She's probably going to need a good lay after that one.
I can fix her
Submitted 2 months ago by Ek-Hou-Van-Braai@piefed.social to [deleted]
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SatansMaggotyCumFart@piefed.world 2 months ago
onslaught545@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
As if she didn’t get laid in the psych ward.
toomanypancakes@piefed.world 2 months ago
There's not generally a bounty of desirable dick in the psych ward, trust me
TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Orderlies don’t count. It’s like being on vacation.
SatansMaggotyCumFart@piefed.world 2 months ago
Maybe but she'll need one after too.
OhStopYellingAtMe@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I once dated a girl for a while but we stopped dating because she was just too BPD for me to handle. The passion & sex were great, but the mood swings, lies, paranoia, etc. were just too much.
We remained friends though for a very long time. Went out separate ways but were always in touch. Eventually she got into drugs & dating real bad dudes, and I tried to get her to get a grip and stop the drugs & ruining her life. She ghosted me. Eventually she responded (or rather her boyfriend did) that she was in a psych ward for rehab. Or friendship resumed when she got out.
A year later she died. I met her family at the funeral, befriended them. One day I mentioned her psych ward stay. Her mom said she was never in a psych ward. Her mom pulled up texts on her phone from the date range when she allegedly was in the ward.
The whole thing was a sham. She told me she was in the psych ward / rehab to get me off her back. The txt from her bf was just her.
I miss my friend dearly, but finding that out broke my heart.
PlantDadManGuy@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I’m sorry she couldn’t accept your help. You have to forgive yourself. Some people cannot be saved.
96VXb9ktTjFnRi@feddit.nl 2 months ago
Working as a nurse in acute psychiatric care, I can tell you the comparative normality of non-psychiatric patients is easily overestimated. No need to stigmatize those in need of little help now and then. We all do.
IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 2 months ago
aww, you with in a cute psychiatric care
OhStopYellingAtMe@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Girls with grippy socks give the best blowjobs.
Apytele@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Men love BPD chicks because we’ll be obsessed with them and could suck the paint off a trailer hitch but they act all shocked when they realize they need Steve Irwin level animal handling skill to not get their face chewed off and that they might just get speared to death anyway.
Gonzako@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Oh, yeah definitely. My first love had BDP and I’m still riding scars from those 5 years. Best head tho.
jumping_redditor@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
live on the edge? like edging? the sigma male grindset reference?!?!
sneezycat@sopuli.xyz 2 months ago
Girls with grippy socks give the best
blowjobsfootjobs.
Unpigged@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
How about not putting your dick in crazy?
lemonskate@lemmy.world 2 months ago
crazy people need dick too
MotoAsh@lemmy.world 2 months ago
But do they deserve dick, is the question.
seliaste@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
Stfu mentally ill people deserve affection as much as anyone.
vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
As a mentally ill dude I would like to trade the disgusting affection for a 1991 Fiat Polski.
Sc00ter@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
Counter point: have you ever put your dick in crazy? Its awesome.
TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 2 months ago
They do fuck pretty good. It’s like holding a tiger by the tail. In one instance the tiger is sure to like it. Right?
teamevil@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I mean you’re right if you vibe with similar crazy but that withdrawal and collateral damage…ouch.
-even if you don’t vibe it’s going to be amazing
psud@aussie.zone 2 months ago
You can get keen and competent without them being crazy
some_random_nick@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Look at you, trying to force “common sense” into people. How “admirable”.
TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
I don’t think you understand the demographics of a psych ward. When I went (technically a pediatric one) it was 50% people who self harm and got caught, 30% people who are depressed and it got too bad, 10% overdoses, and only 10% ‘crazy’ people
a lot game from disadvantaged backgrounds and just didn’t have the best start with abusive parents and shit and take it out on themselves. They just need stability and care, care that a significant other could give.
I guess I could be put into this category too.the ‘crazy’ people were chill, they just talked to themselves and saw stuff sometimes. They’re not like… mean.
the ‘crazy’ people that you are probably thinking of aren’t the ones who go to the psych ward. They say that they’re normal and blame others for their issues. They’re the ones who don’t want to be associated with people with depression and bipolar syndrome so they don’t seek treatment for it and get WAY worse than if they went to therapy instead of drugs.
It’s also worth noting that the ‘crazy’ people you’re thinking of aren’t past saving. They need help too. They probably started off with a bad background and weren’t taught how to take accountability and coping techniques. It’s just really, REALLY difficult to admit you need help and to go through the process of getting it.
People do recover and should be given assistance, assistance that the American system doesn’t give.
LemmyPlay@lemmings.world 2 months ago
Thanks for the perspective
ivanafterall@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Have you tried it?
Lucky_777@lemmy.world 2 months ago
This is how you become the ghost.
