what a narcissistist
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Submitted 1 month ago by SailorFuzz@lemmy.world to [deleted]
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weps@lemmy.world 1 month ago
davel@lemmy.ml 1 month ago
yeah i ain’t reading all that
He’s already shown us what a lying sack of shit he is, so no one’s going to believe this drivel, so why even write it?
Malyca@lemmy.zip 1 month ago
Idk I’m pretty entertained over here
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 month ago
Oh… dear dear dear.
Nobody … directed harrasment against this whiney and censorious adult pissbaby.
It was spontaneous.
db0 themself could have specifically messaged me, telling me something like ‘please remain civil in this trying time’ and i would have replied ‘lol’ and trolled this fucking idiot on his own boards, that he remembered to only secretly shadowban me from, but not outright ban me from… anyway.
… is Admiral Patrick Star familiar with the phrase ‘become ungovernable’?
Your idiot rules have no power over me, in this place.
I obey only rules I find reasonable.
… Also, how is a total retreat and defeat… not… giving us all the personal satisfaction of having won?
That… makes 0 sense.
He also admits this has taken away considerable attention from his IRL responsibilities.
Actual flawless victory, lemmy, truly: bravo.
Did…does he realize that he could have just made his own instance, and just not federated with the instances he doesn’t like?
I… how… did he read the documentation… on lemmy? Does he know how lemmy works?
I will never comprehend the sheer arrogance.
Just incredible.
SailorFuzz@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Did…does he realize that he could have just made his own instance, and just not federated with the instances he doesn’t like?
that’s the neat part. He did. Not only did he know that already, he had his own instance it was “Dubvee” (don’t go there, opening his instance opens his goodbye rant which runs his DDOS script)
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 month ago
I … i don’t… i can’t my brain to concieve of a way were this course of action makes any sense.
I literally cannot comprehend this level of arrogance.
…ffffffFFFFFffffffff…uck.
db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 month ago
The fact that they just assume I manipulate anarchists, of all fucking groups, is just hilarious.
DaniNatrix@leminal.space 1 month ago
Weaponzing therapy speak, so hot right now.
AnimalsDream@slrpnk.net 1 month ago
MetaDARVO sounds like some kind of villain robot name.
khaleer@sopuli.xyz 1 month ago
Cheebus@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Death threats are fucking stupid, whoever did that sucks.
Putting that aside, your regex sucks bro though, you could do better there. (I know you’re lurking :P)
dual_sport_dork@lemmy.world 1 month ago
He seems to fall back on the “death threats” claim regularly, as if it’s some kind of default. I don’t think I’ve ever seen any evidence presented to the effect that these purported “death threats” were ever real, or common, or an actual issue beyond the usual background level of Internet ribald. It seems like it should be a pretty trivial thing to prove.
Come on, man. Post some screen shots. Name some names. Instead it’s all just allusions and stereotyping and fictionalizing and trying to paint entire instances or groups of people with a wide brush.
Isn’t it a big thing that private messages and the ilk are not actually secure here and are theoretically visible e.g. to instance admins and operators? If said threats were sent between two .world accounts (and at least two of his alt accounts that I know of were local lemmy.world accounts) it ought to be trivial to verify these, yes?
Actually, it’s been quite incredible to see just how level headed everyone’s response to this entire debacle has been, at least insofar as I’ve encountered. Overall people seem to either be bewildered or amused by their presence on his list, surprised by it’s discovery or baffled as to its purported necessity, or highly skeptical of its alleged purpose. But all of the tirades, rants, insults, and crash-outs I’ve seen have been only coming from AdmiralPatrick himself — not anybody else.
phx@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Yeah, seems he traded his God complex for victim complex in the end…
petrol_sniff_king@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 month ago
Ooh, ribald is a fun word.
Malyca@lemmy.zip 1 month ago
The maga types project, accuse others of death threats they themselves send to people. I’m betting it’s no different here. When you have no ability to self reflect, projection is all there is.
SailorFuzz@lemmy.world 1 month ago
the man wrote :
Math.random() * (100 - 1 + 1)I don’t think he knows what he’s doing.
