Tartas1995
@Tartas1995@discuss.tchncs.de
- Comment on kiwis! 1 week ago:
Dear lord, I feel so bad
- Comment on Why is lemmy so political?! 1 week ago:
The truth is the for a lot of us being here in the first place was a political stance.
- Comment on [deleted] 2 weeks ago:
What is the lie? Let me guess, I don’t fit in your boxes! How rude of me!
I love how you think we are the same person and imply that he is dog whistling for the AFD. While on my account from 3 hours earlier, I have this comment. discuss.tchncs.de/comment/18782896
I mean, are we the same person and not supporting the afd? Or are we not the same person and I don’t support the afd?
Or Maybe… I am planning the long con! How sneaky! Because obviously you can’t be wrong./s
You can’t name 1 male issue that general feminist movement is actively trying to tackle but they are fighting for it. You seem to believe that a person can support a movement and disagree with the behavior of the uninformed masses of the same movement. You seem to believe that a symbol can only mean 1 thing. And undoubtedly, you are obviously correct about everything. /s
- Comment on [deleted] 2 weeks ago:
Yes we talk about symbols, Germans, especially AFD (they are Nazis) and different interpretations of these symbols, I think of that argument. I don’t know how you are thinking but usually things mentioned in a conversation inspire me.
Ah yes. The best you can do is a vague motion.
Let’s talk about the women’s issues that I can name on the top of my head that the feminist movement tries to tackle (and I obviously support):
- wage gap
- not being taken seriously by e.g. doctors
- me too
- domestic violence
- the whole double standard of how emotions get framed, women’s emotions get framed as childish and overreactive.
- creating awareness for the mental workload of planing an household which often women have to handle.
- abortion rights
- Comment on [deleted] 2 weeks ago:
Lol, I am not. And a lot of people who call themselves feminists are sexist.
A German is not forced to use a symbol in an international setting in the same way, they might use it in the local setting.
Please don’t use insults.
- Comment on [deleted] 2 weeks ago:
It is also men’s health month. It is a Google search away and indicated on the meme.
- Comment on [deleted] 2 weeks ago:
That comment was already made and most symbols mean multiple things. A German user and a Japanese user will have very different interpretations of a swastika. Whose Interpretation is correct, is depending on the situation. If you think the swastika on the tourist map in Japan stands for Nazism, you are wrong. If you think the swastika on a wall in Germany stands for good fortune, you are most probably wrong.
- Comment on [deleted] 2 weeks ago:
Unless they like that, then I suggest they can go camping in the winter FKK style.
- Comment on [deleted] 2 weeks ago:
Don’t respect those low lifes and use the blue heart for this. Or combine them.
“Men’s health, especially mental health is important. Also AFD should be banned as it is in conflict with the German constitution and a bunch of fascists”
- Comment on Don't Look Up 2 weeks ago:
That is literally frightening. I honestly feel bad for her. That is not a good life. Pushing hate like that requires a lot of internal suffering.
Don’t do social media, kids.
- Comment on Never Forget. Please dear god don't forget 2 weeks ago:
This is not how I imagine being forced to take a life would be like… Sorry Ralph, I hope the idea that your death will bring a unique experience to my life.
- Comment on Don't Look Up 2 weeks ago:
How deep do you need to be in the propaganda to think like that?
- Comment on Outstanding work 4 weeks ago:
I am lacking the artistic vision to make this and without the comments, I wouldn’t have caught on.
I am impressed.
- Comment on The clueless people are out there among us 5 weeks ago:
I didn’t realize because I am too used to it.
- Comment on Socialism bad 1 month ago:
Interesting claim of him.
You see, I don’t know how difficult it is to find CP as I don’t look for cp. If he knows that it is getting more difficult to find CP, he needs a reference to which he compares it.
Why is Jordan Peterson looking for cp on Twitter?
- Comment on Socialism bad 1 month ago:
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- Comment on Transitioning in STEM 1 month ago:
I didn’t expect an answer. I am sorry if I made you feel that way. I just wanted to explore the topic with the general topic.
Your answer is a good as mine. I just don’t think people have good reason to be so judgemental to any group as vague as “woman”.
It is an odd thing anyway.
- Comment on Transitioning in STEM 1 month ago:
Fair point
- Comment on Transitioning in STEM 1 month ago:
I understand all of that but it seems crazy that it would generate these results so systematically.
Idk. I certainly want a world where gender is a fun little thing and not an life defining element.
- Comment on Transitioning in STEM 1 month ago:
Honestly, no. I am working in programming. There are no women. We both know why and the answer is sexism.
But even on the way into the job, I have only twice experience someone telling a woman to not do IT that was when I was a student. 1. A classmate, and everyone gave him a lot of shit for it. Seriously, I don’t think he had a friend in the class afterwards. 2. A father telling his daughter. And there I jumped in and challenged him on it.
