untorquer
@untorquer@lemmy.world
- Comment on Don't do it 2 days ago:
Hell yeah! I always grab an independently brewed craft beer before my private therapy session. ACT stands for
A: Accept my feelings (I want beer and the thought that started it was the association I’ve made between alcohol and 5pm)
C: Choice - decide how to act in line with your system of values - supporting local businesses and communities
T: Take action - glug glug So anyways, I’m always a bit depressed the day after i get drunk… Like it’s weird.
- Comment on Don't do it 2 days ago:
In this world you’re either a “Big psych industry” or “Big Booze industry” type
- Comment on Don't do it 2 days ago:
This goes hard. Damn.
- Comment on Straight up snorkin' it 3 days ago:
Referencing a late 90’s infomercial to dunk on the equivalent of a 2015 Twitter convo. 👌
- Comment on It's basic science 3 days ago:
That kid was a prodigy. Landed that nuke softer than that jet blue with the sideways landing gear.
- Comment on i told you so 1 week ago:
Well she didn’t
- Comment on Fun Otter Fact 1 week ago:
Am i sad because I’m empathizing with a North American River Otter who looks sad or am i sad because the North American River Otter is probably unaware of how semiconductors work? Either easy North American River Otter deserves better.
- Comment on Do not recommend. 1 week ago:
It is if your plans fell through.
- Comment on Do not recommend. 1 week ago:
Why not both!?
- Comment on Do not recommend. 1 week ago:
Firecrackers are too dry for the recipe. That’s why your revolution came out brittle and tastting like cardboard.
- Comment on Do not recommend. 1 week ago:
Takes the piss right outta ya
- Comment on Skyrim on Switch 2 ships with severe input lag and a huge 53GB file size despite being capped at 30FPS 1 week ago:
The labor cost though, it’s at an all time lo… Wait no that’s gone up… What are they even doing?
Something like business metrics being measured in board salary $/frame-hour?
- Comment on When you eat too much oats and sleep 1 week ago:
There’s art in every fart.
- Comment on how do plants in a green house get enough co2? 3 weeks ago:
I’m inclined to think the fans are more for fanning the plants so they can perspire and breathe more readily. Many plants need a breeze to grow well.
- Comment on how do plants in a green house get enough co2? 3 weeks ago:
It’s called diffusion. Unless the greenhouse is hermetically sealed, and the rate of consumption does not exceed the rate of diffusion, the ratio of CO2 will be similar to that outside.
A simple vent will be enough if not just small gaps in the structure.
- Comment on I dunno 3 weeks ago:
Yes i am, but if you subtract 15 from both sides it’s 2.
- Comment on I dunno 3 weeks ago:
wizardry!
- Comment on I dunno 3 weeks ago:
We didn’t learn elements until high school tbf
- Comment on I dunno 3 weeks ago:
Gotta distribute:
2+(8+5)-(5+5)
2+13-0
15
- Comment on Annoying dark pattern where no means maybe later 4 weeks ago:
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- Comment on Anon sees through the lies 4 weeks ago:
Respiration must be the issue then.
- Comment on Is it gay to have pleasurable sex with your wife? 4 weeks ago:
Something about Grindr statistics and RNC conventions…
- Comment on Is it gay to have pleasurable sex with your wife? 4 weeks ago:
If you care to last longer than 23.4 seconds you might be able to rearrange them in a way they like better.
- Comment on Stop stressing my GPU and start hiring artists 5 weeks ago:
something that often looks “photorealistic” today will look really dated in a few years.
I’m fairly certain that with AI framegen and he hyperfocus on raytracing this paradigm is broken. Were going from consecutive titles looking better to stagnation while only projects with some breathing room in production will advance visually. (E.g. new witcher).
- Comment on Anon gets his life in order 5 weeks ago:
Fair. I just hope you find yourself worthy of your own self care, love, and respect.
- Comment on Anon gets his life in order 5 weeks ago:
No one is entitled to another human being. Relationships are about mutual interest.
- Comment on Anon gets his life in order 5 weeks ago:
You can be blind to the problems you’re facing for a long time. For me it was a combination of her perpetuating abusive behaviors from her youth and me not understanding boundaries and my own avoidance. Outside of that it was right around 2020 so i had a lot of distractions and instability. It took me a long time to realize that the relationship had these problems.
My point is that taking so long to end it had to do with anything except a relationship being a requirement. I do want to be in a relationship but for intimacy, solidarity, vulnerability, company etc… The status doesn’t play into it at all.
If those don’t make sense to you then that’s just as normal. If you’re confused by them then look into aromanticism.
- Comment on Anon gets his life in order 1 month ago:
Nice!
Yeah, and additionally, meeting other parents around school events can be good. There’s lots of time. Seems like you’re making the right moves. Best of luck!!!
- Comment on Hrmmmmm 1 month ago:
More like you have a simple and easy to follow recipe for cake. You and a friend are following it dutifully. Just before the last step of the recipe your friend gets a call from their partner. Your friend then pushes you out of the kitchen and locks you out. The cake is served frosted in your friends freshly cut hair clippings.
- Comment on Anon gets his life in order 1 month ago:
I was in it for 5 years. I wouldn’t have made it another decade. Glad you’re on the other side. I hope you can find your emotions, the ones that you have somewhere inside that really care for you in a way you haven’t felt all this time.
Also therapy if you can afford it and find one that clicks with you. It’s frustratingly helpful in that it doesn’t feel like you’re doing much but the reinforcement and structure is everything.