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Congratulations, you can be a woman anon
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Submitted 2 months ago by Samdell@lemmy.eco.br to greentext@sh.itjust.works
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2xsaiko@discuss.tchncs.de 2 months ago
NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 2 months ago
I want this guy to be a woman so I can explain stuff he already knows to him at length.
Generic_Idiot@lemm.ee 2 months ago
I’d like to be a woman for a day just to try out their orgasms. They seem fun. My wife’s eyes roll in the back of her head and she’s mentally disabled for a minute when she cums.
Mine is kinda like a sneeze.
Zenith@lemm.ee 2 months ago
If you only had 24 hours to figure it out you’d probably not be able to get there, it might be a better orgasm but they’re much harder to achieve
frezik@midwest.social 2 months ago
Legal weed ended up being the shortcut for me. My wife sometimes has to checkin after a good weed orgasm to make sure I’m alright.
Though I was actively working on being multiply orgasmic for several years before.
sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Hopefully it’s a good sneeze.
Generic_Idiot@lemm.ee 2 months ago
Hahaha it’s a great 15-30 seconds for sure.
RBWells@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I have a trans son, and this is on the list of side effects if they use T, the loss of female sexual response. Though it’s my understanding that testosterone drives libido in women too, I guess it’s a dosage thing.
To be honest, mine vary in intensity but yeah the most intense are sort of like going crazy for a short while, can’t form words.
southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Damn. Not gay, but probably fake
NakariLexfortaine@lemm.ee 2 months ago
I mean, could still be gay.
Depends on how the OOP swings.
southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
True, true.
glorkon@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I would love to be an attractive woman. It would be like an all you can f*** buffet. I’m an ugly dude who has to work extremely hard to get laid. I dream of being sexually attractive. However, I really really would not wish to be trans. I simply don’t have the courage to face the backlash of all the bigoted backwards losers who hate on them. That’s why I absolutely admire and support trans people because unfortunately (and also somewhat ironically), in our day and age, it still takes a lot of balls to be trans.
Manticore@lemmy.nz 2 months ago
I’m reminded of someone I know. He felt something similar for a long time. Ultimately he co clouded that, for him, what he really wanted was to feel attractive and desirable. And he’d concludes that only women could have that. And was wondering that wanting to feel beautiful meant he wanted to be a woman.
After some time around sex-positive people, he had experiences that helped him feel desirable and attractive as a man. He realised that was what he actually wanted, and he’d just been taught beauty was a women-thing.
Maybe that rings true for you, too. Maybe all you really want is to feel beautiful, wanted, desired. Maybe want you dislike isn’t your gender, but the role society has assigned you for it.
Only you can really figure that out. I just wondered if my friends story would mean something to you… Being trans is a valid answer, but it isn’t the right one for everybody.
glorkon@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Absolutely, and I am aware of that - it’s really the case with me. I do not dislike being male. I just dislike being ugly - not many people can claim to have spent 20 years as an involuntary celibate like me. I’m almost 50 and it just feels like so much wasted time. Wasted youth, really.
Going trans wouldn’t solve the problem at all. Nothing will solve the problem, to be honest. I have accepted my fate.
Zenith@lemm.ee 2 months ago
It’s only a “fuck buffet” if you have zero standards and are willing to possibly be raped, beat, strangled etc. finding a man who’s a good person, good in bed, safe, single and trustworthy isn’t actually easy… I think it’s so bizarre when men talk about women and sex like this, like sure if having sex and potentially risking your life with random provably ugly scary people is your thing I guess it would be nice…
10001110101@lemm.ee 2 months ago
For me (also as a not-so-attractive male, IMO), it’s not the yearning for getting laid so much as the being in a loving relationship (masturbating is enough to calm my sex drive down). Thankfully, I’ve been in a very long-term relationship (~10 years). I remember it was literally driving me crazy being so emotionally isolated. I think a lot of people, woman and men, regardless of their sexual activity, have the same problems of isolation.
glorkon@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Well, for me it really is the overwhelming desire of being found physically attractive by someone. Anyone. So relationships or one night stands, doesn’t really matter.
It’s literally an insane thought to me that even average looking girls don’t have a hard time attracting members of the opposite sex. But for me, any time I approached a girl, I got hit hard by rejection and humiliation. And now that I’m older, most women are married or in long-term relationships anyway, so things have become even more impossible. It’s become so ridiculous that the mere thought of being found desirable is a sexual turn on for me so I find myself imagining to be the woman when watching porn, even though I’m not attracted to men at all.
Samdell@lemmy.eco.br 2 months ago
[deleted]glorkon@lemmy.world 2 months ago
But if a genie were to give me three wishes, becoming a super hot 18 year old girl would be on the list.
glorkon@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Well, an ugly dude like me going trans would result in an ugly trans person, not an attractive woman, so there’s that.
MountingSuspicion@reddthat.com 2 months ago
Are you gay? Your comment lower in this thread seem to indicate you are attracted to women. An attractive woman might be able to fuck a lot of men, but if you’re not gay I don’t know why you’d deem that outcome as desirable.
sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
If OP was gay, wouldn’t gay men be the ideal, but also untouchable? I assume being with a straight man as a gay man isn’t ideal.
The only way this makes sense is if OP is bi or the attraction gets switched upon becoming female.
Rachelhazideas@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Not sure what being sexually attractive has to do with specifically being a woman as opposed to being a man.
