i know everyone who goes on that god forsaken site is a whiny bitch but at a certain point you got have some self responsibility for lacking a social life.
Anon is a homebody
Submitted 9 months ago by Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works to greentext@sh.itjust.works
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Junkhead@slrpnk.net 9 months ago
Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 9 months ago
Reminds me of a colleague of mine who complains about not being fun anymore and also saying that if there’s a knock at the door everyone in the house goes into stealth mode (including the kids!), if the phone rings no one answers, when they get something delivered (and that happens often because they get their groceries delivered) they prepay so they can ask for it to be dropped on the porch so they don’t need to have human contact…
I feel like returning to the office might actually be good for them…
Junkhead@slrpnk.net 9 months ago
soo not to get too deep into it but as an anarchist i think working is really important to ones mental health. Of course working a job that doest make u wanna kill yourself is key and doing something u can at least semi enjoy helps so fucking much but in this capitalist hellscape thats a really fucking big luxury and that makes already society inept people into a someone who goes on 4chan.
But at the end of the day they ultimately make the choice to not talk to anyone. They could start small like actually talking to a cashier and working their way back up from their. They could call someone. If you just silently put yourself into a corner and never make an attempt to better yourself i dont know what to say. Ive been in the deeps of depression and i know its hard but you have to make some effort on your own somewhere.
i got deep into it, yap sesh concluded
ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 9 months ago
I think about this
Im a slightly more active introvert, so I masquerade as a extrovert and adopting other introverts.
SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 9 months ago
You misspelled “cats”
Dogs make you go outside
sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 9 months ago
That was me in high school. Then I moved and married an extrovert in denial (claims to be an introvert, but COVID hit them hard, so I’m not so sure). Seems to work out okay.
wischi@programming.dev 9 months ago
“none of my friends from high school have ever bothered to contact me”.
Best line 🤣 Maybe you should contact them.
zero_spelled_with_an_ecks@programming.dev 9 months ago
Nah, don’t make friends based on physical proximity from years ago.
ChexMax@lemmy.world 9 months ago
My physical proximity friend group is delightful. It’s the only friend group I’m in where we don’t basically all have the same views and opinions, political, religious, etc. I love my family friend group and my found family, but I just played in the ocean last night with friends from highschool (some back to elementary school) and all their wives and it was a blast. We graduated more than a decade ago.
NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 9 months ago
Like they’re not all sitting thinking the same thing.
ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 9 months ago
It’s the “nobody invites me to parties” guy who also never went out of their way to create a party or social event, or did it one time and it sucked and then blames society.
li10@feddit.uk 9 months ago
[deleted]CoffeeJunkie@lemmy.world 9 months ago
Normal life is kind of an oxymoron, like jumbo shrimp or rap music. It’s not really a “thing”. There are maybe a few dozen people I can point to that live a “normal” life…and most if not all are boring AF. Fucking losers. They don’t really live, they just kind of exist & skate by, from cradle to grave.
As Abraham Lincoln said, it’s not about the years in your life, it’s the life in your years. Live a life that actually has meaning, and purpose.
Don’t worry about being normal. Look around at what is normal. Isn’t it kind of disappointing? Be more than normal. The bar is really low right now, just be a nice person & you’ll fucking step over it.
papalonian@lemmy.world 9 months ago
What’s the oxymoron with rap music? Does rap mean something else?
ryannathans@aussie.zone 9 months ago
Never will if you give up
chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 months ago
I feel like the pattern of severe social isolation is itself getting to be a pretty normal life
IlovePizza@lemmy.world 9 months ago
I’m taking a shot in the dark here but, if I may ask, do you watch porn? I quit years ago and It helped a lot. This video helped me piped.video/watch?v=7oFVOJf0TzY
spookex@lemmy.world 9 months ago
One of the reasons why I never will want to do WFH, I just know that I will turn into this greentext
Zacryon@feddit.org 9 months ago
Sounds negative to you, but really good to a bunch of other people.
arin@lemmy.world 9 months ago
Positive for me
LwL@lemmy.world 9 months ago
I find it interesting that somehow most of the comments assume anon is complaining when the pic is gigachad and it really reads more as making fun of himself without really having a problem with it.
Like honestly it sounds pretty alright
Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 9 months ago
At some point you gotta take responsibility for yourself for stuff like that, it’s just as sad if the only reason you see people is because you have to show up to the office… There’s a whole lot of time outside work hours to see people!
spookex@lemmy.world 9 months ago
Well yes, but that’s the time when I do my various hobbies, that are mostly solitary
TootSweet@lemmy.world 9 months ago
So many people in here are assuming the OP on 4chan is massively depressed and being carcastic about the “Yup life is good” comment. Kinda seems “extraversion-normativity” in here.
