic, as usual for these Internet takes lol.
In Portugal, for example (where I come from), I don’t know anyone that keeps their shoes in-doors 95% the time. If you’re doing some quick work or holding an event, people might be a bit more lack about taking off your shoes, but I (and many my friends) always make an effort to take some kind of home footware when visiting other people’s homes. As a general rule? Everyone puts some socks/sleepers/flipflops on.
I’m weirdly conflict conflicted, I mean we are on the map, but it is incorrect.
But most kiwis are shoes off in the house.
I am surprised to see some continental Europe here. I know it is different in Ireland and their floors look it.
I prefer shoes off, but I have dogs that track so much dirt and filth in so what’s the point 😭
If you don’t already have a mudroom then designate a room as the mudroom.
For us that is the kitchen. The dog goes right to the kitchen which is cleaned daily. Only after the dog sits around and it falls off do we let the dog into the rest of the house.
It makes a very nice buffer.
Wipe their paws off at the door. Your dogs will thank you.
Shoes off inside the house is only really useful when one has shoes on, when outside.
Get your dogs some shoes.
Shoes on is just gross and disgusting.
Whoever says Greece is shoes on, I’ll spit in their coffee.
tbf, greece is so small that I can’t see on this map.
Why is the US shoes on? So not the norm anywhere I’ve lived.
I assumed “shoes off” meant “you take off your shoes before entering the house.” Never been required to do that but I’m usually expected to take them off soon after.
Oh that’s an interesting interpretation
I’ve read this on the internet many times. I’m not sure who those barbarians are but it’s clear the internet believes the US is shoes on.
My experience is the opposite although I second the motion of whether it’s regional. The part of my family from the Midwest are “those people”
From my experience living in the midwest older people tend to assume shoes on is okay while younger folks either ask what is preferred or assume they should take them off. The entire exchange at the door is very midwest of not wanting to be rude or inconvenience the other person.
It’s been kind of a split for me.
Growing up -
The old WW2 vet neighbor? Shoes left on.
The nice Vietnamese family? Shoes off.
The guy with three poodles? Shoes left on.
The cool vegan family who adopted? Shoes off.
The woman who collected like a dozen cats who was a hoarder? Shoes optional. But I kept my shoes on because ewww.
Majority counts I suppose. Would be interesting to see if it is different per state though.
As with most things. If America does it one way, then it’s probably the wrong way.
Wearing shoes in the house is psychopath behavior
Was recently discussing with someone that it’s really weird that, on the internet, Britain is repeatedly labelled a “shoes on indoors” society, because nobody we know has shoes on indoors. Britain is a wet and muddy country.
Does anyone here do shoes on indoors? Where are you all from?
I’ve seen both in the UK. Personally, I’m a shoes off guy. Means less cleaning needed.
Me, in Italy it’s both, in 90% of the cases the situation is like:
You get in, remove the shoes and go barefoot/with slippers, if it’s like a party, festivity etc etc, usually no one cares to get off the shoes
There’s obviously no need for durable footwear when your whole country is a boot.
Living in Italy, both Rome and North, the floors are cold in the winter. We wear slippers at home and tell guests to keep their shoes on until spring.
UK too, shoes off too, have never lived anywhere where shoes on indoors was a common thing
The only reason I can think is that underfloor heating is relatively rare here and if you’ve got hard floors it’ll be cold to walk on, but then slippers exist so idk really
Grew up in the UK, in a “shoes on” household. We just gave them a good scrape on the doormat when coming inside.
Since then, I’ve lived in a few different countries and am 100% converted to the shoes off way of being. I agree it’s much better.
Weird. I also grew up in the UK, and I’m in my 50s now, it’s always been shoes off in my and my family’s houses. Unless it was a quick visit.
Same goes for my friend’s houses.
I’ve worked in the other people’s houses for well over 30 years in different capacities, from ‘clean’ jobs such as surveying to the more physical jobs of handyman, plastering etc. And a high percentage of the time it was shoes off as well.
Or separate clean shoes for inside.
Basically it’s easier to change my shoes than it is to clean a carpet or floor after I have trampled dirt around.
