Fun fact, the 5 stages was developed as a general pattern for people with terminal illnesses coming to terms with their own death, not for people grieving the death of those close to them.
Stages of grief
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moistclump@lemmy.world 2 years ago
jettrscga@lemmy.world 2 years ago
That’s true, but it became clear that others would experience similar emotions.
Also according to the Wikipedia, the author regretted writing them in a way that suggested they’re a linear progression of steps. I’ve only actually heard the steps used as a sitcom plot point (Monk, Scrubs).
ImplyingImplications@lemmy.ca 2 years ago
Also, grief doesn’t happen in stages. Someone can have accepted something one day and are then upset over it the next. They haven’t gone backwards, that’s just how grief works.
gedaliyah@lemmy.world 2 years ago
Not sure who needs to hear this in a shitpost, but the Kübler-Ross “5 stages of grief” is pretty much discredited.
It’s historically significant because Kübler-Ross was the first one to really investigate and publicize the psychology of dying. We wouldn’t know what we do now without her. But one of the things we know is that the 5-stages model is wrong.
Track_Shovel@slrpnk.net 2 years ago
So how do we grieve?
gedaliyah@lemmy.world 2 years ago
It’s complicated, but for a lot of people, the Four Tasks are helpful.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 years ago
I can’t remember the one I saw that was the worst, it was like “you’re gonna wish you bought butter” or “you’d hope for butter, but you’d be wrong”
superkret@feddit.org 2 years ago
Haha! You were laboring under the misapprehension that this is “butter”!
Klear@sh.itjust.works 2 years ago
Coaxed into a not butter
fdnomad@programming.dev 2 years ago
You’ve been labouring under the misapprehension that this is butter, fuck you it’s margerine
billwashere@lemmy.world 2 years ago
I want to buy this brand.
chemical_cutthroat@lemmy.world 2 years ago
Unsalted margarine. Gross. Just drink canola oil straight out of the jug if your life has come to that.
Zacryon@feddit.org 2 years ago
We consume too much salt, which has detrimental effects. Try it a few weeks with less (not necessarily none, you need at least some) salt. You may observe that you start experiencing more interesting tastes and won’t need salt as much.
chemical_cutthroat@lemmy.world 2 years ago
I’m not saying we shouldn’t cut out salt, but eating unsalted butter or margarine isn’t where to cut back. That’s for baking. If you want to cut back on salt, take the shaker off the table.
Track_Shovel@slrpnk.net 2 years ago
Lubricate those bowels
HootinNHollerin@lemmy.world 2 years ago
The spice must flow
ikidd@lemmy.world 2 years ago
Margarine’s is fucking gross.
Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 1 year ago
it’s just solid canola oil and water lmao, do you just eat spoonfuls of it on its own? i mean i guess butter would be better to consume like that but not by much…
ikidd@lemmy.world 1 year ago
If you don’t think you taste the difference even just on toast, then you should get your tastebuds checked.
roon@lemmy.ml 2 years ago
If you go to Omega Mart in Area 15, they have some products on the shelf that say “who told you this was butter?”
papertowels@lemmy.one 2 years ago
This is in Las Vegas, of anyone needed further contact
AFC1886VCC@reddthat.com 2 years ago
You forgot stage 6: joy
“It’s not butter, but I don’t even like butter!”
Kedly@lemm.ee 2 years ago
Ok, but here me out: Margarine is superior
Classy@sh.itjust.works 2 years ago
Seed oils are disgusting. I’ll stick with butter
SSJMarx@lemm.ee 2 years ago
Cows are even more disgusting. Gimme that margarine.
ulterno@lemmy.kde.social 2 years ago
“Yeah! Margarine doesn’t have cholesterol!”, said the mess manager while pocketing the savings.
Kedly@lemm.ee 2 years ago
Tbh, its just because when I wanna butterlike its because I want to spread it on something and butter is a nightmare to spread
Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 1 year ago
taste-wise butter is like, slightly better? but the price is so hilariously not fucking worth it in the least.
