Tonava

@Tonava@sopuli.xyz

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Garlic sauce⁩ ⁨⁨22⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago⁩:

  I’m guessing the cardboard can probably get soggy which increases the likelihood of a garlic sauce everywhere -incident

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨I know its hard to digest.⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  I have an ileostomy, so without large intestine my body does not accumulate shit inside, it just leaks out. One could even argue it is not really shit until large intestine handles it… Anyway this means you’re all wayyyy shittier than me

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Contain them⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Yeah in common spoken language we call everything “it”, except sometimes pets are “he/she”, because people are signaling they’re valued as persons are

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨We wouldn't listen, anyway.⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  To be fair a lot of people don’t ask the latter questions either

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨No, I will not identify all the pictures with bicycles in them.⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  The worst ones I’ve encountered are the ones where you’re supposed to choose pictures with right amount of rocks stacked on them. It’s just impossible, the generated images are too shitty to see the “rocks”, there’s so many pictures even one round takes ages, and on top of it you have to start over again if you make a single mistake - which it will tell you after you’ve done the full round. I once had to do like five rounds of those since I just couldn’t get it right. Now I just close the fucking sites if I see the damn rock piles again, nothing’s worth it, it’s just abuse at this point

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Some people prefer corn for some ungodly reason ⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  That’s me, ileostomy and any fresh vegetables. Tiny piece of salad? Fuck you, how about your guts spit out the piece and flush themselves empty in half an hour. Several bagfulls of yellow liquid. I don’t eat fresh vegetables anymore

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Firefox dev clarifies that AI features will be 'opt-in' and there will be a 'killswitch' to disable them⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I switched to Waterfox immediately after they released the first news. Having to disable the AI stuff in about:config was already annoying enough, so I have no trust in whatever they claim anymore.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Christmas Animals⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I don’t disagree, so maybe I’m just using a wrong word? “Comfortable in their own skin and not made to feel lesser” and not being ashamed, is just what I was thinking

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Christmas Animals⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Sorry if I sounded like blaming you of something! The point I was trying to make was more about how many autists are ashamed of themselves because of discrimination; that maybe those with a more difficult type could be more proud if they treated better

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Christmas Animals⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Autism still isn’t a disease though, you can’t “cure” it, it’s something we are. Even with the most disabled we should start with accepting them and offering the help they need, not just immediately label them as defected and try to erase who they are. Sure, let’s figure out ways to lessen the worst symptoms, but how about if we’d just stop discriminating first and see where that leads

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨YOLO⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I wonder was he ever able to get his ostomy reversed since they did just Hartmans, or did the acid also destroy all the anal muscles and all that, preventing it. Yeesh what an interesting and horrid way to fuck up your life

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨It will be great, they said...⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  You don’t need to look at the details in this case, even. The whole sign-thing is distorted in an unnatural way

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Statistically, probably with the beetles. 🪲⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Hell yeah!

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨why⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  You don’t need grammatical gender at all for that though. Says a native speaker of an agglutinative language

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The PP Police⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  Yes! Makes no fucking sense. Transwomen are men when it’s convenient, but these people sure as hell won’t actually consider them as men either since even feminine cis-men are mocked and called women by a lot of this crowd… I guess the whole argument would actually be “there’s only men and women!! And these other things that aren’t even people” if they were honest

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Turtle Wax⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  Thank you! I’m relatively good at written english, but the spoken one always gets me…

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The PP Police⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  The whole thing is about controlling women in essence. These people try to define what a proper woman is; how they should look and act, how they should be, and then enforce that over everyone. Bathroom laws are a good example, as is accusing all athletes that don’t fit petite feminine stereotype being trans as well. These demands of “proper” will also get more and more narrow if they get foothold. Don’t want to wear dresses and make up? Too hairy, too tall? Too loud, too smart? Too bad, you’re not a woman and deserve to be assaulted.

