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did_you_find_violets@lemmy.world 2 months ago
jdr@lemmy.ml 2 months ago
basxto@discuss.tchncs.de 2 months ago
but what about trimmed?
jambudz@lemmy.zip 1 month ago
Same. And also guy love my hair. Like to the point that I’m confused. Like yeah I have a hairy chest and legs. And very few spots now that don’t have hair. Yay looking like a mountain man.
GiantChickDicks@lemmy.ml 2 months ago
Same! Especially forearms and chest… Yum!
If my guy prefers to keep things short for personal preference reasons of course I’d never ask him to grow it longer for me. I think it’s important for guys that don’t want to shave to know that there are lots of us out there that find body hair super sexy!
bananabread@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
Hi 👋
i_stole_ur_taco@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
Extremely controversial take, I’m sure: you don’t shave for other people. You shave for yourself.
Master@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Yep. You do you first and foremost. Then deal with the haters. I like my arms and legs trimmed down to 1/8". I also like my balls smooth. I can compromise and leave some bush up top if that’s what my partner wants (though now that my wife is dead no one else to comment I guess) but the others are not really up for debate.
I also agree with that other guy that trimming your armpits goes a long way to helping look clean and not being overly sweaty. But a solid no to shaving them smooth. So uncomfortable and problematic when it starts to grow back.
blarghly@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I shave for other people. If no one was gonna suck my dick, then I would never shave - why go to the trouble, after all? But most people don’t like hair getting stuck in their throat, so I shave. Because I care about my partners’ experience.
Agent641@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I had a girlfriend who said she doesn’t like it that I trim my stuff short and I had to break it to her that I understand her preference but I do it for my own preference. I wouldn’t expect her to cut her hair or paint her nails a particular way to suit me.
abstractastronaut@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I mean, sure, but that’s mostly because I’ve gotten absolutely no feedback
TAG@lemmy.world 2 months ago
The only part of my hair grooming that is “for myself” is trimming my mustache so food does not get caught in it.
Everything else is is for looks and other people look at me much more often than I look at myself. Even when I see myself in a mirror, I try to see myself as others would see me. My wife is the person that looks at me the most and is the person whose opinion is most important to me, so I ask for her opinion about how I groom myself.
Ekybio@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Oh so the whole bear vs. man debate actually about THAT! Good to know.
slaacaa@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Would you rather meet a bear or a twink in the woods?
BigDiction@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I know Lemmy hates centrists but have we considered the trimmed option?
omniman@anarchist.nexus 2 months ago
I have never shaved any part of my body except the head but ngl when dick gets big and it tangles in the bush somehow that pain happens and the only way to solve it is to rotate my dick in public with hands but I can’t do that soo gotta walk nonchalant
The chest hair is also a problem with zip tshirt it always tangles in that spikes
My friends have shaved their chest hair and some even dih should I also do it My parents says no but never tells the reason just no
I am a adult btw
maltasoron@sopuli.xyz 2 months ago
when dick gets big and it tangles in the bush
what
how
Sadbutdru@sopuli.xyz 2 months ago
Because of the extreme bendiness of a flaccid penis, and the highly dynamic forces at play in the crotch area during everyday activities like walking, sitting, lying in bed, transitioning between positions, and wearing clothes, people sometimes end up with a pube caught inside their foreskin.
nomy@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
I keep everything groomed but never really shave anything smooth.
I’ve tried it and it feels nice for a second but the itching/scratching as it grows back just isn’t worth it.
But I keep basically my entire body “groomed” to some extent, I just use some electric clippers and a short guards. You want it long enough to not be scratchy or itchy, but short enough to not be a tangled mess.
I’m a hairy adult btw.
alsimoneau@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
I occasionally shave my armpits. Having hair pop out of your shirt sleeves is not a great look, and I find they’re less sweaty when shaved.
Wizard_Pope@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I just use my beard trimmer with the body attachment and trim armpit and pubic hairs
turtlesareneat@piefed.ca 2 months ago
Flipside tho, some of us are turned off by guys with shaved pits. Probably not enough to matter to you, but it’s a thing.
Schal330@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Trim the pubes, no need to go completely smooth. If you go completely smooth it is itchy when it grows back, plus you’ll notice it a LOT more when it gets sweaty. I guess it could be the same for chest hair?
mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
my heart rate monitor doesn’t read properly unless I keep my chest hair short
Banana@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Cant hurt to give it a try with some clippers tbh
Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
You could try a compromise of a trim. Be very careful around the wobbly bits.
TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Finally someone says it
lemmysmash@piefed.social 2 months ago
Now this is an interesting shitpost 🍿
CorrenteAlternata@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
It’s a hairpost
TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
shaved :p
Aedaz_@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
Amy arms and legs look like those of a gorilla’s and I have no interest in trimming them.
MonkderVierte@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
Some like youth, some like men.
LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I’m going to say overall many places they prefer youth. As if guys are expected to trim it shave their face, the people expecting it don’t like men in the context your talking
Rocketpoweredgorilla@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
I asked my ex gf once if I should shave, her reply was that it didn’t matter to her.
Several weeks later while I was shaving my beard, I had one of those sporadic moments where I thought to myself…why not? So I kept shaving. Shaved my head, chest etc, everything. By the time I was done I was more aerodynamic than a fighter jet.
My gf refused to talk to me after that for two weeks.
Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Just checking: did she not talk to you because you were too slippery, too scratchy, you turned out to have looked better with your netherbeard, or because you left hair all over the bathroom?
Rocketpoweredgorilla@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
I think it was several things, but the reason she gave me was that I looked too young. ( I was in my mid-40’s and only a few years younger than her.)
I suspect that her bi-polar issues played into that though as well. She was a very difficult person to keep happy.
daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
I also wouldn’t talk to a Harknonnen
SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
…Eyebrows?
Rocketpoweredgorilla@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
I was tempted to, but I was concerned people would think I’m a chemo patient so I left them alone.
Notyou@sopuli.xyz 2 months ago
Smart man. I heard that the hair is where the germs hide and we need to get rid of hair in order to be pure.
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