TIL: I often have a full body orgasm.
not being able to experience a full-body-orgasm is just another example of the sad male reality.
Submitted 2 months ago by juergen@feddit.org to [deleted]
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FuyuhikoDate@feddit.org 2 months ago
Billy_fuccboi@lemmy.world 2 months ago
You can give them. That’s the next best thing
StillAlive@piefed.world 2 months ago
No one wants them from me lmao
Billy_fuccboi@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Same lmao. Don’t lose hope. We’re all going to make it
Dasus@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Jyek@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Just like, do it though… It’s not gay to pleasure yourself anally. It’s also really amazing to have a partner brave enough to do it for you. Normalize pleasure. Destigmatize exploring your body.
blargh513@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
It’s fun until it’s over. Then, poop. I mean, u can rinse your butthole out before you do stuff, but kinda takes the fun out of it. “Babe, hang on, I gotta give my rectum a drink, swish and spit”.
quips@slrpnk.net 2 months ago
Nitrous from poppers is really bad for you bro. You are causing brain damage.
Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 2 months ago
It’s fun until it’s over. Then, poop. I mean, u can rinse your butthole out before you do stuff, but kinda takes the fun out of it.
Condoms help a ton with this! Like yeah still poop but it’s literally on the spent thing you’re already throwing away so just roll that shiz up and toss it!
OriginEnergySux@lemmy.world 2 months ago
A cum and a sneeze does me juuuuust fine
NightmareQueenJune@lemmy.world 2 months ago
The good old Snorgasm
Burninator05@lemmy.world 2 months ago
One step away from being a modern day Roland the Farter.
HeroicBillyBishop@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
it’s in yer bum
DisgruntledGorillaGang@reddthat.com 2 months ago
That’s just a myth to get guys to stick stuff up their bums. I’ve spent ages trying to find this magical spot and I’m telling you, it doesn’t exist.
Holytimes@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
It does exist, countless men and science all say it exists. Prostate induced orgasms arnt some myth.
PhoenixDog@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Can confirm. I got a vibrating plug where the head hits the perfect spot and my vision has gone blurry with an orgasm before.
fleebleneeble@reddthat.com 2 months ago
I thought so too until I finally had my prostate properly dealt with. Mind blowing.
ivanafterall@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Had a girl do this to me. I was still skeptical even as she was doing it. Then I guess I wasn’t.
SpankyDoodle@eviltoast.org 2 months ago
Training? Happened the first time I was pegged.
normacenva@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
Maybe try Estrogen? Works wonders for that.
HEXN3T@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
Indeed, and they also fucking lied my libido is WAY stronger than before
Holytimes@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Its basically a 50/50 crap shoot. It either kills it entirely or doubles down on it and then some.
With the rare expections of no change.
QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
mine is just gone. literally near absolutely nothing now 🤷♀️
Soulg@ani.social 2 months ago
That’s the problem though we want it without having to transition if we aren’t trans
normacenva@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
I’m just saying, I used to lament my “sad male reality” all the time. Then I realized I wasn’t stuck there
howdy@lemmy.ml 2 months ago
meth
TrickDacy@lemmy.world 2 months ago
No.
CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Not for the orgasm just as general life advice
QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
this is what the over exaggerated drug programs warned me about
UnPassive@lemmy.world 2 months ago
When you’re approaching the final moments before orgasm, relax your gooch/bridge/perineum. You’ll feel your approach instantly slow, but if you achieve orgasm anyway, it’ll be MUCH stronger and longer. It sort of slows the build up down, and results in a bigger O. Should only add around 30 seconds of delay - we’re not trying to edge all day. Sometimes riding the edge feels great, so stay there as long as you can, but make sure you fall over, instead of losing the orgasm.
I used to wonder why my orgasms felt so different every time, but now they’re always really good. You might have to dance a few perineum flexes in, to get over the hill, but try to avoid many. 100% practice while masturbating while laying down. It’s super hard to have a fully relaxed perineum while thrusting. Also, try to make sure you’re really hard before relaxing your P muscles. Softer orgasms always are weaker for me.
Advanced users may find there is a muscle you can flex in kinda in opposition to flexing your P muscles, but I’m finding it hard to explain… So start with the basics.
QuincyPeck@lemmy.world 2 months ago
This guy jorks.
tkk13909@sopuli.xyz 2 months ago
Discovering prostate stimulation was probably the best thing to happen to me sexually.
HulkSmashBurgers@reddthat.com 2 months ago
Same for me.
bizarroland@lemmy.world 2 months ago
There is a male G spot that is not anus-adjacent.
It’s right on the frenulum, right where the shaft of the penis connects to the head, at the bottom.
If you stimulate that area with one finger very gently you can experience a full body orgasm. You just have to be patient with yourself because it is a different level of stimulation. And it definitely takes the right mindset.
a_non_monotonic_function@lemmy.world 2 months ago
You willingly deprive yourself of butt stuff?
Master@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
This is the only full body i’ve experienced. It feels like a warm wave building up and crashing over your entire body.
kinther@lemmy.world 2 months ago
You should wait a week in between orgasms to make it more successful. At least I think you are talking about the perineum area. Maybe its just me.
bizarroland@lemmy.world 2 months ago
This is not the perineum, this is the shaft. If you are standing and looking down at your penis at the head of your penis, then on the bottom side, at the point where the skin connects to the head, that’s where the spot is.
HulkSmashBurgers@reddthat.com 2 months ago
Not true (supposedly).
QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
JigglySackles@lemmy.world 2 months ago
That site is a damn mess. That aside though, that whole process seems a little…much? I’m not sure what word to use here. I want to say silly or dippy, but those aren’t exactly it. It reads like the creation of a placebo effect for those willing to do all those fanciful steps. Not trying to be mean or offensive so hopefully this isn’t taken that way. Everything about it is just very aloof.
IzzyScissor@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Holy fuck - I finally found someone else talking about them. I can ONLY have these when I have sex with other people - the typical orgasm just doesn’t happen. (Also vice versa, never had one alone) I’ve always called them my internal orgasms and have to have a fucking brief with whoever I’m about to sleep with to give them basically this run-down.
HulkSmashBurgers@reddthat.com 2 months ago
I’ve actually never had one of theose mythical super-o’s the link talks about (full body, non-ejuculatory). Though I have had orgasms where prostate stim was involved and that feels fuckin’ amazing.
Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 2 months ago
you can get full body euphoria from scratching eczema spots during a flare up.
Dozzi92@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I got poison ivy pretty bad one time, and discovered that very hot water in the shower directly on the rash is one of the best things I’ve ever felt. And it also completely stops the itch for like 12h.
Holytimes@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Can confirm this. Peeling the flakes and doing a scratch scratch is 10/10
shneancy@lemmy.world 2 months ago
or scratching the right spot in your ear when it’s very itchy
flandish@lemmy.world 2 months ago
or vigorously rubbing your nose while in the shower, itching your inner sinus. you bleed for a day or two later but…
Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 2 months ago
i have that but its not as pleasant as a dermatitis rash.
Madu@fedinsfw.app 2 months ago
I really think that it’s possible for some men to have them, from my own experience as I uncontrollably tremble and shake my whole body sometimes, and that what many people see as full body orgasms have been skewed, as with many other things, via porn. I almost exclusively watch solo female having real orgasms for porn and you have to wade through so much fake bullshit, it was so popular for several years with cam girls who just spasmed like those fucking flailing tube man things. There are only a few, very few, videos of real orgasms like that and thousands upon thousands of fake “ooh, someone donated X amount so now I magically and immediately have a full body orgasm and spasms around like I’m being tasered”.
a_non_monotonic_function@lemmy.world 2 months ago
No shade, but it may be hormones. I was pretty shocked to hear how the trans body changes when hormones are applied. It is really easy to assume that some of those changes are more permanent.
Madu@fedinsfw.app 2 months ago
I’m not trans though… No idea what have you that idea. I’m a supporter and go to many pro-lgbtq demonstrations, and if I could have chosen a biological gender I’d choose female but I have never taken hormones or done anything other than wearing make-up, nail polish, dresses abd skirts a few times. I’m fully comfortable with my body and gender.
shneancy@lemmy.world 2 months ago
i’m ftm and my orgasms stayed pretty much the same
texture@lemmy.world 2 months ago
male here, yes you can.
lightnsfw@reddthat.com 2 months ago
I’ve definitely had ones like that and I didn’t have to do any butt stuff to do it.
Wereduck@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
Estrogen did fucking wonders there Orgasms now are fucking mind blowing And long And I can sometimes do it more than once And the come down isn’t a cliff anymore, more of a gradual descent
Kolanaki@pawb.social 2 months ago
Where the hell do you get that? Main reason I love getting off from prostate stimulation is because it rocks my whole body.
Samskara@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
There’s lots of tantric techniques you can learn to experience more intense orgasms.
a_non_monotonic_function@lemmy.world 2 months ago
It took well into our thirties for my wife and I to come to this realization. Fucking worthless sex education.
Strangely, "what parts of your body do you orgasm with?” is just something we forgot to ask each other over the years.
SharkAttak@kbin.melroy.org 2 months ago
What about this jerk I know, he's really just a big dick.
SleeplessCityLights@programming.dev 2 months ago
Use a wand instead of your finger, you will melt like an ice cube in an oven.
Crackhappy@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I actually don’t really like having full body ones. They are far too intense. I usually get them when my wife and I orgasm together and they go on for often more than a minute.
5ha99y@lemmus.org 1 month ago
On the other hand males don’t have periods.
jerebear39@slrpnk.net 2 months ago
Well op, you very much can, but you gotta be will be willing to explore your boo-tay…
Drewid@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I can sometimes get it when my partner massages strange parts of my body. Try it out!
Zwiebel@feddit.org 2 months ago
Prostate orgasms are really good tho
PSA You don’t have to stick anything up your butt, you can massage it from the outside
superduperenigma@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Quit being cowards.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 months ago
not everyone enjoys the sensation
Frikisada@lemmy.world 2 months ago
It’s much easier sticking things up there tho
Fisch@discuss.tchncs.de 2 months ago
Wait what? How does that work?
Passerby6497@lemmy.world 2 months ago
The closest I’ve gotten is pushing on my taint when in close to enhance the feeling as I bust.
Town@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
In my experience it doesn’t work from the outside.
ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 2 months ago
There’s a secret button above the taint
juergen@feddit.org 2 months ago
Yeah, i mean that by anal orgasms.
But am i right that those prostata orgasms come closer to a fullbodyorgasm?
jownz@lemmy.world 2 months ago
If you can seriously do that, you might have an enlarged prostate and you need to get checked right away!
FooBarrington@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Last time I went, the doctor just told me “sick prostate bro” and then booped it