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CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

If the person you’re dating is going to reject your authentic self they’re not the right person for you anyway, you just wasted both of your time on a relationship where your partner was kept in the dark because you were too scared to be vulnerable, gives me the ick

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SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
You have no idea of whether I wasted my or her time. Some of the best years of both of our lives, without a doubt. Take your judgment elsewhere, friend.

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incompetent@programming.dev ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

I was happy with our life we had together

they’re not the right person for you anyway, you just wasted both of your time

What exactly is “the right person for you”? If they had a happy life while they were together then why should it matter that they’re not the perfect match? Sometimes one needs to go through relationships that help them grow into the person that their “perfect match” (whatever that is) would consider to be their perfect match.

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