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not being able to experience a full-body-orgasm is just another example of the sad male reality.

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Submitted ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩ by ⁨juergen@feddit.org⁩ to ⁨[deleted]⁩

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  • Zwiebel@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Prostate orgasms are really good tho

    PSA You don’t have to stick anything up your butt, you can massage it from the outside

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    • superduperenigma@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      PSA You don’t have to stick anything up your butt, you can massage it from the outside

      Quit being cowards.

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      • HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        not everyone enjoys the sensation

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    • Frikisada@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      It’s much easier sticking things up there tho

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    • Fisch@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      PSA You don’t have to stick anything up your butt, you can massage it from the outside

      Wait what? How does that work?

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      • Passerby6497@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        The closest I’ve gotten is pushing on my taint when in close to enhance the feeling as I bust.

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      • Town@lemmy.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        In my experience it doesn’t work from the outside.

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      • ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        There’s a secret button above the taint

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    • juergen@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Yeah, i mean that by anal orgasms.

      But am i right that those prostata orgasms come closer to a fullbodyorgasm?

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    • jownz@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      If you can seriously do that, you might have an enlarged prostate and you need to get checked right away!

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      • FooBarrington@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Last time I went, the doctor just told me “sick prostate bro” and then booped it

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  • FuyuhikoDate@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    TIL: I often have a full body orgasm.

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  • Billy_fuccboi@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    You can give them. That’s the next best thing

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    • StillAlive@piefed.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      No one wants them from me lmao

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      • Billy_fuccboi@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Same lmao. Don’t lose hope. We’re all going to make it

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  • Dasus@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    As far as i understand male people can only experience it anally, but even that requires training. Because it is so difficult to achieve, it feels impossible.

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  • Jyek@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Just like, do it though… It’s not gay to pleasure yourself anally. It’s also really amazing to have a partner brave enough to do it for you. Normalize pleasure. Destigmatize exploring your body.

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    • blargh513@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      It’s fun until it’s over. Then, poop. I mean, u can rinse your butthole out before you do stuff, but kinda takes the fun out of it. “Babe, hang on, I gotta give my rectum a drink, swish and spit”.

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      • quips@slrpnk.net ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Nitrous from poppers is really bad for you bro. You are causing brain damage.

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      • Trainguyrom@reddthat.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        It’s fun until it’s over. Then, poop. I mean, u can rinse your butthole out before you do stuff, but kinda takes the fun out of it.

        Condoms help a ton with this! Like yeah still poop but it’s literally on the spent thing you’re already throwing away so just roll that shiz up and toss it!

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  • OriginEnergySux@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    A cum and a sneeze does me juuuuust fine

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    • NightmareQueenJune@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      The good old Snorgasm

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    • Burninator05@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      One step away from being a modern day Roland the Farter.

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  • HeroicBillyBishop@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    it’s in yer bum

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    • DisgruntledGorillaGang@reddthat.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      That’s just a myth to get guys to stick stuff up their bums. I’ve spent ages trying to find this magical spot and I’m telling you, it doesn’t exist.

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      • Holytimes@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        It does exist, countless men and science all say it exists. Prostate induced orgasms arnt some myth.

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    • PhoenixDog@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Can confirm. I got a vibrating plug where the head hits the perfect spot and my vision has gone blurry with an orgasm before.

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  • fleebleneeble@reddthat.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I thought so too until I finally had my prostate properly dealt with. Mind blowing.

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    • ivanafterall@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Had a girl do this to me. I was still skeptical even as she was doing it. Then I guess I wasn’t.

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  • SpankyDoodle@eviltoast.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Training? Happened the first time I was pegged.

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  • normacenva@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Maybe try Estrogen? Works wonders for that.

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    • HEXN3T@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Indeed, and they also fucking lied my libido is WAY stronger than before

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      • Holytimes@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Its basically a 50/50 crap shoot. It either kills it entirely or doubles down on it and then some.

        With the rare expections of no change.

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      • QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        mine is just gone. literally near absolutely nothing now 🤷‍♀️

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    • Soulg@ani.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      That’s the problem though we want it without having to transition if we aren’t trans

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      • normacenva@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        I’m just saying, I used to lament my “sad male reality” all the time. Then I realized I wasn’t stuck there

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  • UnPassive@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    When you’re approaching the final moments before orgasm, relax your gooch/bridge/perineum. You’ll feel your approach instantly slow, but if you achieve orgasm anyway, it’ll be MUCH stronger and longer. It sort of slows the build up down, and results in a bigger O. Should only add around 30 seconds of delay - we’re not trying to edge all day. Sometimes riding the edge feels great, so stay there as long as you can, but make sure you fall over, instead of losing the orgasm.

    I used to wonder why my orgasms felt so different every time, but now they’re always really good. You might have to dance a few perineum flexes in, to get over the hill, but try to avoid many. 100% practice while masturbating while laying down. It’s super hard to have a fully relaxed perineum while thrusting. Also, try to make sure you’re really hard before relaxing your P muscles. Softer orgasms always are weaker for me.

    Advanced users may find there is a muscle you can flex in kinda in opposition to flexing your P muscles, but I’m finding it hard to explain… So start with the basics.

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    • QuincyPeck@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      This guy jorks.

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  • howdy@lemmy.ml ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    meth

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    • TrickDacy@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      No.

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    • CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Not for the orgasm just as general life advice

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    • QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      this is what the over exaggerated drug programs warned me about

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  • tkk13909@sopuli.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Discovering prostate stimulation was probably the best thing to happen to me sexually.

