The fixation on âcompletingâ things isnât healthy imo. An attitude like that will rob you of the ability to find joy. I have to eat every day, sleep every night, and do laundry on a weekly basis. None of these things will ever be âdoneâ for as long as Iâm alive. Being âcompleteâ is being dead.
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RadicalEagle@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
xpinchx@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
Thatâs a bit hyperbolic. You can complete a task, a project, a goal. Maybe your task is to do this weeks laundry. Maybe your goal is to build a habit around finishing your laundry. Or your project is to assess your wardrobe and donate your old clothes.
All completable things that should give your brain dopamine and make you feel good about yourself, itâs natural and okay to find joy from those things!
dependencyinjection@discuss.tchncs.de â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
This is my approach to hobbies. I spent two years kinda learning Spanish n Duolingo and had a 2 year streak, but then I just stopped and wasnât mad cause the goal wasnât to learn Spanish it was just something I was interested in at the time and was fun.
Iâm all about journeys and doing what is fun at the time but Iâm not forcing myself to finish things if I donât want to. Maybe Iâm broken but I have lots of fun and never get bored.
spectre@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
good thing no one ever had to to repetitive tasks in ancient greece
Bassman1805@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
You make some pots for the neighbors, think your work is done, then suddenly itâs âOh no Arkadios we dropped one of our urns and also we want to store extra grain for the cold seasonâ and here I am making MORE FUCKING URNS.
What I wouldnât give to live in the old days before people had to learn a trade to get by!
gibmiser@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
Well sonnie if you wanna live here you gotta work like everyone else and Urn your keep!
Shardikprime@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
Thatâs why people built silos for their families, if they were wealthy enough, and for whole communities (to serve as a Bank) to store their grain
They mostly dug a leveled pit in the ground itself to keep everything cool, but more ornate silos were part of royalty or well managed cities
Urns were very ornate and the materials used to craft them very expensive and mostly used to store more valuable things, be it ashes, oils, Treasured items or whole bodies
Vases were more common, and made, as pottery, with very cheap materials
FrostyCaveman@lemm.ee â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
thatâs what the helots are for
SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
No, but people were much less alienated from their labour, so it likely didnât feel nearly as soul-crushing as it does today
daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
Are you sure of that?
For me 9-5 sitting in an office is way better than 7-7 on the sun taking care of crops, inside a mine, or as some rich guy servant.
daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
Yeah, ancient people had it good, they never had to work, food and shelter used to just fall out of the sky.
Niiru@feddit.org â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
The secret recipe is slavery.
SparrowHawk@feddit.it â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
No one is saying that
Shardikprime@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
Imagine not having to work, exercising daily, being chiseled like a Greek god and ripped like an athlete.
Sisyphus was an absolute unit
PieMePlenty@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
Get a job in the forest industry and youâll be: exercising daily and getting ripped. Sisyphus has a job, it was pushing a boulder up a hill for eternity. Personally, Iâd go nuts because I crave mental stimulation.
Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
At least the feller got to get outside and breathe some fresh moutain air.
Shardikprime@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
Canât beat that oxygenated blood flow
sum_yung_gai@lemm.ee â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
Prob gonna get downvoted but lemmy is so negative. I feel like what gets the most up votes is negativity with no nuance. Like this post is comparing working endlessly on a literally endless grueling task that has no benefit to a job which gives us money to do the things we want to do in life.
Maybe itâs on me for not curating my feed more but the negativity on lemmy is getting old. Does anyone else notice this trend of negativity?
eletes@sh.itjust.works â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
Gotta remember this is the shitpost community
tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
We must imagine Sisyphus is happy
gibmiser@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
âThe struggle itself towards the heights is enough to fill a manâs heart. One must imagine Sisyphus happy.â
The man is a lunatic. Prolonged struggle and strife without at least some visible progress is abject torture.
tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
The existentialists didnât agree on much, but they all saw absurdity in existence. Is pushing a rock up a hill any more or less absurd than a 9-5 paper pushing job?
shneancy@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
all philosophy will sound bad if you imagine the worst possible case scenario it could apply to
ThatGuy46475@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
If thereâs one thing video games have taught me itâs that once youâve completed everything it stops being fun
untorquer@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
Yeah but videogames can actually be fun for a while. I suspect work would be far more bearable if everything could be completed. I would be much happier if I didnât need a job to survive or have a decent standard of living.
jedibob5@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
Wait, what is this about âmodern people not seeing whatâs so horrifying about Sisyphusâ punishment?â Iâve never heard anyone express that idea.