Plus, you can get margarine with added omega 3! As someone who fucking hates fish, that’s pretty nice.
Zacryon@feddit.org 2 years ago
Where I live, Margarine has to have a fat content of at least 80 % otherwise it is not allowed to be called Margarine. Guess what happens? Even there companies try to cut costs and oversell less fatty water as kind of Margarine.
hakunawazo@lemmy.world 2 years ago
* Stages of grease FTFY
Rediphile@lemmy.ca 2 years ago
I really want someone to sell legit butter but marketed as ‘I can’t believe it’s not margarine!’
captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 2 years ago
And I want to make a sparkling wine and market it as The Beer Of Champagnes.
wander1236@sh.itjust.works 2 years ago
I know it’s a meme, but I do honestly prefer I Can’t Believe It’s Not Butter over most real butters (nothing beats Kerrygold) and other margarines.
It tastes and feels enough like butter to me to work well on bread and such and it doesn’t have the strong smelling milk proteins.
Nuke_the_whales@lemmy.world 2 years ago
I noticed that lots of companies call margarine “vegan butter” or similar lately
hedgehogging_the_bed@lemmy.world 2 years ago
roguetrick@lemmy.world 2 years ago
That should get them tagged for deceptive advertising. “We put a little buttermilk in with this water and vegetable oil emulsion and advertise that higher than the two primary ingredients.”
Jean_le_Flambeur@discuss.tchncs.de 2 years ago
When you are happy about a repost of an old meme, because at least it was good, it tells a lot about the state of the Lemmy meme scene…
Zacryon@feddit.org 2 years ago
Be part of the change! Contribute YOUR memes! Uncle Lemmy wants YOU to join!
Jean_le_Flambeur@discuss.tchncs.de 2 years ago
Yeah i know your right… I just don’t have it in me, chronical lurker :(
Track_Shovel@slrpnk.net 2 years ago
Meh, I post a shit ton of memes. I’m not checking if they are reposts or old. I can’t be bothered.
someguy3@lemmy.world 2 years ago
Didn’t they ban sale of margarine? Or was that with trans fat and now they make it with seed oil?
Track_Shovel@slrpnk.net 2 years ago
The second one
roguetrick@lemmy.world 2 years ago
Essentially trans fats allowed the margarine to have a better texture and be more melt in your mouth not on the table. They replaced them with a higher proportion of saturated fats to get the same result. Since it’s a mixed oil emulsion, there’s little appreciable difference in the texture of the product. Twinkie filling was not so lucky.
whereBeWaldo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 years ago
Isn’t margarine more fucked up than butter nutritionally and healthiness wise, or am I misinformed?
pipows@lemmy.today 2 years ago
Yes, but for a time we thought the butter was really bad for you
Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 1 year ago
maybe maybe not, but for sure it’s not the thing you should be worrying about, what you should be worrying about is eating less in general, eating more vegetables, eating less carbs, and getting more exercise.
Krauerking@lemy.lol 2 years ago
Fuck the scientific accuracy this seems accurate enough for me.
Now, where the fuck is my Butter?RizzRustbolt@lemmy.world 2 years ago
It’s always sad when a child(butter) dies.
Shardikprime@lemmy.world 2 years ago
I mean butter and and margarine are both good here in LATAM but lard is also used as well
SatansMaggotyCumFart@lemmy.world 2 years ago
I tell you, after trying every single one of these brands it all feels the same when you stick your dick in them.
Track_Shovel@slrpnk.net 2 years ago
Not what they mean by ‘butt stuff’ - you added a extra syllable
hakunawazo@lemmy.world 2 years ago
Marlon Brando would disagree while dancing tango.
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Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 2 years ago
Lies. Margarine is a lot softer than butter.
SatansMaggotyCumFart@lemmy.world 2 years ago
Listen to me when I speak.
I said all these brands feel the same but when I’m having a Rockefeller moment I will only fuck a cored out block of real grass fed butter because margarine will never be butter.
masterofn001@lemmy.ca 2 years ago
Sir, this Wendy’s has whipped margarine.