I call fake! The initial question didn’t end with “eh?”
How polite
Submitted 1 month ago by OriginEnergySux@lemmy.world to [deleted]
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WhoIzDisIz@lemmy.today 1 month ago
EmilieEasie@fedinsfw.app 1 month ago
I’ve had a few dudes approach me in a similar way. If you’re interacting in porno spaces online, it’s more common than you’d think, butt unfortunately still a lot less common than dudes who don’t treat me like a person.
Dzheyk@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
I dunno what age range of dick pics you get from people but I, for one, am glad I’m passed my dick pic sending era. You should definitely get treated like a person more often than it sounds like you do.
EmilieEasie@fedinsfw.app 1 month ago
We love character growth!
I guess I should explain a little more: when people approach me with the intent to sext, or whatever, most of them are terrible and disrespectful about it. People who just message me to be like “I like your art!” (i’m a porno artist) or whatever still comprise most of the messages I get and those people are generally good :)
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 month ago
… I’ve never sent an unsolicited dick pic.
Sure, if someone is asking… and like, we are actively, mutually sexting…
I dunno.
Never made any sense to me at all, to do that unprompted.
Not trying to like, dog on you, I just literally don’t get it, how it would sense to do that.
D_C@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
Are unsolicited pictures of Dick Van Dyke ok?
Oh, pants, now I’ve asked they won’t be unsolicited. I need to really rethink my dick game plans!!
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 1 month ago
deck pics are also high scorers. “ohhhh forgive my typo”
EmilieEasie@fedinsfw.app 1 month ago
They would have been acceptable
1984@lemmy.today 1 month ago
They don’t treat you as a person on porno places and you are surprised?
EmilieEasie@fedinsfw.app 1 month ago
What part of my post indicated surprise to you?
CanadianCarl@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
You sound like my closeted bisexual friend, who hates people who make money via adult websites. You still have some growing up, just like him.
orioler25@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Really tired of the association between “Canadian” and “polite.” Canadian men are terrible at taking pictures of their dicks too, and they share those pics incessantly. Don’t let some of them read this and then think to themselves, “I’m polite about my grainy, unfocused, dick pics even if I don’t always ask, because I’m Canadian.”
Aedaz_@lemmy.zip 1 month ago
I highly doubt anyone is taking this seriously.
orioler25@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Of course not, that’s why it’s a problem. Don’t act like you are unaware of the conception I’m talking about. I’m saying that the fact that it can be evoked and accepted so easily is a problem given that Canadians are hardly more polite than anyone else, and many if not most of them are bigoted in some major way.
chiliedogg@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Canadian men are terrible at taking pictures of their dicks
It really is rude to compose shots so poorly.
It’s like they’ve never bothered to learn to crank that F-stop while increasing the exposure to get that shallow depth of field. It gives an illusion of depth.
I like to use a 60mm prime lens on an MFT to give it a crop-factor equivalent of 120mm.
And go with a snooted strobe to get that shadow detail. Ring flashes are lazy and have no chatacter.
orioler25@lemmy.world 1 month ago
See, I get you’re joking, but I’m not clear if it’s because you’re a hobbyist who saw an opportunity to info dump a bit for hyperbole, or if you’re using that hyperbole to suggest that it is an unrealistic expectation for dick pics to look sexy in any way possible (rather than just a dimly lit, unclear shot of someone’s unmaintained and unwashed patchy pubes and greasy dick)
CADmonkey@lemmy.world 1 month ago
WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 1 month ago
I love your cock! 😍
yoriaiko@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 month ago
Hi, thanks for asking, could You describe it first, before showing actual offer? I’d like to take my time on that.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 1 month ago
well it’s in a jar and garlic dill flavored
freeusething@fedinsfw.app 1 month ago
What I don’t understand is how anyone is capable of believing that a terribly lit picture of them tugging on their wiener over the toilet is sexually appealing.
