Madzielle
@Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com
- Comment on What is the hate against Pit Bulls? Everyone I've met are super friendly like my BC. Or are they the new Doberman for this cycle? 6 hours ago:
Thank youuuuu, youre right, I am so very casual in my writting on lemmy, but thanks for the point
- Comment on What is the hate against Pit Bulls? Everyone I've met are super friendly like my BC. Or are they the new Doberman for this cycle? 6 hours ago:
it was, the previous place he came from wasnt good, and then this person got the dog without any proper training, and didnt train the dog at all. I told this person not to get thd dog, they did anyway. I felt bad for him, the pup, and used to walk him a lot each day. Then the fight happened, and he attacked me. I didnt blame the dog but the humans involved. There are people who arnt ready to take in a rescue, who still do so, Ive seen it a lot in my personal life. I didnt mean to say you werent prepared for and knowledgable about training and handling, but, a lot of people out there arnt, yet they still pick up dogs.
Ill never take in a pit because what happened to me. I think thats fair. I also dont think everyone should just take in random dogs they dont know how to care for.
- Comment on What is the hate against Pit Bulls? Everyone I've met are super friendly like my BC. Or are they the new Doberman for this cycle? 10 hours ago:
You gotta be careful though, The one who bit me was a rescue. The guy who took him in was a complete moron entitled asshole, and I ended up getting bit due to this dudes negligence.
- Comment on What is the hate against Pit Bulls? Everyone I've met are super friendly like my BC. Or are they the new Doberman for this cycle? 10 hours ago:
When I was bit by a pit, I was in a fight with his uh, human. The dude was being a dick. The dog looked at me, looked at his “owner” and then lunged at me. I put up my left arm to block my face, thats where he caught me, in my arm. The guy jumpped on the dog, started punching it in the head (this guy was a complete moron) and he wouldnt let go.
I played dead. It was isntict, I dont know. After what felt like enterity, I just, took out a deep sigh, pushed all the air from me, went limp. the dog let go, the guy whos dog it was threw him in the bathroom and locked him in there, and I went to the hospital.
- Comment on What is the hate against Pit Bulls? Everyone I've met are super friendly like my BC. Or are they the new Doberman for this cycle? 10 hours ago:
I dont hate putbulls, I am however weary of them, because I was bit by one at 24… I didnt blame the dog, but its human countetpart(s).
My sisters Pug used to bite people, I do hate pugs, for many reasons, as I dont think they should exsist, the poor things.
- Comment on ‘Children were calling for their mummies’: UK pupils struggle in 40C-plus classrooms 14 hours ago:
Which is garbage reasoning because this is true in the states also, and yet, the last two weeks of school where I am we were in a heat wave, and four of those days they called for early dissmisal/half day due to heat, and sent the kids home at noon. Many schools dont have cooling outside of the offices (another issue), but you cannot learn (nor teach) when its too hot.
- Comment on people who take zoom calls in coffee shops are insufferable 2 days ago:
People who have full on conversations with Ai in public are insufferable.
Ive been seeing it a lot more often recently. The shit is on speaker, I can hear you talking to a clanker
- Comment on BDSM 2 days ago:
These are my favorite moments as well.
last saturday, I heard a thunderstorm rolling in just at sunset. A sat on the floor of my porch to see the sky, and I swear (maybe it was the pot), I had a spiritual moment. From the neighborhood, you could hear the local population setting off the small fireworks, further in the distance you could hear the larger fireworks going off, and then here comes mother nature with hers. The thunder started before the rain, it was purple! Purple lightning! I had never seen it before! I tried to get a photo, but failed, so I just sat and watched until the purple changed to blue, and the rains got heavy. Just, beautiful.
I love watching the land and all ita creatures.
- Comment on US Energy Secretary Chris Wright: “I'm thrilled to report that after 35 years, on July 4th, we will end the subsidies for wind and solar projects” 1 week ago:
That dude is not blinking, Im not say its def Ai, but I wouldny be surprised if theyre using AI to release status updates like this.
