Tartas1995
@Tartas1995@discuss.tchncs.de
- Comment on Am I entitled to compensation? 1 week ago:
It doesn’t contain your phone number when read as a base 10 number! Checkmate, I got your phone number!
Sorry…
- Comment on [deleted] 1 week ago:
Oh boy! You serious? I said if it is real love and:
We need to make the difference between what each person thinks.
Let’s say, person A is 50+ yo and person B is 19yo.
If A doesn’t love B and B doesn’t live A, A is just getting a prostitute. And that can be judged for all the reasons, you can judge that for. And personally, I think using the service of a sex worker is yikes.
If A doesn’t love B and B loves A, then it is obvious why it is abusive and yikes.
If A loves B and B doesn’t love A, because B is in it for the money, A is doing what you quoted and B is taking advantage too but without necessarily knowing what that could mean down the line.
If A loves B and B loves A, A is doing what you quoted.
As I said in my comment, if it is real love, meaning of the side of A as I was judging his behavior, what I said remains true.
Thanks for showing us that you aren’t willing to think about the topic in detail. I will take that as a sign to end the conversation. Have a great day and try thinking about it.
- Comment on [deleted] 1 week ago:
It is fun how you ignore parts of my message. And i don’t think we talk about the same kind of desperation.
If you are human trafficking and you might get killed if you don’t earn enough money for your pimp, is not the same kind of desperation than what someone feels when they look at their account and see that they only have money for 1 month rent.
i have no interest to discuss what kind of desperation is or is not fine to abuse. Or what kind of desperation could possibly motivate someone to do anything.
In case, you are wondering what you are ignoring. 1. I don’t want, not I don’t. I need to eat, I don’t need to fuck a sex worker. 2. I said especially something like sex work, highlighting that I have a different set of rules for different kinds of stuff.
- Comment on [deleted] 1 week ago:
I am sorry that your understanding of the issue is solely limited to the ability to consent of a person and not the nature of the consent and the underlaying dynamics of such a relationship.
and adult or not, at 19yo most people don’t know the chains of adulthood and the dangers of dependencies. A 50+yo certainly does. If I am in an environment that my partner is familiar with, I expect my partner to care for me and look out for my interest. E.g. my gf’s culture has a very different understanding of what spicy means, I can eat real mala but some of their stuff is just way to spicy for me. She warns me. The 50+yo is the person familiar with the environment in the context of dependencies. They carry a responsibility towards their partner if it is real love. engaging in such a relationship could be an indicator that they take advantage of their partner lack of knowledge/experience or that they don’t know any better and at 50+yo, both are yikes.
- Comment on [deleted] 1 week ago:
Well, personally I think that working in sex work is totally fine, but using the service is morally questionable. I believe that there are people who want to work in sex work, but I also believe that people who are in it out of desperation. These people will lie about their motivation because people who care to ask don’t want to if the motivation is desperation. And so you can’t know if you are just using a service that someone willing provide, or a service that is motivated by desperation. I don’t want to use a service powered by desperation, especially when it is something like sex work.
- Comment on [deleted] 1 week ago:
Up until 19-year-old, I am fine with it.
If you are approaching pension anyway and you need to reorganize your life, why not move to somewhere warmer and cheaper, it is not like the job market for 50+yo is amazing. And if you live there anyway, why can’t you love someone local? (Also you are technically giving wealth back to countries that have been exploited)
Now the 19 year old part… Yikes.
Also to be considered financial dependency, you don’t want to chain your partner onto you with the threat of huge quality of life loss.
- Comment on Least extreme biophysics phd 4 weeks ago:
I honestly think that is the most important point to make. It is a fundamental truth and force the person to talk specifics. Why is it bad there?
- Comment on TRUE AND REAL 4 weeks ago:
Satoshi Nakamoto is a plant!
- Comment on Before you act, is this right for the company? 4 weeks ago:
What are the KPIs? Can I just wiggle my mouse?
- Comment on modern psychiatry be like 1 month ago:
I just want to take the moment to say, nice to have you all around, especially if you are different. Thanks for enjoying the shit that I don’t. And thanks for sharing my love for something for a different reason. Thanks for showing me a different world.
Also If everyone was like me, my girlfriend wouldn’t be who she is, but ignoring that, I would have a lot of competition and it would be really boring for all of us. Wtf do you talk about if we all would be the same? I would hate you all, and consequently myself. Thanks for being different, seriously.
- Comment on Germany right now 1 month ago:
It is so fucking sad that the tolerance “paradox” goes all the way to fucking war.