I think that severely discounts the internal experiences of what trans people go through and the reasons why they transition.
insaneinthemembrane@lemmy.world 2 months ago
It might look great from the outside and there is some privilege there, but she is a targeted group and life can be very scary and hard for her.
angrystego@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I also want to be a woman and don’t have dysphoria - it’s pretty common.
zzffyfajzkzhnsweqm@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Quite common. Most women wish to be women and do not have dysphoria.
MossyFeathers@pawb.social 2 months ago
That’s… actually a form of dysphoria. I can attest from first-hand experience, wishing you were a woman is a form of dysphoria. You don’t have to feel sad to be dysphoric, having a somewhat persistent desire to be seen as a different gender is enough.
Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
Eh I’ve never had dysphoria (I’ve always loved my body) but ever since I learned that my bits are different from some other peoples’, I’ve wanted so much to be able to switch back and forth, to experience both kinds!
Sc00ter@lemm.ee 2 months ago
I think your edit covers it. Thats the joke
LwL@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Dysphoria by definition is about feeling bad (wikipedia calls it “a profound sense of unease”, which seems pretty apt). It’s the opposite of euphoria after all.
You can be trans without gender dysphoria though, nothing wrong with that.
Owlboi@lemm.ee 2 months ago
thats just not what dysphoria is.
dysphoria is a sense of unease and discomfort with ones own self. its a mental disorder. wishing you were a girl does not mean you have dysphoria.
vga@sopuli.xyz 2 months ago
I don’t think the desire to be seen as a woman and the desire to be a woman are congruous
TheBat@lemmy.world 2 months ago
wishing you were a woman is a form of dysphoria.
And wishing I was anywhen else than now is a form of?
dangling_cat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
Feeling euphoria about being another gender is a sign of TGNC (transgender and gender non-conforming).
angrystego@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I’m exactly what I want to be. And it’s not another gender, I want to be a woman.
rtxn@lemmy.world 2 months ago
The artist is bbmasa on Pixiv: www.pixiv.net/en/users/27414306
Slightly NSFW, some cartoon nudity but nothing explicit.
TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
do you have photographic memory on everything or just porn?
rtxn@lemmy.world 2 months ago
This artist just happens to use a distinctive watercolor style.
starman2112@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Could be like me, with an insatiable need to find the source of any artwork they find
They beat me by like 2 minutes
trslim@pawb.social 2 months ago
I really wish that i had like Mystiques ability to just change my sex and looks at will. Maybe one day i wanna be a man, and another a woman.
FearMeAndDecay@literature.cafe 2 months ago
Same! I like being a woman, and I’m pretty comfortable in my body but… if i could change my sex at will that would be so great for dressing up. Like sometimes I think it’d be cool to be a big barbarian man with like a bare chest and body paint. Or I could wear a really sharp suit
ILoveUnions@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Definitely a vibe.
Wutchilli@feddit.org 2 months ago
Yeah, that would be nice.
Kolanaki@pawb.social 2 months ago
I don’t see this being mutually exclusive.
0laura@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
need a /tttt/ community on Lemmy, but it’s so transphobic it’d get banned from any instance :(
need to make an instance that allows trans people to be transphobic
dangling_cat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
To get in you have to submit a bottle of estrogen/testosterone along with your username
TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
match@pawb.social 2 months ago
nonmedical transitioners not allowed ig
SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
Need video proof of usage. Anybody can just buy some.
Walk_blesseD@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
A community like that belongs in containment, which is kinda antithetical to the whole fediverse thing. Maybe it could be run as a local-only community on its own instance…? Idk
Kaboom@reddthat.com 2 months ago
Trans movement is big pharma trying to pay you 70 cents on the dollar
throwawayacc0430@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
I’m a cisgender male and I kinda wanna reincarnate with a female body but keep my memories, then every like 30-40 years reincarnate again and mix it up. For funsies you know…
Like I don’t want to transition, because then people will always view you differently. I want to like just magically shapeshift into a differnt gender to roleplay life differently.
Or perhaps even try out reincarnating as a cat, or dog.
Or those birds that fly around and harass humans as seen on some youtube videos.
lowered_lifted@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
I felt the same way and then I tried estrogen and it is really cool so far. I highly suggest that everybody who is curious do so if they can because you might as well find out, and the effects are totally reversible if you don’t stick with it for months or even years
Flax_vert@feddit.uk 2 months ago
Do not take medicine without advice from a medical practitioner.
FuckFascism@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Can still have spartan butt sex though?
FundMECFSResearch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
Fuck Transmedicalism. Being trans is not a mental illness.
laserm@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Me
drunkpostdisaster@lemmy.world 2 months ago
[deleted]Reddfugee42@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Talk to more women. I mean, just watch videos where men wear period cramp simulators. Just the tip of the iceberg. It seems to me that basically all of their systems are higher maintenance. Meanwhile men are naturally more muscular, have stronger bones, and don’t really have to worry about shit.
Pnut@lemm.ee 2 months ago
That’s a weird take. See: periods, childbirth, and the massive amount of hormones involved. Then there’s society…
Nefara@lemmy.world 2 months ago
It’s pretty common to wish to be a woman and not have gender dysphoria. I’d bet something like half of all humans experience this.
Noodle07@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Besides the menstruations I’m sure I would enjoy being a girl. I’m a cis dude
Kellenved@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
You can pretend to be a woman sometimes, as a treat