- Comment on This Apple Lie at the grocery store 1 week ago:
apple crumble or apple oatmeal? an apple oatmeal bowl would take less than ten mins to make, an apple crumble longer but then you …could eat half the pan like you want to. .
you can usually only have have 2/3: convenience, budget, quality. Pick two. A homemade apple oatmeal bowl might hit all three markers though.
what I would do, buy: A container of quick oats, a bag of apples, cinnamon, cane sugar… uh… Yeah. In a microwave bowl pour a tablespoon of sugar (or less or more whatever, its early), a shake of cinnamon, cut an apple (skin on for fiber) in to cubes right in your hand or on a small plate/cutting board, add it to the bowl, place about a cup of the quick oats on top, fill with water (maybe half a cup? maybe 3/4 cup? or read the oat box find out how much ur to use), Stir, then microwave it for like, two mins and eat the shit.
No it wont be fucking rock your socks off, but ita quick easy food that didt cost much.
- Comment on Anon tries to lose weight 1 week ago:
tbf this exsists
- Comment on Anon's lil bro goes through his first break up 2 weeks ago:
vulnerable, insecure
I know we all know what an incel is, but these words are true
- Comment on Anon's lil bro goes through his first break up 2 weeks ago:
When I used dating sites, seeing a guy’s shirtless, muscled profile pic was always a turn off, if not a red flag in itself.
I always felt this way too. Not only did I assume they would nit pick my body, because they seem to want perfection, I couldnt help but imagine they would at some point scare me if they ever got upset with me.
A friend of mine had a 17 year old son who just got broken up with for the first time. My son, was only 5 at the time, but the teen said to me, “make sure you teach him how to handle a breakup, I wasnt expecting any of this”. He shortly after tried to tell me the earth is flat, with split screen tiktoks as his reference. So, we know what road he was on. The kid was angry, confused, and hurt. It made me very sad. Ive now opened the conversation with my 13 year old about dating and break ups just recently. Im do my best to prepare him.
The chances you meet your life partner in the first shot is SO low. Everyone gets broken up with at some point, best to be prepared for it.
- Comment on Welcome to New York City 2 weeks ago:
Where is it, Finland, that has fines as a percentage of income?
I think it’s a great policy
- Comment on Welcome to New York City 2 weeks ago:
someone died on a man drag of road at about 3pm one day right before christmas. Car accident. I got out of work at 6 and had to take the road home. There was this absolute prick speeding, weaving through traffic and being dangerous. Speeding to the gas station, so I pulled in behind him. I told him somone died just hours earlier on this road from dangerous driving, someone lost thier son right before christmas and asked him to follow traffic laws, and slow down.
he goes, “sweetheart, I got places to be”. I raised my voice, “so does everyone else, that doesnt mean you can speed and potentially kill someone, youre not special”. drove off.
“I got places to be”
people are so selfish.
- Comment on Welcome to New York City 2 weeks ago:
Seriously, Ive gotten one ticket in 20 years. One.
- Comment on Supermarkets destroy food if it doesn't sell. We can always feed the world. We just don't. 3 weeks ago:
Im in connecticut and my govenor is up for primary. He’s done okay, but you can tell he is trying to compete with the younger fella up for the D primary. I hope the younger fella wins, but in the meantime 70ish old Lemont is trying to make headlines with “proposals” (nothings passed) that are based on policies that would benefit the working class.
I love to see the fear. I should write the old man and ask him to endorse his younger canidate. Near certain these guys just dont want to give up their comfortable positions of power due to some psycological desire.
- Comment on THE NEW YORK KNICKS ARE YOUR 2026 NBA CHAMPIONS 3 weeks ago:
Hell Yeah! NEW YORK! LET’S GOOOOO!
- Comment on [deleted] 4 weeks ago:
This is engaging the logical brain over the emotional. Great tip
- Comment on Aerosol 5 weeks ago:
I just told my kid about how we fixed acid rain through regulation just this morning
- Comment on Anon is a paramedic 1 month ago:
My husband, for a number of years, only stayed going for his cat first, and his father second. He happens to have a good relationship with his father, and recognizes he is lucky in this.
