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Submitted ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago⁩ by ⁨OriginEnergySux@lemmy.world⁩ to ⁨[deleted]⁩

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  • altphoto@lemmy.today ⁨38⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

    He did say sorry and that’s a stereotype.

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  • wraekscadu@vargar.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨hour⁩ ago

    Then you have the American getting an STD from their fin Dom and blaming it on the Canadian

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  • Kolanaki@pawb.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    When dudes open up with a dick pic on Grindr I am just like “Good. They have the item I’m looking for in stock.”

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    • SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Damn imagine if there was a shortage of dicks

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      • dharmacurious@slrpnk.net ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        Have you been on Grindr? Nothing but bottoms. There totally is a shortage of dick lol

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      • TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        I think I read a sci-fi about that

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    • wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Ooh, there’s a discount for quantities of 5 or more. Thrifty and slutty, my kind of place!

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    • Luffy879@lemmy.ml ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Been kinda casually dating for a while, those people are the worst and don’t deserve any kind of response.

      The only thing they will ever want is a one night stand on their terms and never talk again. These slums of people have completely destroyed my self confidence for a while, and I don’t even want to think about what kinda STDs I would have gotten if I slept with them.

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      • surewhynotlem@lemmy.world ⁨15⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        On the other hand, the transparency is appreciated. It’s much worse when someone seems normal, then does exactly the same thing.

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  • yoriaiko@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Hi, thanks for asking, could You describe it first, before showing actual offer? I’d like to take my time on that.

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    • HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      well it’s in a jar and garlic dill flavored

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  • freeusething@fedinsfw.app ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    What I don’t understand is how anyone is capable of believing that a terribly lit picture of them tugging on their wiener over the toilet is sexually appealing.

    Dicks are beautiful when they’re framed with respect. There’s so much variety in size, color, shape… Grindr is a good place to go if you want art references because you’ll see how crazy different guys dicks are from each other. But so few men spend more than 5 seconds thinking about how to properly display their assets.

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    • Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org ⁨7⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

      Because due to law of large numbers, it has worked for someone. The 99% who are disgusted by it are just a collateral damage. Of course it might have been a much more artistic picture of a dick, but that gets glossed over.

      There’s always the exhibition and degrading kink to consider as well. Flashers do exists and sending a random dick pick is rather easy. For the degrading kink, sending a random dick pick is sure way to get at least some insults or disgust effect.

      There might be just ego or inflated self esteem in the play as well.

      Though just for clarification, I’m not in any way defending it. I’m probably more baffled by most sexual behaviors than the average person. I have just been curious over the drivers of most sexual behaviors.

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  • orioler25@lemmy.world ⁨14⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Really tired of the association between “Canadian” and “polite.” Canadian men are terrible at taking pictures of their dicks too, and they share those pics incessantly. Don’t let some of them read this and then think to themselves, “I’m polite about my grainy, unfocused, dick pics even if I don’t always ask, because I’m Canadian.”

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    • chiliedogg@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Canadian men are terrible at taking pictures of their dicks

      It really is rude to compose shots so poorly.

      It’s like they’ve never bothered to learn to crank that F-stop while increasing the exposure to get that shallow depth of field. It gives an illusion of depth.

      I like to use a 60mm prime lens on an MFT to give it a crop-factor equivalent of 120mm.

      And go with a snooted strobe to get that shadow detail. Ring flashes are lazy and have no chatacter.

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      • orioler25@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        See, I get you’re joking, but I’m not clear if it’s because you’re a hobbyist who saw an opportunity to info dump a bit for hyperbole, or if you’re using that hyperbole to suggest that it is an unrealistic expectation for dick pics to look sexy in any way possible (rather than just a dimly lit, unclear shot of someone’s unmaintained and unwashed patchy pubes and greasy dick)

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    • Aedaz_@lemmy.zip ⁨13⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      I highly doubt anyone is taking this seriously.

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      • orioler25@lemmy.world ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        Of course not, that’s why it’s a problem. Don’t act like you are unaware of the conception I’m talking about. I’m saying that the fact that it can be evoked and accepted so easily is a problem given that Canadians are hardly more polite than anyone else, and many if not most of them are bigoted in some major way.

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  • WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    I actually did a version of this when I offered nudes to someone in public on a Discord server, she declined and I was like “thought so”.

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    • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      … this is confusing to me.

      Like… you’re doing a kind of power move, but like, in reverse.

      …hrm.

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      • WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        The entire server went horny crazy, I was like “well, I have no problem just giving people nudes”.

        I eventually said as much.

        100% sure even if I am physically attractive, my personality is unfuckable.

        But that is ok.

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  • WhoIzDisIz@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    I call fake! The initial question didn’t end with “eh?”

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  • EmilieEasie@fedinsfw.app ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    I’ve had a few dudes approach me in a similar way. If you’re interacting in porno spaces online, it’s more common than you’d think, butt unfortunately still a lot less common than dudes who don’t treat me like a person.

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    • D_C@sh.itjust.works ⁨21⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Are unsolicited pictures of Dick Van Dyke ok?

      Oh, pants, now I’ve asked they won’t be unsolicited. I need to really rethink my dick game plans!!

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      • HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        deck pics are also high scorers. “ohhhh forgive my typo”

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      • EmilieEasie@fedinsfw.app ⁨16⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        They would have been acceptable

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    • Dzheyk@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      I dunno what age range of dick pics you get from people but I, for one, am glad I’m passed my dick pic sending era. You should definitely get treated like a person more often than it sounds like you do.

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      • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        … I’ve never sent an unsolicited dick pic.

        Sure, if someone is asking… and like, we are actively, mutually sexting…

        I dunno.

        Never made any sense to me at all, to do that unprompted.

        Not trying to like, dog on you, I just literally don’t get it, how it would sense to do that.

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      • EmilieEasie@fedinsfw.app ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        We love character growth!

        I guess I should explain a little more: when people approach me with the intent to sext, or whatever, most of them are terrible and disrespectful about it. People who just message me to be like “I like your art!” (i’m a porno artist) or whatever still comprise most of the messages I get and those people are generally good :)

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    • 1984@lemmy.today ⁨18⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      They don’t treat you as a person on porno places and you are surprised?

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      • CanadianCarl@sh.itjust.works ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        You sound like my closeted bisexual friend, who hates people who make money via adult websites. You still have some growing up, just like him.

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      • EmilieEasie@fedinsfw.app ⁨16⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        What part of my post indicated surprise to you?

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  • PattyMcB@lemmy.world ⁨18⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Eh? What are you on aboot?

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    • CyberTheProtogen@lemmy.zip ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      No I’m on sandals

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      • PattyMcB@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        Oh, sorry.

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    • HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      we hit land in an hour, why?

      also how could you tell, that’s kind of creepy. creepier than me, so i need to lkearn this skill

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  • Ramsesder13te@feddit.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    This weirdly looks like it could happen…

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  • Malyca@lemmy.zip ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    This would win brownie points

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  • lemmysmash@piefed.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    That’s… not how it works in other countries?

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    • wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      🍆🖼️ hello

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