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Submitted ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩ by ⁨snausagesinablanket@lemmy.world⁩ to ⁨[deleted]⁩

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  • Diddlydee@feddit.uk ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Only in NY? Everyone knows that isn’t a question to be answered. It’s chit-chat, an opener. What’s happening? How are you? What’s popping? Not questions that need answers.

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    • spankmonkey@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Fuck that, I will answer it if I want to. Yes, I know the socially acceptable pretend bullshit that is expected, but if they are going to ask I will be honest if I feel like it.

      Usually I don’t because they probably just do it because everyone else does, but it gets really old.

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      • scytale@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        I unintentionally make people buffer when they say “How are you” and I just answer with “good” and don’t return the question. There’s usually a second of dead silence because they expect to get it back and answer. I’m not used to asking a rhetorical question as a greeting, and prefer to just just say Hi or Hey.

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      • peteypete420@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Its not unacceptable at all. You are fine. It was a little unexpected sure, but hey at least now we are done with pleasantries and talking about something at least one of us cares about.

        To be clear, I am also not against pleasantries. They are called that for a reason .

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    • OldManBOMBIN@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      “Yo baby, you ever had your asshole eaten-out by a fat man in an overcoat?”

      Y’know, classic greetings.

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    • A_Very_Big_Fan@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      You’d think, right? But I have some customers that insist that I actually answer the question.

      They’ll walk up and say “hi! how are you?” and I’ll say “hello”… And then they’ll look me directly in the eyes and say again “how are you???” rather than telling me what they want so I can get them through the line.

      My usual response is to look at them like ಠ_ಠ and say “…I’m good? How are you?” to indirectly communicate to them that they’re being weird af. But one of these times I want to just trauma dump on these old ladies that do this shit and watch as they have no idea what to say, and hopefully make them feel awkward as I hold up the line to give them a genuine answer to the question they insisted I respond to.

      /rant

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    • LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      And here I thought this curse was British brainrot. No, I will give you a detailed account of my day to day activities unless you can learn to say hi or hello there like a civilized person.

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      • Droggelbecher@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        It absolutely isn’t a global thing. Many Europeans get confused when they first encounter it from a brit or american for the first time. My indian friend lived in the US for a year and never got used to it, would still occasionally accidentally answer for real.

        Then there’s places where there’s a set, expected answer.

        Like Ireland:

        Alright?

        Alright.

        France:

        Ça va?

        Ça va (bien).

        That’s just my experience!

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    • Tungsten5@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Yeah well people from NY think they are special. So to them, this is an only them thing I suppose

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    • Kolanaki@pawb.social ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Gonna start greeting people with “Life fucking you with lube today?”

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    • rickyrigatoni@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      New yorkers love reminding everyone they’ve never left new york.

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  • sfxrlz@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Answer: „bad people always feel well“ or something that roughly translates to „weeds don’t go away“

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  • SoulKaribou@lemmy.ml ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Ça va ? Ça va. Et toi ça va ? Ça va

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  • MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    In Finland, if you ask “miten menee” (how is it going) you’ll either get to hear someone’s life story, or a single word reply “menee” (it’s going).

    Or, if someone is having a genuinely good day, you might get a few sentences explaining why things are looking up.

    Hence, most people will go with literally neutral statements. An example, my go-to farewell is “päivänjatkoa” which is literally just “may the day continue”.

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    • weker01@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      I’ve heard a lot of “it is what it is” in my time in Finland. I am probably returning soon for wappu/vappu.

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  • MrScottyTay@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    This is a very common dialect thing. Like in the UK, especially the North east “you alright?” Or just “alright?” is just a simple greeting that is often also just repeated in response.

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  • Delphia@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    In Australia “Hows it going?” Or more accurately “Howzitgarn?”

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    • damdy@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      UK London and east is, ‘y’aight’, which is you all right? Shortened to one syllable.

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      • AoxoMoxoA@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        In Maryland we just eyeball the other person and both say Aight at the same time to make sure the passer by isnt about to try something slick

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    • weker01@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Howdy was once “How do ye?”

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    • TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Howzitgarnmate’?

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      • Delphia@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Thats the formal version.

        “High Strayan”

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  • OldManBOMBIN@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    We do that in Kentucky, too. And same for the “Doin’ alright. You?” that you’ll receive in return. lol

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    • Notorious_handholder@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Same thing here in Texas “How you doin?” “Doin alright how bout yourself?”

      Then yall just pass by each other and keep walking.

      Never thought about it until now but it is kinda funny to just leave a random question hanging in the air that both people know ain’t getting answered lol.

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      • OldManBOMBIN@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Oh yeah, we do the “How bout yourself” too sometimes, now that I think about it. And occasionally you’ll get a “Doin alright” but it’s all pretty standard stuff.

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  • Dagwood222@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    I always say “I’m another day older and deeper in debt.”

    youtu.be/S1980WfKC0o

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    • Lupus@feddit.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      “The horrors persist, but so do I”

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    • AoxoMoxoA@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Same shit different toilet

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    • JackGreenEarth@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      At the end of the day you’re another day older…
      And the clothes on your back couldn’t keep out the chill…

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    • sowitzer@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      I always say, one day closer to the sweet relief of death.

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  • DmMacniel@feddit.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Empty phrases… Why?!

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  • peteypete420@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Only in NY do we use a character from a NJ outfit as our own.

    Shoulda been a Tribbiani.

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    • snausagesinablanket@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      What community are you in?

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      • peteypete420@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        Philly boy. Yous?

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  • hOrni@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Ever talked to someone from Ireland?

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    • DJDarren@sopuli.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      And the UK as a whole.

      “Alright mate?”

      “Yeah, you?”

      "Yeah"

      • fin.
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  • kane@femboys.biz ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    So, I work with New Yorkers and this happens all the time lol. How should I respond to this in a proper way then lol, it feels odd to respond with the same question :P

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    • RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      I’ts all good bruddah, how you doin’?

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    • FooBarrington@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Its-a all good-ah, how bout yourself?

      (just sprinkle bits of Mario, he’s from New York)

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  • marito@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Unless it’s "How YOU doin’?

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  • hogmomma@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Same goes for “howdy.” It’s not a question.

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    • wondrous_strange@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Howdy?

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      • hogmomma@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        Howdy! FTFY.

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  • MIDItheKID@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    It is a question. The answer is always “Aight”

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  • Bentheredonethat@discuss.online ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Whattaya hear whattaya say hehe

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  • don_kiedyck@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Joey Tribiani has entered the chat

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  • Freshparsnip@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Isn’t it Joey Tribbiani’s pick-up line?

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