Tartas1995
@Tartas1995@discuss.tchncs.de
- Comment on Outstanding work 1 week ago:
I am lacking the artistic vision to make this and without the comments, I wouldn’t have caught on.
I am impressed.
- Comment on The clueless people are out there among us 2 weeks ago:
I didn’t realize because I am too used to it.
- Comment on Socialism bad 3 weeks ago:
Interesting claim of him.
You see, I don’t know how difficult it is to find CP as I don’t look for cp. If he knows that it is getting more difficult to find CP, he needs a reference to which he compares it.
Why is Jordan Peterson looking for cp on Twitter?
- Comment on Socialism bad 3 weeks ago:
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- Comment on Transitioning in STEM 4 weeks ago:
I didn’t expect an answer. I am sorry if I made you feel that way. I just wanted to explore the topic with the general topic.
Your answer is a good as mine. I just don’t think people have good reason to be so judgemental to any group as vague as “woman”.
It is an odd thing anyway.
- Comment on Transitioning in STEM 4 weeks ago:
Fair point
- Comment on Transitioning in STEM 4 weeks ago:
I understand all of that but it seems crazy that it would generate these results so systematically.
Idk. I certainly want a world where gender is a fun little thing and not an life defining element.
- Comment on Transitioning in STEM 4 weeks ago:
Honestly, no. I am working in programming. There are no women. We both know why and the answer is sexism.
But even on the way into the job, I have only twice experience someone telling a woman to not do IT that was when I was a student. 1. A classmate, and everyone gave him a lot of shit for it. Seriously, I don’t think he had a friend in the class afterwards. 2. A father telling his daughter. And there I jumped in and challenged him on it.
It is difficult to spot sexism in a different department.
- Comment on Transitioning in STEM 4 weeks ago:
Assuming that it is cultural, as it seems like your comment kinda assumes that. Like it seems you are saying, it was cultural but by now it is kinda intentional.
I would argue “willingly ignorant” is bad but also not making it less “unconscious cultural”.
If they were willingly ignorant but also no cultural sexist, they wouldn’t be an issue.
So well you have a point, but I would say that the unconscious cultural sexism could lead to willfully ignorant and you would kinda expect it.
I am not saying, you are fully wrong about the willingly ignorant part, I just don’t think it would remove the cultural part.
- Comment on Transitioning in STEM 4 weeks ago:
I hear you but what cranked it up to 1000?
Like I always saw my mom as a extremely competent person, as a child she was flawless. Nowadays, I see her flaws but I am flawed, so if my father and any person I ever met. I am impressed by my sister and how I can be like the person that she is in many ways.
I am talking about my direct family because these women had a lot of influence on me. So I wonder, what was their experience like to think so poorly of women? Not blaming the women in their social circle for being “bad”, I just wonder wtf happened. Where does that belief come from? I don’t think they all had great experiences with their male role models but horrible ones with their female role models. So what is it?
- Comment on Transitioning in STEM 5 weeks ago:
I agree with you there. As someone in programming, I don’t quite have the opportunity to fight these things when they happen because… There are no women. (obviously linked to this) but I can’t call out behavior when it happens when I am not around. But I am happy to report that I have been vocal about my support of trans people and fought against transphobia, even at work. Obviously I am not happy it is needed.
So I am trying to see and support victims of discrimination.
- Comment on Transitioning in STEM 5 weeks ago:
As a man, it is insane to me that this is real.
I have a difficult time imagining malicious intent towards women by all these people. But given how common these stories are, there is something true about it. I just don’t understand why.
Is it really an unconscious cultural thing? Or am I naive about how my fellow men (I guess maybe women too) feel towards women?
Something in me refuses to believe that these people knowingly and intentionally harm women. But it sure as hell looks intentional.
I am not defending them. I am expressing my struggle with the reality of this shit.
- Comment on Ben Shapiro's sister 5 weeks ago:
- Comment on Ben Shapiro's sister 5 weeks ago:
I think you are mistaken in something. You assume that his sister would let him. He 100% wants to fuck her, but he probably isn’t.
- Comment on Based tesla user??? 5 weeks ago:
To be fair, Tesla began production of their first cars in 2008. The pedo cave thing was 2018.
Retrospectively, there were many signs but in 2015, I don’t think the general public had their attention directed to Elon’s bs.
I understand that Tesla feels like a young company and that everything that Elon did happened super recently. But it has been 17 years. E.g. Elon has talked about self-driving cars in 2015, promising them for 2018. Elon has failed to keep his promise of self-driving for 7 years now.
I am not arguing that Elon wasn’t a weird fascist with a toddler RP kink in 2008. Or that we couldn’t have known what kind of man he is. But rather that I don’t think the general public knew and understood in the early years of Tesla.
- Comment on Am I entitled to compensation? 1 month ago:
It doesn’t contain your phone number when read as a base 10 number! Checkmate, I got your phone number!
Sorry…
- Comment on [deleted] 1 month ago:
Oh boy! You serious? I said if it is real love and:
We need to make the difference between what each person thinks.
Let’s say, person A is 50+ yo and person B is 19yo.