Dicks are beautiful when they’re framed with respect. There’s so much variety in size, color, shape… Grindr is a good place to go if you want art references because you’ll see how crazy different guys dicks are from each other. But so few men spend more than 5 seconds thinking about how to properly display their assets.
tantricgooner@fedinsfw.app 1 month ago
The way I see it is, guys generally are fine with any pic of women’s assets, like lots of girls also send just completely default titty pics and guys eat it up, so they probably think it works in reverse too.
Also there’s plenty of women out there who are more interested in other features rather than dicks, meanwhile every straight guy is gonna be fine with any piece of titty or ass a woman shows them pretty much. I’ve talked to multiple women who didn’t care for seeing dick but they loved seeing cum, for example. I agree though, I never understood the point of sending random dick pics, I think guys who do that probably are doing it more for themselves as some kind of fetish rather than to impress women?
As for the Grindr thing, I think that’s probably because the audience there is more into seeing dicks than the average woman 🤭 I agree, it is worthwhile to learn that but I understand it’s not something that comes naturally to most of us. Before I started hanging out in pornspaces I really had no clue either what women want to see and stuff.
KernelTale@programming.dev 1 month ago
As a bisexual only counter point I have is that ass is ass and a lazy pussy pick looks bad as well.
Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 1 month ago
Because due to law of large numbers, it has worked for someone. The 99% who are disgusted by it are just a collateral damage. Of course it might have been a much more artistic picture of a dick, but that gets glossed over.
There’s always the exhibition and degrading kink to consider as well. Flashers do exists and sending a random dick pick is rather easy. For the degrading kink, sending a random dick pick is sure way to get at least some insults or disgust effect.
There might be just ego or inflated self esteem in the play as well.
Though just for clarification, I’m not in any way defending it. I’m probably more baffled by most sexual behaviors than the average person. I have just been curious over the drivers of most sexual behaviors.
Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Dick portraiture must be a profession, or at the very least a hobby.
freeusething@fedinsfw.app 1 month ago
More of a connoisseur. Grindr is a great place to get reference pics for art and I’d just appreciate a societal push for more effort in dick pic composition
Ramsesder13te@feddit.org 1 month ago
This weirdly looks like it could happen…
WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 1 month ago
I actually did a version of this when I offered nudes to someone in public on a Discord server, she declined and I was like “thought so”.
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 month ago
… this is confusing to me.
Like… you’re doing a kind of power move, but like, in reverse.
…hrm.
WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 1 month ago
The entire server went horny crazy, I was like “well, I have no problem just giving people nudes”.
I eventually said as much.
100% sure even if I am physically attractive, my personality is unfuckable.
But that is ok.
lemmysmash@piefed.social 1 month ago
That’s… not how it works in other countries?
wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 1 month ago
🍆🖼️ hello
PattyMcB@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Eh? What are you on aboot?
CyberTheProtogen@lemmy.zip 1 month ago
No I’m on sandals
PattyMcB@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Oh, sorry.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 1 month ago
we hit land in an hour, why?
also how could you tell, that’s kind of creepy. creepier than me, so i need to lkearn this skill
altphoto@lemmy.today 1 month ago
He did say sorry and that’s a stereotype.
wraekscadu@vargar.org 1 month ago
Then you have the American getting an STD from their fin Dom and blaming it on the Canadian
Malyca@lemmy.zip 1 month ago
This would win brownie points
Kolanaki@pawb.social 1 month ago
When dudes open up with a dick pic on Grindr I am just like “Good. They have the item I’m looking for in stock.”
SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml 1 month ago
Damn imagine if there was a shortage of dicks
dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 1 month ago
Have you been on Grindr? Nothing but bottoms. There totally is a shortage of dick lol
TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I think I read a sci-fi about that
wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Ooh, there’s a discount for quantities of 5 or more. Thrifty and slutty, my kind of place!
Luffy879@lemmy.ml 1 month ago
Been kinda casually dating for a while, those people are the worst and don’t deserve any kind of response.
The only thing they will ever want is a one night stand on their terms and never talk again. These slums of people have completely destroyed my self confidence for a while, and I don’t even want to think about what kinda STDs I would have gotten if I slept with them.
surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 1 month ago
On the other hand, the transparency is appreciated. It’s much worse when someone seems normal, then does exactly the same thing.