Ok, yeah, you’d get people say “don’t bother about your shoes” if I was only doing a survey, but I took them off anyways.
The only time I wouldn’t remove my shoes is if the houses were cleaner outside than inside, but that hardly ever happened.
If I had to guess I would say that in all the thousands and thousands of houses I’ve visited in the UK that 90% were shoes off.
It might be in including having slippers or “indoor shoes”. Nigeria is there as a shoes on, but from my understanding, its only slippers/flip flops specificly for indoors, that are normal.
No, in “shoes off” countries it is very normal to wear slippers or other kinds of indoor footwear, so it wouldn’t make any sense to count those as “shoes on”.
Same for Japan. No chance they’re wearing full hiking boots or sneakers inside the house in Japan - the shoe cabinet is built in right next to the front door of houses, tiny apartments, temples, many restaurants, etc.
Canada is labelled as shoes off but we also have slippers.
Although not sure about Nigeria, are slippers and flip flops like expected to be worn or just available?
For me I have slippers which are worn often but it’s not expected that anyone inside wear them. Most people just wear socks if they come to visit. And myself I go barefoot unless my feet get cold then I grab the slippers.
I reckon it depends on how warm someone’s home is and how good their circulation is. If I don’t have shoes on indoors, then for half the year it feels like my feet have been stabbed because they get so cold (slippers are not enough), but I don’t wear the same shoes indoors as outdoors. I suspect that if we set the heating higher and the house wasn’t constructed in a way that makes the floor always much colder than a few inches above the floor, this wouldn’t be a problem.
That’s interesting, I hqve a different experience - i used to have horrible foot circulation as a kid but i got into the habit of never wearing socks in my house (don’t like the texture, enjoy feeling air on feet and them being cooler) and i haven’t had the bad foot circulation since then… as far as i can tell. I have been wearing them for this winter though.
The same in NZ. Is this that you never ever wear shoes on inside?
Is it acceptable to walk into your own house and walk around with shoes on? Sure.
Do most people do that most of the time? In my experience, people will be shoes off in their own home most of the time, but it’s not some big taboo to keep them on if you’re popping in to grab something.
Yeah I’m US and my parents were always at least annoyed if we wore our shoes further into the house than right by the door.
Same for the U.S. Sometimes downstairs or in common areas for guests.
I have no idea why anyone would want to wear shoes in the house.
It’s so constricting and unnecessary. Do y’all not clean your floors? Do you feel like your floors are gross and shouldn’t be touching your bare feet?
When you lay on the couch do you need to take your shoes off and then put them back on when you get up to go make a snack in the kitchen?
Makes zero sense to me
what kind of monster wears shoes in the house
I switch to slippers when inside.
What does that count as?
UK is shoes ON. Canada definitely shoes OFF. US is shoes ON, drives me nuts seeing tv show characters hop on the BED with shoes on. 😡😡😡
I am Australian and we are a shoes off household - don’t care if you wanna have shoes on in the house but why would you wanna wear shoes in the house?
We barely wear shoes in public let alone in the house - shoes are just foot prisons, barefoot is best
In The Netherlands, within my social circles, it’s mostly seen as overly informal and quite intimate to take off your shoes.
You can do it at friends, but certainly not by default at acquaintances (unless they ask), as it might even be a little disrespectful considering taking off your shoes could smell a bit after some hours. Like you force your bodily odours or sweaty feet on to someone’s house.
I totally get the opposite and am noticing a slow shift (also in my own house) to dropping the shoes. But it’s interesting to see that both stances are based on some form of respect, and perhaps also some pragmatism on our side.
im not trying to be negative, im happy for anyone enjoying this post. but i do feel compelled to comment that i find it hilarious that we are out here discussing, and dare i say “arguing” about this topic in particular. thank you all, good day.
UK shoes on? Not a chance! I’ve never met a person who is a shoes on person. Unless you count indoor slippers as shoes…
Do shoes on people immediately put on shoes as soon as they wake up or something? I don’t even put on socks!
DriftingLynx@lemmy.ca 29 minutes ago
Shoes on is fine… if you live in a barn.