I only have ranked competitive sex.
Anon has casual sex
Submitted 3 months ago by Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works to greentext@sh.itjust.works
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sprittytinkles@sh.itjust.works 3 months ago
jerkface@lemmy.ca 3 months ago
freakin casuals
Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 3 months ago
For heterosexuals, ranked PnV
caseyweederman@lemmy.ca 3 months ago
For bisexuals, ranked PvP.
SVcross@lemmy.world 3 months ago
I aim to always win
caseyweederman@lemmy.ca 3 months ago
Maybe you could go for the silver and come second this time
southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 3 months ago
Fake and gay as hell. No anon ever gets laid.
That out of the way, this is the kind of thing I wish I could tell folks about when they haven’t run into it before.
Sex is great. Even casual sex can be great. But sometimes, casual sex is just masturbating with someone else’s genitals instead of your hand.
When you go into it drinking and aren’t even working off of mutual sexual interest, that sometimes becomes much more likely.
But holy fuck, sex isn’t something that is magic in and of itself. Hooking up is usually the opposite of magic. If you don’t go into it with the right frame of mind, you might as well buy a dildo or fleshlight
sprittytinkles@sh.itjust.works 3 months ago
I had a lot of casual sex when my ex wife and I split. It was filling a gap (pun intended) in my heart, but it was also me learning my own mind, body, and soul. I don’t regret it, but towards the end of that crazy year I did start to resent myself and my actions. I had a lot of fun and met some truly awesome women, but it was all skin deep. I am in a committed stable relationship now, going on 9 years, and having gone through my ho phase, I value and treasure my partner in ways I simply could not have, had I not been a ho for a year.
southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 3 months ago
Yeah, I feel that. For me the casual sex I had was about not having the time to develop a proper relationship. But I did learn a lot about myself my doing things that way.
Harvey656@lemmy.world 3 months ago
I’m assuming anon is young, cuz if I was young and single again, I’d tap that shit multiple times, hot asian milfs need love too!
Tiger@sh.itjust.works 3 months ago
Yeah, he’ll be yearning for a second chance at that someday, no doubt.
Majorllama@lemmy.world 3 months ago
The existence of casual sex implies the existence of ranked competitive sex.
Jokes aside some people need an emotional connection to have sex. Many do not.
Pacattack57@lemmy.world 3 months ago
Majorllama@lemmy.world 3 months ago
I wish I could pretend like I don’t know who any of those people are.
I’m surprised Belle Delphine is still pulling those numbers. I thought once she gave up the good doctor speak that everything would collaps. I guess I’m happy for her?
Idk who the rest of those people are… Is that the catch me outside girl? She’s old enough for porn now?? Fuck what happened to the time.
Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 3 months ago
Is it segregated by gender or just dominated by women?
tooting_lemmy@lemm.ee 3 months ago
I’m surprised the Cash me outside girl is number one.
Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 3 months ago
Not an expert but I thought most OF models don’t actually have sex in their content, they just sell nudes and interact with fans. Am I wrong there?
Comment105@lemm.ee 3 months ago
Dude has that Abrahamic guilt conditioning.
the_crotch@sh.itjust.works 3 months ago
Not necessarily. Sex, even casual sex, can complicate or completely destroy a relationship. If I had drunken casual sex with a coworker I’d have regrets.
Comment105@lemm.ee 3 months ago
Since you’re making this comment, I’m guessing you are not at all religious?
droporain@lemmynsfw.com 3 months ago
Don’t worry anon. Your butt won’t hurt after a couple days and you’ll feel better.
cyborganism@lemmy.ca 3 months ago
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
phoenixz@lemmy.ca 3 months ago
Has consensual sex feel guilty
Are you Catholic?
NaevaTheRat@vegantheoryclub.org 3 months ago
Anon has sex with a woman, immediately regrets it.
Never change 4Chan.
OmgItBurns@discuss.online 3 months ago
Folks, some people don’t like casual sex. Some people do. Depends a lot on why a person likes sex, if they like sex, I suppose.
zakobjoa@lemmy.world 3 months ago
The fuck is causal sex.
sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 3 months ago
It absolutely is.
Walk_blesseD@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 months ago
It’s when preceding events cause sex to happen.
DaPorkchop_@lemmy.ml 3 months ago
Its existence also implies the existence of sex which occurs spontaneously and without warning, independently of all preceding events.
AnUnusualRelic@lemmy.world 3 months ago
It’s like picrel apparently.
ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 3 months ago
OP just learned that there are multiple types of connection.
slaacaa@lemmy.world 3 months ago
HelixDab2@lemm.ee 3 months ago
There’s nothing wrong with not wanting casual sex. There’s nothing wrong with wanting it.
The problem comes from saying that what you want is the only right thing, and that everyone that doesn’t want the same thing you do is wrong. Or from being deceptive about what you want in order to coerce the other person into sex.
_cryptagion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 months ago
This dude is either Catholic, or gay and he doesn’t realize it.
sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 3 months ago
Fits with the fake/gay bit.
cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 3 months ago
Real man only have competitive sex
some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 3 months ago
How about just having sex and then a nice conversation in bed? Maybe dude isn’t able to do the second part and it gets awkward.
Tell you what. I’ll be the pinch hitter for future casual sex. Just dip out and I’ll take the hit for you.
tooting_lemmy@lemm.ee 3 months ago
I feel like casual sex will probably help you find a long term relationship. All my relationships started with a hookup. My marriage did too.
grrgyle@slrpnk.net 3 months ago
I feel the same way but about hanging out and not having sex.
festnt@sh.itjust.works 3 months ago
maybe he just doesn’t like sex
AlexisFR@jlai.lu 3 months ago
Show us the answers please!
PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat 3 months ago
Honestly, I always felt the same way when I was younger. People would just meet up and fuck, like a fun thing, and I was never that into it. I thought something was wrong with me that I didn’t get it, until I started spending time with girls I had a real-life connection with, and then it was magic.
Pop culture lied to me. The club is bullshit. Casual sex is an awkward wasteland. Props if you’re into it I guess, but somehow young adult America turned it into the default, when it’s not the way.
Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works 3 months ago
I’ve known people who’ve wondered if they were asexual because of this, then later realized that pop culture isn’t real life.
TheYojimbo@lemmy.world 3 months ago
Thing is, there is not a “way”. Some people enjoy casual sex, some yearns for a deeper connection, some don’t like sex at all. It varies depending on people, sexual preferences, mood, age, etc.
I don’t like these 4 chan posts because they are like, “they lied to me”. Brother, they didn’t, it’s just not for you right now.
Banana@sh.itjust.works 3 months ago
Capitalism turned it into default by turning dating into a catalogue you could surf from your couch instead of building meaningful connections with people.
In the name of profit
phdepressed@sh.itjust.works 3 months ago
It is quite far from the default. That’s just a perception issue. Most young adults aren’t even having sex much less casual sex. Like sure tinder exists but it is primarily a fwb generator, not a meet someone new to fuck every day (at least for most people).
BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 3 months ago
It’s the same way in europe, I hate it.
pocopene@lemmy.world 3 months ago
Maybe Helen Fisher’s work could be of interest to you
youtu.be/6wT61wsgfk0