LifeInMultipleChoice
@LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world
- Comment on I present my girlfriend's daughter. 2 hours ago:
I can’t seem to learn this. I’m so used to being able to edit messages post sending them that I just use the send button as a save command. Type something. Ctrl S, go back and edit.
It’s dumb, but I still do it.
- Comment on The consequences (of my actions) have been extreme 1 day ago:
They hurt everyone else involved intentionally do to a sense of self richeousness. It’s a textbook definition of narcicism. It’s narcissistic for you and I to defend any of their actions as well. As you said. It’s narcissistic for us to think something is always someone else’s fault.
If someone calls the person they are going through a breakup with a self richeous dingbat who likes to tear down everyone around them in a private chat it’s not a nice thing to do. It also didn’t hurt that person until Derek brought it to their attention in an attempt to hurt the speaker while upsetting/hurting the person who was called names. Especially digging up things from years ago. These people aren’t running for office, they are kids dealing with life in a place of privacy. The number of people I’ve heard call soneone a little dicked asshole who isn’t good in bed is around 50. Never once would I think spreading that information to them or their friends group would be for the greater good. The person is hurt and lashing out. It’s often best to let them recover and sort out their own situation. If they were making plans to harm someone that’s another story, but that isn’t what happened here it appears.
- Comment on The consequences (of my actions) have been extreme 1 day ago:
Is the person who made the comments a narcissist, yes. Is the person who screen shorted it and shared it also a narcissist, absolutely.
- Comment on Idioms 3 days ago:
Up shits creek
- Comment on Is 33 cents a small amount of money? 1 week ago:
To be more specific the first 100,000 isn’t taxed at 28%. The 44 to 100k range would be, but below that will be taxed at lower percentages. The first ~10k you make is taxed at 10%, and then it increases throughout.
- Comment on does someone who lives very far away from me (for example 1900 miles) see the same night sky as me? (as in moon, stars, etc) 2 weeks ago:
Yeah it’s 7000+ km from Florida to London, yet they both can see the Sun at the same time. You can’t see every star the same, but much of the sky will overlap.
- Comment on Owing your home today is nearly impossible, but even if you did the ever increasing property taxes will bury you 2 weeks ago:
Is this a joke or did you just state these places exist without naming any?
- Comment on Owing your home today is nearly impossible, but even if you did the ever increasing property taxes will bury you 2 weeks ago:
That’s great and all, but you do realize that in the end that ends up being pro large corporations and limiting freedoms of the people. Cities and towns would be best built that way I agree but the chances that we can completely revoke capitalism is verryyy slim. In such every convenient/grocery store in those neighborhoods would be bought up by money and reduce prices to run out small owners. People not being able to grow their own food or raise their own chickens reduces ones ability to feed themselves independently. Communal neighborhood farms are an alternative which I have seen before, but they are rare and require space as well
- Comment on Owing your home today is nearly impossible, but even if you did the ever increasing property taxes will bury you 2 weeks ago:
.25 acres? Can we up that to at least an acre. I need a place for my chickens to roam and to plant my gardens, and I prefer to have a fire pit with outdoor patio furniture and a grill. Many places an acre is the standard plot size.
- Comment on This letter from "Friends of Zion" my grandmother received today 4 weeks ago:
The Hannibal directive was used by Israel to intentionally target and kill any Israeli prisoners being taken on Oct. 7. Israel has come out and said it. The attack was horrible, but every action by Israel was about wiping Gaza off the map. They were just looking for “acceptable” ways to accomplish it. As for torturing people, many Palestinians who were not part of Hamas were held and tortured. The people who returned to Israel all seem to be saying they weren’t tortured and were mostly bored sitting around waiting. It very much seems like a situation where a group was marginalized, constantly poked and proded, and then when someone responds they use it as reason to invoke further marginalization. Over and over until a “terrorist” organization was formed. Without such treatment, Hamas would have had no reason to exist. Zionism appears to have caused the entire issue.
- Comment on HELP! How do I help educate my son about his body when I know nothing about boys?? 4 weeks ago:
Yeah, people make stupid decisions no matter their gender, ideologies, or whatever else. I think one of the things I wish I would have learned more about at that age was the absence of structure. School is all very structured. Everything is about checking a box. Get this prerequisite, go to these classes. Be there at set times, get a set grade level and you will be fine. Get a certain score on the SAT/ACT or what not and you will be fine. Everything is almost definite. Once you leave high school/college there really isn’t any of that for your life unless you create it yourself. Get a job sure, within that job they will have structure. Nothing is telling people to check these 3 boxes and then move out of that job in 3 years and into the next step, as the steps no longer exist and staying in a single job is unlikely to land you where you need to be successful. Loyalty to a woman company doesn’t mean you will get raises or promotions. I wish I would have spent more time creating the maps and goals I want to achieve outside of the structure given to me, and work on achieving those goals and creating timelines they need to be done by. A certificate to move up/diagonal in my field, map it out and when and where you want to throw those 100 resumes out too and hope one of them will come back. Then already be working on other structured steps curated for my life aspirations.