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 month ago
…oh dear god.
facepalm
eugenevdebs@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 month ago
He’s said that people respectfully saying this is a bad idea where stalkers and harassment, I doubt he’s had any.
orbituary@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 month ago
.world was on the precipice of doing the right thing and disaccociating themselves from that psychotic shit show, but silently dropped the issue and carried on as usual after wringing their hands for maybe two weeks.
Wow. So fucking disconnected
TanteRegenbogen@feddit.org 1 month ago
The first half is totally right. There are certain bad actors on dbzer0 who constantly fuel drama on the fediverse and I am glad that at least dbzer0 defederated from feddit.org.
mathemachristian@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 month ago
Lol as if feddit.org hadn’t been front and center in the “nazi infiltration of dbzer0 admin team”.
dasrael@lemmy.zip 1 month ago
Buddy has an inflated sense of self and doesn’t seem to understand the fundamental concept of the fediverse… Don’t like the community, go make your own with all the strippers and coke you want… What a knob…
TheStaffmaster@lemmy.world 1 month ago
He failed to realize that people who are here aren’t free speech absolutists, we just want to be able to speak our mind without having draconian moderation or Corporate A.I. freaking out because we used some no-no-words like we’re in some kind of internet preschool.
HazardousBanjo@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I’m willing to bet good money this narcissistic dipshit is still lurking on here and is gonna be perpetually hate following the community.
Kolanaki@pawb.social 1 month ago
They thought they were “saving” the fediverse by making it better for normies which is hilarious. It’s almost like they never saw the internet before 2010.
okwhateverdude@lemmy.world 1 month ago
The children on the internet these days have no clue. Eternal September is 30+ years old.
dual_sport_dork@lemmy.world 1 month ago
There are plenty of users who don’t even know what the Eternal September was, and I guarantee you there will be a multitude of them whose first exposure to the term will be your comment, right here.
Some of us were there.
SailorFuzz@lemmy.world 1 month ago
thank you for that tidbit of early internet trivia. I enjoyed looking up and reading about “Eternal September”.
Gullible@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
If this had been done out in the open, they might have been able to get a solid number of users to agree to use their filter. The secretiveness is the only thing I take issue with, personally.
SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 month ago
Same, everyone is allowed to have opinions. When you decide to silently, secretly dictate your opinion to others that’s a problem.
deegeese@sopuli.xyz 1 month ago
Sharing your block list is fine.
Tricking others into using it is incredibly sleazy.
rayboy@lemmy.world 1 month ago
First real drama I have seen here, pretty funny.
FluorideMind@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I barely read anything in this. But it struck me odd someone forcing a hidden ban list on strangers, is calling others sociopaths.
SailorFuzz@lemmy.world 1 month ago
don’t forget trying to hide a DDOS script in farewell message too. pretty sociopathic to me.
NikkiDimes@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Yeah, but you don’t get it; he did it out of righteousness
Einskjaldi@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Lots of people would be fine with a simple list of blocked users.
DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 1 month ago
Lol, what a little bitch.
Salamanderwizard@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I joined Lemmy cause Reddit kept banning me for saying Nazi should be met with a punch.
Not gonna lie. A lot of you are great. Some of you are up your own assholes and think it smells like flowers, some of you are way to sensitive, some of you are nutjobs.
But yall are okay for most part. I just wish I knew what the fuck yall were taking about most of the time. All this shit is confusing to me.
FreddiesLantern@leminal.space 1 month ago
I love this particular mixture of people. So far this place feels way more authentic than whatever alternate universe big tech is trying to force-feed.
vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
As a certified nut job I will say this place really reminds me of old school internet in a lot of ways. Sure is there a mild chance that I’ll piss someone off and get DMd furry gurro? Sure. But also lots of folks have become familiar identities on here.
Now if only I could stop getting into arguments with folks about pacifism or more specifically my rejection of pacifism for religious, philosophical, and cultural reasons.
SailorFuzz@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I have literally never gotten DM’d furry guro. I dont think Ive ever been DM’d anything insulting or offensive before. Thats definitely a you issue.
Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
I don’t fully understand the technical side of things either, and I’m on his silly little list.
w33n1s@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I just got here a couple days ago because Reddit makes me log in to browse and I’m not cool with that. And… holy shit. I don’t know what this has been about but that guy needs to go outside. You all need to go outside. I need to go outside too.
SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 month ago
I will say that it isn’t usually like this.
I mean there’s always drama somewhere but this drama is especially big because a LOT of people found out all at once that either:
- their content feeds were being censored/manipulated without their knowledge
Or
- They were being shadowbanned (either as an individual or because their home server was censored)
by a developer who went to some pretty incriminating lengths to obfuscate the censorship he was baking into a tool that lots of people were using.
Most of the time I look at my memes and the drama passes me right by. It’s there if you look for it, of course, but this particular snafu is a bit of an outlier.
Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
It’s not normally like this. Also, this dude actually holds very little power here.
SailorFuzz@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I got vitamin D gummies now. I’ll never have to go outside ever again.
Dymonika@lemmy.ml 1 month ago
My doc said we’re not supposed to get any D from the sun; it should all come from diet. UV rays are too skin-damaging.
GalacticGrapefruit@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Usually, the drama around here is the .ml and .hexbear admins being high on some tyrannical echo chamber logic and banning people for suggesting even slightly that China’s not perfect. And that’s pretty distant from .world and sh.itjustworks, and everywhere else. About as notable as your neighbor a couple blocks over getting into beef with the neighbors’ kids. Background noise at best, and barely relevant.
This is new, unusual, and definitely a one-time deal. Dude was a conservative who secretly made a tremendous blocklist of most of the people here who’d ever said anything critical of conservatism, and plugged it into the front-end app he managed without telling anyone. Literally was secretly censoring a massive chunk of the userbase. His secret blocklist got published, and those of us who managed to get on it have been patting each other on the back because we made a Nazi mad.
And now he’s throwing a big old tantrum because he got caught.
Dymonika@lemmy.ml 1 month ago
This has never happened before, FYI. You literally came in at a weird time lol, probably even the peak of this random event. It’s about some guy who made a web frontend for some Lemmy instances’ desktop web browsers and going on a power trip to mass-ban people.
Leviathan@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Hey, at least it’s entertaining.
explodicle@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
From now on, I’m going to blame everything bad that happens to Lemmy on the departure of AdmiralPatrick.
spicehoarder@lemmy.zip 1 month ago
“Patrick never would have let this happen.” Just inserted randomly into conversations
bitjunkie@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Go whine to Spez about it, cunt.
Avicenna@programming.dev 1 month ago
oof I have never seen such a high concentration of accusations in the mirror
db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 month ago
Hey @Kirk@startrek.website why don’t you defend this one too
VindictiveJudge@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I used to be on both startrek.website and world, then Stamets revealed what a shitshow st.ws was and I abandoned that account. And what do you know, one of their moderators was suddenly very publicly an asshole.
HazardousBanjo@lemmy.world 1 month ago
All of it instigated and eggged on by another instance’s top admin.
*egged
This is unacceptable for all of the reasons in the world,
Was this written by a fucking toddler?
and while I won’t give you the personal satisfaction of having won,
My dude, you bitching and having a public crash out is giving exactly that. We knew you lacked any and all self awareness, but gawd datum.
you’ve definitely proven me wrong about the fediverse being something that even can be saved from itself.
Hey dipshit.
The entire appeal of the fediverse is a realm of the internet free from corporate autocracy, government censorship, and the massive wave of anti free speech that has hit the internet like never before. You tried to use software various communities relied on to censor speech you didn’t personally approve of.
Maybe you should have actually paid–the fuck–attention to what you were developing for. This is just an insane self own.
man_wtfhappenedtoyou@lemmy.world 1 month ago
It’s a truly amazing internet moment and I’m just glad I was here to see it. We should get T-shirts made for people that were on the list.
db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 month ago
Like I literally pointed out that they have a blacklist for instances. I didn’t even break the news about the second secret blacklist with usernames! All I did after is post 3 memes. But apparently I’m the master manipulator egging the whole fediverse smh.
thal3s@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
And he would’ve gotten away with it if it wasn’t for you meddling
kidsmods!Now who will be our Fediverse Jesus?
