untorquer
@untorquer@lemmy.world
- Comment on Anon gets his life in order 5 hours ago:
Fair. I just hope you find yourself worthy of your own self care, love, and respect.
- Comment on Anon gets his life in order 12 hours ago:
No one is entitled to another human being. Relationships are about mutual interest.
- Comment on Anon gets his life in order 21 hours ago:
You can be blind to the problems you’re facing for a long time. For me it was a combination of her perpetuating abusive behaviors from her youth and me not understanding boundaries and my own avoidance. Outside of that it was right around 2020 so i had a lot of distractions and instability. It took me a long time to realize that the relationship had these problems.
My point is that taking so long to end it had to do with anything except a relationship being a requirement. I do want to be in a relationship but for intimacy, solidarity, vulnerability, company etc… The status doesn’t play into it at all.
If those don’t make sense to you then that’s just as normal. If you’re confused by them then look into aromanticism.
- Comment on Anon gets his life in order 1 day ago:
Nice!
Yeah, and additionally, meeting other parents around school events can be good. There’s lots of time. Seems like you’re making the right moves. Best of luck!!!
- Comment on Hrmmmmm 2 days ago:
More like you have a simple and easy to follow recipe for cake. You and a friend are following it dutifully. Just before the last step of the recipe your friend gets a call from their partner. Your friend then pushes you out of the kitchen and locks you out. The cake is served frosted in your friends freshly cut hair clippings.
- Comment on Anon gets his life in order 2 days ago:
I was in it for 5 years. I wouldn’t have made it another decade. Glad you’re on the other side. I hope you can find your emotions, the ones that you have somewhere inside that really care for you in a way you haven’t felt all this time.
Also therapy if you can afford it and find one that clicks with you. It’s frustratingly helpful in that it doesn’t feel like you’re doing much but the reinforcement and structure is everything.
- Comment on Plant Protection 4 days ago:
The spores in the cap are also active but with cubensis in low wind they tend to drop on neighboring caps. So being eaten directly and spread should have a higher load transited.
I’m no scientist either so take my thoughts with a cow pie.
- Comment on Plant Protection 5 days ago:
In confused as to how it’s not considered a spore distribution strategy because mammals like tripping balls and spores can survive digestion… 🤷
- Comment on Anon has had enough 6 days ago:
No kink shaming. Simply put, “Under the seat” is NOT equivalent to “towards the bowel”. If you get off on the gamble then flow free my friend.
- Comment on Anon has had enough 6 days ago:
DO NOT FUCK UP STEP 7
- Comment on There was no need to ever improve upon THIS 2 weeks ago:
It’s more difficult to take thermals off/on for a regular car ride. Just let me set temps down to 5C or something.
- Comment on There was no need to ever improve upon THIS 2 weeks ago:
It’s -5C/23F outside, you hop in the car, winter boots and thermal layers. Your climate control’s lowest setting is 16C/61F. You have two options: personal sweaty sauna or drive in your winter jacket with frozen hands.
Other options: blast heat with windows down. Full AC, just get it over with.
- Comment on Fight me 2 weeks ago:
Fuck me, every time with this “useful heat” bs…
- Comment on Fight me 2 weeks ago:
🤓 AKSHUALLY
Energy is conserved. It is converted from another form of energy, or in this case mostly transported, not created.
- Comment on One of those days 3 weeks ago:
Well the system is just an improvement over examination based evaluation too. Doing 5 problems from a discrete concept correctly in a row is a far better proof of knowledge than one problem worth 20% of your grade.
- Comment on Fuck 3 weeks ago:
- Go fast? Depends on type of saw though. Like a silky(?) Commonly does this on horizontal stuff. If the tree is light enough just pull the saw out.
- This is on the edge of when you might cut a notch. It’s not a big tree. With all the cut limbs i doubt there’s much above the pic. Otherwise see 3.
- No thots cut tree.
- Comment on Fuck 3 weeks ago:
It’s a fairly small diameter, enough to hurt you if you’re unlucky, but i bet you’d get away with it. …assuming it’s pine/softwood.
- Comment on Fuck 3 weeks ago:
Branches higher up tangled probably.
- Comment on One of those days 3 weeks ago:
Speaking from a decade ago but Khan Academy’s system(at the time called mastery, not sure what it is now) was leaps and bounds better for learning calculus.
Also I’m pretty sure this meme is from back then too.
- Comment on I c it! 4 weeks ago:
Ah nice! I liked the Lancairs, i got to fly one of them. For working in i think Pipers were my favorite, especially the Malibu. Plenty of space and logical layouts.
I guess working in the engines was nicer in the Cessnas since there was less baffling and no turbo, less places to drop books and nuts.
- Comment on I c it! 4 weeks ago:
Oh i was just the mechanic
- Comment on I c it! 4 weeks ago:
Reminds me of a few Cessna’s i worked on.
- Comment on It is only half greentext, though amusing 5 weeks ago:
Gotcha. I don’t think being sociable and open to friendships at work is “looking”. I can also see how it could clash with someone’s boundaries. In any case holding a grudge about being rejected is bad form.
- Comment on It is only half greentext, though amusing 5 weeks ago:
Wym?
- Comment on We don't use the word 'fascist' because we wish harm on anybody. We use it because words mean things. 5 weeks ago:
Corned cream. It’s cream that goes through a Corning process. The cream itself is not corn based.
- Comment on Practice makes perfect 5 weeks ago:
Nah the toe stuff is great too!
But no you’re not weird for having your own preference. Some people like to Peck, some people play tonsil hockey.
- Comment on #freepenisman 1 month ago:
“…SWAT officers raided his condo and vehicle in west Phoenix.”
Any excuse to play with the toys huh…
- Comment on Cable management is an art form 1 month ago:
Damn! Yeah with the vibration and start torque that makes sense. Sounds like it didn’t have strain relief? I imagine if the wire is cheaped out on at all by the manufacturer it could be more prone as well.
- Comment on Cable management is an art form 1 month ago:
That handle to head ratio is far too provocative!
- Comment on Cable management is an art form 1 month ago:
Lol well is was airplanes not a server room. But yeah