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Submitted ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩ by ⁨Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works⁩ to ⁨greentext@sh.itjust.works⁩

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  • Apeman42@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I don’t get these guys. My wife is a couple inches taller than me and it… just doesn’t matter? If anything it puts my face closer to the boobies, so what’s the problem?

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    • hanrahan@slrpnk.net ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      On the flip side I’m m 186cm and my f parter is 175cm and shes said she coukd never be with a.guy shorter then her.

      So presumably there is some truth to this myth in some cases ?

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    • Denjin@feddit.uk ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Guys are being spoonfed by the monosphere the narrative that if they’re 1cm too short or 1kg too heavy, women immediately despise them.

      It keeps them trapped in a self fulfilling cycle of despair and watching mysoginist grifter content online.

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      • hakase@lemmy.zip ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        I mean, that’s actually what happens though. Two weeks ago my wife and I were setting up two friends of ours on a blind date, and literally her first question was “how tall is he?” She of course got pissy when I asked what I should tell him when he asked about her weight.

        The manosphere is only able to capitalize on this rhetoric because it’s largely based in truth. Hashtag not all women, but enough of them for practically every guy under six feet to have a rejection story for being too short.

        Hell, I got rejected back in college once because I apparently have an ugly nose. To act like stuff like this isn’t happening to guys literally every day is being willfully ignorant. Rules 1 and 2 exist for a reason.

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  • e8d79@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    If this bunny can date a girl bunny four times its size, you can date a woman a few centimeters taller. Image

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    • LaserTurboShark69@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      That’s hot

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    • k0e3@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      If male angler fish can find mates, short men can date tall women.

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  • AnarchoEngineer@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Bro if I could only find a woman who’s like >2m…

    I would love to be the little spoon for once :(

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    • Eq0@literature.cafe ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      You can be the little spoon even when you are much taller than your partner ;)

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      • AnarchoEngineer@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        I’m not sure it’s really spooning if she can’t bend at the hips because the end of my back is far below them and basically at the height of her knees. Not sure having to lay down completely straight is a comfortable position lol

        I suppose a short girl could spoon me traditionally if she wants to be facing my lower back but that’s not really what I want either

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    • GraniteM@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

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  • P1k1e@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I know the solution…get off 4 chan

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    • UnrepententProcrastinator@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      It’s hard to find a community that agrees with you when you say that you are a loser.

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      • P1k1e@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Much easier to not be a loser when not on 4chan

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  • rumschlumpel@feddit.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Or when you like men who are the same height or shorter than you … but are quite short yourself.

    I assume many tall heterosexual women aren’t happy with their height, either.

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  • AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    My gf is shorter than me by a a few centimeters(maybe like an inch for you americans) but she wears heels so she seems taller and thats a postitive if you ask me.

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  • malware@lemmy.zip ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Same. 2m tall and get 0 sweethearts. Therapy wasn’t much help with anxiety caused by this. It is really painful, knowing that I’ll be forever alone. Contemplating taking an easy way out since September.

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    • Eq0@literature.cafe ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      My partner is almost 2m tall. The have often complained that their size easily scares people off. I’m sorry about the anxiety. It sucks.

      I believe the world is better with you in it. If you want to chat, I’m available.

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  • peoplebeproblems@midwest.social ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I mean I actually got a date. So I can’t be that ugly.

    But I am almost definitely pretty damn autistic.

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    • Tonava@sopuli.xyz ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Hey I am ugly and autistic, and still have been in a long-term relationship for years. Some people just are into it

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      • peoplebeproblems@midwest.social ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        I was married for 12 years.

        I made a mistake with that, so yeah. Kinda fucked myself over with it. Didnt actually start learning Bout the 'tism part until recently

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  • Helix8o8@lemy.lol ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Yaa lotta guys get the rough end of the stick. I feel. I’ve been trying for roughly a decade to flip the tables. Sick of the “female specimens” nonsense.

