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- Comment on Perfection 1 day ago:
I thought that for a little while, but there’s no way that type of flooring, wall, millwork, or lack of drainage could be that. Plus, it doesn’t look like there’s ANY space between the wall on the far right and the counter. I could be wrong, but at BEST that’s basically a utility sink in a weird location.
- Comment on "Transfer failed because it did" 🤦🏻 1 day ago:
Yeah I read some more comments and that seems to be the issue people are taking. I guess maybe I just don’t expect anything better or even useful from an operating system. Maybe that could be from a lifetime of Windows usage.
- Comment on Sit back down and let's play 1 day ago:
I used to have one of those round chairs, iirc, they were cheap crap, sold as the back to school furniture. I think mine ended up breaking or falling apart in some way.
A lot has gotten better since then. A LOOOOOT.
But there’s also a lot of good we lost along the way…
If you asked me if I’d trade now for then, I don’t know if I could answer that question absolutely. Maybe there was a time between then and now that would be the best of both, but 2002 vs 2026? That’s a toughie. Maybe 2016 or 2015. But even then, there was some serious shittiness.
- Comment on "Transfer failed because it did" 🤦🏻 1 day ago:
Not the best error message, but it makes perfect sense to me:
File tried to transfer, this is where it tried to go, and it failed.
Unless I’m missing something?
- Comment on Perfection 1 day ago:
Yeah I was looking at that, trying to figure out what was going on there. Maybe some sort of loft or something? The water heater is definitely mounted sideways because of that. But then I’m like, “why didn’t they just put the water heater on the ground under the stairs?” and nothing made sense and I realized I needed to go outside and perhaps buy food or socialize, rather than get lost in…waves hand at picture whatever it is that’s going on there. It’s upsetting, but… Not today, internet!
- Comment on Martha Stewart's actual Halloween costume 1 day ago:
Sometimes it takes a good shakeup to see how fucked up everything that you’ve been putting up with has been. Really makes you look back and go oh god. The me too movement was/is that for a lot of people - for others, apparently it just went over their heads.
- Comment on Martha Stewart's actual Halloween costume 1 day ago:
Yup, he’s a massive piece of shit.
- Comment on Martha Stewart's actual Halloween costume 1 day ago:
Woah, what now? What is this and how do I get it?
- Comment on Perfection 2 days ago:
My imagination is telling me it’s an apartment with all single room studios that you access each room via trapdoor and you’re actually just living in a furnished pit.
- Comment on Perfection 2 days ago:
The electrical on the water heater looks temporary
What is that white cable or pipe leading to the toilet from the tank
I thought it could be for wheelchair access, but then there’s the sketchy looking stairs behind the… Wood… Fence… and the… Transparent cloth wall???
Why does the brown cow pattern fit the little cutout for the toilet in the rug
Why is there a giant cabinet under that counter, but it also still looks inaccessible
What is that giant sink against the wall in the mirror
- Comment on Perfection 2 days ago:
Wtf even is that room
- Comment on Is time up for backyard fireworks? UK ministers weigh partial ban over noise concerns 2 days ago:
Yes, it is time for backyard fireworks.
- Comment on Why do cops still ask for registration during traffic stop? 3 days ago:
I wonder how much of the shitty societal problems are just rich people passing fear and purity to try to avoid paying taxes
- Comment on Anyone else reckon Bethesda will go the way of Bioware? 4 days ago:
I probably should’ve marked that with /s
- Comment on Anyone else reckon Bethesda will go the way of Bioware? 4 days ago:
Not unless they’re owned by Microsoft
- Comment on Long live my IUD: unlimited creampies and no more periods 4 days ago:
Ah I got a notification with your message on my phone and my first, next, and last impression is PLEASE
- Comment on Long live my IUD: unlimited creampies and no more periods 4 days ago:
Slightly valid humblebrag
- Comment on The myth of "consensual" choking 4 days ago:
Disagree.
Some people are into that.
- Comment on Mass Effect 5 studio was reportedly told to tone down inclusivity by EA after Saudi Arabia buyout, former BioWare dev alleges, "so as to not cause offense" 5 days ago:
Don’t offend the people you’re including
- Comment on Don't stop until you hit the saturation point! 6 days ago:
😡
- Comment on Is it "Their name is Trevor," or "Their names are Trevor" if you know 2 Trevors? 1 week ago:
I’m upset.
- Comment on Is it "Their name is Trevor," or "Their names are Trevor" if you know 2 Trevors? 1 week ago:
This is the one grammatically acceptable time to use Thar
- Comment on Goo 1 week ago:
The world is trying to heal
- Comment on Sean Connery in 1964 (on the set of Goldfinger) and Thomas Brodie-Sangster in 2024. Both age 34 in their respective photos. 1 week ago:
How are even Connery’s earlobes masculine?
- Comment on My friends are really curious if the dad and son I’m dating have similar sized dicks 1 week ago:
Yeah sorry bit of tmi, it’s been a weird day
- Comment on My friends are really curious if the dad and son I’m dating have similar sized dicks 1 week ago:
Love triangle is different, and usually context is competitive non-dating and usually in a monogamous context.
A “love triangle” is different from a “triangle”.
A love triangle is what we see in movies from Hollywood, most commonly with two guys fighting over winning a girl or something.
A triangle, when it comes to ENM, is when all three people sleep together.
Whereas a triad (ENM term, again) would be like three people (persons A, B, and C), all living alone. Look at the arrows in the picture, those are the relationships. A and B are in a relationship, but all three are not in a relationship.
The way to think about it is, with three people in a triad, there are only three relationships. With a triangle (or another shape where everybody’s in a relationship, like a quad) you add an extra relationship count for the group itself. So for a triangle (or whatever people want to call it if they want to differentiate) where it is threesomes and they all travel as a pack, there are four relationships: each couple and the group itself.
And to make it more complicated, the shapes aren’t necessarily closed: some or all of them can have other relationships, sometimes even different types, too. Like three people living and in a group relationship, and person A is simultaneously in a different trianlge or triad, and person C might have basically just a fuck buddy, or even just a cuddle partner, like if that cuddle partner has really really similar high compatibility emotionally but not sexually.
ENM is great.
- Comment on Why DDG is the superior serch engine 2 weeks ago:
244,837,834,977,280
- Comment on Let us end the stovetop war with the real chanp 2 weeks ago:
What?
- Comment on Let us end the stovetop war with the real chanp 2 weeks ago:
Those red hot things are incandescing, like old light bulbs. Except with heating elements, they’re designed to primarily give off heat when they incandesce, rather than prioritize light.
- Comment on Let us end the stovetop war with the real chanp 2 weeks ago:
I bet if you made the induction coils stronger, it could work on aluminum