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- Comment on Anon has marital problems 3 hours ago:
Fuck man, I don’t disagree with you. Don’t construe my words as me saying there’s nothing wrong here, but I also am not in the “omg just get divorced” camp, either. I’ve been in great and terrible relationships and I’ve seen behavior like above in both. There’s a massive difference between “I’m serving you these papers to cause suffering or as a shit test” and what OOP’s wife did. YES, her behavior was toxic. Toxicity doesn’t happen in a vacuum.
I’ve been around plenty of guys like the greentexter, too. Aloof, unaware, “women say the darnedest things” types. If he doesn’t see the situation and say, “Damn I got some problems with this relationship that need fixing” then he’s insane. But this guy says, “I love you and I’ve always tried… Man this is weird, better post to 4chan!”
Perhaps she’s been trying to talk to him about it but he’s been acting like a dumbass and this was her last ditch effort to shake some sense into him. AGAIN, her behavior is unhealthy. But if his response to it is to show love, and hers is to break down and back away from the edge, then perhaps there is more foundation here than we’re seeing in the context of this message.
I love my partner dearly and I regret to say I’ve acted in ways like this before during difficult times. Love is fucking hard sometimes. It’s about how you pick the pieces up and move forward.
- Comment on Anon has marital problems 14 hours ago:
What a sad situation. I know a lot of people here think this is abuse and I can see their perspective, but I see this more as a relationship lacking communication. The wife didn’t feel assured that her husband loved her anymore and the divorce papers were a last ditch effort to see if he still does. Sure, just talking openly would be better, but goddamn is it hard to find people who can do that.
I think the fact that she broke down and tore up the papers immediately after is a sign that she really didn’t want to do it and was reacting to his genuine reply.
I think OOP needs couple’s therapy.
- Comment on Intruder 2 weeks ago:
Is it not possible that this photo was taken prior to the incident, and that the kid was bothered by the whole situation? I have a hard time taking the “little baby” comment too seriously. People act in very unusual ways when overdosing on adrenaline.
- Comment on Intruder 2 weeks ago:
Body shaming a child, ascribing a whole persona based on an abberant situation, then act absolutely smug about it all. How very European.
Children grow out of being overweight all the time. And the facts are that someone WAS breaking into this house that was occupied by a child. If there were no gun, perhaps this would have been a much different article.
- Comment on Anon doesn't want to join the flesh nexus 4 weeks ago:
I cede your point though I respectfully disagree. I am also a father, and I do not game (haven’t in a couple years, really), but I do not see a problem with leisure activity as an adult. Why are you reading a boo? Your child is awake. You shouldn’t ever practice a craft, or go on a walk, or have date night, because otherwise you’re not being a “kickass father” to your daughter. I would say your opinion is reactionary to having neglectful parents, and I empathize and I’m glad you’ve found a rewarding path to raise your child. I like to think that I am a good father, empathetic, authoritative, and yet I still take time to write, play guitar, fuck around online. Becoming a parent should not mean negating one’s own desires and quality of life. Children are not parasites, they are individuals.
The people you describe are, I would say, aberrant and their behavior is not becoming of a good parent.
- Comment on Anon doesn't want to join the flesh nexus 4 weeks ago:
SOMA is a horror game/walking simulator (depends on the critic) about a man who has his brain scanned as he is dying of brain bleeding caused by a car accident months prior. By having his brain scanned, it actually copies his consciousness, and he ends up transported to a far flung apocalyptic future.
I don’t want to spoil too much, it’s an amazing game with fantastic dives into rather dense and challenging ethical and philosophical questions. My reference to this post was about the fact that, in the future, an artificial intelligence fashioned a sort of “flesh nexus”—the AI was given the sole task of preserving human life, and in its reasoning, if a person is dying, they can be converted into something different that will live on indefinitely.
PLEASE, either go play the game (it’s not extremely long) or watch a good let’s play.
- Comment on Anon doesn't want to join the flesh nexus 4 weeks ago:
Basically exactly the plot to SOMA
- Comment on Anon tries programming in Java 5 weeks ago:
Oh my god I got fucked by a python script once because of a single space. It took forever to figure out what went wrong
- Comment on Indiana Jones doesn't "endorse" Nazis, Bethesda assure, just in case you were confused by him repeatedly murdering them 1 month ago:
Maybe it’s a skill issue. They never could make it past level one so the nazis are programmed to be too good!
