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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨What's the best way to tell a kid that their dog died?⁩ ⁨⁨16⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago⁩:

  It think it’s important to plant this seed early, I would always joke about how the dogs are here “for a good time not for a long time” when my kids were growing up, it also encouraged them to live in the moment with our pets. Speak openly about the dog aging like you might to an adult peer, that way your child learns these scary thoughts are safe to have and you share them too so they can come to you for comfort. Obviously this is age appropriate advice little kids don’t need that last part.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨What's the best way to tell a kid that their dog died?⁩ ⁨⁨16⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago⁩:

  I’d need more context to give you a real answer but personally:

  Do it like any “we need to talk” adult talks, keep it simple explain what happened, give age appropriate details, and tell them it’s ok to cry/be mad/be sad for a long time, etc. encourage them to express their feelings in that moment and then in recovery share with them when something reminded you of the pet or things related to the pet, it seems counter intuitive but they are having these same thoughts and feelings and by saying them out loud you’re saying it’s ok to feel this and we can grieve together.

  Hope this helps

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨pro-self language⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago⁩:

  Just act like you already knew that then impress someone else with it later so you 1) don’t give the person who told you any validation and 2) get that validation for yourself from someone else

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨pro-self language⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago⁩:

  Can confirm, married to one and it’s 100% the right column with out exception for decades on end

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨🐝🐝🐝⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago⁩:

  The bees at my house are WAY fatter than this

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Size comparison between eagle talons and a human hand.⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago⁩:

  This and the shoebill stork are the only 2 birds that freak me out super bad (and basically all owls)

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Post title lol⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago⁩:

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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How come they don't make generic drugs for cats and dogs. I love my sisters buddy to death. Its just weird that all my meds are generic but animals are name brand. I just hate spend 250 every 3 mon.⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  You’re both right these things BOTH suck. We need to live in a world where we have enough disposable income to treat the occasional medical emergency or ongoing supportive care of our pets, like arthritis meds or special diets so they don’t just have to die and it would be nice too if vet care was significantly more affordable.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Neil Smokin DeGrasse Tyson forgetting what he’s already posted lol

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨fur sure⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  I may be a bear…

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Wake up sheeple⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  The types of people who say this stuff are solipsists if that helps. THEY can’t personally go see it land so from their perspective it’s fake

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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨You were always thrilled to get a hand me down text book like this⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  I went to community college to finish highschool and it had a lot of programs to help immigrants get educated. Being 17 I was bored and doodled in my text books a lot and then gave all my books to a very grateful young African man I can only imagine what he thought of all my insane captions and drawings lol

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨why does almost nobody live here?⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  These places feel normally populated for the geography when you drive through them.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Sent this to my friends flexing a "top 65%" score. The site didn't make it clear that's not a good thing.⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  “People who boast about their IQ are losers” Stephen Hawking

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨cool cool cool⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  More like living in the ICU for six months and having a very bad time

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨About to lose my shit⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  UNEXPECTED ITEM IN BAGGING AREA

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨cool cool cool⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  I’ve done it once, it wasn’t that bad

• About to lose my shitlemmy.world ↗
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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Perhaps the only appropriate use of AI⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  I love that we are killing the earth for this

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Perhaps the only appropriate use of AI⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Jarvis comes to mind, although I’m only familiar with it from early iron man movies, idk if they have it a better personality later

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨FUXUZIYXIKHCV⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  No they’d look like their skin was shrink wrapped to their skeleton on top of having no hair. They’d probably leave off the ears too

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Let's say hypothetically I wanted to leave the US permanently;⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  This is probably the best option for the social worker partner since social work is largely about knowing the laws and culture which you won’t know as an immigrant

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Tough luck⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  This is really the only thing I consider when thinking about men too

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Tough luck⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  This, but unironically

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Lady Parts is Bugs.⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  How do I understand this in a 3D space?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨A/B⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Fuck you for making me laugh at this

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Space weather fans be like⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Ugh, my entire life in Washington State

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨There are 206 bones in the human body or 207 if your guts are long enough⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  I need a banana slug for scale