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2/10 people on Lemmy, is that you?

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  • godzillabacter@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    “Never argue with stupid people because they will drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience.” George Carlin

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  • defaultusername@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Gish galloping is a well known argumentative technique to avoid scrutiny. It works so well, that now the US government is using a version of it to destroy the government at a rapid pace.

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    • captainlezbian@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      If the American Republic survives I suspect one long term change we’ll need is to introduce classes on political and rhetorical life to schools. Train people on how to have constructive discussions and how to recognize bad faith rhetorical tactics. We’re seeing now just how effectively bad faith tactics can undermine critical thought. This of course will have to be paired with teaching emotional intelligence.

      If the goal of our education system is to produce good citizens of a republic and effective stewards of democracy, we need to be putting more time and effort into that. If my schools could fit religion classes in and still be a better education than public schools they can find the way to teach these things. Philosophy classes every year would probably have done me much better than religion classes.

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      • notwhoyouthink@lemmy.zip ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        You’ve put a long form version of a theory I also have been thinking of: we need to do better for future generations by teaching and actually supporting critical thinking skills. I’ll also add empathy, which supports critical thinking and is not always hard wired in every human brain. Both are skills, much like emotional regulation and resilience. Personally, I would have benefited greatly by learning critical thinking and interpersonal skills at the age of 16 vs. whatever ‘algebra’ is supposed to be.

        Essentially, and TLDR: We need to teach young developing minds how to think, not what to think. We can do even better by teaching said minds that while we are not defined by our thoughts, we have much to learn by observing them instead.

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  • Donkter@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    So often it’s me typing out a big old comment. Realizing I can preempt some nuance to help the conversation. Thinking of a dozen more little nitpicks that might happen and realizing it’s just not worth it and it’s really the idiocy of the argument that’s making it so hard to explain myself.

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    • GeorgimusPrime@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      You encountered Brandolini’s Law aka the Bullshit Asymmetry Principle: it takes an order of magnitude more effort to debunk bullshit than it takes to produce it.

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      • Virtvirt588@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Exactly that, one bullshit goes into circulation, it spreads everywhere strengthening its flawed position. And just like it was said, facts dont even matter at that point - requiring a novel approach to disprove it.

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    • tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Hi, are you me?

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      • absGeekNZ@lemmy.nz ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        No they are me

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  • axh@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    In science there is an answer “you are not even wrong” which is a polite way of saying that wat you said makes so little sense, that it cannot even be disproven.

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    • JohnSmith@feddit.uk ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      Originally used by Wolfgan Pauli, I believe. He also said “I don’t mind your thinking slowly; I mind your publishing faster than you think.”

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  • fum@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    I met a guy in a sauna the other day who started preaching to me and saying that he doesn’t believe in science because it contradicts the bible story of creation.

    I just had nothing to say to this man. His perception of reality is so far off base that I cannot comprehend his thought processes.

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    • gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      did you ask him why he thinks that the bible is true?

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      • prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        “Because it is the word of god”

        “Ok, and you know that because…?”

        "The Bible says so.’

        “And why do you think the Bible is true?”

        Rinse and repeat

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      • grrgyle@slrpnk.net ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        This is what lead me to question my own faith: just someone asking honest questions with real curiosity

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      • fum@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        I was trying to relax in the sauna, so I didn’t want to get into it. Which is part of the problem with preaching like that!

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      • Tonava@sopuli.xyz ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        It’s pointless, then they go on a tangent about how it’s the word of god etc.To them god is real and everything is about god and if they have to make leaps in logic it’s just because mere people can’t understand god’s will

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    • Siegfried@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Maybe the temperature of the sauna was a little to high?

      I went to a catholic school in my country. We got teach biology, evolution, genetics and we also got sexual education including abortion (the practice was illegal at the time). One of the first things that i remember from our teology classes was that “we shouldn’t take what is written in the bible in a literal sense and that most of it was written to a particular volk in a particular time by men”… and the example the Father used was specifically the Genesis, meaning “earth was not created in 6 days”.

      I read stories of those lunatics, i mean, those who trully are in a crusade against reality. Are those more common over the ecuator or something?

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    • grrgyle@slrpnk.net ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      That’s a classic one too

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    • StopTech@lemmy.today ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Do you think he understands everyone else’s though processes? Presumably if you were surrounded by guys like him then you would be able to comprehend the way they think.

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  • StarryPhoenix97@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    There are some people who have just been filled with so much wrong information over the course of their life that it’s impossible to reach them. Anything you say to them will have a keyword that puts their guard up, any fact you share would be fake news. It’s like their brains have been encrypted with the propaganda and hate. It’s pavlovian. I try to recognize it in myself and maintain an open mind but it’s hard.

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    • prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Now imagine that they’re your parents.

      It’s fucking awful.