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    • Helix8o8@lemy.lol ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      By flip, I mean that men and women have been playing chess. And I want to upend the table and poop on it. Ooga booga

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      • Salamanderwizard@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        This is leader material.

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      • FartMaster69@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        There are definitely people into that.

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      • NaibofTabr@infosec.pub ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Hmm, what opening did they use?

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  • samus12345@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I fail to see the problem.

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  • _lilith@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    cant figure out if Annon has too much Tormund energy or not enough

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  • daggermoon@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Do people actually care about height?

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    • Saryn@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      It’s worth considering that the vast majority might not have a choice in the matter, at least as far as the subconscious is concerned.

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    • Crashumbc@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Yes, especially among more shallow groups…

      Although you’re not allowed to talk about it, it may even be a biologically sought trait. One of those animal things we act like we evolved past.

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    • Buddahriffic@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Some do (prefers tall), some do (prefers short), some don’t care either way, which is the case for pretty much any trait. Even serial killers get fanmail from people who get horny from that kind of thing.

      Though the distribution isn’t neutral (as in the average pop might prefer it one way over the other).

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    • zaphod@sopuli.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      No idea, but whenever I tried using dating apps, there were fields in the profile for height, so the developers must think that someone cares.

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    • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Yes. Your height is a huge factor in your social appeal and status.

      Taller people are considered more attractive, get paid more, and generally have positive biases associated with them. Short people have negative ones.

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      • thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

        what???

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        Short people have negative [biases associated with them]

        among school bullies and manosphere idiots

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        Taller people […] get paid more

        this definitely isn’t true (Technically it is, but height is not the cause, sex is)

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        women care very much about dating a larger, physically stronger, partner

        seems like a harmful and untrue stereotype

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        men don’t care so much about women’s height

        also seems like a harmful stereotype, also personally as a {idk if man or agender} i do kinda prefer tall women, but as @daggermoon@lemmy.world said, “I mean, I have a preference but it’s not even a determining factor for me. I care much more about what kind of person they are.”

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      • daggermoon@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        I mean, I have a preference but it’s not even a determining factor for me. I care much more about what kind of person they are.

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  • starman2112@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Danny DeVito has a wife

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    • Honytawk@feddit.nl ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Yeah but Danny DeVito is charisma incarnate

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      • HopeOfTheGunblade@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Part of him being charisma incarnate is having exactly zero fucks to give about how his appearance differs from conventional attractiveness.

        Part of the incel anticharisma comes from obsessing over how some facet of your appearance means never getting laid.

        Turns out just being chill about shit is sexy AF.

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      • Fuck_u_spez_@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        It doesn’t hurt that he also has a magnum dong.

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    • Kolanaki@pawb.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      And she’s about the same height as him.

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    • LittleBorat3@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      He is also well known around the world

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    • Crashumbc@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Show me you fail at statistics.

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  • daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I interpreted those as tears of pure joy and I refuse to believe any other interpretation.

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  • Kolanaki@pawb.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    6’6’’ and I only ever get like 1 girl to even talk to me on an app to every 10 dudes that actually meet me.

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  • nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    get a haircut and grow some tits

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    • thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      ironic given your username lol

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      • nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

        explain

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  • RBWells@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I have found lots of guys don’t want to date anyone as tall or taller than them (or one guy who fetishized it, which was so not better) it’s certainly not just women driving this preference.

    But can’t say that being tall as a lady has ever really kept me from finding partners, and the short guys I know in real life also do fine, so I think this is usually more of a weak preference not a criteria.

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    • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      because most people believe in trad gender roles.

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      • RBWells@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        It’s funny though - a guy my size is still stronger than me and guys shorter than me often still outmass me and are stronger than me, it’s strange that it’s so hyperfocused on height.

        Husband is my height but outweighs me by 50-60lb and can lift 2x what I can on my best day. I’m literally smaller and weaker, lol, despite being neither small nor weak.

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