I procrastinate on many of those things, because there are no due dates. It’s go to work, work, make dinner, clean, mow lawn, take care of chickens, blah blah blah to get to the next day week year, but then you never get around to improving yourself because I never set required boxes for me to check.
- Comment on HELP! How do I help educate my son about his body when I know nothing about boys?? 4 weeks ago:
Yeah it really wasn’t the response I expected to a teaching your child about their body. Not sure what that person has been through, but it did seem random. I expected responses like how to properly clean oneself.
- Comment on HELP! How do I help educate my son about his body when I know nothing about boys?? 4 weeks ago:
It does happen. Had a woman poke holes in all of the condoms in my nightstand when I was 18. She later admitted she thought I was going to leave her because I was going to a University and she was going to the state college. I’m sure it is rare that such happens, but I wouldn’t fully dismiss it. I was paranoid after that and always went to the bathroom after and filled the condom with water to make sure they hadn’t broke or had a hole in them after sex. It wouldn’t do anything to prevent it at that point, but at least I had the peace of mind I guess that I knew it wasn’t leaking and could get a 9 month head start on planning.
- Comment on why do transphobes mention pedophiles/compare them to pedophiles when most trans people (as do most people) hate pedophiles? 5 weeks ago:
Are you telling me that lesbians weren’t allowed to get married because their was no grooming?
- Comment on What keeps Americans from being mad about the state of their country? 5 weeks ago:
Hahahahaha
- Comment on What keeps Americans from being mad about the state of their country? 5 weeks ago:
What do you like most? The rampant corruption, the oligarchs siphoning money directly out of your taxes, the farmers being hurt and some who are yet to know it, or just the growth of racism and sexism brought on by this?
Number of working class people hurt: millions Number of billionaires helped, hundreds Number of idiots who think the trickle down effect works: To many illiterate people. Helping China and Russia daily.
Mothers of our kids and those kids, hurt daily. Enjoy yourself. But everything I said is true and some day maybe you’ll see it. Until then, your ignorance is bliss
- Comment on What keeps Americans from being mad about the state of their country? 5 weeks ago:
Good luck
- Comment on nope don’t like it 5 weeks ago:
Thanks, I’m the perfect kind of dumb that I will remember this while forgetting how to spell nessicary every time.
- Comment on It's a skill 1 month ago:
At first I thought it was a knockoff of Morgana Pendragon from Merlin. But I’m not sure
- Comment on It's a skill 1 month ago:
Made you wonder to huh? Best of luck out there hunting friend.
- Comment on [deleted] 1 month ago:
Thanks
- Comment on [deleted] 1 month ago:
Thanks for this comment, this actually made me want to play with one where I had kind of just waved it off before. Any recommendations for one that is very light weight and can be used offline. Wait times are fine but those configurations I’m sure I’ll need to find a reference manual for.
- Comment on I hate to admit that I’d probably watch this 1 month ago:
Florida used blue cross blue shield, the animals all died from depression.
- Comment on I hate to admit that I’d probably watch this 1 month ago:
When you start seeing alligator eating pythons catching rides around on kangaroos backs you know they are gearing up.
- Comment on No mommy I don't want it 1 month ago:
I have seen this image with different captions several times on Lemmy but every time I wonder where it was from. Is it an indie movie or porn? (That could be a game to be fair). Indie or porno
- Comment on [deleted] 1 month ago:
Why bother flying there to just cause problems. Just send them back a text that says you want support her lying to his family and if your embarrassed of who we are then it’s best we don’t attend.
- Comment on My first thought was did he want "diet" 7 UP or did he say screw it and just go for the regular 1 month ago:
Shit I misread it and I thought he wanted to eat the firing squad for his last meal. “Maybe he’s in for cannibalism, bold move cotton.”
- Comment on [deleted] 1 month ago:
Does FB require a federally accepted ID be uploaded to have access? I would assume the states requesting that for pornhub should do so to share content from pornhub on a major social media site would you not?
- Comment on Marvel Snap is banned, just like TikTok 2 months ago:
You care nothing of freedoms do you? I don’t use either of these apps but I still think it is outrageous to strip people’s ability to choose their actions because politicians are worried they can’t control enough of the media.
“Find a new game” is just “fall in line”
- Comment on They just don't understand 2 months ago:
I used one in an apartment where I had my modem in the living room, then went out to power, power back to an access point in my room that had my work VPN built into it. Ran a VoIP phone off of of it and 2 work desktops. Worked in IT at the time so I was using multiple remote softwares and didn’t have any issues.