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Which is worse: not wanting kids, or wanting them too much?

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Submitted ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩ by ⁨slaacaa@lemmy.world⁩ to ⁨[deleted]⁩

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  • NotSteve_@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I have no idea who the person on the left is

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    • JoMiran@lemmy.ml ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      She had a severe case of postpartum psychoses and killed her kids. Went to trial and was found not guilty by every juror except a woman hating wife beater even though he admitted to having reasonable doubt, which lead to a mistrail.

      It’s a very shitty meme that makes fun of a woman’s tragedy.

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      • too_high_for_this@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        A woman’s tragedy? The fuck? She strangled her three children to death. I don’t give a shit what circumstances led to it. The tragedy is the kids who were murdered and everyone who knew and loved them.

        It’s terrible that she couldn’t get the help she needed. That doesn’t make her the victim.

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      • NotSteve_@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Jesus Christ, I read the wikipedia page and this meme is fucking awful

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      • wezzzy@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Yea i agree i hope this gets removed

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      • Tollana1234567@lemmy.today ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        you are listening to misinformation, the woman in the juror went on a SJW crusade to get her freed, because they felt “Woman needs to be not the same as men”

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      • Blurntout@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Allegedly killed her kids

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      • bigmamoth@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Lmao The case is well documented. She wasn’t in psychosis. She went on the phone mid murder spree like everything was all right. Put her in a jail and throw the key

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    • Shrubbery@piefed.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Since the other poster didn’t actually give her name: Lindsay Clancy

      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Killing_of_the_Clancy_children

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    • SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      I hope everyone else here just lets you keep it that way.

      Please don’t inform this person and make their life materially worse for knowing thanks.

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    • Happy_Doofus@fedinsfw.app ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Is that the lady that offend her kids then jumped out a window, maybe?

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  • girlnamedzero@piefed.zeromedia.vip ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Hmm, prolly a 3-4, I greatly dislike children, I don’t want them near me. I don’t want them fucking dead, I just don’t want goblins near me

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    • jobbies@lemmy.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Same. I don’t wish them harm but keep your sticky little goblin hands far away from me.

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    • TheMuffinMan@piefed.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      It’s incredible thst someone downvoted you for this 😆 I’m with you!

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      • girlnamedzero@piefed.zeromedia.vip ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Must be some goblin loving fiend that can’t fathom the idea that some people don’t want to have children.

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  • DmMacniel@feddit.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Shouldn’t that Scale be from -10 to 10?

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    • adjectivenoun@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      No.

      It should be from -3 to 10. (Probably more than 10 actually.)

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      • HonoraryMancunian@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        But not much more than 10, amirite

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    • FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      It should! You are a scientist and a scholar

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    • KeithD@lemmy.nz ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      That’s a 10 at both ends, but insane to pedo.

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  • SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I love kids, Charlie! I LOVE KIIIDS!

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  • FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    “We love kids the appropriate amount as allowed by law”- Chandler Bing

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  • chewypoops@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Love presenting women’s mental health controversies as a joke.

    Three children died and a family is forever destroyed. lol, amirite?

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    • yoshi@lemmy.today ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      I can’t be the only one who finds it odd that your line about what you can’t make a joke about is women’s mentally health but not child rape islands.

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    • qwerty@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

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      Love presenting politically motivated murder as a joke.

      A father of two died and a family is forever destroyed. lol, amirite?

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      • Ioughttamow@fedia.io ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Way to diminish his sacrifice, asshole. He said some deaths were to be expected to protect our 2nd amendment rights. RIP King

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      • chewypoops@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        No, I’m consistently supporting women in both comments.

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    • guyoverthere123@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Using ones mental health as an excuse for murder is pathetic.

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  • deacon@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Uh, r/iamgoingtohellforthis

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    • remon@ani.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      !imgoingtohellforthis@sopuli.xyz

      The community could really use some actually hell worthy posts!

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  • slaacaa@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I usuall print this out for first dates to check our compatibility

    (Nobody passed yet)

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    • ouRKaoS@lemmy.today ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      I think the only way to “pass” would be to just leave.

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      • slaacaa@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        The they all passed

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  • Eternal192@anarchist.nexus ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I’d say i’m 3-4, i can tolerate kids but i find them annoying.

