Speaking from experience, weâre an hour behind because 20 people were 5 minutes late
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starman2112@sh.itjust.works âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
TrickDacy@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
And definitely not from the over scheduling. Yep definitely not that.
chunes@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
You donât overschedule, people start complaining that too many doctors arenât taking new patients. You try to increase the amount of doctors and people complain about immigration. Canât win
chiliedogg@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
I mean - it already takes months to get an appointment. If they schedule even fewer patients I donât see that improving either.
Fatal@piefed.social âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
How does that make sense lol. If everyone is 5 minutes late, then the whole schedule shifts back 5 minutes. The only way it builds into an hour long wait is if theyâre being overbooked on an over optimistic schedule. Hoping theyâll only take X minutes but they actually take X+5, for example.
BarbecueCowboy@lemmy.dbzer0.com âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Hey look, you figured out where the scam is, congratulations.
ChickenLadyLovesLife@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
My mother does two things whenever I take her to a doctorâs appointment:
- Complain to everyone if she has to wait even a few minutes for her appointment to start
- Endlessly ask the doctor pointless questions, repeat herself over and over again with the preface âand as I saidâ, and generally babble so her own appointment goes long past its scheduled length
davetortoise@reddthat.com âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
A huge number of Gen X and boomers have a strange idea that youâre supposed to distrust and challenge doctors constantly. Like theyâre going to try to cheat you or something.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Or dealing with someoneâs life threatening emergency and pretending itâs people being late.
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
It is really funny to me that, in general, medical professionals in the US still think people do or should broadly respect them.
⊠Why?
Nobody cares that youâre just following orders, thatâs not a very good excuse.
Nobody cares that you have a boatload of debt you need to pay off⊠most people do these days.
None of that gives yaâll societal permission to engage in possibly the most elaborate gaslighting fraud system that humanity has ever produced.
Yaâll are supposed to have ethics, âfirst, do no harmâ, yet you violate this routinely as a matter of course.
With few exceptions, youâre all hypocritical liars with God complexes.
iatenine@piefed.social âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
I had a scheduler get mad at me for being 5 mins early instead of 15. I still waited another 10 in the lobby
Gonzako@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Iâd rather wait for the doctor that takes its time to diagnose everyone than the one that is always on time
Miaou@jlai.lu âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Bold of you to assume theyâre not just taking in way too many
customerspatientsNottaLottaOcelot@lemmy.ca âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
What are they supposed to do? Turn away sick people?
âSorry you think you have an infection. Just deal with it for a few more weeks until I have timeâ
ivanafterall@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Maybe the one thatâs always on time is just really good at diagnosing.
âCancer. Get out. Erectile dysfunction. Get out. Missing a leg. Get out.â
peteypete420@sh.itjust.works âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Dam I thought it was just an inner ear infection giving me balance issues.
Gonzako@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
One of the skills doctors need is to be able to not only look that the most apparent option because should they diagnose wrong the patient is in a even worse position. Medicine is not a okams razor field, getting the diagnosis right precedes getting it fast.
GladiusB@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
I would rather they manage their appointments like they value everyoneâs time. Not everyone has an hour to wait PAST when they say they are available.
Mulligrubs@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
A few âfive minutes lateâ appointments go by, and before you know it theyâre an hour behind! Itâs crazy
Letâs blame them.
blujan@sopuli.xyz âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Maybe, and I donât doubt that urgent appointments happen and they try to squeeze them in and I understand that, one day it might be me.
But talking specifically about my kidâs pediatrician and my wifeâs obstetrician, we several times were scheduled for a specific time, and we came to learn we were scheduled in 10 to 15 minutes windows, and most times the appointment would last for at least 20 to 30 minutes.
So they do have some blame, and they charge too much not to have some semblance of time keeping.
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Oh, your bureacracy is complicated?
Cool, I donât care.
Tell how much this is gonna cost before I obtain the service.
Canât even come close to doing that?
Fraud, as far Iâm concerned.
ITGuyLevi@programming.dev âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
When they are late, I tell the front desk to re-schedule and leave. Iâve had the dentist complain once or twice over the years but when two entities decide on a time for a meeting, thatâs the time it needs to happen. Unlike the office, Iâm having to cancel stuff I would normally be doing to be there, they are not.
Eventually Iâll be old and grumpy enough to start sending them bills for late cancellation (probably joking).
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Exactly.
The⊠the norms here are bullshit, both from the PoV of âI am a consumerâ, and also from the basic professional etiquette of âthis is a business meetingâ.
Fuck, like⊠I got a statement from my insurance the other day, saying they didnât cover 1 of the two sets of glasses I got.
Called em.
Do I owe you money?
No, your optometry provider might bill you later though.
Ah ok, cool, thanks!
⊠and its been 6 months and the optometrists have yet to send me a bill.
Not my problem!
prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Wasnât this a Seinfeld episode?
gigachad@piefed.social âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
At least it is free to go to the doctor
GreenKnight23@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
cries in American
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Wait, you know what else weâve got that they ainât? Student debt! Letâs depress ourselves at them some more!