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      • BeMoreCareful@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        I don’t have to

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      • StopTech@lemmy.today ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Now imagine it’s your children too.

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    • StopTech@lemmy.today ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Very true. And we have to remember that our own views are informed by years of study/observation in areas other people will not have paid any attention to. So often it would take a book worth of real life examples to give someone the same background experience, and they would have to read that book carefully over many months for those examples to sink in, and still then they might think those are cherry-picked examples, whereas you came across them organically.

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      • StarryPhoenix97@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        It hurts, man. Especially knowing that the road I took has crumbled behind me, like in those old Looney Tunes cartoons where someone redraws the road lines to lead people off a cliff.

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  • zod000@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    I see you have met my in-laws. This isn’t just some boomer humor, they have truly transcended their Fox News addicted roots and now get really angry about aliens, chemtrails, and all sorts of bullshit.

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    • bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      Same here man. Its insanity. It has to be the lead. People can’t be this studpu otherwise right

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      • Inucune@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

        Ruts in thinking. Fox News has given them the tools to win any argument with little effort on their part… Any person attempting to provide a sound argument is flooded with BS and gives up… Which they consider a win.

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      • zod000@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

        I honestly have no idea, but I suppose it could be the lead. My own mother is bonkers and is starting to remind me of the crazy old mother from Requiem for a Dream,

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  • Matombo@feddit.org ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    “Right extremists are defending Democracy”

    Just 2 weeks ago and I still haven’t recovered from hearing that in person.

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    • gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      this could be because they understand “democracy” completely differently, though honestly it’s probably just a cover for “our way of life” or “our interests”

      like when the US goes to the middle east to spread “democracy”, they’re not actually spreading a better quality of life for the people, just violence and bloodshed. could be that your acquaintance meant it in that way.

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    • arrow74@lemmy.zip ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Allegedly the guy who shot Charlie Kirk was a right extremist who’s take was Kirk was too moderate.

      So far I think it’s a bet gain for democracy though.

      It’s an interesting hypothesis

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      • plyth@feddit.org ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Wasn’t that assumed because of the family, but he actually turned left?

        Utah County prosecutor Jeffrey Gray said that Robinson’s mother told investigators that her son had become more political over the last year and had started to “lean more to the left, becoming more pro-gay and trans rights–oriented”.

        en.wikipedia.org/…/Assassination_of_Charlie_Kirk

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  • Bitflip@lemmy.ml ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    Its unethical to have a battle of wits against an unarmed opponent.

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  • W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Image

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  • BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    MAGAs. Sometimes I don’t even debate them, I ignore them and talk about them as if they weren’t there, make fun of their arguments, laugh at them, mock them, just generally bully them, without even addressing them directly. They really hate that.

    MAGAs and Anti-Vaxxers are about the only acceptable bullying targets, and they should be bullied as viciously and as relentlessly as possible. The damage they have done is incalculable, they deserve it.

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    • StopTech@lemmy.today ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      This reminds me of that quote

      First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win.

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  • StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.works ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    online arguments never change minds, they only serve to galvanize each persons prior beliefs

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    • Rivalarrival@lemmy.today ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Its not about changing your opponent’s mind. It’s about the people reading along. You aren’t talking to your opponent. You’re talking to the audience you share with that opponent. Never forget that.

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    • grrgyle@slrpnk.net ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      False. I was deeply religious growing up but can remember the exact “debate” with an online athiest that planted the doubts and lead to my deconversion.

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    • drmoose@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      disagree, I’ve changed my mind several times through online arguments. Not always a flip but often reality is not as binary as you think and opposition has some important points.

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    • pmjv@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      liar!

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    • petrol_sniff_king@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
      1. This is not always true.
      2. There is a third person in this equation.
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    • musicjunkie@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      The majority of my currently held opinions on things have been shaped and influenced by over a decade of online forums discussion boards and conversations with strangers who hold different views as mine

      I usually explain the phenomenon of the internet similar to that of the printing press. It makes the smart people smarter (easier access to information) and dumb people dumber (they can’t detect misinformation and manipulation thus will trend towards the worst possible outcomes). If you are a smart person without access to higher education YouTube and Wikipedia is the greatest invention of mankind; if you are a retard then YouTube leads you to binge watching Candace Owens

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    • gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      i don’t see it that way, my views have changed significantly because of the discussions i’ve had (mostly online)

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    • fum@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      I think this is mostly true IRL too

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      • grrgyle@slrpnk.net ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        People will not show you that they’ve been convinced, but inside something may have shifted.

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    • matlag@sh.itjust.works ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      You’re wrong and I am going to harass you until you change your mind to prove it!!

      Oh, wait…

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    • Auth@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Most people read internet comments even if they never participate. Regardless of what they say they will be influenced by those comments. If you never have the argument your view will be represented and will die out.