Like you literally have to fight a war against war seekers if you don’t want war. Like fucking hell, why can’t we at least be chill there?
- Comment on Grok 3 roasts Lemmy 1 month ago:
The only “insults” in there is “too many” and “boredom”. That is a weak first round.
Speaking the truth can be boring, not that LLMs could relate and the only “too many”, that grok should be concerned about, is the “too many” liters of water that it is wasting to produce such a weak and boring roast. If you kill the planet at least make it fun.
- Comment on Heh 1 month ago:
Just don’t pick up the phone… It is probably broken anyway after being soaked like that
- Comment on Best way to turn off people and get lower tips 1 month ago:
My point wasn’t that wait staff is paid better than 2.15. my point is, they are getting robbed.
- Comment on Best way to turn off people and get lower tips 1 month ago:
$2.13 is true and wrong.
The minimum wage plus tips is $7.25.
In other words, if you tip someone under federal law, and that person works 40 hours per week and 5 days a week, after 1 week, 4055 = $1000 were stolen from your tips by the employer from employee. As if the person earned $0 in tips, the $1000 would have to be covered by the employer.
- Comment on Erasure 1 month ago:
Completely unrelated, book burnings
- Comment on Ringing the devil's doorbell 2 months ago:
2 things:
- That wouldn’t be self-rape as God is not me… I think… Am I god?
- When I want to be in someone, I have to ask for consent and he didn’t ask me. So …
- Comment on Ringing the devil's doorbell 2 months ago:
“self-rape” is an interesting concept.
It assumes lack of consent towards your own actions, which is possible when forced, I guess. but then it is blaming the victim as it highlights the events as the victim’s action, instead of the source of pressure fault.
Arguably, you could frame drunk masturbation as self-rape, as drunk you can’t consent to your own masturbation??? Which wouldn’t be victim blaming or it is???
People make up strange word combinations.
- Comment on Tough question 2 months ago:
That is so Taurus, Geminis, cancers, Leos, virgos! So typical! Am I right?
- Comment on Tough question 2 months ago:
So you are saying, I get to choose between Nazi nft son and Nazi nft son In law… I guess either way, I get one. What is more embarrassing that my daughter would choose a nft bro or that my son is a nft bro? I guess the former as it involves 2 people.
- Comment on Tough question 2 months ago:
Well there is the Nazi version of nft sons… So… I guess even then… I guess… I take the Nazi astrology daughter… And then I blame myself for being a bad parent who failed to teach them properly morals.
- Comment on Tough question 2 months ago:
a third of everyone
I hope not. I don’t want to see the data. Just this once, lie to me if you have to.
But still astrology daughter. Nft son is … I don’t want to have my money stolen to gamble in a scam casino. I intend to be able to send my astrology daughter to university and if my nft son does what nft sons do, I can’t.
- Comment on Not Americans right now 2 months ago:
Idk… I just love the eggs and the candy bar. Seriously art in my opinion.
Eggs, is deeply strange.
And the candy bar, is just the best analysis of a series of tweets. It highlights beautifully the deeply strange and contradictory behavior discussed in those tweets.
- Comment on Not Americans right now 2 months ago:
I think this is something to enjoy in this context.
- Comment on It really is like this 2 months ago:
I bet if I would say “america is a democracy but it is oppressive”, they would agree, or start to express how it isn’t a democracy, because only wealthy people have a realistic shot.
People who claim shit like you can’t like the people and dislike the government in a democracy, are telling me that I can’t like my friends and love my partner.
- Comment on Adolf Titler 2 months ago:
Eww… Why?
- Comment on Hold on! 2 months ago:
Is the person who is giving you tasks, praising you to their colleagues and recommending you?
- Comment on If CEOs are a race, we have an even bigger problem 3 months ago:
So technically, I would incite violence against postmen, I am good?
- Comment on Greens are far-right? Bitch I'm Far-ting. 3 months ago:
You are misremembering. Germany extended a coal mine to maintain its current coal usage. Germany’s coal usage has be declining for decades and declined in 2024 as well.
Germany will (and probably shouldn’t) give up on coal completely as it is the only kind of fuel that they have direct access to (besides renewal ones) and being able to generate a lot of energy on demand, can be important in war settings. So Germany has a military interest to maintain some coal mines and power plants. It sucks but someone somewhere is always starting wars.
- Comment on Water 3 months ago:
Yes, the “if you don’t understand the joke” comment explains the joke. That’s the point.