Azzu
@Azzu@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Creator of LULs (a script which helps links to point to your instance)
Come say hi here or over at twitch.tv/AzzuriteTV :) I like getting to know more people :)
Play games with me: steamcommunity.com/id/azzu
- Comment on [deleted] 1 day ago:
At 42 you don’t have ambitions anymore :(
- Comment on [deleted] 1 day ago:
he needs to find someone he can grow with and build a proper future with
Or maybe you can let him decide what he wants? Don’t lead him on, but if he decides something, why would you try to tell him his decision is wrong?
- Comment on FOSS App to Edit videos ? 2 days ago:
How do you add a text overlay that follows an object on the screen?
- Comment on Why is the human body so incredibly bad at responding to colds? 3 days ago:
Dude, you are in a million years battle with other organisms trying to exploit and kill you, and you’re fucking winning. I would call that a blazing success. The other organisms are trying their literal best, their survival depends on it, and you just KEEP. ON. WINNING.
- Comment on Agoda axes 50 Singapore staff; warns them not to report to govt agencies or lose their severance pay: sources 3 days ago:
My Singapore friend (who escaped to Germany because of stuff like this) says companies can and do just put all kinds of shit like this into contracts, and people take it because they feel like they have no choice.
- Comment on Do you meditate? 1 week ago:
Don’t know what it’s called, I just let my thoughts go and focus on the sensations of my senses. I do this all the time except when I specifically need to think, which isn’t super often.
- Comment on My Bank Recently Changed Their Interface to Move Money Between Accounts 1 week ago:
Can also think like this, “I have an invoice that I need to pay. So I need to pay to there, let me figure out where to get the money from”, i.e. impetus-based thinking instead of process-based thinking.
- Comment on How long do we have before PCs get locked bootloaders and corporations ban installation of "non-approved" software? (for context: Google is restricting sideloading worldwide on Android ETA 2027) 2 weeks ago:
Yeah, mine too, it’s not the fastest and most cutting-edge one, though, maybe that’s what they mean.
- Comment on How long do we have before PCs get locked bootloaders and corporations ban installation of "non-approved" software? (for context: Google is restricting sideloading worldwide on Android ETA 2027) 2 weeks ago:
Not really realistic at all. There’s a market for unlocked devices, and where there’s money, there’ll be a way.
- Comment on I'm on the spectrum. How do I live the rest of my life? 3 weeks ago:
Two things.
For most people, asking “why do you talk so little?” is not a slap in the face, it is an attempt at inclusion. It gets interpreted as a slap in the face. As such, your example is not right.
Secondly, when we expect people to take our autistic sensibilities into account, I think it is entirely fair to take their sensibilities into account as well. Most people do not rub autistic people the wrong way on purpose. We do not rub them the wrong way on purpose. Yet it makes sense for both parties to take the other parties sensibilities into account. Since one can only control oneself, one should start this behavior with oneself.
- Comment on [deleted] 3 weeks ago:
People in general don’t work by any guiding principles, they work by emotions. Emotions don’t care about consistency.
Acting in a consistent way has to be learned in a rational way, and it involves suppressing your emotional reaction. People are only lile this if they explicitly learn/practice this, the default human without learning that does not work like that.
So, the fact that your dad is good to you and bad to other people is very simply explained: he loves you, acting lovingly, and hates others, acting hatefully.
- Comment on I'm on the spectrum. How do I live the rest of my life? 3 weeks ago:
You’re doing what they do to you back to them. This is not hard to understand. You don’t like it, so they don’t like it. You’re essentially “proving your point” by taking revenge. The only thing they hear is that you’re taking revenge.
If it was about boundaries, you could say something along the lines “I don’t like these kind of questions, I am perfectly comfortable being quiet, with this question you make it sound like something is wrong about it. I get this question all the time and I don’t want to answer it anymore.”
- Comment on I'm on the spectrum. How do I live the rest of my life? 3 weeks ago:
I’m not talking about in real life. I’m talking about your comments right here that are that way. You also edited your comment here, at first you were saying something about the person you’re replying to being boring.
- Comment on I'm on the spectrum. How do I live the rest of my life? 3 weeks ago:
Your coworkers do it to you and if frustrates you, but you’re doing it to them which frustrates them.
They openly admit to doing the bad behavior back to them.
why I don’t talk more, why they feel offended if I answer asking why they talk so much
There is no need to go for confrontation, asking why someone talks so little might just be a way of trying to include them in a group or getting to know them, and it sounds like OP just responds as hostile as possible. They could just say “I’m comfortable talking little” or whatever.
- Comment on I'm on the spectrum. How do I live the rest of my life? 3 weeks ago:
I’m an autistic introvert and upvoted them. You really don’t see how you immediately go for personal attacks and derogatory behavior? You don’t need to tell people they’re being boring. You can just leave and not interact and thus not hurt their feelings.
- Comment on What strategy would you use to estimate the number of hazelnuts 3 weeks ago:
Weigh 10 hazelnuts, weigh all hazelnuts, do basic math.
- Comment on Best Co-Op Games? 3 weeks ago:
Nucleus Coop (for Windows only unfortunately) makes lots of games that ordinarily don’t have offline splitscreen to work in that way.
- Comment on Best Co-Op Games? 3 weeks ago:
You can play a lot of games splitscreen coop with nucleus, Windows only unfortunately.
- Comment on My writing laptop just died 3 weeks ago:
Horde here. If you get any Linux OS with KDE plasma as desktop it’ll feel pretty much the same as Windows, if you’re not a computer person you’ll likely not even notice the difference. Install the KDE version of EndeavorOS for example. Horde end
- Comment on My writing laptop just died 3 weeks ago:
Where are you writing this from?
- Comment on A real question about trans athletes and records 4 weeks ago:
The question is, what really is different between a woman or a short man in basketball? Both can not compete because of their genetics.
- Comment on Anon tries to meet girls at college 4 weeks ago:
So much prejudice
- Comment on Anon tries to meet girls at college 4 weeks ago:
And why do they assume he doesn’t bathe?
- Comment on President Trump shows President Zelenskyy and President Macron his 4 More Years hats 4 weeks ago:
I realize that. But it helps when thinking about the behavior, as what I said is also true. He’s elderly and still a child at the same time.
- Comment on President Trump shows President Zelenskyy and President Macron his 4 More Years hats 4 weeks ago:
He’s not really elderly. He just never matured from the “child” stage, and those mental states can be pretty similar in some regards.
- Comment on Anon thinks there is a bicurious double standard 4 weeks ago:
I mean you kinda said the reason yourself: “[she] join[ed] a previously men-only fraternity at her college”. Of course I’m only speculating.
The people she surrounded herself with probably thought that way and thus she thought that way. Most people do not think critically about their beliefs very much, yes even most progressives are just progressives because of the people around them.
- Comment on Exposing the billion dollar secret most VPN companies don't want you to know 4 weeks ago:
Yep but your VPN wouldn’t be in Germany obviously, but in a country with less strict laws on which information have to be kept.
- Comment on Exposing the billion dollar secret most VPN companies don't want you to know 4 weeks ago:
You’re in Germany. If you do something illegal like downloading a movie and the police gets your IP during it, they can request your ISP to reveal your identity.
If you use a VPN, your IP is the IP of the VPN company, and they’ll say “we have no idea which of our users did that request, they all use the same IP”.
- Comment on What's the easiest way to get hookups without seeing escorts? 1 month ago:
This comment was adressed at other people giving advice, not for OP.
- Comment on If you had 1 dollar and 24 hours what would you do? 1 month ago:
Beg on the streets for someone to give me 1 dollar