Im glad he held out so I could meet him and love him.
Live for whatever you need to, because life is long and there is always potential for better days.
- Comment on Anon is a paramedic 1 month ago:
I went through this with my mom. In one of our last conversations, I mentioned that years ago, when I was 18 and lived with her briefly, I took like fourty of her seroquel pills to try and kill myself. “Remember when I slept for three days straight?” And told her what I remembered of that time. Instead of her saying, “oh wow I didnt know that happened” and empathizing or something, she just denied it ever happened, got mad at me and called me a liar.
I never spoke to her again. I dont remember our last words but this one one of the staws for me.
The last time I spoke to my step father, the real abuser, was when I was 16. Letting go of that mess was easy.
Sometimes healing, or “forgiveness” (I hate that word) is in letting go. My Bio dad/mom were both raised pretty fucked up, especially my bio dad, not dissimilar from what ur father went through. I mourn his childhood, but not his death (he died) nor who he was as an adult.
Stay being good to yourself, I hope you find peace and healing in letting go <3
- Comment on Anon is a paramedic 1 month ago:
So much in life can change. Life is long. A decade away could be a whole new life for you, one where you no longer feel this way. Even if you feel this is never going to happen for you, all I can say is I felt the same. Then decades pass and I worked on every part of my life until I only had kind people around me. I struggled with suicide ideation from 8 years old to 36/37 years old. And then, one day without me noticing, it just stopped. Because I kicked all the mean folk out, and surrounded my life with good. I learned to accepted myself, flaws and all. There is always tomorrow.
I fed the squirrls peanuts I bought just for them this morning. Its love. Give love, get love. Life gonna beat the shit outta you, but one day it could be better. I have one friend, and three close family members, one of which I popped out myself so idk if that counts. Less people, but good people.
My step father would been happy I offed myself, I never wanted to give him satisfaction. Go for spite, find ur spite and draw hope.
I dont hate you, so go on and please keep exsisting.
- Comment on Anon is a paramedic 1 month ago:
Cherish that fact.
- Comment on I'd like to change my last name and want suggestions 1 month ago:
Its odd both the last names Winter and Shaw appear in my bloodline, though I carry my step fathers last name not these.
I too have wanted to change my last name, and have thought about it often. Id actually go back to my Great, great, grabdmothers name before she married, I think, but I dont know.
Shaw imo is ugly, but common. Winter or Winters is nice.
- Comment on What is a game you can’t understand why its so popular ? 1 month ago:
I used to play, noting there are a few different play styles for the game. I liked building, and spent most of my time doing as such. Then once done with the build, Id have idea of who would live there, and then make them and move them in. Play the people in live mode for some time, a short time, and move on to the next build. Sometimes id have a favorite character, and Id play them for a longer while.
Its just fun, its an escape of my own situation, and ive always loved architecture and design. Some folks like making big families, there are generational challanges you can do, I only ever got to third gen though, but some folks will go for a long time. My goals were always build my own structure and peoples for evert lot on every map.
- Comment on Anon watches redditors talk about bodycount 1 month ago:
im sorry youre so misreable in life.
- Comment on Anon watches redditors talk about bodycount 1 month ago:
tell me thw source!?
Willful ignorance isnt cute
- Comment on Anon watches redditors talk about bodycount 1 month ago:
This …line of thinking is why my step father wouldnt let me or my sister shower while on the rag in our teens. He had some old ass info, ignored doctors, and my and my sister suffered at the hands of his misinformation. He wouldnt even buy us tampons or pads and we used paper towels.
ita okay to be wrong, but its not okay to spread that info. it can harm women.
- Comment on Anon watches redditors talk about bodycount 1 month ago:
Youre not right about this. Im sorry. Some women do douche, but most doctors will advise against using anything like this. Mild soap externally is all that is recomended by most Obgyns.