Submitted 14 hours ago by over_clox@lemmy.world to [deleted]
I don’t even have an exact answer for myself, but I do find myself being happy when I’ve managed to fix something like a vehicle, got a shower later, and crack open a cold beer.
What brings you joy/happiness?
Wanting what you’ve got, and being accepted as your true self
To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and to hear the lamentations of their women!
Fuck. I posted the exact same thing without even looking.
Yes. These ARE the good things in life.
I, too, have been too excited to post to bother reading the comments. Happens to everyone.
This sounds like something out of Warhammer 40k. Although if enemies in this case are invasive critters in my yard, I concur, this is happiness!
Conan the barbarian paraphrasing ghengis khan.
Conan the Barbarian.
I guess it’s overall satisfaction. Joy is yesterday, cuddling in bed with my spouse and toddler, and toddler reaches up and pats us each on the cheek, smiling ear to ear, so happy we’re all together watching the movie they wants to watch. A joy explosion. But if we spent all day in bed, that wouldn’t make me happy. So I guess we need the harder stuff so those joy explosions feel so high. So a balance with those joy moments a few times a day is peak happiness
Belonging, feeling wanted and genuinely being able to help.
During the time it took you to post your comment, I managed to inform our new neighbor that his van tire is low.
He looks to me like one of those sort of people you just don’t fuck with, but nothing scares me anymore.
He was very thankful that I told him his van tire is getting low…
We moved a few weeks ago. Yesterday afternoon, my new neighbour who I had not yet met yelled over the fence at me. We met up out front, introduced ourselves, did the social thing, and then he said “hey, your new house has an air conditioner, and there’s a cover on it. You probably want to take that off.”
He was right. I did. Thanks new neighbour, for being…well, for being a neighbour.
There is something about giving back to others that just brings a sense of piece
Dog
Peace of mind , and the resources to act on whatever comes to mind when I can hear myself think
One time a friend was talking and evaluating the concept of being happy and if he was or not at this point in time.
He said that because X, and Y and Z he could look and say that “yes he was happy”.
That was many years ago. I’m still tormented about that conversation and that concept of being happy. It all seemed absolutely alien and I had no idea what he was talking about. I don’t think I have ever felt that concept.
The bliss of satiating a deep hunger. Ass is life!
Username checks out.
Belonging, contributing, being appreciated, learning, creating, growing, occasional novelty, human touch, emotional validation, companionship, shared pleasures. Physical, emotional, social, and mental capacity to appreciate this.
It’s sad that that seems difficult to achieve.
Being able to just be alive without life kicking me in the teeth. Rarely happens.
Pleasure/ease is not happiness, as I have been a directionless, purposeless NEET with no responsibilities but enough disposable income to finance my hedonism, and a full-time worker, part-time student married man, and the former made me suicidal after a while. If you’re lucky enough that you can just basically live like a pig, rolling in your own filth and just chilling until death, then good for you (not you, OP, just the “global” you 😅) but I can’t.
I’d say “the feeling/mental state resulting from realising you’re living according to your values (which involves identity and self esteem), balancing duty and pleasure/ease, in the momentary absence of great emotional pain/distress”. Or something like that. 👍
Mostly, seeing my family succeed.
I’m not very happy very often, but I watched my son get award after award last week, and was happy. A year ago, my wife finished her Masters’ degree with a 4.0 GPA, and I was happy.
Personally, this morning I went for the first >100km motorcycle ride of the season. Once I was out of traffic and riding through some of the prettiest scenery on the planet, I was happy.
I’m a similar way. I feel a deeper happiness when my family is happy and achieves great things. So usually for external reasons rather than internal?
It’s sort of like how I enjoy giving others gifts or experiences, while not needing much for myself.
Congrats/let’s goooo on all accounts! 🎉
agency
Happiness to me is having a meaning to my life, i couldn’t find a point to living for myself that was logical so i just gave up living for it and decided the only reason to live is to be morally good
So now happiness is being a good person, every now and then i’d get unexplainably sad or angry if i’m too happy for self interest reasons because life lost meaning for a moment
Smelling coffee as I wake up
A furry convention.
how do i get my name to look like yours
Use emojis in the display name field.
I live in a constant state of frustration, so when things aren’t as frustrating: that’s joy for me.
u/over_clox@lemmy.world asking dumb smart questions.
About to pack a bowl of green too… 👍
That check out.
New experiences, new knowledge and achieving great things
The wonder and mystery behind my existence. And all the kind people I keep meeting through life.
Oreos with cold milk.
Just trying this out to see what happens, but…
Dick
Are you referring to a Penis™, the device utilized to create @nutbutter?
dewritoninja@pawb.social 21 minutes ago
Unattainable