If A doesn’t love B and B doesn’t live A, A is just getting a prostitute. And that can be judged for all the reasons, you can judge that for. And personally, I think using the service of a sex worker is yikes.
If A doesn’t love B and B loves A, then it is obvious why it is abusive and yikes.
If A loves B and B doesn’t love A, because B is in it for the money, A is doing what you quoted and B is taking advantage too but without necessarily knowing what that could mean down the line.
If A loves B and B loves A, A is doing what you quoted.
As I said in my comment, if it is real love, meaning of the side of A as I was judging his behavior, what I said remains true.
Thanks for showing us that you aren’t willing to think about the topic in detail. I will take that as a sign to end the conversation. Have a great day and try thinking about it.
- Comment on [deleted] 1 month ago:
It is fun how you ignore parts of my message. And i don’t think we talk about the same kind of desperation.
If you are human trafficking and you might get killed if you don’t earn enough money for your pimp, is not the same kind of desperation than what someone feels when they look at their account and see that they only have money for 1 month rent.
i have no interest to discuss what kind of desperation is or is not fine to abuse. Or what kind of desperation could possibly motivate someone to do anything.
In case, you are wondering what you are ignoring. 1. I don’t want, not I don’t. I need to eat, I don’t need to fuck a sex worker. 2. I said especially something like sex work, highlighting that I have a different set of rules for different kinds of stuff.
- Comment on [deleted] 1 month ago:
I am sorry that your understanding of the issue is solely limited to the ability to consent of a person and not the nature of the consent and the underlaying dynamics of such a relationship.
and adult or not, at 19yo most people don’t know the chains of adulthood and the dangers of dependencies. A 50+yo certainly does. If I am in an environment that my partner is familiar with, I expect my partner to care for me and look out for my interest. E.g. my gf’s culture has a very different understanding of what spicy means, I can eat real mala but some of their stuff is just way to spicy for me. She warns me. The 50+yo is the person familiar with the environment in the context of dependencies. They carry a responsibility towards their partner if it is real love. engaging in such a relationship could be an indicator that they take advantage of their partner lack of knowledge/experience or that they don’t know any better and at 50+yo, both are yikes.
- Comment on [deleted] 1 month ago:
Well, personally I think that working in sex work is totally fine, but using the service is morally questionable. I believe that there are people who want to work in sex work, but I also believe that people who are in it out of desperation. These people will lie about their motivation because people who care to ask don’t want to if the motivation is desperation. And so you can’t know if you are just using a service that someone willing provide, or a service that is motivated by desperation. I don’t want to use a service powered by desperation, especially when it is something like sex work.
- Comment on [deleted] 1 month ago:
Up until 19-year-old, I am fine with it.
If you are approaching pension anyway and you need to reorganize your life, why not move to somewhere warmer and cheaper, it is not like the job market for 50+yo is amazing. And if you live there anyway, why can’t you love someone local? (Also you are technically giving wealth back to countries that have been exploited)
Now the 19 year old part… Yikes.
Also to be considered financial dependency, you don’t want to chain your partner onto you with the threat of huge quality of life loss.
- Comment on Least extreme biophysics phd 2 months ago:
I honestly think that is the most important point to make. It is a fundamental truth and force the person to talk specifics. Why is it bad there?
- Comment on TRUE AND REAL 2 months ago:
Satoshi Nakamoto is a plant!
- Comment on Before you act, is this right for the company? 2 months ago:
What are the KPIs? Can I just wiggle my mouse?
- Comment on modern psychiatry be like 2 months ago:
I just want to take the moment to say, nice to have you all around, especially if you are different. Thanks for enjoying the shit that I don’t. And thanks for sharing my love for something for a different reason. Thanks for showing me a different world.
Also If everyone was like me, my girlfriend wouldn’t be who she is, but ignoring that, I would have a lot of competition and it would be really boring for all of us. Wtf do you talk about if we all would be the same? I would hate you all, and consequently myself. Thanks for being different, seriously.
- Comment on Germany right now 2 months ago:
It is so fucking sad that the tolerance “paradox” goes all the way to fucking war.
Like you literally have to fight a war against war seekers if you don’t want war. Like fucking hell, why can’t we at least be chill there?
- Comment on Grok 3 roasts Lemmy 2 months ago:
The only “insults” in there is “too many” and “boredom”. That is a weak first round.
Speaking the truth can be boring, not that LLMs could relate and the only “too many”, that grok should be concerned about, is the “too many” liters of water that it is wasting to produce such a weak and boring roast. If you kill the planet at least make it fun.
- Comment on Heh 2 months ago:
Just don’t pick up the phone… It is probably broken anyway after being soaked like that
- Comment on Best way to turn off people and get lower tips 3 months ago:
My point wasn’t that wait staff is paid better than 2.15. my point is, they are getting robbed.
- Comment on Best way to turn off people and get lower tips 3 months ago:
$2.13 is true and wrong.
The minimum wage plus tips is $7.25.
In other words, if you tip someone under federal law, and that person works 40 hours per week and 5 days a week, after 1 week, 4055 = $1000 were stolen from your tips by the employer from employee. As if the person earned $0 in tips, the $1000 would have to be covered by the employer.
