The idea that vaginas stretch out is kinda debunked.
Now assholes on the other hand…
Anon watches redditors talk about bodycount
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QueenHawlSera@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
idiomaddict@lemmy.world 1 week ago
I’m not disagreeing with the point of your statement, but I do want to clarify that vaginas absolutely stretch, just not permanently. You’ll have a very different experience if you work up to fisting over a couple of hours vs. launching right into it, because vaginas loosen with arousal.
Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 1 week ago
The important thing is that they are elastic - they don’t stay stretched. They’re not like sweaters that stay stretched out forever after someone large wears them, more like rubber bands that stretch temporarily before returning to their typical size. I think that’s why OP used the term “stretch out,” as too many people seem to think once a vagina stretches, it’s a permanent change. It’s such a weird misconception.
Giving birth stretches a vagina more than any penis (or fist) ever could. Though birth can make some changes that last, it’s more like “Now I need a larger size menstrual cup” than “Now penises just slide back out,” as the popular belief would have people believe.
endless_nameless@lemmy.world 1 week ago
I don’t think people caring about body count has anything to do with physical things other than drastically increased odds of STIs and certain cancers.
I think mature adults realize that sex is never just sex, it forms attachments whether you want it or not. Screwing around forming and cutting off attachments constantly kind of fucks with your capacity to emotionally invest in an actual relationship.
poke@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
Not everyone does form those attatchemnts. There are plenty of poeole out there who can just have sex and have a good time and move on.
fracture@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 week ago
i think the way you’re describing the process as “screwing around, forming and cutting off attachments” really shows that you think of it in a very black and white sort of way. one can have casual / fwb sex with their friends, and still have a friend relationship with that person. one can even have one-off sex with an acquaintance or stranger, and even if you never meet again, it doesn’t really make it a “cut off” relationship; if you met again, it would be pleasant, circumstances just may not arrange it
just because it’s a more emotionally involved process for you or some people you’ve encountered, doesn’t make it a universal truth
AceOnTrack@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 week ago
If your brain on days goes like ‘I should fuck a thousand guys’ and you don’t immediately shut it down, there’s something terribly wrong with you, and that’s before accounting for the STI you are absolutely carrying.
Now. Clearly some incels have an irrational low idea of what a ‘normal’ bodycount should be, but 1000 in one day ain’t it either.
lightnsfw@reddthat.com 1 week ago
Yeah, it’s more about the fact that it’s really reckless behavior for tons of reasons for me. I don’t need someone like that in my life. Literally every really promiscuous person I know is living a train wreck of a life. Most of them are pretty shitty people otherwise too. Some of them have grown out of it, but with that they became more stable in their relationships and aren’t sleeping around like they used to. I’m not saying it’s impossible to sleep around and not have tons of issues but I haven’t witnessed it so to me it’s a red flag.
JennaR8r@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 week ago
If they don’t stretch out, then why do some doctors offer tightening surgery on postpartum mothers?
blarghly@lemmy.world 1 week ago
They don’t stretch out from having a dick put in them. But giving birth is literally a physically traumatic event. Ligiments get slack so bones can shift around, and it is not uncommon for the flesh around the vagina to experience significant tearing. The whole thing is quite horrifying. Post pregnancy medical procedures may be necessary not just to have a tight pussy, but to be able to not constantly be peeing yourself.
Kolanaki@pawb.social 1 week ago
The same reason they try to keep women from getting tubal litigation: sexism.
RBWells@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Ouch. That is so fucked up. I am older and have been structurally tight (skin too tight at opening) sex hurts when it goes on too long. The “husband stitch” is abusive. And doctors do it because they do episiotomy, which is also awful because that cut doesn’t heal as well as a repaired natural tear and you might not tear at all.
Complimentary tightening surgery my ass. That doesn’t help mothers at all.
Rehab with kegels does help and obviously if you tear, a repair. The midwife recommended working up to fisting before having a baby and man I wish I had taken that advice.
But being tight right at the opening of the vagina just hurts, there is no advantage to it.
kkj@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 week ago
Because infants are larger than penises. Hope this helps!
Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 week ago
Seriously Jenna… get it together
starman2112@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
Weirdly, it’s actually the same reason that banks used to refuse to let single women have credit cards
teyrnon@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
I don’t know, but I read that vinegar not only clears any bad smells but also tightens it up.
strahlemann@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
Anon is an incel
Gullible@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
You could comment this on 90% of the posts in this community. Frankly, I like that far more than the “fake and gay” meme.
rwrwefwef@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
Fake: Anon never visited Reddit
Gay: Anon thinks about 1000 men
theywilleatthestars@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Logistically questionable, but if true than who gives a shit?
trxxruraxvr@lemmy.world 1 week ago
According to Wikipedia it’s true, and as a world record attempt a notary must have been present to count the men. There’s another job I don’t envy.
theywilleatthestars@lemmy.world 1 week ago
lmao
SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml 1 week ago
I don’t get the point of notaries. Anyone could be a notary – you just have to pinky promise that you saw something happen under oath
schnokobaer@feddit.org 1 week ago
Did they count each guy’s pumps? How many are required for it to count as intercourse
PartyAt15thAndSummit@lemmy.zip 1 week ago
1000 in a single day? That’s going to be difficult to…
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… top.MeowerMisfit817@lemmy.world 2 days ago
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MonkderVierte@lemmy.zip 1 week ago
People just love to be offended by something a random stranger did 10’000 km away.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 1 week ago
yeah, but how else am i going to get off on how morally superior I am?
trxxruraxvr@lemmy.world 1 week ago
you’re an incentive if you care about bodycount
Maybe, but I do care about orders of magnitude in bodycount. Being in the low single digits myself I definitely prefer partners that do not have a bodycount three orders of magnitude higher.
FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 1 week ago
And in “one sitting,” i.e one session just to have sex with 1000 people. I don’t think i believe she even did that.
As an aside: she must be like the biggest porn addict of her sex, to even want to do that. After a while she’s not going to be taking any pleasure from the experience. In a way it’s disrespectful to people who’ve undergone similar sexual assault - does she mot realise many women are literally scared of having sex with men or even being around men they don’t trust? It’s weird.
sem@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 week ago
It’s the record attempt that’s a red flag for me. Why would anyone do that to themselves?
taygaloocat@leminal.space 1 week ago
It’s still hard to gauge the stereotypical Lemmy user yet
EtnaAtsume@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Neurodivergent middle-aged Linux using anti-AI nostalgiagoggle-wearing very online privacy enthusiast with some degree of fixation on tech, be that privately (their hobby) or professionally (their job).
DahGangalang@infosec.pub 1 week ago
foofiepie@lemmy.world 1 week ago
HerbalGamer@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
Don’t forget leftist but somehow not communist
death_to_carrots@feddit.org 1 week ago
Why am I in this post?
necrobius@lemmy.zip 1 week ago
Damn you didn’t have to read me like that
CarstenBoll@feddit.dk 1 week ago
Excuse me, but I am not neurodivergent! At least not to my knowledge…
idiomaddict@lemmy.world 1 week ago
3/8 phew
Neurodivergent, anti-AI, and, given the number of times I’ve inadvertently referenced internet culture and had to explain it to people, probably very online.
When does middle age start again?
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 1 week ago
i keep assuming they are like 22-26 given how massively immature/insecure most of their takes on the world are.
plus don’t forget they are anti-capitalist, or something.
kittenzrulz123@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 week ago
Depends on the instance:
- LW/FHF users: Basically Redditors but mildly more elitist and significantly more male dominated
- Feddit.de users: Like the previous one except german
- DB0/FAF users: Nerdy, queer, and very leftist, also generally pro-ai (I may be biased here)
- Blahaj users: Very lesbian, very trans, many catgirls, lots of Linux users :3
- ML/Hex/etc users: Very leftist, very aggressive when approached with nonsense, gets into arguments with people whos minds will never be changed
db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 week ago
I would characterize us as more critically pro-ai, or maybe even just not-against-ai
SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml 1 week ago
Gen X American server admin
king_comrade@lemmy.world 1 week ago
If it were a man fucking 1000 girls in a day, we’d all celebrate. What’s more unattractive than a high body count? Insecurity.
GhostedIC@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
No, did you get your idea of gender roles from reading feminist books in the 90’s while never having actually set foot on earth’s surface from your flying saucer? A lot of men and women would have various kinds of issues if you were a man who fucked 1000 women in one day you fucking space alien.
king_comrade@lemmy.world 1 week ago
It’s absolutely a double standard mate, don’t be daft.
nova_ad_vitum@lemmy.ca 1 week ago
If it were a man fucking 1000 girls in a day, we’d all celebrate.
This statement makes me doubt that you know any actual human people irl.
Echolynx@lemmy.zip 1 week ago
Doesn’t even seem physically possible…
Lumisal@lemmy.world 1 week ago
All? Nah, I’d be wearing PPE and calling a health department to give people STD tests and see if a super spreader event just happened, regardless of sex, gender, or orientation.
No way the condoms are having a 100% success rate at the number in a single 24 hours.
HalfSalesman@lemmy.world 1 week ago
I don’t care if shes fucked a lot of dudes. If she’s clean, or only has something I’m prep/vax’d against I’d still be down.
I only take issue with it being presumably a dumb publicity stunt thing. Like, if she fucked that many guys over the course of a few years it’d just mean she had a really high libido and a desire for variety. But that many in one go? That just sounds unpleasant.
FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 1 week ago
She must be like the biggest porn addict of her sex, to even want to do that. After a while she’s not going to be taking any pleasure from the experience.
In a way it’s disrespectful to people who’ve undergone similar sexual assault - does she not realise many women are literally scared of having sex with men or even being around men they don’t trust? It’s weird.
AceOnTrack@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 week ago
that’s certainly a take…
MachineFab812@discuss.tchncs.de 1 week ago
No fucks given about the body-count. Not putting a stop to it at the point it becomes traumatizing AND leaning-in on the trauma in public quotes? I relive all the times I let myself almost-break for a dollar enough in therapy enough, without risking strangers ask me about it or call me “brave”(as if THAT’S what would happen…)
… Oh, and let’s not pretend society(or even 95+% of women who despise OOP, rightly or otherwise…) would be cool with me being cool with that and still wanting to date Bonnie Blue this side of her-changing-career-paths and me magically having enough money to “fix” her, either. I’m not interested in increasing the number of judgy “I got mine”/aspiring prudes in this world, TYVM.
AceOnTrack@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 week ago
Like yeah, I mean, I’m not that bothered that she fucked a thousand guys. I mean it kinda does, but what really puts me off is the thought processes that led to this event. Because clearly that isn’t something that happened on an impulse.
Like, I get doing dumb shit on impulse. I’ve done dumb shit on impulse. But this clearly had required planning, finding a thousand stupid dudes, organising logistics, hopefully std screening, etc.
At some point during all that, if your braincells don’t light up and you don’t realize it’s not a thing you should be doing… There’s something inherently wrong with you.
Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
Does that disqualify someone? No.
Would I be interested? Also no.