TrickDacy@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Civilized country defaultism strikes again
Tiger666@lemmy.ca âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Parking can be expensive sometimes depending on where the clinic is.
gigachad@piefed.social âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Public transport makes parking unnecessary
prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
đąđ«
cattywampas@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Theyâre an hour behind schedule because everyone ahead of you was 5 minutes late.
allidoislietomyself@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
A few years ago I was heading to the major city children hospital near us for a post op follow up for my kid. GPS said it would take 1.5hrs to get there so I left 2hrs early to make sure we get parking and weâre able to get to the appointment early. Well traffic ended up being so bad it took 4hrs to get to the hospital. I called ahead of time and asked if it was ok that we still go to the appointment because we were running way later than expected. The doc office said it was fine and to just get there as soon as we could. So we got to to hospital and up to the office and they saw us right away. Well the doc gets in the room and she starts yelling at me about being late and how disrespectful it is and how us being late impacts everyoneâs day. I apologized a few times as she continued to yell. Finally I said calmly âok lady we get it. I apologized and I called ahead and your office folks said it was fine.â. Well she lost it on me after that. She said âDO NOT SCREAM AT ME OR THREATEN ME!â, then she told the nurse to call security to escort me out. I very calmly said âI did not yell. I did not threaten anyone. I simply said we understood and I donât need to be lectured on it. Itâs sounds like we all have had a stressful morning so letâs just continue with the appointment and call it a day.â And that is exactly what we did. Any followup we have had since then has been very pleasant. Just caught her on a bad day I guess.
Janx@piefed.social âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Having a bad day is one thing. Taking it out on your patient by lying, yelling, threatening, and trying to delay their care is quite different. You must be a very forgiving person because I would have plastered details of that interaction on Google, social media, local news, their boss (if they have one), etc. Unless theyâre literally the only person with that expertise in the world, no one should have to be treated like thatâŠ
allidoislietomyself@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
That did cross my mind. However sheâs a phenomenal surgeon and that is all I needed her to be. Her skills dramatically changed the quality of my kidâs life for the better so it was well worth it. Also every interaction with her since then over the years has been perfect. Maybe she found out her husband was cheating on her that morning? Maybe her grandmother passed away and she just got the news before the appointment? Whatever it was, what I said to her was just the straw that broke the camelâs back.
Salamanderwizard@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Better than me. I wouldâve had an attitude every time I had to go back.
allidoislietomyself@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Thankfully we only have to see her once every 6 months or so. Plus sheâs been absolutely great since the incident. I think she was probably a little embarrassed afterwards.
DupaCycki@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Once, I was literally 2 minutes late. The doctor was busy talking to a nurse and only asked for me in 5 minutes, at which point he asked me why Iâm almost 10 minutes late.
Devadander@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Cause and effect. Donât be late
TrickDacy@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
If youâre 5 minutes late, you get seen 40 minutes after your appointment time. If youâre five minutes early, you are seen 10 minutes or more past your appointment time. Yep totally makes sense. And totally makes sense that people itt are making this fact the patientsâ faults.
Psionicsickness@reddthat.com âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
I would understand this anywhere but here in America. Here, Iâm paying you, motherfucker.
DarkFuture@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Mine has a smile on their face as long as they can overcharge me for not helping me.
Which is every single time.
Siegfried@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
I postponed a visit for months because of covid and QuarantÀne. At thr moment, it seemed like a really important visit.
Almost lost the turn, commuted through the whole city⊠the doctor arrived 2,5 hours late. She was not even sorry.
DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Last visit, the woman at the desk told me my doctor was running an hour behind. I knew that meant Iâd be waiting closer to two hours. I sighed, sat down, thought for a moment, and went back to the desk to reschedule the appointment. I did the doctor and me a favor. She got a free spot in her schedule to catch up, and I didnât need to sit around for two hours.
Grostleton@lemmy.dbzer0.com âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
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The doctorâs office when theyâre an hour behind because people keep coming in late.
then_three_more@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Iâve had appointments at opening time and theyâre still half an hour late. Doctor strolling in 15 minutes after the appointment time.
JusticeForPorygon@lemmy.blahaj.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Thatâll be $47,000
Angrydeuce@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Oh, you see an actual doctor? I havenât seen an actual doctor in the last like 3 years, always just a physicians assistant or other nurse.
Still get charged the dr copay though, funny how that works.
I wouldnt be surprised if the doctor is an AI construct and theyre just running my symptoms through whatever insurance company provided AI bullshit at this point.
TrickDacy@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
I love how multiple people itt are defending doctors making us wait up to an hour after our appointment time as if itâs not 90% their fault
explodicle@sh.itjust.works âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
TBF itâs usually not the doctorâs fault, itâs systemic.
Cossty@lemmy.world âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
My mum is a nurse. From what she tells me, almost all wait times are caused by the doctors who book too many patients and appoint each patient too little of time.