question for the culture

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• erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨hour⁩ ago

  it’s not cheating if I’m poly and my gfs are into it

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  • IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world ⁨39⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

    this, honestly, monogamy is creepy. Only I’m allowed access to your body!!! My concent overrides my partners concent when it comes to her body.

    Tf is that?

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    • db2@lemmy.world ⁨23⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

      Quality shitpost reply, I think people forget what community they’re in here.

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• Diddlydee@feddit.uk ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Remind you 48 times that you’re a dirty whore?

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  • fraksken@infosec.pub ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    And keep the line occuppied 😈

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• zxqwas@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Whatever you’re doing, what is calling 48 times going to do?

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  • LouNeko@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Ordering 48 separate pizzas.

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• Billy_fuccboi@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨hour⁩ ago

  To tell you that you’re moving out?

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• shweddy@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  She’s back!!!

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• violet08_@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  never cheated but it got me thinking

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  • IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    you telling me you never used cheat codes in age of empires II?

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    • Haquer@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨hour⁩ ago

      how do you turn this on

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• IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  am I the only one who doesn’t give a fuck about cheating? just be careful with std, test regularly, and have fun.

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  • OldSageRick@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨hour⁩ ago

    What you are describing is an open relationship, so both parties are in a relationship but may seek sexual pleasure elsewhere.

    Cheating on the other side has a core component which is the problem, lying.

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  • Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨hour⁩ ago

    Imagine you have a relationship where one of the rules each person is expected to follow is “Do not have sex with other people.” You both agreed to it. Then you find out the other person broke it. Trust is gone.

    This would be different than someone saying “Hey, I know we agreed to this rule, but can we revisit that?” and having a grownup discussion about ENM alternatives, where someone has the opportunity to say that is a dealbreaker for them or declare boundaries that make this OK with them.

    Nonmonogamy is cool is everyone is aware and onboard. Fuck cheaters.

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    • IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

      i find such rule to be inherently controlling and coercive. and used to punish abused and neglected partners who find affection elsewhere but can’t leave their relationship due to coersion or fear of homelessness.

      Cheating like that should be like “we agreed were both in a diet, but I had a donut that someone brought to the office”, not “you are inherently a horrible human being who deserves to be shamed and hated for seeking human connection”.

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• GreenShimada@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Send the message “oh, so I guess he wasn’t cheating on me at the same time.”

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