Submitted 1 day ago by Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works to greentext@sh.itjust.works
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Wouldn’t quite call this “gigachad” behavior, but it’s good and healthy to not jump on literally anyone who offers, even if you aren’t particularly interested. I suspect anon sees this as “gigachad” because they’re steeped in manosphere/incel ideology (unsurprising for a 4chan user).
Definitely autistic.
Yeah I don’t associate being rude to someone that is awkwardly expressing an interest in you, cool, or alpha, or whatever the fuck gigachad is, it’s just a dick move, that will make that person expressing interest lose confidence to ask out the next person, which is a problem in today’s society more than ever with online dating kind of poisoning the well.
There is a nice way to say no, and autism is no excuse for not being nice there.
We don’t know whether the guy already tried saying ‘no’ in a nice way, though. Sometimes people just don’t get the hint, especially if one or both people in the interaction are neurodiverse.
I don’t tknow the coworker ,but OP is obviously GAY.
OP is the coworker following the guy around. And they thought we wouldn’t notice smh my head
Totally in love and heartbroken. Bmh my heart too.
Autism/Chad horseshoe theory
he’s GAY.
HE’S LITERALLY GAY
Or just not into that particular girl
Sounds like a man who knows what he likes and doesn’t want social involvement with people he doesn’t like. Why does that behavior have to have a name?
Fake: woman interested in man
Gay: anon is jealous
Ungay: anon is a woman too.
Completlely flips the script, doesn’t it?
Regay: anon is jealous of the guy, because she has a crush on the women following him.
I’ve been in this literal exact situation. If it hadn’t happened 20 years ago I’d be worried this anon is talking about me
As an autistic woman who’s usually attracted to others on the spectrum, I am worried anon is talking about me.
Sometimes i tell my girlfriend stories about weird people in my life and she’s like: yeah, she was into your autistic ass. Nonono, she was doing this and that… Oh honey.
Same, I’m such a dumb fuck! Nothing Gigachad about that.
Gigachads don’t shout, do they?
Or they only shout. No in between
I’M SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. YOUR DAD WAS A GREAT GUY!!!
Is this situation plausible?
Yes. I’m tall and conventionally good looking. Had almost the same situation happen to me, except for the shouting “yes” part.
I am also above average in heights and looks. A girl would follow me around in high school and harass me all the time while still trying to be my friend. In retrospect she was definitely crushing on me.
As opposed to inaudibly shouting
An autistic gigachad, obviously.
Gigautist
Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 1 day ago
I work with a guy like this. Lead his icebreaker with “I don’t understand people so don’t expect me to interact with you.”
He’s the most brilliant person I’ve ever worked with. His knowledge is encyclopedic. He will show you how what you’re asking is idiotic in as few words as is necessary. He has no fear of manager or customer.
He has my eternal allegiance.
Bombastic@sopuli.xyz 23 hours ago
Oh to be such a brave man
fibojoly@sh.itjust.works 20 hours ago
It helps if your field of fucks is barren and you’ve none left to give. I really love it. My boss told me if I wanna go up in the hierarchy I’ll need some diplomacy training to speak to higher ups and I’m like “do you really think I say those things by accident?!” :,D
felixwhynot@lemmy.world 1 day ago
We stan
baguettefish@discuss.tchncs.de 21 hours ago
looking at the lyrics of that song, i would not exactly stan
TexasDrunk@lemmy.world 1 day ago
I would follow that man into hell.