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This world is cruel…

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  • gcheliotis@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    No one should undertake hobbies because they are attractive to someone else. Unless you want to join groups where you can meet people you’re attracted to, then the activity is just an excuse to mingle. But you are more likely to find a hobby rewarding if you are genuinely interested in it, no matter what others think.

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  • Aeao@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I used to work at a leather shop. I can say alot of women find that pretty attractive. Too bad I’m asexual.

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    • merc@sh.itjust.works ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      A leather shop as in fetish gear, or a leather shop as in a place for leatherworking hobbyists?

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      • Aeao@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        We made belts and bracelets. And we sold all kinds of wallets and bags that we didn’t make.

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  • grrgyle@slrpnk.net ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Release the full list.

    I want to see the red flag hobbies

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    • brlemworld@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Cruising glory holes.

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      • Homescool@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Fingernail collecting

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    • RatzChatsubo@lemm.ee ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Collecting trains and painting D&D models

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    • skeezix@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Farting on cats was 28th.

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    • solstice@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Gaming is going to be at the bottom of the list, there, saved you a few minutes of googling.

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  • Cowbee@lemmy.ml ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Weird, “nerd for Marxism” isn’t on there… good thing I can cook 😎

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    • A_Union_of_Kobolds@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Marxists read a lot in my experience

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      • Cowbee@lemmy.ml ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        I mean, I do read a lot of theory, but my fiancé appreciates my cooking more, haha.

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  • LotrOrc@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Read this too fast and thought it said most attractive male Hobbits and I was really intrigued

    Sad beans

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    • Masamune@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      That Reading Baggins, he’s so hot right now 🔥

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  • Shapillon@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    My bf is really hot when he prints stuff for me tho.

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    • UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Unironically, women are hot for the handyman. Fixing a woman’s sink has gotten me laid more than once.

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      • ICastFist@programming.dev ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        You mean those porn videos were real? Unbelievable!

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      • Shapillon@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        You mean that passing for a dependable and helpful person helps?

        Who would’ve thunk?

        (I don’t know how to rephrase that first sentence but I’m not trying to insinuate that you’re not either of these things :p )

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      • 0ops@lemm.ee ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        You don’t have to clean out everybody’s pipes, leave some for the rest of us

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  • Vespair@lemm.ee ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I’m a 4 and 7 with a touch of 1, so I guess I’m a hot commodity.

    …my dating history tells me otherwise.

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    • skeezix@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      No, reading comic books doesn’t count

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  • Johnmannesca@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    What if you find yourself reading a culinary arts textbook in a foreign language?

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    • ramenshaman@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Save some for the rest of us my guy

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    • Denjin@lemmings.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Sploosh

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    • MycelialMass@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Sploosh

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    • Moneo@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      HNNNGGGGGGGG

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    • jaschen@lemm.ee ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Am I pregant!?! ?!?!

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  • uis@lemm.ee ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Archery. Archery? Whose hobby is that?

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    • Carighan@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Can’t recommend enough. A fantastic sport to pick up for after work if you’re working in IT or so, clears your mind, good for the shoulders and the back, and calms you down.

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    • dufkm@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      The archers?

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    • The_Terrible_Humbaba@slrpnk.net ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      I don’t do it, but I’d like to. The few times I tried it I quite enjoyed it, it’s just hard to find a place near me where I can practice archery. It’s quite fun, I think.

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    • MetalAirship@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Bow hunters?

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    • lightnsfw@reddthat.com ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Robin Hood

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    • woelkchen@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Archers

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      • uis@lemm.ee ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Archers. Archers? Who are they?

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    • Sassington@feddit.uk ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Kyudo is both archery and meditation combined into one.

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  • Hacksaw@lemmy.ca ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I think this is cool. Many of these are accessible and cheap. Most of these are “do you get out of the house and spend time on something” which is obvious. Looks like most hobbies are attractive, like even anime and cosplay have 1 out of 4 women who is into that and finds it attractive.

    I also love the huge correlation between the top 15 and what men think is the top 15, the main difference is that men didn’t think hobbies were attractive enough.

    I’d love to see the reversed list for what men think are attractive hobbies for a woman!

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    • Donkter@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      I’d also like to see that list. I’d also like to see how hobby preference lines up with what hobbies the person with that preference has themselves.

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    • abigscaryhobo@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      I think this is mutual in that I prefer women just have a hobby more than anything. It’s a weird feeling when someone genuinely tells you they do “Nothing really” and you find out they’re genuinely serious.

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  • rustydrd@sh.itjust.works ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    What about my practicing the Art of the Blade™?

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  • curiousaur@reddthat.com ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Cooking is my love language. I’m also a sole provider.

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    • madjo@feddit.nl ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Isn’t that called a “cobbler”? Or do you only do soles and not the entire shoe?

