Rachelhazideas
@Rachelhazideas@lemmy.world
- Comment on Anon puts himself out there 21 hours ago:
Because men don’t have a strong enough social support system to have cathartic talks about their emotions. Because women aren’t willing to disproportionately shoulder emotional labor anymore.
The patriarchy hurts everyone. Normalize discussing mental health among men. Don’t let stigma stop you from telling your friends from how much they mean to you and how you’re here if they need to talk.
- Comment on Seems a sensible precaution 1 day ago:
40% of Mormon missionaries leave their church after their missions.
Don’t turn them away. Talk to them with kindness and compassion, and understand that they grew up as victims of a cult. Show them there is so much more to the world than the what the LDS church tells them.
- Comment on HELP HIM. 5 days ago:
Yes, rat experimentation is the cornerstone of modern medicone, but that doesn’t make it any less fucked up.
Something can be equally good for people yet completely inhumane. It doesn’t cancel each other out.
Do I think we should stop experimenting on rats? Absolutely not. But we can try to at least improve the general well-being of these rats and stop deliberately torture them. Peopes have done sleep deprivation experiments where a rat is forced to stay awake or fall in the water and start to drown.
- Comment on HELP HIM. 6 days ago:
The fucked up part are the experiments, not the euthanasia.
Rats have to be killed because we don’t know if they will continue to suffer after the painful experiments done on them. They can’t be let out either because it can harm the general rat population. Companies don’t give enough of a shit about keeping rats alive in rat retirement homes either.
- Comment on Magic Rocks 1 week ago:
Walk? In this suburban hell?
- Comment on Y'ALL GOT ANY OF THEM HALLOPINERS 1 week ago:
Smh can’t even spell gellapinnose right.
- Comment on She's a keeper 2 weeks ago:
Nope. Just reading with basic comprehension:
Once us guys hit our 40s we just disappear into the hedges like homer, just part of the background.
The context of which was that women don’t experience this because OP was making the claim that young women can ‘have their pick of men’ when ever they want.
- Comment on She's a keeper 2 weeks ago:
Ironic that you complain about men disappearing in their 40s when this happens so pervasively to women it’s called Invisible Woman Syndrome.
Aging out of societal relevance is hard for everyone. Let’s not pretend that this is a uniquely male thing, especially when women are pressured to conceal their aging to a far greater degree.
- Comment on bank circuit water 3 weeks ago:
Why are there so many mastercard ads on lemmy lately?
Someone needs to go prune the astroturf.
- Comment on I 🖤 LaTeX 3 weeks ago:
Weird how this meme format is always ‘man nerd’ and ‘woman normal’.
- Comment on [deleted] 3 weeks ago:
Imagine any other medical condition where a person’s appearance is drastically altered but not severely detrimental to their health, conditions like massive benign tumors, skin conditions like psoriasis, alopecia, etc
We wouldn’t question them if they wanted it fixed due to body dysmorphia or dysphoria because as fellow humans we can understand what is like to have a drastic unwanted change to your own body that you did not agree to.
Remember that puberty too, is a drastic change to ones body. Imagine if you had gone through puberty expecting to be fine, and then you go through the sensory torture of developing features on your body that you do not want. Imagine waking up the next day with the body of the opposite gender, except this is what it’s like every day for the rest of your life. You might personally be okay with this, but for many, the internal experience of having a mismatched brain and biological sex is unbearable.
- Comment on [deleted] 3 weeks ago:
It’s because gender presentation is only one component of it, and the other is biochemistry.
Trans people experience dysphoria partly because their bodies do not produce the amount of sex hormones (progestogens we, androgens, and estrogens) at a ratio that matches what their brain needs. It’s like putting gas into a diesel engine. Their brain expects their body to develop in a certain way, and it does not.
- Comment on [deleted] 3 weeks ago:
Why are we redefining someone else’s gender for them instead of redefining what it means to be a man? Normalize make up and ‘girl clothes’ for men. Normalize looking pretty for men. Regardless if someone declares themselves trans or cis, believe them.
- Comment on BRB, Eating Pierogi with the penguins 4 weeks ago:
Woah no need to get Pol-itical about it.
- Comment on Have a good trip 5 weeks ago:
Don’t let the patriarchy stop you. Assert your dominance and piss anywhere, anytime, even with your pants on.
- Comment on Welcome to petty lane 5 weeks ago:
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The phone is clearly mounted on the dashboard.
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It’s not uncommon for people to record their whole trip for social media, not just take to a picture.
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This caption could have been pasted over a completely unrelated screenshot of someone else’s video for all we know.
Don’t touch your phone while driving, but also, don’t believe everything you see on social media.
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- Comment on PSA for those in America 1 month ago:
It’s always ‘don’t be a karen and call the cops on illegal fire works’ followed by ‘why the fuck did you not call the cops on the illegal fireworks’ after house fires break out.
I’d like to remind everyone that fireworks are an explosive. Want to know how dangerous fireworks are? Ask ER staff what kind of injuries they see the most on 4th of July.
- Comment on Geneticists 1 month ago:
Too soon for this meme format.
For those who don’t know, the woman petting the fox committed suicide a few days ago. She had ran a fox rescue farm and saved 4000 foxes, many of which were rescued from being bred for fur in inhumane conditions.
She passed away after years of harassment and accusations of abuse for ‘not doing enough’. Redditors were piling on her in a hate sub and that was one of the final nails in the coffin. People criticized her for not hiring more staff to help or expanding her operations.
This was her life’s work. She was autistic, and funneled every bit of dedication into saving as many as she could. She had a special bond with her foxes and a way of speaking to them that brings out their giggles. Not everyone can do that, and with Mikaela’s passing, her foxes will now have to make it through without her.
- Comment on Lamp. 1 month ago:
I too, take it as a personal affront that there are grown adults who are not American.
- Comment on Call me an uber 1 month ago:
Girl boring guy quirky.
- Comment on :-) 1 month ago:
Funny how often childbirth is brought up to describe how much more painful something else is, usually by people who have never given births themselves.
- Comment on THIS always annoys me. 1 month ago:
Never donate at the cash register. It’s a tax deduction scam.
Donate to a real non-profit instead of blood sucking corporations.
- Comment on Caption this. 2 months ago:
What a migraine feels like.
- Comment on They don't get it. They think we are A holes. And they are right 2 months ago:
Average day of being a woman on Lemmy and feeling excluded and alienated.
- Comment on [deleted] 2 months ago:
Not sure what being sexually attractive has to do with specifically being a woman as opposed to being a man.
I think that severely discounts the internal experiences of what trans people go through and the reasons why they transition.
- Comment on You mean it gets worse? 2 months ago:
Fuck all the adults who say this to kids with less privileged childhoods.
- Comment on science never ends 2 months ago:
Good science doesn’t get things wrong. Bad science gets things wrong all the time. No scientist is immune to implicit bias and implicit bias is frequently the cause of bad science.
eGFR estimation errors in African Americans is a prime example of that.
- Comment on If it ain’t broke… 2 months ago:
Girl boring guy quirky.
- Comment on Viva la Revolucion (becomes cancer) 2 months ago:
Autoimmune diseases: ‘off with her head!’
- Comment on Can confirm 2 months ago:
That’s where I draw the line too. It’s unnatural and people shouldn’t go into bathrooms with 1cm gaps in their doors.