4grams@awful.systems 2 months ago
Lol, this literally happened to me once.
Long story short, a girl I knew but always figured was way out of my league expressed interest in me. We quickly started dating, I thought I was the luckiest guy in the world. A few weeks go by and she just ghosts me. Nothing for weeks, I was going nuts. Finally I get a message from her, she had checked herself into the psych ward, and wound up hooking up with one of the staff while she was there.
Dodged a real one there…
AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 2 months ago
Hooking up with one of the staff? Yikes
I don’t deny that you may have dodged a bullet, but I feel like the staff of a psych ward hooking up with patients is hella fucked up. Even if both people are adults, I think consent in that context is pretty dubious.
4grams@awful.systems 2 months ago
wholeheartedly agree. I was but 19 years old though and less wise in the ways of the world. I occasionally try to look her up but have had no luck, I really hope she turned out ok. Been decades though.
boboliosisjones@feddit.nu 2 months ago
From what I heard its super common for psych ward staff to be doing patients. And yeah it can’t be very helpful in their situation…
GoodTransKitty@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
I got phone time when I was in the psychiatric hospital…
princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
Yeah, I just had my phone the whole time. It turns out that completely cutting people off from their support network doesn’t promote mental wellbeing.
sundray@lemmus.org 2 months ago
Hey baby, can I interest you an a folie à deux? 😉
MotoAsh@lemmy.world 2 months ago
God that movie sucked ass.
sundray@lemmus.org 2 months ago
I know, and it ruined a perfectly good psychoanalytical term, too.
WhiskyTangoFoxtrot@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I kind of want to watch it, but I’d have to watch the original Joker first.
red_bull_of_juarez@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
There are enough for everyone: cagedladies.com
And there are some crazy ones on there.
Agent641@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Fucking sliding doors moment right here, reading this comment is the proximate cause of my eventual murder and dismemberment by a big tiddy jailbird gf.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Dude I fucking hate that movie. I’m in the (personal, not global. I know we’re all in the global bad universe) bad universe and I do not like thinking about the good one
Jiggle_Physics@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Many years ago I responded to one of these inmate pen-pal things. I did it because Susan Smith, the woman who pushed her car into a lake with her small kids in it, was one of the people on the pen-pal list. I wrote a letter, but got a boiler plate response from the prison about her no longer being on the pen-pal project due to an over whelming response.
I remember the profile she had though, discussing how she loved rainbows, and mini mouse
Undisputedscoop@discuss.online 2 months ago
Now thats a woman who doesnt deserve my conjical visits
qyron@sopuli.xyz 2 months ago
Considering the US penal system, I’d risk many are in for ridiculous things.
red_bull_of_juarez@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
Definitely. But a while ago, when I first saw this site in a post, I found one young woman who had in her bio that she was very submissive and looking for a daddy. When I looked her up, I found out that she was doing 8 years or so for sexually abusing a 12 year old girl. That’s what I mean when I say that there are some crazy-ass bitches on that site.
rabber@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
Started dating a girl with bpd and have never been so excited yet so confused, my life is fucked now it think but she’s super hot so whatever
rabber@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
She just called me to say she loves me then she called me an asshole and hung up
TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
thanks for the update
heckypecky@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
Convince her to go to DBT if she hasn’t yet, it makes a hell of a difference
hOrni@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Psych ward is always best enjoyed together. Good for You.
dbtng@eviltoast.org 2 months ago
Don’t bother. She’s already perfect.
HappySkullsplitter@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Crazy?
HappySkullsplitter@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I was crazy once.
HappySkullsplitter@lemmy.world 2 months ago
They locked me in a room.
Godric@lemmy.world 2 months ago
As someone currently being ghosted, improvement yeaaaaaaaaahhhhhh
Karyoplasma@discuss.tchncs.de 2 months ago
No, she definitely ghosted me :(
ivanafterall@lemmy.world 2 months ago
They always come back around when you truly don’t give a fuck, so try to get there ASAP. It’s a win-win, in this context.
Karyoplasma@discuss.tchncs.de 2 months ago
You severely underestimate how big of a loser I am. I appreciate that!
Saint_La_Croix_Crosse@midwest.social 2 months ago
This is literally me with an ex-girlfriend.
goofystench@lemmy.world 2 months ago
me when i was on duolicious
Draegur@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
“I can fix her”?
She can break me.
turtlesareneat@discuss.online 2 months ago
Twice this year, it’s a him but yes. They make borderline in boys too.
captainlezbian@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Let him go. Folks all the way on bpd bullshit just leave you wrecked until you decide to stay away. Maybe he’ll get better, I’ve had respected friends and partners who did, but it ain’t worth waiting for.
outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
Both are fun. Then we can do a crazy ex girlfriend off.
(I will win)
ivanafterall@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Challenge accepted.