HazardousBanjo@lemmy.world 1 month ago
HOW DARE YOU TAKE HIS NEFARIOUS ACTIONS AGAINST FREE SPEECH AND EXPOSE IT TO THE PUBLIC!!! /s
Larry@piefed.social 1 month ago
He could have started an instance and moderated it as he saw fit but no, he wanted to underhandedly silence hundreds and thought people would thank him for it.
He also could have just blocked people, communities, and instances he didn’t like on his own account..
WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 1 month ago
Could even share a blocklist as its own thing for people who wanted to outsource that job to someone else.
inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Stamets@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 month ago
I leave Lemmy for like… a month.
PM_ME_VINTAGE_30S@anarchist.nexus 1 month ago
Over the course of the last several days, I have received a constant stream of harassing messages, death threats, and threats of doxxing
If you actually got death threats and threats of doxxing, that truly sucks and shame on people who took this that seriously.
Even people around here I’d interacted with positively for years and had grown to respect because they seemed level headed and above the immature and sociopathic bullshit that dominates this platform showed their true selves.
Or maybe you were just wrong, dude.
Like you developed a frontend. If you just blocked people from your instance we wouldn’t have batted an eye. Your job as a frontend developer was to choose how information was packaged. You should not have been deciding for users who they would or would not be allowed to see. And if you really felt strongly about the need for a blacklist, you should have made your filters opt-in.
Then you have entire instances whose admins call for the death of others, harass other users
Yeah it’s crazy how liberals call for the deaths of billions around the world by supporting the status quo, which kills countless people and is currently dooming almost all life on Earth to climate disaster. That’s why I’m on Anarchist Nexus, whose admins and users (me lol) have called for the killing to stop by any means necessary. (Pretty sure Admiral Patrick is referring to us specifically as the instance-that-will-not-be-named.)
I know that liberalism is the monoculture in the West, but you must eventually learn that (1) liberalism is not the default mode of existence, and (2) liberalism is violence. Liberal democracy is violence. It’s probably the most violent system currently in existence. And I don’t know how to make that an easy lesson for you to learn, but if you’re unwilling to do the work to undo your liberalism, the rest of the world does not have the time to wait for you.
One day you, too, will do or say something that doesn’t toe the line and you’ll be right where I am.
Good, if I ever become as libbed up as you then I deserve to get banned.
You crazies won and proved me wrong. The fediverse isn’t worth saving after all.
Bye
Hell yeah we’re fucking crazy, and I wouldn’t want it any other way ancom-heart
Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
What a whiny fucking tool. I’m glad I made their stupid list.
irate944@piefed.social 1 month ago
TemplaerDude@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
“Held his ground” on being a fucking clown
pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
I’m having a hard time understanding the person behind this account. They called everyone names and continue to do that, but everyone else is toxic. I’m hoping this is a satire account, but I might be giving them too much credit.
WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 1 month ago
Seems like typically narcissist abuser behavior.
pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
It does have that vibe. They used to post stuff to get people riled up. I had a discussion about not removing one of their posts because it was homophobic. I’m glad I didn’t cave and that’s probably why I’m on the list, lol.
Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 1 month ago
That’s a thought destroying phrase “oh, this person has bad-person-ness, so that explains the fact that they’re a bad person”.
Maybe narcissism isn’t this magic quality that turns people bad for no reason. Maybe effects have causes, and bad behaviour can be understood.
RustyShackleford@piefed.social 1 month ago
He has an inability to take responsibility for his decisions when caught trying to control others, so he talks down to everyone else.
His remark about disassociating, is a major characteristic of all dissociative phenomena involving a detachment from reality, which we are seeing above. He’s hinting that he’s still subconsciously aware of his mistake and is simply furious that he slipped up. I wouldn’t be surprised if he eventually decides to return.
Malyca@lemmy.zip 1 month ago
He’s still here on his alts talking about his own account in the 3rd person
SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 month ago
Sounds like they… couldn’t deal with the blowback. Sounds like they didn’t hold their ground, they were lying and duplicitous. What a fucking maroon.