  Any woman, trans or cis, supporting any form of transphobia is shooting themselves in the leg. Especially terfs are asinine since they’re even pretending to be for women’s rights while simultaneously doing their best to eradicate them

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Turtle Wax⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  What?! Are polish and polish pronounced differently?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon reaches their breaking point⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  Yeah that’s not blood. It’s too bright to be that dry, and you can even see the pen marks; that’s been colored with a pen, not even painted on. If there was that much blood, it wouldn’t be in that uniform color and thickness, the actual splattering pattern would be very different, and it certainly would have dripped between the fingers

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The Perfect Picture of Helth⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  It’s highly dependent how much cheese you put on it, really. Just the base and some (quality) toppings aren’t the problem, but if half of the content is cheese, that’s way too much fat and energy. Personally I don’t like cheese so I only sprinkle a minimal amount of it on top, but I’ve observed most people feel the total opposite and drenching the whole thing in cheese seems to be the preferred way to consume it…

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon gets his life in order⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  There’s certain common patterns this dynamic seems to take:

  • They end up in that type of traditional marriage for fifty years where the wife controls absolutely everything and the man throws around jokes about ball and chain. This ends when either one dies; if the man dies first, the wife will live happily for another ten years, but if the wife dies first, the man follows soon
  • The man loses all sights of himself and becomes a passive and meek “yes, dear” -man, and then the girlfriend (or wife if they managed to get married) eventually gets bored since the project car isn’t fun anymore, and cheats or just straight up leaves him. This pattern might also involve straight up domestic violence where the man is too embarrassed and scared to seek help
  • The girlfriend (or wife again) gets tired of taking care of a manchild instead of having an equal partner, and leaves. This happens especially if they have children and the wife realizes it’s actually easier to take care of the children alone. Often the man also ends up whining about how he doesn’t understand what he did wrong, and thought everything was going so well
• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨She's out of town and I'm cleaning her entire collection as a surprise⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  But the thing is, if it turns out to be harmful, it’s too late if we have used it - we can’t get it out of nature anymore. Which is a fucking big risk to take considering the effects research has already proven with the other PFAS. That’s kinda the whole problem with persistent organic pollutants

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨She's out of town and I'm cleaning her entire collection as a surprise⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  Only if they are persistent organic pollutants as well

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨She's out of town and I'm cleaning her entire collection as a surprise⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  I think in the case of PFAS it’s very reasonable. There’s no real harm done in avoiding them except possibly making less money and having to figure out other ways to do certain things - which cannot even be compared to the the potential danger they pose to the whole ecosphere

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨She's out of town and I'm cleaning her entire collection as a surprise⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  PFAS is a chemical

  PFAS is the term for the whole group of the stuffs called “forever chemicals” (for a reason). There’s not just a single one, but multiple, and as the specific ones and groups get banned, the industries move to use different ones, basically. It’s important to buy “PFAS free” stuff, any other labels like “PFOA free” can still mean there’s PFASs there, there’s just not ones from the specific variation

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon likes a girl⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  Hey I am ugly and autistic, and still have been in a long-term relationship for years. Some people just are into it

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨What⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  There’s always the old classic video of a finnish man cursing at a bear, which has a good example of how a proper perkele is said

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨What⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  I’m in Finland and swedish is our second official language. I’ve heard groups of fennoswede teenagers all speak swedish to each other, except they will throw in properly pronounced finnish curse words (like vittu and perkele). I guess they just are more powerful

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨What are some good things to purchase to add a new distraction to my life?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  If you want something calm, you could try houseplants. There’s all sorts of options from easy to difficult to keep, and it’s easy to end up filling your home with them, which is actually pretty beneficial unlike some other clutter

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨But why⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Lmao what’s up with teachers getting mad at little kids reading faster than they should?! I have similar experience where the whole class was supposed to read one book together, like a chapter per week at home. At that point I was a major fantasy nerd and could read several books per week, so imagine the agony when the book was actually good! I gave up pretty quickly and just read it, and the teacher was so angry. I didn’t get in any more trouble than that either, though. I guess you’d have to be a really bad teacher to actually punish a kid for reading, even if you get mad at your plans getting ruined