It is difficult to spot sexism in a different department.
- Comment on Transitioning in STEM 1 month ago:
Assuming that it is cultural, as it seems like your comment kinda assumes that. Like it seems you are saying, it was cultural but by now it is kinda intentional.
I would argue “willingly ignorant” is bad but also not making it less “unconscious cultural”.
If they were willingly ignorant but also no cultural sexist, they wouldn’t be an issue.
So well you have a point, but I would say that the unconscious cultural sexism could lead to willfully ignorant and you would kinda expect it.
I am not saying, you are fully wrong about the willingly ignorant part, I just don’t think it would remove the cultural part.
- Comment on Transitioning in STEM 1 month ago:
I hear you but what cranked it up to 1000?
Like I always saw my mom as a extremely competent person, as a child she was flawless. Nowadays, I see her flaws but I am flawed, so if my father and any person I ever met. I am impressed by my sister and how I can be like the person that she is in many ways.
I am talking about my direct family because these women had a lot of influence on me. So I wonder, what was their experience like to think so poorly of women? Not blaming the women in their social circle for being “bad”, I just wonder wtf happened. Where does that belief come from? I don’t think they all had great experiences with their male role models but horrible ones with their female role models. So what is it?
- Comment on Transitioning in STEM 1 month ago:
I agree with you there. As someone in programming, I don’t quite have the opportunity to fight these things when they happen because… There are no women. (obviously linked to this) but I can’t call out behavior when it happens when I am not around. But I am happy to report that I have been vocal about my support of trans people and fought against transphobia, even at work. Obviously I am not happy it is needed.
So I am trying to see and support victims of discrimination.
- Comment on Transitioning in STEM 1 month ago:
As a man, it is insane to me that this is real.
I have a difficult time imagining malicious intent towards women by all these people. But given how common these stories are, there is something true about it. I just don’t understand why.
Is it really an unconscious cultural thing? Or am I naive about how my fellow men (I guess maybe women too) feel towards women?
Something in me refuses to believe that these people knowingly and intentionally harm women. But it sure as hell looks intentional.
I am not defending them. I am expressing my struggle with the reality of this shit.
- Comment on Ben Shapiro's sister 1 month ago:
- Comment on Ben Shapiro's sister 1 month ago:
I think you are mistaken in something. You assume that his sister would let him. He 100% wants to fuck her, but he probably isn’t.
- Comment on Based tesla user??? 1 month ago:
To be fair, Tesla began production of their first cars in 2008. The pedo cave thing was 2018.
Retrospectively, there were many signs but in 2015, I don’t think the general public had their attention directed to Elon’s bs.
I understand that Tesla feels like a young company and that everything that Elon did happened super recently. But it has been 17 years. E.g. Elon has talked about self-driving cars in 2015, promising them for 2018. Elon has failed to keep his promise of self-driving for 7 years now.
I am not arguing that Elon wasn’t a weird fascist with a toddler RP kink in 2008. Or that we couldn’t have known what kind of man he is. But rather that I don’t think the general public knew and understood in the early years of Tesla.
- Comment on Am I entitled to compensation? 2 months ago:
It doesn’t contain your phone number when read as a base 10 number! Checkmate, I got your phone number!
Sorry…
- Comment on [deleted] 2 months ago:
Oh boy! You serious? I said if it is real love and:
We need to make the difference between what each person thinks.
Let’s say, person A is 50+ yo and person B is 19yo.
If A doesn’t love B and B doesn’t live A, A is just getting a prostitute. And that can be judged for all the reasons, you can judge that for. And personally, I think using the service of a sex worker is yikes.
If A doesn’t love B and B loves A, then it is obvious why it is abusive and yikes.
If A loves B and B doesn’t love A, because B is in it for the money, A is doing what you quoted and B is taking advantage too but without necessarily knowing what that could mean down the line.
If A loves B and B loves A, A is doing what you quoted.
As I said in my comment, if it is real love, meaning of the side of A as I was judging his behavior, what I said remains true.
Thanks for showing us that you aren’t willing to think about the topic in detail. I will take that as a sign to end the conversation. Have a great day and try thinking about it.
- Comment on [deleted] 2 months ago:
It is fun how you ignore parts of my message. And i don’t think we talk about the same kind of desperation.
If you are human trafficking and you might get killed if you don’t earn enough money for your pimp, is not the same kind of desperation than what someone feels when they look at their account and see that they only have money for 1 month rent.
i have no interest to discuss what kind of desperation is or is not fine to abuse. Or what kind of desperation could possibly motivate someone to do anything.
In case, you are wondering what you are ignoring. 1. I don’t want, not I don’t. I need to eat, I don’t need to fuck a sex worker. 2. I said especially something like sex work, highlighting that I have a different set of rules for different kinds of stuff.
