papalonian

@papalonian@lemmy.world

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Me this morning⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  And the thing above it is…

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨This one's for the gardeners ;)⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  The water you gave me had a slightly low pH balance (0.15 lower than my preferred) also did your AC just kick on? I’m allergic 🥹👉🏾👈🏾

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Brits will use anything other than the imperial measurementss⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  How long was the cricket pitch discovered in Thailand?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Flirtation 3⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  “this content is annoying to me, I’ll solve the problem by spamming a ton of annoying content so that everyone is annoyed!”

  Why not… post content you want to see? (Not you in particular, but the people that do this)

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Flirtation 3⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Yeah honestly so glad that corn resurgence died after a couple posts. Whenever I see that shit start up again I just hop off Lemmy for a couple days lol. Don’t see what’s entertaining or funny about scrolling through the search results of a grocery store webpage. And I was one of the ones at the beginning that thought it was funny… for like 2 days.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨"Parenting is buying 6 yogurts and watching them all get eaten In one day.....Then buying 12 yogurts and watching them expire because, “Nobody likes yogurt." "⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Get tubs of yogurt instead of the little cups? Maybe even a tub for each twin so they can just eat it out of the tub like the little gremlins they are.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨clean that up⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Fr fr on God no cap?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨"News I saw today about the EU: 1) Chat control passed; 2) EU mandates new cars to install face scanning camera; 3) EU to require passport verification for accessing internet.... Fantastic"⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  You posted misinformation in my shit post community 🫵🏿😤👊🏿

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Probably accurate⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  No, I want you to concede at the very least that you acted like I was incapable of understanding your ClEveR comment when it was in fact you that made a mistake, and it’d be even better if you admitted that your random “well there were trans people in the 1700s dumby!” quip a. had absolutely nothing to do with what anyone was talking about, b. was unnecessarily rude to someone who only disagreed with you in your own mind, and c. failed to disprove the thing you decided to argue against. But I don’t think you’re gonna do any of that so I think we’re done.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Belgium national team's officialsocial media post after beating theUSA national team in the World Cup:"Overturn this"⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  It was a quieter time

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Probably accurate⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  So are ad hominem attacks when someone can no longer defend their position, or even acknowledge the obvious mistake they sarcastically defended.

  I don’t see why I would, based on this interaction.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Belgium national team's officialsocial media post after beating theUSA national team in the World Cup:"Overturn this"⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  First time here? 9/11 jokes have been on the table online since, like, 9/12.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Probably accurate⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Cawthorn

  Crawford

  My point is that your original comment was not to Cawthorn. It was to someone completely different. Cawthorn could have a swastika in his profile picture and call for the extinction of all trans people and it wouldn’t justify your being rude to some random guy online who said, “yeah the founding fathers would be horrified”.

  You’re acting like you’re talking directly to the OP and responding directly to Cawthorn’s tweet, when you’re not.

  Finally, I didn’t ‘assume’ anything. I’ve run across Ms. Crawford’s comments in the past, and happened to remember the name.

  I’m not saying you’re assuming Cawthorn’s position. I’m saying you’re assuming Dookieman12’s position. What do Cawthorn’s past comments have to do with the person you’re actually responding to?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Probably accurate⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  More condescending commentary… ok?

  Who is this person, and why do I care about them? And if they’re so important, and you’re so clever, why can’t you keep their name consistent in your own comment?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨what of it? 🤨⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Sounds like they weren’t talking to you then, lil guy

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨good idea, no downsides⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I moved recently and had some small filing cabinets that needed to be moved downstairs (and subsequently back upstairs). I was amazed at how heavy the near-empty, cheap sheet metal cabinets were, until I saw the giant paver stones bolted to the inside back wall to give them support when the drawers are open.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Probably accurate⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  You immediately assumed they held a position opposite of yours for no reason and then speak condescendingly to them, why? Maybe they think the founding fathers would be horrified by the same things you are horrified by.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨excuse me?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Nothing in the post contradicts what you stated…? Why is eyesight or vision of anyone’s face necessary

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨look⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I mean, shit. It gives +10 health.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The same adult daughter who has trouble loading a dishwasher efficientlyly...⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Writing a guilt trip to compare “ok boomer” to the vitriol and hate that trans people experience is some big boomer energy.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Neil the Seal⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  You’re saying that my comment,

  It’s a quote from a TV show, Bojack Horseman

  Is unoriginal? Uh… ok. Think it’s more likely that you thought I was the guy that made the reference. But sure. That’s what you meant.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Neil the Seal⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I didn’t make the comment, dumbass.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Neil the Seal⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  It’s a quote from a TV show, Bojack Horseman.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[deleted]⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  So you can see what’s inside to rent it out, maybe the locker thingy just opens and closes without keeping inventory.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨brains on autopilot⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I usually drop to my hands and knees, panting with my tongue out and banging a fist on the floor.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Butter⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  So hopefully, you now have a better picture and don’t think of my like an asshole anymore, that doesn’t let any other idea being ok ;⁠-⁠)

  I didn’t have this picture of you to begin with, I only offered advice because it seemed your partner thought so, haha.

  This could be a language / cultural thing, but if I was doing something I’ve done a hundred times and someone asked me, “why are you doing it that way?” I would also be frustrated and defensive. Even though it’s a simple question with no implications, it can feel like the other person is saying you’re doing something wrong.

  Let’s look at your tomato example. They’re washing tomatoes without even really thinking about it, and are asked, “why are you doing it like that?” (again, not a directly confrontational question, but can be perceived as such) Now slightly defensive they have to justify a behavior they did not think about before starting. The response is probably going to be short and… not happy.

  I know you’re asking the question to find the best, most efficient way. You know that, and your partner probably knows it too, but when it happens in the moment (especially if they’ve already got a disposition towards those questions) it can be hard to look past your preconceived assumptions of the question.

  So instead of seeing them wash tomatoes with hot water and asking “why are you doing that”, maybe you can ask, “is it better to wash them with hot water? I normally use cold because xyz”.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Butter⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  So, when she does something better, I don’t feel bad, I try to adapt her style.
  Other way round, it’s always a personal critique it seems

  When she does something better, do you say something to her that shows her you’ve learned something and are going to change how you do it? It might seem like you have a “I always know best, my way or the highway” attitude but if you show a bit of humility and can accept that you don’t always have the best methods, it might show her that you don’t want things always done “your way”, you’re just looking for the “best way”.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Lemmy Shitshow⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  The mods are two weeks away from obtaining nuclear capabilities

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Don't have kids⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Think you’re right. What a tasty snack

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Don't have kids⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  The inclusion of actual peanuts makes me wonder if this was done to someone with a peanut allergy