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    • HulkSmashBurgers@reddthat.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Same for me.

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  • bizarroland@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    There is a male G spot that is not anus-adjacent.

    It’s right on the frenulum, right where the shaft of the penis connects to the head, at the bottom.

    If you stimulate that area with one finger very gently you can experience a full body orgasm. You just have to be patient with yourself because it is a different level of stimulation. And it definitely takes the right mindset.

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    • a_non_monotonic_function@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      You willingly deprive yourself of butt stuff?

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    • Master@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      This is the only full body i’ve experienced. It feels like a warm wave building up and crashing over your entire body.

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    • kinther@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      You should wait a week in between orgasms to make it more successful. At least I think you are talking about the perineum area. Maybe its just me.

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      • bizarroland@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        This is not the perineum, this is the shaft. If you are standing and looking down at your penis at the head of your penis, then on the bottom side, at the point where the skin connects to the head, that’s where the spot is.

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  • HulkSmashBurgers@reddthat.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Not true (supposedly).

    nsfw: superomethod.com/what-is-a-super-o

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    • QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Image

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    • JigglySackles@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      That site is a damn mess. That aside though, that whole process seems a little…much? I’m not sure what word to use here. I want to say silly or dippy, but those aren’t exactly it. It reads like the creation of a placebo effect for those willing to do all those fanciful steps. Not trying to be mean or offensive so hopefully this isn’t taken that way. Everything about it is just very aloof.

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    • IzzyScissor@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Holy fuck - I finally found someone else talking about them. I can ONLY have these when I have sex with other people - the typical orgasm just doesn’t happen. (Also vice versa, never had one alone) I’ve always called them my internal orgasms and have to have a fucking brief with whoever I’m about to sleep with to give them basically this run-down.

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      • HulkSmashBurgers@reddthat.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        I’ve actually never had one of theose mythical super-o’s the link talks about (full body, non-ejuculatory). Though I have had orgasms where prostate stim was involved and that feels fuckin’ amazing.

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  • Tollana1234567@lemmy.today ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    you can get full body euphoria from scratching eczema spots during a flare up.

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    • Dozzi92@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      I got poison ivy pretty bad one time, and discovered that very hot water in the shower directly on the rash is one of the best things I’ve ever felt. And it also completely stops the itch for like 12h.

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    • Holytimes@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Can confirm this. Peeling the flakes and doing a scratch scratch is 10/10

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    • shneancy@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      or scratching the right spot in your ear when it’s very itchy

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    • flandish@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      or vigorously rubbing your nose while in the shower, itching your inner sinus. you bleed for a day or two later but…

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      • Tollana1234567@lemmy.today ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        i have that but its not as pleasant as a dermatitis rash.

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  • texture@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    male here, yes you can.

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  • Madu@fedinsfw.app ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I really think that it’s possible for some men to have them, from my own experience as I uncontrollably tremble and shake my whole body sometimes, and that what many people see as full body orgasms have been skewed, as with many other things, via porn. I almost exclusively watch solo female having real orgasms for porn and you have to wade through so much fake bullshit, it was so popular for several years with cam girls who just spasmed like those fucking flailing tube man things. There are only a few, very few, videos of real orgasms like that and thousands upon thousands of fake “ooh, someone donated X amount so now I magically and immediately have a full body orgasm and spasms around like I’m being tasered”.

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    • a_non_monotonic_function@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      No shade, but it may be hormones. I was pretty shocked to hear how the trans body changes when hormones are applied. It is really easy to assume that some of those changes are more permanent.

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      • Madu@fedinsfw.app ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        I’m not trans though… No idea what have you that idea. I’m a supporter and go to many pro-lgbtq demonstrations, and if I could have chosen a biological gender I’d choose female but I have never taken hormones or done anything other than wearing make-up, nail polish, dresses abd skirts a few times. I’m fully comfortable with my body and gender.

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      • shneancy@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        i’m ftm and my orgasms stayed pretty much the same

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  • lightnsfw@reddthat.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I’ve definitely had ones like that and I didn’t have to do any butt stuff to do it.

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  • Wereduck@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Estrogen did fucking wonders there Orgasms now are fucking mind blowing And long And I can sometimes do it more than once And the come down isn’t a cliff anymore, more of a gradual descent

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  • pH3ra@lemmy.ml ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    That’s what heroine is for

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    • TrickDacy@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      No.

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  • Kolanaki@pawb.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Where the hell do you get that? Main reason I love getting off from prostate stimulation is because it rocks my whole body.

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  • Samskara@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    There’s lots of tantric techniques you can learn to experience more intense orgasms.

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  • a_non_monotonic_function@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    It took well into our thirties for my wife and I to come to this realization. Fucking worthless sex education.

    Strangely, "what parts of your body do you orgasm with?” is just something we forgot to ask each other over the years.

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  • SharkAttak@kbin.melroy.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    What about this jerk I know, he's really just a big dick.

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  • SleeplessCityLights@programming.dev ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Use a wand instead of your finger, you will melt like an ice cube in an oven.

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  • Crackhappy@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I actually don’t really like having full body ones. They are far too intense. I usually get them when my wife and I orgasm together and they go on for often more than a minute.

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  • jerebear39@slrpnk.net ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Well op, you very much can, but you gotta be will be willing to explore your boo-tay…

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  • Drewid@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I can sometimes get it when my partner massages strange parts of my body. Try it out!

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  • gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    it really has nothing to do with whether you’re male or female but more with your state of mind and whether you can relax deeply enough. which many men can’t because they’re in a perpetual mental state of being tersed up and not relaxing.

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