Pregnenolone@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
This is a classic Internet example of making up a hypothetical argument so you can make a point, despite the hypothetical argument being completely untrue and irrelevant.
Happens all the time these days.
subtext@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
Do yâall seriously not get any sort of pride out of the work you do? Feelings of accomplishment when you do a good job on something? Recognition from your peers?
shalafi@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
Iâm stunned, daily, by these takes on lemmy. I quit a fat IT career to sling mulch, rocks and lumber for $15/hr., happier by far. I work hard, my physique is clearly better after only a month, my coworkers respect and like me, the managers all know me by name in a place where a 1-month employee wouldnât rate a glance.
Iâm learning more about the world and how things work, already got some great tips from customers for doing shit free and cheap. Iâm getting better hours, and more of them. Already been offered a temp job, one they donât ask dipshits to handle. And the fringe benefits! I scored $1,400 in culled lumber today for $50, canât even haul it in a single truck load. New shed coming!
After my 4th real shift (not computer training) I found myself blabbering away to my wife about what all I did that day. That really hit me as to how much happier I am.
Sure, the hours and pay suck, but I have time and a 10% discount to work on projects Iâve wanted to try selling. Looking at bat houses, dog houses, kidâs picnic benches, fixing discarded washers and dryers, all that. Tomorrow Iâm selling a dryer I found on the road, put 1.5 hours and $13 into, probably score $150-$200, start looking for more.
Ifera@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
Sure, it feels kinda nice but then gestures broadly at everything, that momentary âniceâ feeling isnât going to get me out of debt, isnât a guarantee that I wonât be fired and replaced the moment I am too old or sick to work, isnât going to get me out of my current âOn a diet for financial reasonsâ financial situation.
It is like trying to cure depression with a breath mint. Plus, the usual âCompany reports growth and record profits but certainly cannot afford to give raises to you, bottom feeders, keep making profits for us who sit at the top and be thankful you even get a chance to do soâ, sure sucks all the joy out of everything.
untorquer@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
I love doing a good job and completing a project. Those moments are wonderful and i cherish them deeply but theyâre fleeting. The obligation to have and maintain a career for survival is the issue. I like the work i do, i loath that i have to do it.
Shardikprime@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
You are not forced to do it. You can quit anytime and set up for yourself
cicyphus@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
The trick is finding the joy, for lack of a better word, in those things while knowing full well they donât matter. Do it just to do it for you, and hopefully for good reason.
Shardikprime@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
Lemmy is filled to the brim with the kind of people that canât run into each other without going ballistic over a greeting, so those takes are about expected
Frankly Iâd be weirded out if they did found fulfillment from their work, thatâd mean there are actual mentally, emotionally and physically healthy, happy, pro social and productive members of society in here.
Which is a counter fact, seeing as most of them have never touched grass
cicyphus@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
One must imagine Us happy.
IsThisAnAI@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
Does he get to drive race cars and own a nice GPU?
hungrythirstyhorny@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
from where i live 8 to 5
:(
Plebcouncilman@sh.itjust.works â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
Jared Henderson put out a pretty good vlog about this a few days ago, worth checking out.
betterdeadthanreddit@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
parody@lemmings.world â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
re-adds Adobe Stock watermark (in 8K)
turnip@lemm.ee â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
Do you live in a house? Somebody spent a lot of effort to build it, and expecting it for free would be silly, and its the same with many other things.
The thing that youre mad about is the fact living standards are falling, because the central bank and our government can print unlimited sums of money out of nothing, as interest rates are set artificially low to monetize debt and encourage debt accumulation for ultimate serfdom.
kabi@lemm.ee â¨3⊠â¨days⊠ago
you can retire three months before your expected lifespan, so itâs all worth it, really