this is the unjust wedding of ‘masculinity’ and ‘being served’. going down on your lady isn’t manly because you’re serving her and her pleasure, elevating her experience above thine
this also manifests in how a man topping another man is not seen nearly as bad as a man bottoming, despite them both being homosexual acts
I wish being a good servant was seen as masculine and sexy. I mean, isn’t Jesus supposed to be like the perfect moral examplar? the guy defended, washed the feet of, those socially considered beneath him. if only more men tried to actually model their behavior like Jesus, modern society would be in a much better place for everyone, religious and otherwise
Mongostein@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
I dunno, I feel pretty manly when I make a woman cum.
So by extension, listening to women and being attentive is also manly.
mriormro@lemm.ee 2 months ago
No, you see that’s gay.
Agent641@lemmy.world 2 months ago
When you let a woman talk, and you listen attentively to her, she is verbally topping you, making you a sissygayboi. It’s very manly and secure to shout over women whenever they speak to force their word-penises out of your ears (the buttholes of the brain)
Mongostein@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
Ohhhhh, I see it now.
Here I was thinking all these other commentators were crazy. Thanks for the heads up.
Guess I’m gay. 🤷♂️