    I have a daughter and step daughter and while both were calm and sweet when they were younger the teen disease seems to have changed one of them and the other one is on her way.

    Step daughter turned 15 a few months ago and for the past 2 years i’d say she’s becoming a bigger foul-mouthed asshole than i thought possible and daughter will turn 10 in a few months and i’m just waiting for the outbursts to start.

    Kids don’t deserve to be raped or murdered but they are ungrateful assholes that think money grows on trees.

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    • dismay3915@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Youbwere a kid once, right?

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      • Poojabber@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Yes, and they were an ungrateful asshole who thought money grew on trees. Now they are an ungrateful asshole who thought parenting would be all puppies and rainbows.

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    • seggturkasz@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Im not sure how to say this but if your daughters grown up to be “ungrateful assholes” that is partially on you. Not all of it. Try to get it through how is your financial situation is. A 15 year old can understand way more than we give them credit for. If they think you are in the same team, they will look things from your perspective more. Saying how you grown up is not something they can relate to, they didn’t experienced that personaly.

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  • Siegfried@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Dead vs fucked and dead?

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  • dismay3915@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I like them enough not to eat them and rape them so I’d say 9

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  • snoons@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    𝑖

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  • Ramsesder13te@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I’m kinda irritated by how people say she hassnt been convicted jet when someone’s states she killed her kids despite pressing evidence but however throw the word postpartum disorder around like it wasn’t just the defence strategy of her lawyer.

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    • Tollana1234567@lemmy.today ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      the women in the juror doing SJW moment dint help, they went on media trying to force an acquital for her, by doxxing the male juror.

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    • CrimeIsLegalNow@ani.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Incoherent thoughts are the product of an incoherent mind.

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  • ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    “Fuck them kids” is a horseshoe theory…

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  • heartSagan5@lemmy.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Really? “Fuck/sexually abuse” or “kill?” Is there a Fred Roger’s value on this?

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    • Kolanaki@pawb.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Yeah. The middle option.

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  • Ramsesder13te@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I’m afraid both had somewhat similar view’s on kids.

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  • uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I like kids, and value getting to be a grandpa for a boy from four to ten (then he became a basketball star and didn’t visit much).

    But I feel sorry for the alphas and betas. In fact, I feel sorry for zoomers, who I’ve watched grow up. And millennials got a raw deal too.

    We don’t know which catastrophic existential risk is going to manifest, as we’re working on several. But one is, and the aftermath is going to be an ordeal.

    Needless to say, I’m anti-natalist. I think bringing new life into the world right now is a disservice to them.

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    • seggturkasz@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Sooooo… you get to have kids. Live a comfy life, while everything goes to shit. But yonger generations should go “quietly into the dark”?

      You know this comes across really rude and entitled, right?

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      • uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        My concerns about catastrophic existential risk are descriptive, not prescriptive

        I didn’t have kids. Okay, I had a son, but was separated from him at birth. I married into a family around fifty, and thanks to the troubled economy, the millennial daughter moved in with us, and brought her son.

        But it sounds like you think of kids as a means of fulfillment for the parents, rather than autonomous persons of their own. I see that a lot, in our children’s welfare policies, in our attitudes towards education and juvenile crime, in society’s complete disinterested in making society accessible to future generations.

        And zoomers and alphas are not feeling the love. The fertility rate in the US dropped below 1.6, which scares the snot out of our owner class. And they’ve cut off immigration, which we’ve depended on for decades to increase our numbers.

        The silent generation was also conspicuously small. Three guesses as to why.

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  • BallShapedMan@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    A solid 3.5

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  • Naive@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Who is on the left? I am not an American so I don’t know about her. I know about the right one cuz he is so famous.

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    • guyoverthere123@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Her name is Lindsay Clancy.

      She killed her children.

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      • Naive@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        abortion or like m#rder?

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  • Avicenna@programming.dev ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    kill-“like” scale

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  • Ramsesder13te@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    A 5 perpendicular to that scale.

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  • beejboytyson@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I guess Casey Anthony be a 1

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  • Proprietary_Blend@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Image

    Delish!

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  • KeithD@lemmy.nz ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Given how much she wanted kids, that isn’t actually an appropriate picture on the left of the scale.

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