- Comment on Y=-x² 1 month ago:
look look
me any bad doesn’t make
look look you
making better - Comment on I hate that that happens 1 month ago:
If if if if if we
Okie doke
- Comment on I hate that that happens 1 month ago:
I’m pretty sure it is grammatically correct with no comma. The version you provided is a comma splice.
To slightly change the tense, *All the good faith that I had had no effect" is grammatically correct with no comma, so the gerund form should also not need a comma.
- Comment on xcoffee 1 month ago:
Yeah, welcome to the club, pal.
- Comment on Literally Nineteen Eighty-Four 1 month ago:
Wtf I’ve never heard of this, what a cursed way to notate large numbers
- Comment on hard to argue with 1 month ago:
Lack of butterflies caused me to panic the first time he proposed, and I needed more time to think things through. I knew I liked him. I knew in terms of biblical values, he was a rare find. He wasn’t the most handsome guy ever, but he wasn’t repulsive either.
Oooof what a blog lmao
- Comment on Magic Mineral 2 months ago:
And I thought Alex Jones’ colloidal silver was insane
- Comment on Fall Cooking 2 months ago:
Delicious sycamore tea, my favorite
- Comment on puts hair on ya chest 2 months ago:
Dude spent way too much time drawing those chesticles
- Comment on This means I close the tab, regardless of what is on the site. 2 months ago:
Some partners do not ask for your consent to process your data and rely on their legitimate business interest.
Sounds a whole hell of a lot like rape language to me
- Comment on Pray for me lads, Imma about to rawdog this without back ups 2 months ago:
Maybe I’m just screaming into the void here, but does it seem like, as a person who is still relatively out of touch with linux, I don’t necessarily have to update my Arch distribution whenever there are new updates available? I could theoretically just go on downloading new programs, uninstalling old ones, using everything as it sits until theoretically something breaks?
- Comment on Anon enjoys time with his father 2 months ago:
~~:.|:;~~ - Comment on Anon recommends a cast iron pan 2 months ago:
Look for antique CI and you’ll get less weight. I love CHF (Chicago Hardware Foundry) and BSR (Birmingham something something…) pans because they’re thinner casting and smooth finish. I also have some Antiques from the 19th C that get regular use. I can’t stand modern pans. They are all way too heavy, and that pebbled surface is a pain in the ass to cook on and clean. It’s no wonder people hate cast iron
- Comment on Anon recommends a cast iron pan 2 months ago:
If you’re buying modern garbage $10 pans from Dollar General don’t be surprised when they’re not performing as well as your Cuisinart SS. I have all SS and cast iron, and they both get about equal usage. CI is just better for meats. The higher heat conductivity and even temperature across the surface (with proper time to warm up) is incredibly useful. Searing is unsurpassable with CI. You can be rough with CI and it takes the beating in stride.
SS is better for quick heat and rapid changes in temperature. Boiling water, sauces, roux, etc.
I’ve had cast iron pans with old dinner remains sat in the bottom for 3 days, it comes off with hot water. And yes I use soap and water. If you use a good oil for seasoning and you set your pan up nicely you don’t have to worry about babying the seasoning.
twice as long
If you’re using CI for the right use cases it is WAY faster than aluminum. As I said, the heat transfer of iron is extremely good compared to thin walled aluminum or stainless. CI will cook chicken very fast. It’s all down to knowing your tools and using them correctly.
I can tap a nail into a wall with pliers, doesn’t mean they won’t do the job as well as a hammer.
- Comment on Modern Cinderella 2 months ago:
Why do I hear progressively closer popping noises??
- Comment on Nap game 2 months ago:
My sleep schedule I’ve been doing for years now is to sleep maybe 4-5 max hours at night and take a 20 minute nap after work.
- Comment on Ailanthus 2 months ago:
Honeysuckle is the worst
- Comment on fwiends 2 months ago:
3⁄256
Please don’t let the Amish at my work know that such small increments of size exist. They’ll ask me to cut my trim to that level of tolerance
- Comment on fwiends 2 months ago:
Do you wear a belt? Do you develop a rash on your underbelly where it touches the buckle?
Can you guess how I learned I was allergic to nickel?
- Comment on How do you scream? 2 months ago:
I just want to know what the dude from Lamb of God does to make himself sound like a jaguar
- Comment on This is my hole! 2 months ago:
My pseudo-coked out Tik-tok brain can’t watch more than ten seconds of any content if it doesn’t have at least three different visuals happening at once for me to focus on.