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  • NickwithaC@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    I used to work with people who would smoke whatever weed their friend gave them but wouldn’t get the covid vaccine because “you don’t know what’s in it”

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  • Nomorereddit@lemmy.today ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    7/10 ppl online.

    But w lemme its still 7/10…but there’s obly like 10 users so I can handle it.

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  • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Yes, I block them, after I make sure that they’re insistent on being disingenuous.

    Related: Pretty sure I’ve blocked most of the .world moderators/admins at this point.

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    • Return_of_Chippy@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      I never block. I post a lot and blocking doesn’t stop them from seeing and commenting on my posts.

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      • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        I don’t care what idiots think, I enjoy not having to see their thoughts.

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    • sin_free_for_00_days@sopuli.xyz ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Yeah, I have a pretty low tolerance for the argumentative bullshit. That’s not why I’m here, and I often don’t give a shit if someone is wrong.

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      • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        See I enjoy arguments, they can be productive and interesting, but I don’t enjoy arguments with people who are not honest with themselves, argue in bad faith, people who are either deliberately putting words in your mouth.

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  • Truthtwopower@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    Every maga I come across. Just a bag full of excuses for pedophiles.

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    • hoch@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Same thing for me with tankies. Just a bag full of excuses for authoritarian regimes.

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    • Return_of_Chippy@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      Those are one of the groups I’m talking about

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  • DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    It’s not worth the effort to break down their position, and present coherent arguments back to them. They’ll just completely miss what you’re trying to say, and blast back more incomprehensible BS. It’s just raw, blind, ignorant anger, most of the time, we can’t refute emotion with logic, they just don’t hear it.

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  • lobut@lemmy.ca ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Went to the UK and the director was shitting on vegans. I said, “you can hate them but at least they’re good for climate change” (I ignored mentioning I was a vegan in the past). Holy fuck, non stop verbal diarrhea. He said that global warming isn’t true because scientists have agendas. Global warming is when seasons change (I think he was being funny or facetious about that). He also said eating meat had some carbon in their bones and that’s good for the earth or some shit.

    I wasn’t able to get a word in. I did eventually say that his definition of climate change would be agreed by no one. Then he came at me again and eventually ended it with “well, you started it”.

    I said, “yes and let’s end it and move on”

    He did not and then said more random shit.

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  • gaiussabinus@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    1/5

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    • SeptugenarianSenate@leminal.space ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      One fifth out of one

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  • TerdFerguson@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    The denominator is divisible by the numerator.

    Straight to jail.

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    • yermaw@sh.itjust.works ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      2/32 people dont know what youre talking about mate

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      • TerdFerguson@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Yeah. I’m aware of that fact, sad as it is.

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  • BreakerSwitch@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    It’s hard to win an argument with a smart person. It’s damn near impossible to win an argument with an idiot.

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    • Thebeardedsinglemalt@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      The point you know you’ve beat an idiot in an argument…either they wanna fight you, they start attacking your character or they end the argument with a bullshit excuse.

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      • BeMoreCareful@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Yeah, but then why have you bothered?

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  • wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    Thankfully the fediverse is still small enough that blocking people has a noticable effect. On reddit, for every person you block there’s 4 more to take their place.

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  • Malyca@lemmy.zip ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    In my wise old age I don’t waste time on fools. I no longer have the patience. I used to try to talk them out of whatever stupidity they’re peddling and it was rarely successful. Not worth the effort.

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  • moderatecentrist@feddit.uk ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    This reminds me of talking to tankies on Lemmy, which is probably a futile endeavour.

    For example, they seem to think that Russia’s imperialist invasion of Ukraine is justified. They think that Russia murdering Ukrainians with missiles and drones is justified. I can tell them that these actions are wrong, but they won’t listen.

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  • 1984@lemmy.today ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    I try not to argue with people on the internet. Its a compete waste or time and im actually surprised how many people do it.

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  • peteypete420@sh.itjust.works ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Yes, i have meet a person before. I have also commented on the internet.

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  • eightys3v3n@lemmy.ca ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    I have heard the way to do it, is to take their crazy and take it WAY past their line until they back off themselves.

    Moron: “There are only two genders!” Normal: “Right?!” Moron: “Ma-” Normal: “Trans and supergay”.

    No comment on the contents of my example. It’s the only comic strip I remember at the moment.

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  • billwashere@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    See

    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gish_gallop

    That fact that there is a term for it is just as depressing.

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  • FlyingCircus@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    My favorite are the anarkiddies who will be the first to tell you that corporations and capitalist states are lying propagandists, but when you say something remotely positive about China or the USSR they start talking like a 1950s US History textbook written by the CIA.

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  • WanderWisley@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    I live in rual northern Nevada and everyone here is hardcore brainwashed republicans. I used to try to correct them when they said dumb shit but it just made me look stupid, so now I just watch and listen to there ramblings. It’s more entertaining for me and less of a headache.

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