Jiggle_Physics@lemmy.world 9 months ago
Four years without contact from another human being is not healthy, doesn’t matter if you are an introvert.
teamevil@lemmy.world 9 months ago
Pretty sure that’s how we got the unibomber
sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 9 months ago
Yeah, that honestly sounds pretty good to me. I’m married, so I get plenty of social interaction between work and my wife, so that lifestyle would be great for me. In fact, I really enjoyed the COVID lockdowns because I was able to limit my socializing to a few video calls here and there.
Now that COVID lockdowns are a thing again, I’m constantly drained because it seems like everyone wants to go out and do stuff, when I’d like to just read a book or something.
SoJB@lemmy.ml 9 months ago
It is seriously shocking how many assholes are posting here like the OPs life is something to pity and needs to change.
Literally the point of the post is to demonstrate this is a gigachad perspective.
Some of us don’t need constant external validation from people to avoid turning into a psychotic mentally ill mess.
Some of us ain’t as weak as y’all and would rather not interact with other people. Especially people like y’all who immediately assume everyone around you must change their lives to suit yours.
decisivelyhoodnoises@sh.itjust.works 9 months ago
I would ask “who hurt you?” but solitude can be damaging for one’s mental health too. No, seriously, I get the point you want to make but not having talked to any other person for 4 years is not healthy either. It looks like you have internalized a lot of these things that you wrote about and the way you talk about them doesn’t look like you can find whatever you need too.
Jiggle_Physics@lemmy.world 9 months ago
There isn’t medical professional on earth that would agree that 4 years, without human contact, is healthy.
gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 months ago
That’s why it’s so important to me to:
- live in a big city where you can go in bars or cafes and just listen to human voices
- live in a shared apartment
- "study" at university (mostly for the human contact)
- work physically, i.e. supermarket
ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 9 months ago
ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 9 months ago
I work at home and I’m in my 40s with my family.
I use meetup.com to find events and hang out with other 40yos and commiserate about how this is the first time we’ve been outside in a week.
gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 months ago
Yeah, i don’t really like using commercial platforms to find partners. It’s the same with tinder etc…
I like finding people irl, though it is more difficult. Also, it would be cool if there were websites where you can find partners, but community hosted, like lemmy. For example for trans people etc…
teamevil@lemmy.world 9 months ago
As a freshly single person in my early 40s in an area with no social network…is Meetup cool?
kameecoding@lemmy.world 9 months ago
After 4 years of work from home, I am starting a new job that’s 50% on site
gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 months ago
good for you :)
I had something similar, finally starting an on-site job after 4 years of studying which was mostly at-home.
Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 9 months ago
The healthiest I’ve ever been in my life, both physically and mentally, was when I was alone for weeks at a time. I worked from home, didn’t have money to eat at restaurants or go out.
captainlezbian@lemmy.world 9 months ago
I’ve done that before and had the opposite experience. I was utterly miserable and experienced really bad mental health side effects
Sabata11792@ani.social 9 months ago
Things have been getting better since I moved out on my own. Still a mess, but improving.
GetOffMyLan@programming.dev 9 months ago
Sounds like bliss tbh
Sam_Bass@lemmy.world 9 months ago
Peace at any cost
Evil_Shrubbery@lemm.ee 9 months ago
Low greenhouse gases emitter Chad, a hero.
djsoren19@yiffit.net 9 months ago
Recently got out of a bad relationship and still have a little time left in my lease until I can move out and be alone. Gotta say, this sounds incredibly peaceful.
teamevil@lemmy.world 9 months ago
The trick is just to pay for everything in your relationship so when it falls apart you’re still good and in your apartment… At least that’s what I keep telling myself
djsoren19@yiffit.net 9 months ago
While nice in theory, I have also have two roommates, and I have no interest in trying to kick them out over my relationship issues.
MacStache@programming.dev 9 months ago
People need to realize that they need to change their own behavior for things to change. It’s not always someone elses fault. It can be, but it’s not always.
Dasus@lemmy.world 9 months ago
Four?
Tbose are rookie numbers.
slaacaa@lemmy.world 9 months ago
“buy all groceries az self checkout”
Fucking loser normie, still regularly leaving the house…
sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 9 months ago
I’m not paying those delivery fees, it’s a matter of principle…