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    • Slovene@feddit.nl ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Oh. Do you catch them yourself or do you just have connections in the industry?

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  • _lilith@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    If anyone wants to learn to blacksmith Black bear forge has a good into series m.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLHta7NIJ9npbTNOR4JQW…

    And lemmy has a blacksmithing community that could use more posts

    !blacksmithing@lemmy.world

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    • LorIps@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Yeah I’ll just have the setup in my kitchen.

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      • _lilith@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        There’s actually a video at the end of that playlist that addresses that issue, but yeah there isn’t really an easy solution

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  • WereCat@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I’ve read manual for my new 3D printer but it was in a foreign language so I had to cook up a way to understand it, luckily I travel a lot so learning languages is not that difficult for me. I hope that this writing paints good enough of a picture on how it went. I forged up some way to accelerate my learning process so that I can get trough it swift like an arrow. There certainly were some steep inclines which I had to overcome but in the end it all went swimmingly. The only issue was that I could not muster a courage to approach my crush. I just stood there like a stump and stared at her eyes that glistened like stars. In the end it turned out she was a hoe so I dodged a bullet.

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    • lseif@sopuli.xyz ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      swooning rn (im a guy)

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  • peopleproblems@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Lmfao

    Let’s see: I love reading, I am learning French, I paint, I write, I enjoy a bit o astronomy, I am an archer, and I have learned how to blacksmith.

    Yeah this is just a list of activities with no correlation to attractiveness whatsoever

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    • OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.ml ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Assuming your my brother, the answer is you’re ugly

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      • peopleproblems@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        I mean, I’m apparently good enough to at least have one kid, so I got that going for me. Wasn’t an accident or anything either.

        But I at least have a well paying job so I got that going for me, which is nice.

        Plus, if generalize all women to be like my ex, I don’t want to date again. So being ugly ain’t all bad

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      • merc@sh.itjust.works ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        * you’re

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  • Atlusb@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Anyone have the least attractive? I want to check something.

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    • Sonor@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      modding porn subreddits? I mean, under that i think only illegal stuff are, like “robbing banks” and stuff

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      • rbn@sopuli.xyz ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Never heard of Bonny & Clide, huh? Or Robin Hood? I guess robbing banks can be damn attractive.

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      • bestagon@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Idk Arthur Morgan seems pretty popular. Might want to bump bank robbers up a few spots

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    • DoucheBagMcSwag@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      datepsychology.com/the-most-and-least-attractive-…

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      • Atlusb@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        OK actually. I talked it over with my partner. It seems constructive interest is attractive.

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  • M600@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Ahh yes… my favorite hobby… foreign languages.

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    • phorq@lemmy.ml ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      My Duolingo addiction is finally validated! I knew it wasn’t just a weird fetish for culo de búho!

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  • Agent641@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    They probably just didn’t ask about RTLSDR, otherwise it would be quite prominent, I’m sure.

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  • Asafum@feddit.nl ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    It’s a shame being attractive is the most important thing about being attractive lol

    I’m into cooking, astronomy, photography (astrophotography), and hiking. Used online dating (listed all those things) for almost 10 years and went on something like 7 dates.

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  • theacharnian@lemmy.ca ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I assume that by painting I don’t think they mean miniature painting. Unless it’s Henry Cavill that does it?

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  • WindyRebel@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    DMing for D&D isn’t here? Damn it.

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  • fossilesque@mander.xyz ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    That’s because I hog all the printing time.

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  • 58008@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Also fails to mention mastery of nunchucks?

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  • Evil_Shrubbery@lemm.ee ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    So a foreign manga reader that likes to work their wood whilst drawing furry pics from said manga, and travels to cons to display subsequent art - is the most irresistible person to women?
    (Should probably think about doing some public garden porn photography tbh)

    That does make sense.

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  • ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Expect /r/3dprintingincels (general place for incels that do 3D printing) and /r/dark3dprinting (3D printing nazi memoribalia) going live.

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  • synapse1278@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    All the nerd hobbies are at the bottom of the list scoring negatives. Linux, video games, Warhammer, D&D and other, etc. this is why despite playing a music instrument, I couldn’t get laid.

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  • fl42v@lemmy.ml ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    So, lots of Linux fans should be fairly attractive. Like we read (the docs), know a few languages (at least bash), occasionally write scripts, travel (between distros), and archers became a huge meme 🙃

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  • jenny_ball@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    where’s golfing?

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  • oyenyaaow@lemmy.zip ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    3D printing is just a tooI? blacksmithing? 3D print a ‘lost-wax’ plastic mould. Gardening? making some custom very specific mounts or drip ends.

    You don’t put on a hobby list ‘wielding a brush’. It’s what you do with it;

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