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“It’s violet isn’t it?”
“Yup, of course”
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Submitted 2 weeks ago by did_you_find_violets@lemmy.world to [deleted]
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87Six@lemmy.zip 2 weeks ago
Sidyctism2@discuss.tchncs.de 2 weeks ago
No wonder the korean dads cant control themselves
Monument@piefed.world 2 weeks ago
I sort of do this to my wife. She’s unbearably hot. Also sort of hates strangers.
I’m kind of the attention seeker, but she will dress up for me sometimes. Last year we went to a Halloween party where she wore a black skin-tight snakeskin patterned catsuit.
CapuccinoCoretto@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
This story is worthless without pics of your wife.
Monument@piefed.world 2 weeks ago
Alas, like a dragon, there are some elements of my (and others) privacy that I hoard.
OldChicoAle@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
I mean if we’re asking, I’ll take one of Mr Husband. He sounds hot.
/j
HulkSmashBurgers@reddthat.com 2 weeks ago
Yeah Monument@piefed.world ,pics or it didn’t happen!
dan69@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Tru, plus this link is kinda sus…
toomanypancakes@crazypeople.online 2 weeks ago
If we ever get the neon soaked cyberpunk future I deserve I’m buying several of these, damn
Monument@piefed.world 2 weeks ago
You absolutely should.
But as a word of advice: take really, really good measurements multiple times at different times of the day and rely on the largest measurement collected for a given area. Also, only buy one the first time you purchase.
(The latter thing didn’t bite us, but could have. The elbows, of all places, are a touch too small and after about an hour start to become uncomfortable.)
Dookieman12@piefed.social 2 weeks ago
I don’t get it. We can all agree that fuccbois and PUAs are gross, but we’re all celebrating this person’s recent posts?
If this were a white guy bragging about how easy it is to bang Korean MILFs, y’all would not be in here with the same type of comments.
CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
But you can’t actually reverse roles as a direct 1:1 because women’s sexuality, bodily autonomy, authority aren’t treated equal to men’s. It’s inherently different because there isn’t actually a direct inverse. I do think a post similar to this about a cute femboy wearing something similar in a similar situation would be upvoting and commenting.
Your comment just reads like “you can be a man or be political” and think people only like this because it’s “political” aka woke but there shouldn’t be woke about a woman being sexually liberated, practicing choice and autonomy or refusing to conform, she has every right and I support that.
okwhateverdude@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Bro, she ain’t gonna fuck you
^/s^
chuckleslord@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
The difference is power structures and cultural incentives. Fuckboys tend to not react pleasantly to being turned down. I get more “himbo” (keeping the male parallel theme going) vibes from Violet. She’s down to clown, isn’t afraid to let that be known, but nothing screams that anything nonconsensual is happening here.
People fuck, who cares? She doesn’t appear to be hurting anyone. Her posts are funny, it doesn’t need to be deep.
petrol_sniff_king@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 weeks ago
I can smell jealousy from a mile away, man. If you want to wear a skimpy outfit, by all means.
tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip 2 weeks ago
PUAs? Is violet negging groups of guys or getting them drunk so she can rape them?
OldChicoAle@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Violet is super annoying but I guess guys like a thirsty, horny Lemmy user? For all we know, it’s a guy.
Tartas1995@discuss.tchncs.de 2 weeks ago
Fuccbois and pua aren’t honest about their intentions.
She is honest.
SaltyIceteaMaker@lemmy.ml 2 weeks ago
so like, it didnt even cross my mind that this fit was to get some dick, but rather about being different even though one is shy
gandalf_der_12te@feddit.org 2 weeks ago
uhh at the risk of stating the obvious, i think you’re missing a whole lot of context here.
the reason why “fuckboys are gross” is mostly because they’re obnoxious, loud, stinky, and annoy the shit out of everyone in their environment because they believe they’re better than everyone else, everyone else has to subdue to them and the whole “fucking” is actually just about projecting power. that’s what’s annoying.
and that’s not what’s happening here. i don’t see any “projection of power” in violet’s posts.
Tiral@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Sounds like a gonewild post “My first time, be nice guys” “Here’s my asshole spread 2 inches away”
FishFace@piefed.social 2 weeks ago
You’re desperate for attention. Doesn’t mean you actually want to talk to any of the people who take the bait.
Monument@piefed.world 2 weeks ago
At peril of stating the obvious:
You did. You commented.okwhateverdude@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
I interpreted this as not really a condemnation, but explanation. As in, a person dresses this way because they want to be looked at, but it isn’t an invitation to interact, but explained in second person.
dreamkeeper@literature.cafe 2 weeks ago
Or maybe she just likes looking good? I’m shy and I like to dress up because it makes me feel more confident about myself.
FishFace@piefed.social 2 weeks ago
Well two small things: first, there’s a lot of ways to look good, and I don’t buy “just likes looking good, doesn’t want attention” when there are ways to look good without drawing attention. There must be a reason to override that desire not to attract attention.
Second… I mean, it’s violets, we don’t really need to speculate!
Dookieman12@piefed.social 2 weeks ago
The people hated him because he showed them the truth.
Ekybio@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Is it really conformist monochrome? Never been there, but I can hardly resist asking you for sharing a story.
TheOakTree@lemmy.zip 2 weeks ago
I’ve been there multiple times and can confirm. Among the younger population it’s like 90% black and white clothing. That number goes down as you look at older groups. However, almost all of the cars are also black or white.
I stuck out like a sore thumb wearing pink, orange, green, etc. Last time I went, I was in Seoul for a whole week. I saw one young person wearing pink, and maybe 10 young people wearing colorful outfits.
redsand@infosec.pub 2 weeks ago
If you’re shy I’m Lawrence of Arabia
man_wtfhappenedtoyou@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
This ain’t corn man
Kolanaki@pawb.social 2 weeks ago
I bet I’d still stand out wearing the exact same thing in San Fransisco, CA.
chuckleslord@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Interesting city choice. It, uh, might be noticed but I don’t think “stand out” is the right vibe.
New York, Chicago, Minneapolis, LA? Definitely. San Francisco? Soft maybe
Kolanaki@pawb.social 2 weeks ago
I’m a 6’6’’ dude who looks like a metalhead. I could probably stand out on Castro street.
Dookieman12@piefed.social 2 weeks ago
Makes sense. Pretending to be something you’re not is helpful when seeking an asymmetrical relationship with an unbalanced power dynamic in your favor.
SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 weeks ago
[deleted]ivanafterall@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Skill issue.
HulkSmashBurgers@reddthat.com 2 weeks ago
Sooo is that actually a picture of you? Aking for a friend.
stardustpathsofglory@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
[deleted]NikkiDimes@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
…the fuck lol
zxqwas@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
In what way do you consider yourself shy?
On a related note last summer I saw a girl walking out from the bar in one of those inflateable dinosaur costumes. That was the most standing out I’ve seen.