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It’s hard to reach orgasm if the phone is ringing constantly. He can’t keep you from cheating, but he can keep you from enjoying it.
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Submitted 1 month ago by violet08_@lemmy.world to [deleted]
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erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 month ago
it’s not cheating if I’m poly and my gfs are into it
IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 1 month ago
this, honestly, monogamy is creepy. Only I’m allowed access to your body!!! My concent overrides my partners concent when it comes to her body.
Tf is that?
db2@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Quality shitpost reply, I think people forget what community they’re in here.
halfeatenpotato@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
Pls dont forget Jesus
IAMgROOT@lemmy.wtf 5 weeks ago
Huh? Monogamy is remaining loyal to one person. Cheaters are scum
flying_sheep@lemmy.ml 1 month ago
That’s tautological. Of course “doing X in relationship model where X isn’t considered cheating” is not considered cheating
violet08_@lemmy.world 1 month ago
[deleted]IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 1 month ago
you telling me you never used cheat codes in age of empires II?
Haquer@lemmy.today 1 month ago
how do you turn this on
basxto@discuss.tchncs.de 1 month ago
BIGDADDY
Oh, wrong version
Diddlydee@feddit.uk 1 month ago
Remind you 48 times that you’re a dirty whore?
fraksken@infosec.pub 1 month ago
And keep the line occuppied 😈
ductTapedWindow@lemmy.zip 1 month ago
Reminds me of my drug dealer back in the early 2000s. He wanted to get some Adderall but I was in a movie theater. Checked my phone to over 200 missed calls.
Honytawk@discuss.tchncs.de 1 month ago
Hopefully play your heartstrings while you contemplate why you have the morals of a cactus.
mech@feddit.org 1 month ago
I’m trying to keep the line busy to reduce the number of booty calls you can do.
halfeatenpotato@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
I was hanging out with a lady friend after work the other night (I am also a lady), and her husband straight up called her 8 times. My husband called me 0 times. Cause I told him where I’d be and with who, and he trusted me… she was completely floored that my husband didn’t even call me once. I was floored that her husband called her at all.
Without trust, there is no love -Moulin Rouge (and probably a quote from something else)
shweddy@lemmy.world 1 month ago
She’s back!!!
Billy_fuccboi@lemmy.world 1 month ago
To tell you that you’re moving out?
33550336@lemmy.world 1 month ago
If I would be her cuck, I would calmly and humbly wait for a pleasure to talk to her.
Honytawk@discuss.tchncs.de 1 month ago
Dude, you can do better
IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 1 month ago
yhea, rather than just wait, he can do chores.
33550336@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Thanks for care, but no need – I am just into femdom.
Earthman_Jim@lemmy.zip 1 month ago
Like being single, for example.
Obnomus@lemmy.ml 1 month ago
Women I have respect for you don’t do it.
IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 1 month ago
you mean calling 48 times? agree, a text message is enough.
IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 1 month ago
am I the only one who doesn’t give a fuck about cheating? just be careful with std, test regularly, and have fun.
OldSageRick@lemmy.zip 1 month ago
What you are describing is an open relationship, so both parties are in a relationship but may seek sexual pleasure elsewhere.
Cheating on the other side has a core component which is the problem, lying.
IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 1 month ago
that’s what I practice and am open about it. I hate those who say they are poly as an excuse after being caught cheating. Not because of the cheating itself, but because they lied to get with someone they knew won’t want that. Therefore the cheated partner had no informed consent. And I’m not sure this is a mainstream view. but I consider informed consent as consent, and therefore no informed consent is rape.
Someone who lies about who they are to have sex is a rapist, just using conman tricks instead of drugs or force. And should be seen by society as such.
Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
Imagine you have a relationship where one of the rules each person is expected to follow is “Do not have sex with other people.” You both agreed to it. Then you find out the other person broke it. Trust is gone.
This would be different than someone saying “Hey, I know we agreed to this rule, but can we revisit that?” and having a grownup discussion about ENM alternatives, where someone has the opportunity to say that is a dealbreaker for them or declare boundaries that make this OK with them.
Nonmonogamy is cool is everyone is aware and onboard. Fuck cheaters.
IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 1 month ago
i find such rule to be inherently controlling and coercive. and used to punish abused and neglected partners who find affection elsewhere but can’t leave their relationship due to coersion or fear of homelessness.
Cheating like that should be like “we agreed were both in a diet, but I had a donut that someone brought to the office”, not “you are inherently a horrible human being who deserves to be shamed and hated for seeking human connection”.
IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Damn, had no idea how unpopular that opinion was. I expect it to be unpopular, just not universally so. still, I will die in this hill. Suggest people to check out “relationship anarchy”. And I will be open about it, so absolutely no one who wants monogamous relationship ends up with me, I wouldn’t want to hurt anyone.
Quetzalcutlass@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Relationships are built on trust and establishing boundaries. Cheating (as the name indicates) breaks both of these. It’s completely different from an open relationship due to one missing and very important component: consent. If your partner is okay with it, have all the (safe) sex you want. But going behind a loyal partner’s back and breaking their trust is of course going to hurt them.
Even if they would have been okay with an open relationship, you not asking beforehand will have them wondering why you hid it from them, if they did something wrong, if they’re not good enough for you, if you ever loved them at all, and what else you might be doing behind their back. Your betrayal will have destroyed their trust in you, and rebuilding the relationship will be an uphill battle if it’s possible at all.
basxto@discuss.tchncs.de 1 month ago
If it is really good cooking and I get lunch packs. (And am still allowed to cook for myself)
GreenShimada@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Send the message “oh, so I guess he wasn’t cheating on me at the same time.”
GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I’m not calling to get you to answer.
I’m calling to find you. every ring, gets me that much closer to finding your location.
ring ring…
zxqwas@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Whatever you’re doing, what is calling 48 times going to do?
LouNeko@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Ordering 48 separate pizzas.
halfeatenpotato@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
worth the gains