I’m very fortunate that my partner loved giving blow jobs, she’ll even just randomly start sucking my dick unprompted because she’s filthy and enjoys it so much.
That said when I met her, she wasn’t as keen on receiving but luckily enough I have been able to warm her up to it more, because I love eating her delicious cunt.
Signtist@bookwyr.me 1 day ago
My wife hates giving blowjobs, to the point where she doesn’t even want me to go down on her since she feels bad for not wanting to reciprocate. It’s like, I don’t do it because I want to get something in return, I just want to make you feel good, haha!
Wizard_Pope@lemmy.world 1 day ago
I feel ya. Got a similar situation. She often does not want me to go down on her or similar bevause she does not have the energy to reciprocate. But she still says she wants it. The she keeps saying ‘oh you don’t have to do all this’.
It’s odd but sometimes we do stuff because it feels good to make our loved ones feel good.
SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 1 day ago
Ma’am, I’m trying to pleasure a Lady down here, that’s hard work. Please stop worrying and enjoy the trip.
Besides that, I found blowjobs to be boring every time. It just doesn’t do that much for me.
frog@feddit.uk 1 day ago
Bro, talk to her about getting a Fleshlight. That way you both win. She won’t feel guilty and both of you pleasure each other.
kamenlady@lemmy.world 1 day ago
If it even touches the bed, I’ll burn it with fire!
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tias@discuss.tchncs.de 1 day ago
I genuinely wonder what that’s about. Why is it so much of a sacrifice, why is it any different from giving a back rub (assuming you have good hygiene). I certainly am not bothered by going down on her - on the contrary.
Signtist@bookwyr.me 1 day ago
From what I understand, her previous relationships had all been transactional, where the guy made her feel like she owed him for every nice thing he did. She’s still working on allowing herself to receive without feeling a sense of debt.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 1 day ago
it sounds like she wants to reciprocate giving pleasure in some way. give her an idea.